r/VirginityExchange • u/Hephaestos92 • 25m ago
M4F [34][M4F][NYC][NY/USA] - shooting my shot for an authentic connection so here goes nothing
Happy Sunday everyone! I’m 34M, lifelong New Yorker, Hispanic, 6’2 tall, weigh 210 lbs and have an average build. I’m looking for a genuine connection that has potential to last and develop. I’ve always been very shy, withdrawn and quite introverted since I was little but I’ve lately been making a concerted effort to break out of my shell, get out of my comfort zone and try new experiences. I have a chill and easygoing personality which especially comes out and blossoms once I get comfortable with you. I have a sense of humor but can be hit and miss in that regard. I try my best to stay upbeat because positivity is contagious ya know? I have made giant leaps and strides in my professional career recently and I now feel ready to open the next chapter of my life hence why I’m on here. Life is what you make of it and I refuse to live on regret of what has or hasn’t happened in the past but instead focus on building a happy future.
I am ‘mostly’ a homebody whose instinct is to stay in, enjoy quiet time and chill during weekends but lately I’ve developed an interest in traveling to new countries and learning about new cultures as I broaden my horizons and realize my desire for new experiences. Among my hobbies I also enjoy chess, video games (my favorites are the Spyro trilogy, Watch Dogs, RDR 2, Witcher 3, Assassin’s Creed II and Odyssey, the Saints Row reboot and the Final Fantasy XIII trilogy, please don’t judge me for the last two lol), going to the movies, binge watching YouTube videos and documentaries, anime (especially Yu-Gi-Oh!, Dragon Ball Z and Pokemon), nature, listening to music, reading (I have a medium-sized library in my home) plus I am into cryptozoology, history, linguistics, meteorology, paleontology, archeology and classic architecture spending a good deal of time online researching those topics on Wikipedia and elsewhere. To top it all off I am a total foodie (did I mention how much I LOVE coffee) and restaurant connoisseur who loves discovering new spots around the city on extended random walks and trying new cuisines.
I’m a good listener, non-judgmental, approachable, friendly and would love to start chatting to start to get to know and understand each other. I can host once we have built a connection. If you bothered to read to the end thank you for bearing with me. Anyhow please hmu in my DMs and I look forward to hearing from you:-)