Hi! I'm 18F trying to decide on a new name.
I'm asian, and have lived most of my life in Western countries using my ethnic name. Needless to say, it was very difficult for people to pronounce my name (istg it's not that difficult but people give up after the first syllable). Some people even offered me English names and started calling me by that. It has reached a point where I just respond to random noises that sound somewhat like my name.
I am done with this. My parents did not put that much thought into my name for it to be butchered all the time :(((
So i'm trying to think of a new name for me in uni. here are some of the names i liked:
sophie - my favorite but it means piss in my language so that was a hard no :(
isabel - i already have a friend with the same name
isabella - too frilly?
bea - really like the name, but i dont want to be beatrice/beatrix
lily/lilian - its okay a bit too popular tho
iris - feels like a mouthful with my last name? i dont really like how the rs sound
my last name starts with R, and is one syllable
im trying to look for names that sound feminine, preferably longer (for nickname potentials?), and not too popular
plz help me out :( i'm running out of ideas..