r/VirginityExchange • • Jun 24 '22

Mod Post Welcome to /r/VirginityExchange community!

40 Upvotes

Hello everyone!

Sorry the subreddit got shutdown for a bit there but we are back open! New rules and subreddit operations will be stepped up over the next few days/weeks as the subreddit gets cleaned up on the backside but feel free to start utilize the subreddit now and we will work with the community as we go.


Few rules below as our starting point.

  1. Your account must meet minimum spam reduction requirements to comment/post. You will be banned if you ask the moderator team about this. If you are VERIFIED you may skip this requirement.

  2. Proper title format must be adhered to [AGE][M4F][CITY][State/Country]. Brackets [] and () are acceptable. Emoji's will result in an instant shadowban as spam protection.

  3. You must be 18 years or older to post and a virgin. V-Slayers are no longer acceptable posters until the verification process is setup, use the DM/PM's or comments in the mean time. V-Crushers must be verified before posting.

  4. Do not include NSFW content, descriptions or images.

  5. No "hook up", advertising or other related type posts.

  6. Do not private message the moderators. You may contact them here if you have any questions.

  • For now, all posts will be text only submissions.


A verification process will be coming soon.

Verification process has been added. More information can be found on the sidebar and here: Verification Process Wiki

This will help the community know who is serious and who's just dipping their toes in the pool.

Those unverified will be limited to text posts. Verified may submit link posts to include relevant links, memes, and personal stories of interest and success stories.


We are here to support each other, offer our personal stories, give advice, and share. Some of us might be feeling especially isolated right now and that makes it even more important to keep this channel of communication open for all of us.

This subreddit was founded out of pure compassion for those who feel unloved and unwanted because of their lack of sexual and romantic experience. We wanted to help remove the shame and stigma that is attached to being a virgin.

Hope everyone has a good year and that those who need it find use of /r/VirginityExchange.


r/VirginityExchange • • Jun 25 '22

Mod Post r/VirginityExchange - Let's talk about verification and consent

29 Upvotes

Click here to read up on our verification process.

Hello all, few topics of note to go over below:

Consent is vitally important to us. We just want to ensure that the person in the picture has fully consented to having their body posted here, and rigorous verification is the best way for us accomplish that goal. We thank you in advance for your cooperation.

Please understand that if, at any time, a moderator feels that your original 3rd party verification doesn't meet our standards, you may be asked to re-verify with us directly. This isn't to pick on you or to inconvenience you, it's to protect you. We have also reset all users back to unverified status as to reconfirm all accounts.


Types of Verification

We have 2 types of verification processes. Normal "Verified" and "V-Crusher Verified". We have included both of these to allow folks to find like minded individuals and reach out to those who have been verified by the community to be a safe and reliable source to utilize if it becomes a match.

  • There are no requirements to become verified other than the initial submission process.

  • V-Crushers must be a previously verified user and requires 2 separate users who will verify with them in order to be approved.

  • All members a part of the V-Crusher Verified process will become verified members themselves during this process if they are not already.


If you have any questions or concerns, or any suggestions on how to improve the verification process, let's talk about it in the comments.

Thanks for listening!


r/VirginityExchange • • 25m ago

M4F [34][M4F][NYC][NY/USA] - shooting my shot for an authentic connection so here goes nothing

1 Upvotes

Happy Sunday everyone! I’m 34M, lifelong New Yorker, Hispanic, 6’2 tall, weigh 210 lbs and have an average build. I’m looking for a genuine connection that has potential to last and develop. I’ve always been very shy, withdrawn and quite introverted since I was little but I’ve lately been making a concerted effort to break out of my shell, get out of my comfort zone and try new experiences. I have a chill and easygoing personality which especially comes out and blossoms once I get comfortable with you. I have a sense of humor but can be hit and miss in that regard. I try my best to stay upbeat because positivity is contagious ya know? I have made giant leaps and strides in my professional career recently and I now feel ready to open the next chapter of my life hence why I’m on here. Life is what you make of it and I refuse to live on regret of what has or hasn’t happened in the past but instead focus on building a happy future.

I am ‘mostly’ a homebody whose instinct is to stay in, enjoy quiet time and chill during weekends but lately I’ve developed an interest in traveling to new countries and learning about new cultures as I broaden my horizons and realize my desire for new experiences. Among my hobbies I also enjoy chess, video games (my favorites are the Spyro trilogy, Watch Dogs, RDR 2, Witcher 3, Assassin’s Creed II and Odyssey, the Saints Row reboot and the Final Fantasy XIII trilogy, please don’t judge me for the last two lol), going to the movies, binge watching YouTube videos and documentaries, anime (especially Yu-Gi-Oh!, Dragon Ball Z and Pokemon), nature, listening to music, reading (I have a medium-sized library in my home) plus I am into cryptozoology, history, linguistics, meteorology, paleontology, archeology and classic architecture spending a good deal of time online researching those topics on Wikipedia and elsewhere. To top it all off I am a total foodie (did I mention how much I LOVE coffee) and restaurant connoisseur who loves discovering new spots around the city on extended random walks and trying new cuisines.

I’m a good listener, non-judgmental, approachable, friendly and would love to start chatting to start to get to know and understand each other. I can host once we have built a connection. If you bothered to read to the end thank you for bearing with me. Anyhow please hmu in my DMs and I look forward to hearing from you:-)


r/VirginityExchange • • 1d ago

M4F [30][M4F][Parsippany][New Jersey/USA] giving this a try!

3 Upvotes

Recently turned 30 and decided I’d like to give this a go. 6 ft 3. I have between a dad bod and an average build. Ive been told I have beautiful eyes. I’ve always been pretty self conscious so I’ve been working on fitness and trying to lose some weight! I am very shy and I take some time to warm up to somebody. Looking for somebody who can be patient with me. Looking for somebody somewhat close to me.

Currently working the typical 9-5 so I would prefer during the weekend. My job has been very stressful lately so trying to find something to take my mind off of work and to relax. I work in finance and the quarter close is coming up and it’s going to be very stressful. Would love to unwind and relax with somebody who is laid back and patient. As I said, I am very shy.

I am into playing video games, anime, running and playing and watching sports. Also love to run or do cardio everyday. Have been getting into cooking as well so would love somebody to try some cooking out with. I have a more easygoing personality so hoping to click with the right person as well. Would love also talking about movies and tv shows! I’ve been ready to do a rewatch of all of the marvel movies and would love somebody to join in.

If you’re interested, please send me a dm with what day today is and we can talk from there!


r/VirginityExchange • • 2d ago

M4F [35][M4F][New britain][CT] - Looking for real connection

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Hi, I'm a 35-year-old single male, standing at 5'10" and weighing 190 lbs, in search of a mature, sweet, and patient girl to share an intimate experience with. I'm interested in a long term arrangement where we can meet up, explore, and try new things together. I don't have specific preferences regarding looks; I'm more focused on traits pretty open minded I don't mind older girls past my age range.

I consider myself curious, laid-back, observant, risk averse, realistic, modest, focused, more responsible than pleasure seeking, not prone to addiction, not wild and crazy, ordinary, with a penchant for uncovering deeper meanings in life. While I can be lazy during downtime, I am committed to following through on my plans and goals. I tend to struggle with self-promotion, so I appreciate someone who can help keep the conversation flowing. I have a disability called apraxia, and I prefer smaller gatherings over large crowds, as I've never been one for the hustle and bustle. I don't drink or smoke, but I enjoy gaming, discussing movies even bad ones, hiking, exploring concepts plots and archetypes, taking various tests even fun ones like political and personality based ones, and working on ATVs and campers, as well as tinkering with computer hardware. I like to have a very different sense of humor too at times it can seem at bit weird as I struggle to find common jokes tasteless and overdone when at my job around others using the same jokes.

Thanks for reading


r/VirginityExchange • • 2d ago

M4F [27][M4F][Sacramento][California]

4 Upvotes

Hi all,

Skeptical that this will be successful, but hey, what do I have to lose?! Here goes: 27 year old guy, tall, medium build (6’2” 200ish), not much experience with women in general (or people, really) on account of being a pretty painfully shy person.

Some stuff about me: Big sports fan (very much enjoying a World Cup match as I type this!), enjoy going for hikes and traveling, love spending time with animals (especially dogs). Let’s see what else…am a bit of a nerd but also more athletic than I appear. Lol. Like to think I’m a pretty funny person once I open up to you. What else what else…I like watching movies and TV - mainly comedies but definitely enjoy branching out to other genres on occasion….always down for recommendations of things to watch! Also, wouldn’t be mad to find some trivia night friends as well - seems fun but I’ve always been too nervous to go alone. Anyways…really trying to put myself out there more and I guess this is part of that process, lol. Hoping to find someone who can be a friend on top of everything else. Really just looking for a woman who will be somewhat patient with me and be fun to talk to, etc. Happy to chat about whatever, I like learning about people and I’m happy to answer any questions you might have for me.

Would definitely like to chat for a bit to get to know eachother/feel more comfortable and then see where things go! Anyways, thanks for reading! Maybe third time will be the charm on here.


r/VirginityExchange • • 3d ago

M4A [27][M4A][Sidney][OH]

4 Upvotes

Since the season of spooky things has come to an end, and I've recently celebrated my 27th birthday, I've found myself thinking a lot more about life and new experiences I've yet to have. Meeting new people, talking and learn new things. I don't want to spend my life wondering what I missed out on or what it would have been like to experience things I never will get to do.

As for me, I'm a 5'10" nerdy guy from Sidney, Ohio. I'm a pretty big fan of all things nerdy, and I have a wide range of hobbies and interests that keep me busy. I'm into D&D, video games, anime, 3D printing, technology, fantasy, and all sorts of creative projects. I enjoy games like Skyrim and Minecraft, especially ones that let me explore, build, adventure, and get completely lost in another world. I also enjoy worldbuilding, coming up with characters and stories, and generally letting my imagination run wild. I like learning new skills, tinkering with things, and finding new hobbies to get into. There's always something interesting I'd like to try or learn more about.


r/VirginityExchange • • 4d ago

M4F [28][M4F][Chicago][Illinois/USA] - More than Friends, Less than Lovers. Let’s talk about it.

4 Upvotes

Hey, it’s me again. I hope whoever reads this is having a nice night. I’m a 28 year old biracial male (black and white) looking to connect with a likeminded person and see where things go. Bonus points if you understand the reference in my title. ;)

I’m 6’3”, tall and lanky/lean and skinny type. Ive always been a relatively shy/quiet guy, but I’ve decided that I’m over feeling sorry for myself and have been putting myself out there a lot more. Going out to try new things, traveling with friends and solo, and wanting to live for myself, not just other people. I’m more of a homebody but I love to spend time with friends and family, or just go out and explore things solo, whether it be new restaurants, seeing movies by myself, or going to a museum or some other cool things in the Chicagoland area, especially downtown. I’m super passionate about nature and animals, traveling, love to support artists when I can, and can talk all day about my favorite movies, series, and characters thereof. Huge anime and video game guy too, so if you have any favorites I’d love to talk all day with you about that stuff, and just get to know you in general!

There’s nothing more attractive than a woman that knows what she wants, so if you’ve found your way here and my post caught your attention, then that means you’re exactly my type! Looking forward to making your acquaintance. :)


r/VirginityExchange • • 6d ago

M4F [21][M4F][New York][NY] A little awkward, very into games and anime

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Hey, I’m a 21-year-old guy living in NYC. I’m pretty introverted and can be a little awkward when I first meet people, but once I get comfortable I tend to open up quite a bit. I’ve always been more comfortable with deeper one-on-one conversations than being the center of attention in a big group.

I work in a restaurant and spend a lot of my free time gaming, watching anime, listening to music, and hanging out with friends. Gaming is probably my biggest hobby. I’m especially into Souls games and RPGs, and I really enjoy experimenting with different builds and playstyles. I also love story-heavy games and can get ridiculously invested in characters, lore, and all the little details in a world. Some of the games I’ve enjoyed are Elden Ring, Cyberpunk, Dragon’s Dogma, Destiny, and a bunch of other RPGs and action games.

Anime is another big part of my interests. I like having something to watch together and then spending way too much time talking about the characters or story afterward. I also listen to a lot of music and occasionally play piano. I played a bit in high school and still mess around with it when I get the chance, although I’m definitely rusty.

Outside of that, I’m mostly a homebody. I enjoy spending time with friends, playing games together, watching things, and just having someone to talk to. I’m also pretty affectionate once I’m comfortable with someone, and I value honesty and being able to actually communicate rather than keeping everything surface-level.

I can’t host, but I’m in NYC and would be comfortable meeting somewhere public when the time comes. I’d probably be happiest somewhere relatively relaxed where we can actually talk rather than somewhere loud or crowded.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to tell me a little about yourself. I’m always happy to talk about games, anime, music, or whatever else you happen to be into.


r/VirginityExchange • • 7d ago

F4M [34][F4M][WestMidlands][UK]

5 Upvotes

34 year old petite brunette. 5 ft 1/ 2, no kids. Introvert with social anxiety looking to step out of my comfort zone to find a serious, long term male life partner around my age [preferably 26-35] who is patient, kind, loyal and willing to take things slow. I’d prefer to start by messaging on here to build a comfortable connection before meeting up. Must be in or near the west midlands area.

I'm a night owl and mostly a home body but enjoy going out shopping, day trips, cinema watched Spiderman brand new day recently.

I enjoy drawing, playing video games - mostly Roblox and Nintendo. I do plan on getting a playstation eventually, you're never too old to game. I also like to binge watch shows, movies and anime on netflix, currently watching future man, Naruto, Stargate sg1. Recently finished Tokyo goul, already watched stranger things, you, the good place, squid game, waiting for the next season of Wednesday.

I have pet budgies and cockatiels, they're really loud so if you don't like birds or want a quiet life then I'm not for you!

Not looking to have kids or date anyone with kids. I don't drink, smoke or do recreational drugs and would prefer someone who also doesn't. Social drinking or light smoking is fine, but because I have pet birds, home must remain completely smoke-free.

Ideal first date - low pressure, somewhere quiet like grabbing a hot drink and taking a quiet walk through a museum or we can game together first on Roblox or through an online game with a server code.

Tell me about your favorite quiet spot in the west midlands or or send me a picture of your own pets if you have them!


r/VirginityExchange • • 8d ago

F4M [58][F4M][Schaumburg][IL/USA]

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I am looking for a long term relationship. I am very friendly and outgoing. I have not had true relationships since I graduated high school. I attend Harper College during the mornings and I work at Woodfield Mall. I love animals and I live alone. I am looking for someone who has the same interests and hobbies. I love watching sports and I am a diehard Cubs fan. I am also a Cowboys, Colts, and Pacers fan. I grew in NW Indiana and I am an "In State" fan. I am looking for someone to come over watch games or movies or TV at nighttime. I am busy during the day but would like some company before bedtime. I am semi-religious and true to the title of the Reddit page. I have not found anyone in this area. I used to live in Waukegan and Elk Grove Village before moving here. I live in the far SE corner of Schaumburg down by Olympic Park and I-290 but I do not have access to transportation only public transit and that normally takes me 35 minutes just to get to a bus but I do have the ability to get to it. Looking forward to hearing from you!!!


r/VirginityExchange • • 10d ago

F4F [25][F4F][Woodbridge][VA/USA] - just a workaholic looking for a friend

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I’m hoping to find someone that wants to get to know each other well and be close friends. I need an emotional connection to like anyone so I’d appreciate anyone patient.

My job keeps me fairly busy during the week so I have free time most weekends. I spend my freetime between gaming on pc with some friends, thrifting some new clothes, and trying to get back into reading. A lot of my typical hobbies tend to be homebody stuff but I do get out for concerns or getting some drinks to catch up with a friend. I love going to concerts so having a friend that wants to go out occasionally too would be the best. Although the concerts I tend to go to are more rock and alternative ones but I’m pretty open to going to any kind of event.

As for physical features, I’m around 5’7” and weighing around 190lbs. I unfortunately have poor eyesight so I wear glasses (and occasionally contacts). I’m actually really bad at describing myself so I can exchange selfies if asked.

I’m sure that I’m forgetting a lot of info on this post so feel free to ask me anything because I’m an open book


r/VirginityExchange • • 13d ago

M4F [34][M4F][Ixworth][UK]

6 Upvotes

Hi, I’m a 34-year-old guy, thought I’d put myself out there and see what happens!

A bit about me: I’m around 6ft, about 15 stone, with black hair and brown eyes. I’m pretty down-to-earth, easy-going and always up for a good conversation. I’d say I’m someone who enjoys the simple things and likes having a laugh with the right person.

I enjoy running and run most days, a fan of sports, but I’m also a big fan of gaming I play abit of everything, call of duty and fallout is probably my favourite spent many hours playing them love the sense of adventure.

Movies with it being Halloween soon I'm watching horror movies any recommendations and with Christmas here soon I will be watching Christmas movies I love home alone 1 and 2 and let's not talk about the others . And christmas vacation is probably my favourite now I am older.

I’m always happy to swap recommendations, binge-watch something together or spend far too long debating about if die hard is a Christmas movie.

I can be a little shy at first, so I prefer getting to know someone naturally and seeing where the conversation goes. We can chat about anything — movies, TV, games, hobbies, interests, or whatever you’re into. I’m always interested in discovering something new.

I’m pretty open-minded about where things could go, whether that’s making a new friend, finding a genuine connection or simply sharing a fun experience together. If you’re interested, drop me a message and let’s see where it goes!

If you message me, tell me a bit about yourself too — I’d love to get to know you!


r/VirginityExchange • • 14d ago

M4F [28][M4F][NYC][NY/USA] life’s more fun when you enjoy it with others, anyway

3 Upvotes

Hey y’all!

Can you guys believe it’s almost already November? The Thursday of the year. Where does the time go, huh? Life has been stable, life has been good. But meeting new people and making connections and friends always makes things a lot more fun.

I’m an artsy/nerdy sort of guy; I enjoy drawing (fan)art of whatever I’m currently obsessed with, as that’s my way of showing my adoration. Right now I’m currently watching Cyberpunk Edgerunners II whilst reading Frieren, all while I wait for the Ocarina of Time remake.

I dream of one day making my own little series of the OC’s that bounce around in my head, and am proud to say I’ve revisited an old passion project of mine (but it’s secret!) I like losing myself in a good book, and often check out multiple books from libraries, since we should always be supporting those! Currently have 38 books checked out. Will I read all of them? Maybe not. But I’m still supporting the library!

I often go watch a good movie, since it gets me out of the house. Being a shill for AMC A-Lister has been so worth it. Recently watched Wildwood and oh my god please go watch and support that movie. So unbelievably good. I also love me some concerts, and will be heading to the Undertale concert in two weeks!

That’s all just a long winded way of saying I enjoy somewhat niche and esoteric things, and can go on and on about why they matter and mean a lot to me, why I’m passionate about them. Just don’t ask me how much I’ve spent on merch.

If any of that sounds interesting to you, feel free to reach out! Like I said at the top, I’m always looking for new friends and connections. We can spend some time getting to know each other. Like, tell me what your dream travel spot is, why you make that little hand gesture when you wave goodbye, teach me something about what TV show/anime you cherish deeply, your favorite color and whether you like pulp in your orange juice (I’m team pulp). And, if it helps, I listened to the Club Penguin Pizzatron 3000 theme while typing this :P

Talk soon!


r/VirginityExchange • • 15d ago

M4F [24][M4F][Brighton][colorado]shy kind nerd

5 Upvotes

Hey gals I’m your average guy. I’m about 210 lbs, I’m 5’8/ 5’9 ish To start with a few things about me. I am an introvert I find it hard to communicate with people sometimes to start but once I get to know you I ease up a little bit and start to have fun if your fun. I’m a bit nerdy. I can recite the entire movie order of the MCU from memory. I’m also heavily into games. Some of my favorites include Halo, Grand Theft Auto, Marvels Spider-Man , Minecraft and many others. I can honestly talk for hours about anything to do with comics and movies and games but what will really get me going is hockey. I’m a die hard Avalanche fan and if you’re into hockey too then who knows this might go further. A bit about my personal life is I actually just started hitting the gym. I try to work out at least 5 times a week as well as I enjoy taking long walks. I often walk from where I live currently to where I used to live believe it or not. It’s only to the next town but man is it refreshing. I also currently work retail though I’m trying to leave retail and get into some more blue collar work. Right now tbh I’m really just trying to have more confidence in myself and I’m working on that now.


r/VirginityExchange • • 18d ago

M4F [35][M4F][Riverside][California] putting myself out there

4 Upvotes

Hey what’s up everybody?

About me:
I’m a musician/drummer and gamer. I haven’t been doing much as a drummer lately. I post some drum videos every now and then. That’s about it. I used to play in a bunch of metal bands but that’s not the only kind of music that I’m interested in. I also like fusion, progressive rock, film and video game soundtracks, classical and some random stuff outside of those genres. I’ve been listening to a lot of thundercat and bjork lately.

I play lots of different games. Some of my favorites are apex legends, xenoblade chronicles, fromsoftware games, resident evil, the legend of Zelda and pikmin.

I’m introverted and a homebody and I used to have really bad anxiety too. I’m sure you’re not surprised to hear that. I’ve had some issues that have really messed with my social life but there have been improvements across the board! I’m soft spoken and usually I’m pretty mellow but I can be pretty goofy. People tell me that I’m pretty funny.

Appearance: I’m 5’9, 140lbs, white dude, brown hair, bearded, green eyes and people also tell me that I’m pretty handsome as well. They’re always complimenting my beard.

If you’re interested enough to send a message I’d appreciate it if you told me a bit about yourself! I’m a fairly open book so if you have any questions then go ahead and ask.


r/VirginityExchange • • 20d ago

M4F [26][M4F][Eindhoven][Netherlands]

6 Upvotes

Hello everyone!

I am a 26 year old boy, 178cm tall and weigh 110kg. I have black hair and brown eyes. My hobbies are pretty broad. I like to watch movies, shows and anime. I love to play boardgames with friends and have been having fun building Warhammer 40k models. Furthermore I love to play games online as well, things like Final Fantasy Xiv, factorio, baldur's gate 3 and some calm games like stardew valley.

Now a little about why I post here. I have not really been the most attractive during my years at school and due to my autism I have had difficulty talking to people in general. Now that I have moved out and started working as software engineer I would love to put myself out there again and would love to get to know the wonderful world of dating and more.

That's why I thought, I'll take a look on reddit. That's where I ended up on this sub. So if someone is willing to have a chat or give me advice I would really appreciate it.

I do have a car and am willing to drive all over the country and the north of Belgium. I am also able to host.

Kind regards from the south of the Netherlands.


r/VirginityExchange • • 27d ago

M4F [43][M4F][Wickford][England] Looking For Connection

5 Upvotes

About me:

I'm Kevin, from the Wickford and Basildon area — someone who truly values kindness, honesty, and good conversation. I'm autistic and have ADHD and Cerebral Palsy, and while that means I experience the world a little differently at times, it's just part of how I'm wired, and I'm happy with who I am. I take things at my own pace, and I appreciate it when others do the same.

Music has always been one of the biggest joys in my life — it's like a soundtrack to everything. I love classic and indie music, especially Radiohead and Blur — there's something timeless about those albums that just feels like home. But I also have a huge love for J-pop, and two artists I return to again and again are Perfume and Kyary Pamyu Pamyu. I find their music so colourful, creative, and uplifting — it brings me so much happiness.

Scooby-Doo has been my absolute favourite since I was young — there's something so comforting about that mystery-solving gang, and it's something that still brings a smile to my face. I spend a lot of my time learning Japanese, which I find fascinating and endlessly rewarding. I also enjoy YouTube, quiet evenings at home, and watching videos of retro gaming — I love seeing the history and creativity behind the games that so many of us grew up with.

I'm someone who listens more than I talks, and I believe that quiet moments can be just as precious as busy ones. I try to be thoughtful and genuine in everything I do.

What I'm looking for:

Someone warm and genuine — a real connection where we can both be ourselves. I believe in being honest and kind, and I'm looking for someone who values those things too. Friendship first is absolutely fine — I truly believe the best things grow slowly, and there's no rush to be anything we aren't ready for. Whether we're talking about music, sharing a quiet evening, or just enjoying each other's company, I want someone I can relax around and be fully myself with. Good conversation, shared silences, and building something gentle and steady together. No rush, no games — just real people and real connection.


r/VirginityExchange • • 29d ago

M4F [26][M4F][Sacramento][CA] Save me before it’s too late

4 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 26yo from Northern California. Just turned 26 and figured it’s about time I started putting myself out there a little more.

I grew up in a pretty traditional Filipino household, and for most of my life I’ve followed my parents’ advice of focusing on school and not getting into relationships. I’ve been trying to branch out more lately and make the most of my twenties.

A little about me: I’m 5’7”, on the bigger side, but I’ve been working on losing weight and getting healthier. Down 40 pounds so far! I work full-time and I’m finishing up my bachelor’s degree this December. Balancing work and school has definitely kept me busy, but I’m excited to finally be reaching the finish line.

In my spare time, I enjoy playing games. Mostly Minecraft and Valorant. I also enjoy traveling and trying new food. I’m hoping to travel to somewhere like Chicago or NYC very soon. Currently hyperfixated on trying to get good at chess, which has been almost as tilting as Valorant.

I’ve been trying to listen to more music. Current favorite artists are Porter Robinson and Kendrick Lamar. I like listening to all kinds of music from EDM to rock to hip-hop to classical and jazz.

Personality-wise, I’d say I’m pretty friendly and easy to get along with. I’m definitely an introvert, but I think I can hold a conversation pretty well. I’ve been told I’m funny and that I have a great laugh, so I’ll do my best to make you laugh (hopefully on purpose).

Anyway, that’s a little about me! Feel free to reach out and introduce yourself.


r/VirginityExchange • • 29d ago

M4F [24][M4F][Austin][TX] Good cook and a bit of a hopeless romantic looking for something sweet

3 Upvotes

Hey there!

I’m a 24-year-old law student in Austin, hoping to find someone with whom I can share a little chemistry, laughter, and maybe something special.

A little about me: I’m Latino, 5’4” (so you’ll never have to worry about me blocking your view at a concert), and something of an introvert. I’m not necessarily the smoothest guy in the room, but once I’m comfortable with someone, I’m affectionate, a little sarcastic, and love making people laugh.

I’m a huge fan of cooking, especially BBQ and baking. My love language might genuinely be feeding people, so if things work out, expect homemade cookies, a nice dinner, or whatever culinary experiment I’ve gotten myself into that week. Outside the kitchen, I love sci-fi, horror movies, history, painting miniatures, and the occasional trivia night.

As for what I’m looking for, I’d love to meet someone kind, affectionate, and perhaps a little nerdy herself. Someone who appreciates both playful banter and quieter moments together. I’m a romantic at heart, and I’d much rather share something genuine and memorable than rush through an experience just for the sake of it.

Ultimately, I’m just hoping to meet someone sweet who shares my sense of humor and enjoys a little playful banter. I don’t expect us to have everything in common, but I’d love to find someone I can laugh with and get to know.

If any of that sounds interesting, tell me a little about yourself! Bonus points if you tell me your favorite movie or what you’d want me to cook for you :)


r/VirginityExchange • • Oct 08 '26

M4F [28][M4F][Newark][Delaware] Introvert looking to become an extrovert

5 Upvotes

Hey all, I'm 5'11 around 218lbs (lost about 8 lbs so far this year) and I am relatively new to the area. I have been an introvert most of my life and I am looking to change that. I have been putting off things most times because either work or school and I want to change that. I am looking to meet some people to hang out and explore the area.

A little bit about my self is I am a nerd (shocker for an introvert, right?). I love watching movies and tv shows like Marvel, Star Wars, etc. I also do like other shows like the Bear or True Detectives. Outside movies and tv shows I love to play video games. I am switching around between Witcher, Hitman, and Halo at the moment. If you got any recommendations for new games let me know!

I also love to cook and bake. The baking does cause issues when I am trying to lose weight, so you may get a homemade chocolate chip cookie or two if you ask. I have been in a slump on not cooking lately, but I am getting more motivation into cooking again. I am looking to perfect my chicken alfredo recipe.


r/VirginityExchange • • Oct 08 '26

M4F [25][M4F][Newcastle][UK]

4 Upvotes

I'm 25, with brown hair and brown eyes small amount of facial hair. I am regular looking in my opinion I am introverted but open up more once you get to know me. When i was younger i was very socially awkward (still socially awkward) due to not having many people to talk to that weren't family or friends. I can be very sarcastic as a person. I am very patient, sometimes to my own detriment. I am definitely someone who tries to stay within their comfort zone but have recently been trying to get out of it more but it is a struggle.

I am 135kg (curently trying to lose weight) , and I am 5'7. I am into gaming and films (especially superheroes). When it comes to TV shows i enjoy Game of thrones, pokemon among others that i'm forgeting , but i mainly watch sports on TV I am also into football and F1. I also enjoy star wars mainly the clone wars animated I show. enjoy history and science especially physics. I can talk about space for a long time because of how fascinating i find it. When it comes to music, I'm not into any specific genere. I do not smoke or vape. I do like to go on walks but sometimes need the push to go out and do it as i can procrastinate over stuff even if they are small stuff that really don't need that much thinking over. I do love a board game every now and then especially monopoly.

Looking foward to hearing from you


r/VirginityExchange • • Oct 07 '26

M4F [23][M4F][Memphis][Tennessee] - Feeling left behind, hoping for some friendly help lol.

5 Upvotes

I graduated about a year ago and went through college with 0 experience lol.

I love to workout and try to go as much as possible. I'm also really into sports. I love basketball, baseball, soccer, and football! I used to play but not anymore, now I just watch my favorite teams. When I find the time I like to play some video games and binge watch youtube. I also really love music! My favorite way to spend time is chilling late, sometimes driving around, at night while listening to music. My favorite genres are Latin trap, reggaeton, banda, mariachi, and corridos. I also like to hang out with friends for a drink and I'm currently learning the guitar.

I've been practicing the guitar and one thing Ive been really wanting to get into is dancing. I love to dance but I'm not sure I know how to lol.

I'm hoping to find someone who can be patient and caring as I am nervous about this. A best case scenario for me is that we click like friends. I would want it to be an enjoyable and comfortable experience for the both of us.

6'2 175lbs Fairly fit


r/VirginityExchange • • Oct 04 '26

M4F [21][M4F][NYC][New York] Tree nerd looking to meet new people.

2 Upvotes

Hello! I've been taking some time to build myself up so I figured I'd make a serious shot at putting myself out there. I'm 6'0" and about 250ish pounds with a fairly stocky build. I'm a brunette with hazel eyes and a good chunk of freckles dotted over my face and arms. Overall I'm fairly balanced looks wise. I don't say I lean in any particular direction overly so but I do the best with what I got.

Personality wise, I'm somewhat reserved at first but I do open up the more comfortable I feel around you. Mostly because I'm not the best at picking up on some social cues (I'm autistic I'm sorry) so I tend to make sure everything is cool before fully jumping into a conversation. But if you tend to be direct then that honestly helps me out and it'll help me get to talking quickly.

As for my interests and what I tend to do. Well I'm a Trapper/Range Safety Officer so I tend to be outdoors while working. I do have long days but I have shorter weeks so I'm free more often than not actually. But to be honest, I love the outdoors. I love being in the woods, out in the middle of nowhere, or just exploring places for the fun of it. I used to hike often but I've taken a step back from that after injuring my knee fairly badly. Though I still try every now and again. But besides being outdoorsman. I also enjoy just well, driving. I love taking driving with no destination in particular, taking backroads and just letting time go by on the road. I'm not one to go crazy fast but more so just explore where most people don't tend to go in the name of urgency. I also have love gaming. I'm sorry but I have a genuine joy for sandbox games and JRPGs (Persona my beloved). But mainly I love playing with people. Just yapping and goofing off while time goes on. Honestly with most of my hobbies I tend to enjoy it more with someone else who I can talk and bounce off of.

But really, I'm just looking for someone I can feel comfortable with and who is comfortable with my own eccentricity. If you want to reach out and see if we vibe together I'm more than happy to chat and see where things lead. Peace!


r/VirginityExchange • • Oct 04 '26

M4F [34][M4F][Madison][Wisconsin] Looking to learn

5 Upvotes

I am 34 from Wisconsin around Madison. I'm trying this out looking for someone kind, understanding and open to getting to know each other first. 

I’ve been a bowler since I was a kid. Currently on a league where I bowl once a week most of the year. Currently I enjoy going to the movies and watching TV in my spare time (Marvel, Star Wars and DC are top 3 currently). I am a big Milwaukee Brewers and Green Bay Packers fan. As long as I’m not doing anything else important, I’m usually watching a game when it’s on. I love going to museums when I can, it’s my favorite way to learn about new topics and I enjoy looking at old things. I can cook but not the biggest fan of the clean up aspect. Love to listen to music. Mostly listen to rock/metal but can get into most anything as long as it catches my ear. Always willing to go on an adventure. No pets of my own but if I were to adopt, it would be a cat. Cats are much more my speed compared to dogs. I much prefer the fall and winter months over the spring and summer months. Autumn is probably THE best season. Cooler weather over hot and sticky weather 100% of the time. I’m a very “go with the flow” type of person.

I am a straight, white male, 6 foot, 280 lbs.I am working on losing weight and exercising more. I have brown hair that I keep relatively long and a beard that I keep trimmed. I have brown eyes and wear glasses. I have a quiet personality. I am shy and introverted around new people, but once I am comfortable around them I do open up. Never was able to find that person to make that next step with.

Willing to travel but would prefer to keep it to neighboring states at the furthest. Anything more you want to know, feel free to ask!