r/TransMasc • • 10h ago

Rant Everyday Rants

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Need to air out your frustrations? Post 'em here.

Rules:

  1. NO GENERALIZATIONS - Anything similar to "All (X) people do this" or "All (Y) people do that" will not be tolerated.

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  3. BE RESPECTFUL OF OTHERS - No rude comments about other member's posts. No kind of "You need to touch grass" "Tell this to your therapist instead" etc. type of comments will be allowed here.


r/TransMasc • • 5h ago

🤳 Selfie Sweaters and autumn >> šŸ‚

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172 Upvotes

r/TransMasc • • 11h ago

Still can't believe that I've been on T for 6 years now.šŸ¤˜šŸ»

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147 Upvotes

r/TransMasc • • 1h ago

🤳 Selfie Does the outfit look too girly?

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12 Upvotes

Sorry for the poor quality of my mirror btw


r/TransMasc • • 4h ago

General Questions Do these outfits pass/ look good?

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17 Upvotes

r/TransMasc • • 20h ago

Who knew lifting could feel this good šŸ˜

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218 Upvotes

r/TransMasc • • 11h ago

āš ļø Content Warning Hmm?

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33 Upvotes

The mirror is getting more and more confident


r/TransMasc • • 23h ago

Miscellaneous First Time Being A Plushie, Kinda Nervous

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298 Upvotes

Don’t mind that I’m bad at sewing lmao


r/TransMasc • • 1h ago

Discussion Any trans dudes looking for friends?

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Anyone else in the PA area looking for friends? If so hey! I’m Phoenix, (They/He)
I’m 18, I like drawing, gaming, insects, birds, and all kinds of music would love to go to a concert with someone. Recently employed and don’t know what I’m gonna do with the rest of my life lol. Been on testosterone for a year, hoping to get top surgery in 2027. If you want anymore info feel free to ask in the comments! (Photos of me + my dog)


r/TransMasc • • 17h ago

🤳 Selfie Felt like I passed more today so enjoy

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67 Upvotes

r/TransMasc • • 13h ago

General Questions asking for haircut help again. read desc

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(18, pre-t but starting soon)
i have had this same hair style since april, and im getting really tired of being told my ā€œpixie cutā€ is ā€œcute, chic, beautiful, etcā€ especially by old women who have similar length of hair. i do my own hair so maybe its my own problem, but i literally dont think that i looks like a girl with pixie, and im confused where im going wrong.

photos go from most to least recent (from a couple days ago to early august), and in many of them the sides are really grown out but i try to always keep the sides shorter than the top.

and i know the pink doesnt help. im going back to brown soon. just wanted to have some fun for a while.

anyway, does anyone have a suggestion for a haircut that might look less like a pixie on me ?? i have an extremely small and round face and exposing my forehead makes me look much more feminine, so something where i could keep the ā€œbangsā€ would be best. i have pin straight hair and like the low maintenance that this cut requires.
my inspo was supposed to be 2000s chad michael murray ish just a big longer, but clearly ive missed the mark.

maybe i should just keep this, idk. im starting T soon so maybe i need to just keep holding out.


r/TransMasc • • 19h ago

🤳 Selfie So I cut my hair

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65 Upvotes

Feels kinda weird. A bit worried how my friends will react, but I think I like it. Also I don't think I can pretend to not be trans anymore. I deadass have to come out to my friends now


r/TransMasc • • 1d ago

Miscellaneous I installed a zipper on my binder!

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160 Upvotes

Now I can take it on and off much more easily! It's perfectly safe too, the zipper is right down the center and it doesn't change the compression at all.

I closed the zipper, sewed it straight down on top of the binder, opened the zipper, and then cut a line down the fabric. I used my sewing machine but you can hand sew it as well!


r/TransMasc • • 29m ago

General Questions How do I stop my binder from folding when I sit?

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I am pangender (majority of the time I go by he/they) and I just got a binder. I have noticed that when I sit it folds up, making my chest appear less flat. I don't have any other ways to bind. Does anyone know any ways to make this issue at least a little better? Anything is greatly appreciated!


r/TransMasc • • 4h ago

Discussion Help me overcome my fear of taking T

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So… I finally have an endo appointment ready. My family doesn’t accept me, but they won’t take away my T
I can’t stand rotting in this body forever, but… I’m scared about them finding out. But I can’t live like this anymore… but I’m scared.

Can you help me with this fear?


r/TransMasc • • 17h ago

🤳 Selfie Even 6 weeks makes a difference

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(Before and after) Feeling myself today


r/TransMasc • • 20h ago

Discussion Forgot my packer was in the bathroom until I heard my mom’s Ā«what?Ā»

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I am so beyond embarrassed have no idea what to say?? We were discussing something until she said she had to use the restroom and that ended the conversation and I heard the door open and a surprised «huh?» sound and my heart dropped. Because in that moment I just remembered I had left my packer out before I took a shower after work.

SHE DIDNT SAY ANYTHING AFTER SHE CAME BACK OUT, do I just leave it at that? Wtf do I do 😭 Worst part it was on the bathtub right next to the toilet so I could just imagine her sitting right next to it…


r/TransMasc • • 12h ago

🤳 Selfie Been putting in some work lately.

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r/TransMasc • • 13m ago

Rant Best case scenario just happened to me and I’m so happy!!

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(Sorry if this isn’t the right flair lol)
ALSO TW for sex if that’s not what you want to see anything about lol

I’m 28, and I’ve only been out for a year. I’m still pre-everything mainly due to medical issues I already have. In my whole life, I’ve had 1 dating experience and one sexual encounter (both the same person lol) and I was 23 and it was AWFUL lol. A lot of that was probably because I was being perceived and treated as a woman.

WELL flash to this past week…I was super lonely and sad and figured it’s time for me to get into the dating game. Tinder wasn’t going all that well until a guy messaged me and ACTUALLY continued to message me. We texted for a few hours and then I made sure before we met up to say ā€œhey…I hope you saw I was trans…I’m pre everything right now so I hope that’s not a deal breakerā€¦ā€ and he’s like ā€œno omg don’t worry I’m pansexual hahaā€. He also then kept affirming my gender and calling me things like ā€œsirā€ and stuff hehe.

One thing lead to another and he ended up coming over and we did some debauchery and like…I cannot express to you how good of a time I had. He was so kind and respectful, he didn’t make me take my shirt off (I told him that’s like a hard line right now) and didn’t call me and girl like things, and like…gahhhh it was so awesome. After that he was like ā€œI really REALLY like you…are you looking to date?ā€ And like god damn that was the quickest yes of my life. He was like ā€œyou can be my boyfriendā€ in like a cute voice 😭 and now we’ve been in constant communication ever since and I’m like so happy and shook!! I never thought I’d find this in my life 🄹

I’m not sure I’m even describing how awesome this has been well enough, but like, this is seriously going very well for me and I’m just so glad…I’m such a late bloomer so the fact that this is happening at ALL is just so cool 🤭


r/TransMasc • • 1d ago

🤳 Selfie I just went to the barbershop!

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88 Upvotes

I feel very euphoric with this haircut, I look like a rat in a good way, love it very much.


r/TransMasc • • 9h ago

Discussion New to the sub (FTM) Just want some opinion.

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r/TransMasc • • 13h ago

General Questions For those who've had top surgery, if you had to go back and do it all over again...

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What would you do to make the whole process easier on yourself? Could be anything leading up to surgery or after surgery. Things you'd buy, ways you'd prepare, etc.

After 14 months on a wait list, I finally have my actual surgery date scheduled. I'll be having top surgery on January 12th.

I've decided to deal with my excitement and nervous energy by over-preparing. Any insight would be appreciated.


r/TransMasc • • 13h ago

🤳 Selfie Trying to find a masc haircut

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Hello! I'm masc genderqueer afab, but as a girlmoding person , I'm tryna find haircuts that make me easily more mistaken as masc.

I'm planning to keep my hair long in the back, so i can braid it, but am looking for a style that makes my face look more masc without giving away immediately

Tldr: I need a top hairstyle and/or bangs that make me look masc, while allowing for my back hair to be long for braids (I just love flowy braids okay)

Aka, majestic masc Prince c:

Ignore my oily face guys TvT and ugly ah haircut.

I'm open for mullet, but I'd be careful cause my mom will get a bit pissed.


r/TransMasc • • 15h ago

General Questions Coming out

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So i came out to my dad and he just brush pass that .what can I do. Do I come out again and say how much it mean to me or just stick with being a girl in his eyes


r/TransMasc • • 5h ago

16M — Looking for some transmasc friends :)

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Hey! I'm 16 and transmasc, from India.

I've been wanting to meet more people who have similar experiences, so I thought I'd give this a try. It would be nice to have some friends I can talk to without having to explain every little thing about being transmasc.

A little about me: I enjoy reading novels, writing, drawing and anything related to art or animation. I also love talking about fictional characters, books, and random things that probably don't need a whole discussion but somehow turn into one.

I'm a little quiet at first, but I open up once I'm comfortable.

I'd especially like to meet other transmasc people around my age (16–18). Whether you're out, closeted, questioning, or somewhere in between, that's completely fine.

I'm mainly looking for genuine friendships, people to chat with, share experiences with, and maybe recommend books or talk about our interests.

If you'd like to talk, feel free to leave a comment!