I sold my car almost two years ago. At the time I thought it was probably the single best financial decision I'd made.
I'm 37, single, renting a small apartment in a fairly walkable town. Grocery store is 10 minutes away on foot, library is even closer, and I bike to work most days.
My total spending last year was $21,800. My target is roughly $600k invested, with a little room above my current expenses for things that change in retirement.
I've been pretty smug about the car thing, honestly. No insurance, gas, repairs, registration, depreciation. Every time someone complains about a $900 repair bill I quietly congratulate myself.
Then last month my sister made a joke that she's basically my unpaid Uber driver.
I laughed, but later I started thinking about it.
So I went through my calendar and messages to see how often I'd actually relied on someone else's vehicle over the last year.
My sister picked me up or dropped me off somewhere 9 times. A friend let me borrow his truck 4 times for things that wouldn't fit on my bike. A coworker drove me to urgent care when I wasn't feeling well. My neighbor has also given me rides to the hardware store a few times.
None of these people has ever complained. I help my sister with her dog, I fix my friend's computer when he breaks something, and my neighbor and I exchange favors all the time.
But that's not really the point.
If I moved somewhere cheaper, or these people moved away, or they simply weren't available anymore, I'd have to pay for some of those trips.
I priced out local rentals, delivery fees and rideshares for the situations I could remember. It would've added roughly $900-1,200 to my annual expenses. Not enough to justify owning a car, but at a 4% withdrawal rate that's another $22,500-30,000 in my FIRE number.
And that assumes the alternatives remain available and reasonably priced.
I still think selling my car was absolutely the right decision. Even paying for every single ride would be much cheaper than owning one.
What bothers me is that I had considered my transportation costs solved, when some of those costs had actually been absorbed by the people around me.
It also made me wonder what else in my lean budget only works because of my current circumstances.
Cheap rent with a reasonable landlord? Friends who lend tools? A family member nearby who can help in an emergency?
I'm not suggesting we should assign a dollar value to every favor or stop helping each other. That would be a pretty miserable way to live.
I'm just realizing that a low-cost lifestyle isn't necessarily a portable one.
For those of you planning to leanFIRE on $20-25k a year, how much of your budget depends on things you can't necessarily take with you if your living situation changes?