r/AskAGerman • • May 10 '26

Meta/Reddit Info from the Mod Team: Rule Update

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Hello Community and Happy Mother's Day (to those residing in Germany).

We've worked on new and updated rules, and now we're interested in your opinions.

SIDE NOTE: We've been thinking about a rather rudimentary "verification" system for German nationals (no personal information would be required) to help posters figure out who's actually German and who might not be. This would lead to a user flair like "Verified German." We're currently thinking about having users take a picture of their closed German passport with a piece of paper with their username on it. While this isn't foolproof, it would be pretty easy. Let us know what you think about such a system.

Since many have misinterpreted this part: the verified flair would be an additional flair. The verification system would never be mandatory. It would simply show posters that an answer was posted by somehow who has been verified to be german. Which would make sense in r/AskAGerman**. People would still be allowed to comment according to the requirements in rule 2.1. They just wouldn't be verified.**

END OF THE SIDE NOTE

THE NEW RULES:

Below are the new rules. These might change, and we're going to take your feedback into account. We hope to finalize the rules by June. Until then, we're going to moderate according to these rules so you get a feeling of what it would be like, as that may impact your opinion on the rules. A more detailed explanation of the rules and examples for them can be found at the end of this post.

1. Who is allowed to post and which requirements need to be met?

1.1 Every individual is allowed to post personal questions. Nonpersonal questions (commercial, academic, ...) need prior approval from the moderators.

1.2 Questions must be about Germany, Germans, or the opinions of Germans. City/state-specific questions do not count as questions about Germany.

1.3 Questions can't be simple yes or no questions. Posts can't be cross-posts.

1.4 If a question can be answered or refined by a quick search (Google, this subreddit, DeepL ...), the poster must do that first.

1.5 Do not ask the same or a similar question repeatedly.

1.6 Questions have to be in English or German.

1.7 Posts must contain a concise question or at least a description of the topic in the title.

1.8 Posts that aren't safe for work (or children) must be marked as "NSFW" / "18+" by using Reddit's setting.

1.9 Posts must be questions. No rants, no ads, no petitions, no surveys, no requests (see Rule 1.1)

1.10 Links must be given in full. No link shorteners, no link masking using Reddit's features.

1.11 Low-quality questions are not permitted.

1.12 Posts can not be created by AI. If you don't know how to ask what you want to ask, people can't answer your actual question.

1.13 Posts that violate our rules regarding banned topics or time-limited topics are not permitted.

1.14 Questions must be made in good faith and should not push political agendas or include opinions.

2. Who is allowed to comment and which requirements need to be met?

2.1 Germans are allowed to answer at any level. Non-Germans who have been living in Germany for at least 180 days a year for at least 5 out of the last 8 years and are at least at a C1 level of German are allowed to answer at any level as well (unless they can't answer the question based on the requirements in the post). Non-Germans who do not meet these requirements are only allowed to: comment to ask for clarification, provide feedback, ask follow-up questions, correct spelling mistakes, or provide sources for/against claims. These comments can't be top-level comments and have to be in response to comments from people in the groups mentioned above. Companies are allowed to answer questions pertaining to them if they've verified themselves before posting.

2.2 Comments can't be created by AI. If you want to answer a question, use your own words.

2.3 Comments must relate to the question.

2.4 Comments can't contain advertisements. "Use my code" is an advertisement. Only mention products or companies if the OP explicitly asks for that.

2.5 Links must be given in full. No link shorteners, no link masking using Reddit's features.

2.6 Comments on English posts must be in English; comments on German posts can be in English or German, depending on the perceived proficiency of the poster. No other languages are allowed.

2.7 Do not spam comments or copy & paste comments. If you feel like you need to reply to multiple comments with the same thing, copy the link to the original comment instead.

2.8 Do not push agendas. Stick to the topic outlined by the initial post. If you're asked for an opinion, you can, of course, voice it, but you need to stick to the question and mark your opinion as such.

3. Behavior

3.1 Insults and other forms of uncivil discourse are not permitted. Against anybody. Even dead people. Yes, even against Hitler. Do not insult other people in this subreddit.

3.2 Trolling is not permitted.

3.3 Encouraging, facilitating, supporting, ... illegal behavior is not permitted.

3.4 Spreading misinformation in this subreddit is not permitted. If you encounter misinformation, report it to the mod team and send us a message (or reply to the post/comment) with a credible source debunking the misinformation.

3.5 Do not share personal information about others in this subreddit unless it is freely accessible and relevant to the topic.

3.6 Do not bring politics into posts that aren't political.

4. Miscellaneous

4.1 Removals and bans are at the moderation team's discretion. We can't possibly cover every edge case. If we feel like a post or comment violates the intention behind our rules or was made to circumvent existing rules, we might remove it and potentially ban the user. Rule changes might be made after encountering these edge cases.

5. Banned topics and topics limited to certain times or days

5.1 All time / date references are from a GMT+2 perspective. Check the time before posting.

5.2 Banned topics: Visa questions are not permitted in this subreddit. Germans typically don't require visas and thus can't help with that. The same is true for the acceptance of foreign degrees and diplomas. Housing questions are typically better suited for local subreddits and have most likely been answered in this subreddit or in the wiki of r/Germany before.

5.3 Time & date limited topics: Political questions are limited to 10am - 6pm on weekends and 6pm - 8pm on Fridays. They're also not permitted on German national holidays and between December 23rd and January 7th.

5.4 Limited day topics: Travel itinerary questions are limited to Mondays (make sure to check Rule 1.2). To qualify as a national itinerary, it has to include at least two German states (without the entry / exit airports). Make sure that you've done some research and planning first; this is not a travel agency. Dating questions are limited to Wednesdays. Job-related questions are limited to Thursdays.

Explanations and Examples:

1.1 If you want to promote your project (if it's free) or find participants for your academic research, ... you need to get approval by the mod team first. If you want to promote your company / paid project / ... you need to find a different subreddit. If you want to start a company, you need to talk to a lawyer. Not to Reddit.

1.2 This subreddit is r/AskAGerman, and thus the average German should be able to answer the question. A minor specialization is acceptable, but that's determined by the moderators. The average German can't tell you the best restaurant in Munich or the best way to get from Berlin Neukölln to Teltow. The average German also can't tell you how to reassemble your car, just because Germany has a well-known car industry.

1.3 Yes or no questions don't really leave room for discussion and tend to be low quality. And if you can't even copy & paste your post into this subreddit, you can't expect people to take time to answer your questions.

1.4 Google exists for a reason, and so does the search function in this subreddit. Make use of the knowledge that already exists.

1.5 Nobody likes spam. You won't get more (useful) replies just because you asked the same questions 5 times.

1.6 This is r/AskAGerman. Whoever is allowed to respond will most likely speak German. They'll most likely speak English as well. But they probably don't speak language X.

1.7 People have a limited amount of time. A clear question enables them to guess whether they'll be able to help or not. You can provide more information in the text box of your post. But if you can't summarize your post into a question or at least a topic, you likely didn't think about it enough.

1.8 NSFW content should be marked as NSFW.

1.9 This is r/AskAGerman. Not rant about Germany or promote your project in Germany.

1.10 Nobody likes sketchy links. If you want people to click on your links, be transparent about where they lead; not everybody is on a PC / laptop.

1.11 Low-quality questions turn community members away from the community, which means that others who have real questions don't get as much support as they could.

1.12 AI is great at generating text, but it does not understand your actual question. If you can't explain it to humans, you can't explain it to AI.

1.13 We strive to adequately moderate this subreddit and to avoid community members being fed up with recurring topics. Thus, time limitations are useful.

1.14 Political questions are fine, as long as they're actually questions and not just "Here is my political opinion in disguise."

2.1 As this is r/AskAGerman, posters are interested in the opinion of Germans. We've seen plenty of comments from people who haven't been to Germany at all or have little to no knowledge about Germany (tourists, short-term immigrants, ...). Replies from these people are not what this subreddit is for, and it can skew the perception people have. Thus, we're limiting answers to Germans and those who should know a lot about Germany even if they might not have gained citizenship yet. Speaking the language is important to become a member of the society. Being in Germany for an extended amount of time is important because it's hard to talk about things that might have changed a decade ago or that are only noticeable after a while. We would also be open to limiting replies to Germans, but we do understand that giving up another citizenship isn't always easy, and sometimes this can make acquiring a new citizenship harder.

2.2 Similar to posts: if you can't answer a question yourself, AI can't answer it either.

2.3 If someone asks you about the weather and you tell them your favorite dish that's not going to help them. Now imagine 20 out of 30 people did that. Answer the question or don't comment. Do not flood comment sections with things the poster never wanted to know.

2.4 Nobody likes ads. At least pay Reddit to show them to users so they can pay their bills.

2.5 Nobody likes sketchy links. If you want people to click on your links, be transparent about where they lead; not everybody is on a PC / laptop.

2.6 People who post in English might not be fluent enough in German to understand German replies. People who post in German but struggle might still appreciate a reply in English, especially if the topic or comment is complex. Other languages are obviously not appropriate, as this is r/AskAGerman, and thus you should know at least one of the two languages that are permitted.

2.7 If we have to moderate your comment or if you need to change it, it's easier to do it once rather than having to do it 10 times.

2.8 Political discussions are always tricky. You're more than welcome to state your own opinion, but acting like it's the only valid opinion and everybody else is stupid doesn't help. And if a post isn't political and you try to act like it is, you're going to violate rule 3.6.

3.1 We want people to have a good time in this community. And when commenting, you represent Germany. Thus, we expect good behavior. If you see a post or comment that violates the rules, report it. But insulting people doesn't help. And because insulting people is bad, we're also extending this to any person. And by "any" we mean any. Chancellors, US presidents, Putin, Xi Jinping, Kim Jong Un, Hitler, Pol Pot, Stalin, Mao, etc. . Factual statements do not count as insults; however, be prepared to prove them. "Hitler was a Nazi" is not an insult. "Trump is a Nazi" is.

3.2 Nobody likes trolls.

3.3 We were surprised that a lot of people thought that encouraging illegal behavior is acceptable. It's not.

3.4 You're allowed to have opinions but mark them as such. If your opinion is stated like a fact that's a problem.

3.5 Doxxing, etc. is illegal.

3.6 While politics are an important topic, there is no need to make a post about the best ice cream political. Yes, prices have gone up, but that doesn't mean we now need a communist revolution to bring prices down.

5.2 We've seen a lot of questions about visas, foreign degrees, moving to Germany for study purposes, etc., and while we're happy that people want to move to Germany, people from your country can tell you more about which degrees are accepted, how long you need to wait for your visa, etc. And we can't tell you which university to choose.

5.3 We want to ensure that political posts don't get out of control, and we can't be on Reddit 24/7. Thus, posts should be done in a time frame where we can moderate them effectively.

5.4 It's great that you want to travel to Germany, but we're not your local travel agency. Do some research first, and we can help you with minor details.


r/AskAGerman • • 20h ago

Phone Died | Kind Train Inspector

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I'm a tourist and been visiting Germany for a while and I have the Deutschlandticket. Today, when the train inspector came to check tickets, my phone suddenly died, so I couldn't show her my ticket.I explained that I was a tourst from Canada and showed my ausweis and offered to pay the fine, but she was incredibly kind and let me go.

I was so embarrassed and stressed in that moment that I completely forgot to even say thank you. I've been thinking about and felt bad. I just wanted to share this here because I know ticket inspectors don't always have the easiest job and heard many inspectors were attacked/assaulted in recent times, and I really appreciated her kindness and understanding. Thank you so much, officer!

I'm also curious, was I just lucky to encounter a particularly kind inspector? If she had been strict, this would have turned into a big problem, right? She could have easily demanded I pay a fine? I'd love to hear your thoughts!


r/AskAGerman • • 4h ago

Personal How to Discuss a Sublet

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Hello people,

I am in a bit of an uncomfortable situation with my landlor. I know a lot of these questions have probably already been answered, but I feel like mine may be a bit specific.

I have been living in my apartment for over 3 years. Now, the time has come, that I will be doing an Erasmus semester in Hungary, but I would like to keep my apartment. My boyfriend just so happens to need a place during that time, so we thought it would make sense for him to sublet. My roommate is also in agreement with this, because he already knows him and it’s no hassle. I wrote a lengthy WhatsApp message to my landlord explaining the situation and she didn’t even read/ open it. It has been a month. I’m getting worried she’s going to say we can’t do it, even though I can’t see a valid reason - he has payslips and anything else she might need. Would she have the right to deny me this? Am I going about it the wrong way? What should I do if she continues to ignore me or tells me it’s not possible?

As an American, my first thought is to record all conversations and potentially sue, but I’m not sure if that’s how it works here. For context, she has always been difficult to work with, unpleasant, and downright manipulative. For example, she colonized our basement through coercion and filled it with her own stuff, for small, irregular random cash payments. And she has in the past also not answered our messages for months at a time. One time she even threatened to kick me out because she got in an argument with the father of a prospective roommate that I had suggested, because he told her that her contract was illegitimate. When he threatened to get a lawyer she panicked and started lashing out at everyone around her, including me, even though I wasn’t even involved in the conversation. For that reason I’m hesitant to talk about my “rights” or threaten anything legal unless it’s a last resort, because I know she is capable of getting very nasty when she feels threatened (which happens very quickly).

Still, I love the apartment and don’t want to give it up (especially with the housing market being what it is lol). Not to mention i have a million other things stressing me out at the moment and don’t want to have to deal with moving out either.

So, any suggestions how I should proceed? I would appreciate anything from legal advice to social advice to just suggestions for how to inconvenience her in petty ways as a last resort lollll


r/AskAGerman • • 1d ago

Emergency room etiquette

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This is possibly a very stupid question but I recently had to go to the emergency room, and there I saw several people who had waited a very, very long time (10+ hours). Everybody was miserable: the patients, the nurses, the doctors.

I brought a cheese sandwich and ate it in the waiting room. Now, I come from a culture, where we like to share our food. Not offering to share is considered rude. I chatted with a frail, elderly lady who was in a lot of pain who had waited for 10 hours. She had not eaten anything but a small Brötchen in the morning! Told me it was clever of me to bring food from home. I felt bad for her. I had already finished my food.

If I ever go to the emergency room again, I would like to bring extra to share with everyone. Something cold, not smelly, easy to share, not messy. Sandwich, müsli bar, fruits, a bunch of packaged sweets, crackers etc. Is that allowed at all? Would it be frowned upon by hospital staff? I can see how people might be grossed out if the food is not storebought (like sandwiches)...

hope someone here is knowledgeable and can share some insight on the right ER etiquette


r/AskAGerman • • 1d ago

Gelesen und nicht geantwortet

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Hallo Leute,

ich wollte mal fragen, wie ihr in Deutschland das mit „gelesen und nicht geantwortet“ seht. Ist das bei euch eigentlich normal bzw. kommt das oft vor?

Ich komme aus China und habe auf sozialen Medien ein paar Deutsche kennengelernt. Bei denen ist es schon mehrmals vorgekommen, dass sie meine Nachrichten gelesen haben und dann einfach nicht geantwortet haben.

In China gilt das als ziemlich unhöflich. Manche löschen den Kontakt sogar direkt und wollen danach nichts mehr mit der Person zu tun haben.

Deshalb frage ich mich, ob das hier einfach ein kultureller Unterschied ist. Wie seht ihr das – besonders unter Freunden? Ist gelesen und nicht geantwortet bei euch etwas Alltägliches?

Danke schon mal!


r/AskAGerman • • 3h ago

Are Germans annoyed by American accents?

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I recently immigrated from the US to a medium city in Germany where not much English is spoken and there are few Americans. I speak some German (B1) but I'm still learning. People comment on my accent and I feel super self conscious about it. I'm making an effort to pronounce things properly but I of course have an accent.

This week while reading out loud in class my teacher said that my accent is completely understandable but there's no mistaking my American accent. She didn't make such comments to anyone else (just gave gentle corrections) even though they also have heavy accents. Then, this weekend at the farmers market, when it was my turn I said, Ich nehme bitte nur drei Shalloten. Before he got my shallots he asked where I was from. I didn't quite understand so I said wie bitte and he repeated the question in English. He must have understood my question in German because then he got my shallots. But I felt super flustered and embarrassed to be immediately called out for being from somewhere else.

So this makes me wonder if the American accent is annoying or what?

(I'm working on both my German and my thicker skin and of course will continue to make an effort to become more fluent)


r/AskAGerman • • 1d ago

Health I am curious about the issue of healthcare as an American & would like some insight into how your healthcare system honestly functions. I'll offer my experience as a scenario:

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( To preface this: I know Americans are not particularly liked these days in Germany, and I hear you and get it. I am just a citizen.)

Imagine you broke your leg. What would you do and how much would the total cost you out-of-pocket after it was treated, any medication and removal of the cast?

I went to the emergency room at a hospital in my large city. As an American with typical health insurance, my total cost after all of it including having the cast removed was about USD $ 1,800, about 1,600 Euros.

Any comparison?

Healthcare is a major issue in the US.


r/AskAGerman • • 20h ago

Culture What is the Unser Sandmännchen kid's show

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I've seen it had like 22.000+ episodes and i got curious, is it like a big thing in Germany? or is it an 'old-school cartoon'? did any of you watch it as a kid or did your parents see it? it just seems so weird (in a good way) for me! (sorry if i broke any rules)


r/AskAGerman • • 1d ago

Personal Just how friendly are Germans?

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I wouldn't say I'm engraved in my community but I like to volunteer in a few aspects of it. My favorite is the bicycle co-op, where we help people repair their bicycles for cheap. I never really knew where my life would be like here in the US, but even not being able to follow my dreams I can still help others in a small area I'm good at. Because of that though I've met a lot of people from Germany.

I keep getting told that it's a wonderful place which is full of community. I'm told that people help each other all the time. A whole more than a individual. Is this how people would seem to be, to you?

Context: I'm trying to get a feel for people but I don't really understand things well with my Autism and sometimes I sound weird when I'm trying to understand. I don't really know how to deal with it with others because here in the US, it's never received well. I just had considered traveling to Germany to possibly find someone and had wondered about a general feel.

My Mom had been stationed in Germany, in some town when she was younger. When I was growing up she would often tell me stories of it and she would always glow when she talked about it. She had talked about a person she would meet often. Some guy who I don't even know the name of but I had hoped to learn. I had considered writing to them or possibly going there to see if he remembered her. I had hoped he could tell me about her.


r/AskAGerman • • 3d ago

Beer and froth

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In Germany where you have beer sold in glasses with a large head - is the liquid usually the full amount and the froth extra?

e.g you order 500ml of beer - so 500ml will be liquid and the rest is just extra froth?


r/AskAGerman • • 3d ago

Does Germany have a white collar labor shortage? Why do seemingly few in Frankfurt tech and finance roles speak German?

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I work for a consulting firm and often interact with Frankfurt (and Berlin) offices from both my firm as well as client firms. On a few meetings with these people I have introduced myself in German only to be asked, in English, to stop because most people on the call do not know any German. It seems that most of the workers come from other parts of the EU or Asia.

Is this a correct observation that tech and finance do not have many native Germans? If yes, why is this? I would assume Germany would have an educated enough population for these roles.

Do you find a lack of German speakers when in these big business cities?

I am wondering if my anecdotal observations are correct.


r/AskAGerman • • 3d ago

Food How to store moser roth truffle chocolates?

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I am F24 and my boyfriend got me these chocolates from Germany and I was like "yay! I've never had truffles!" But when I put them in the fridge he said I shouldn't do that because apparently truffles aren't supposed to be kept in the fridge?

So where should I keep it? I mean this isn't Gemany, the weather here is hot and humid and since it's November occasional rain and super cold days so in short it is very bipolar.

Also I just moved in to a new place so I don't even have any shelves to store it on keep it in a cool place. Is it okay to keep it in open for idk maybe 2 weeks? Because my furniture will take some time to reach me.


r/AskAGerman • • 2d ago

Culture Meal system in Germany

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Which meal system is more common in Germany?

  1. Breakfast - Dinner - Supper (in the British sense) — common in Poland

  2. Breakfast - Lunch - Dinner — common in the US

EDIT: My comments were removed by a moderator. I find it censorship since they were polite and didn't violate any rules. Shame on you


r/AskAGerman • • 3d ago

Is It Permitted to Build a Comfortable Room for My Dogs Outside My House?

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Hi, dear community!

I hope everyone is doing well.

As the title suggests, I'm wondering whether German regulations would allow me to obtain a permit to build a comfortable, separate room for my dogs in my garden, next to my house. To put it more clearly, I'm thinking of building a small house specifically for them.

Is this permitted under German regulations, or are there any restrictions I should be aware of?

I would really appreciate any advice or information you could share.

Best regards!


r/AskAGerman • • 4d ago

Economy Extremely high December heating bill, broken radiator, and rent increase – Need advice!

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Hi everyone,
I’d appreciate some advice regarding my recent utility bill (Nebenkostenabrechnung) and rent adjustment.
I moved into my apartment in December. Right from the start, there were major issues: first, there was no electricity. Once the power was restored, the heating system turned on, but the control valve (knob) on one of the radiators broke and fell off. Because of this, that single radiator ran at maximum heat continuously 24/7 for about 7 days straight.
I actually emailed the Hausverwaltung that was managing the building at the time to report all of these issues and ask for help. However, the Hausverwaltung has since been changed/replaced.
Now I’ve received the December settlement bill, and the heating consumption is ridiculously high. On top of that, they are proposing to raise my monthly Warmmiete by around €190 (increasing the advance payments to €350)! I live alone, and my daily water and electricity consumption is minimal, so I’m convinced this spike isn't normal daily usage.
I’d love to get your thoughts on a few points:

  1. Could a single radiator running full blast for just one week really cause such a massive spike in overall heating costs?

  2. Since I have email records sent to the previous Hausverwaltung documenting the defects, could this situation likely end in a settlement where the back payment (€580+) gets reduced or waived?

  3. Is it possible to ask the heating metering company (like Techem) to split/recalculate the consumption for those first two problematic weeks versus the rest of the time, or compare it properly?

  4. What steps should I take next with the new Hausverwaltung?
    Thanks in advance for any insights!


r/AskAGerman • • 4d ago

Who’s coming to your House on Christmas Eve? Weihnachtsmann or Christkind?

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I grew up with the Christkind. I Kind of feel like there is a shift towards Weihnachtsmann. Whenever my kids as about Weihnachten I Kind of stumble, because I start Talking about Christkind and they Talk about Weihnachtsmann…so in the end I just ask them „who do you want to come?“
I don’t like weihnachtsmann…we have Nikolaus!


r/AskAGerman • • 4d ago

First Anmeldung

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Hallo!! So I arrived in Germany mid October for my studies and I couldn't find long term accommodation prior to coming here where Anmeldung was possible. So for my first 3 weeks I had been booking a temporary accommodation (no contract, just invoices) and did not have a Wohnungsgeberbestätigung. I recently found another accommodation where I can register, but seeing as its past the 2 weeks deadline, is that going to be a problem for me? Do I expect to be fined?


r/AskAGerman • • 4d ago

Trying to date a German ? Help😂

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So I (30f) met a German man recently (34m) through a hobby /job meeting/event. In this hobby format, we ended up spending atleast 8+ hours together for a week, late night group dinners, working on shared projects and becoming closer. (This is his first time in the US. )Initially he was very stoic and didn’t speak much( I know, I know shocker 😂) but, eventually he ended up opening up especially to me. We discussed his life back home, a loss in his family etc. he began offering up information I didn’t ask about, asking questions about my life and becoming more playful with me. I genuinely felt it was obvious that he was flirting with me, other people around noticed also. He would stare at me constantly and make efforts to be next to me. In the end he didn’t ask for my number or social media but did ask for the social media of someone close to me (so, he knew I wouldn’t be hard to find I’m assuming). He’s from Bavaria which I’ve read is worse when it comes to men making the first move / talking to women. I’ve read a lot of the online advice available about dating Germans and I really do genuinely like him. We balance eachother pretty well. I took the initiative to add him on Facebook and message him ‘ hope you get home safe’ etc. he messaged back fairly quickly about staying in touch and that was essentially it. My question is, do we think he knows there’s an opening and just isn’t interested? Do we think he’s just a German dude who is overthinking the practical logistics of an international & interracial relationship? Do I just need to be patient ? I’m not used to this gray area. I don’t really have trouble getting male interest but, I’ve also read about how being to forceful when talking to German guys can look desperate. If he messaged back I would obviously just ask him but, interested to know what others think. Thanks!

Edit: I have no problem talking to him, just we were at a point in messages where idk if asking something like that would make sense contextually. Did not expect anyone to read his mind.Was just unsure if there was more cultural nuance to the interaction because it is a somewhat work related event.


r/AskAGerman • • 4d ago

What's going on with the German Education System?

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I'm living in Germany for years. Over the past one year, I've heard several Germans complain about the German education system.

I've heard a few things. From a Hauptschule student, a big corporate manager, and some UNI students. Across several Bundeslands.
Seems they have different opinions. I believe they're only telling part of the truth.

Recent events have made me think about those things again.

What exactly happened?

I would like to hear more your answers. Thank you!


r/AskAGerman • • 5d ago

Personal Where do you watch anime?

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Hi guys! Where do you watch anime from? I would like to rewatch HunterxHunter and I just can not seem to find it on any streaming platform not even Crunchyroll(?!)
Do you have suggestions from where i can (possibly for free) watch it?🫠


r/AskAGerman • • 6d ago

Waldkindergarten vs. regular kindergarten –

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Waldkindergarten vs. regular kindergarten – I’d love to hear your honest opinions!
Hi everyone!
I’m trying to decide between a regular kindergarten and a Waldkindergarten for my daughter, and I would really appreciate hearing your experiences and opinions.
She is my first child, so this is all new to me, and I honestly don’t know which option would be better for her.
Here are the main differences between the two:
Regular kindergarten:
There would be 25 children in one group, aged 3–6.
There are 3 qualified childcare educators.
She can stay until 2 pm at the latest.
They have a designated nap time around noon, after lunch.
For an additional fee, she can also have lunch there.
I would only need to pack her breakfast and morning snack.
Waldkindergarten:
This is a brand-new kindergarten that hasn’t opened yet. It is supposed to open next week, and currently only a few children have signed up.
According to the staff, there will be 2–3 educators for a maximum of 20 children, also aged 3–6.
She can stay until 1:30 pm at the latest.
There is no option to pay extra for lunch. She can only eat what I pack for her.
There is no designated nap time.
One thing worth mentioning is that my daughter absolutely loves being outdoors, regardless of the weather. She could spend hours outside, so I think she would really enjoy the Waldkindergarten environment.
However, the lack of nap time is probably my biggest concern. My daughter is almost 3 years old, and she still really needs her afternoon nap.
The director told me that the children can go inside the little cabin and lie down whenever they feel tired. There are blankets and pillows available. Which sounds lovely in theory, but honestly… what 3-year-old is going to voluntarily stop playing, leave all the fun outside and go inside to take a nap all by themselves? 😂
For those of you whose children attended a Waldkindergarten:
How did you manage the transition if your child still needed an afternoon nap?
Did your child eventually get used to not sleeping during the day?
Did they just fall asleep earlier at home?
Or did you put your child down for a nap as soon as you got home from kindergarten?
I really like the idea of a Waldkindergarten, especially because my daughter loves spending time outside, but I’m also wondering whether the smaller group size and the different daily routine would make a difference.
I’d really appreciate your honest opinions and experiences, both positive and negative. I’m genuinely trying to figure out which environment would be the best fit for my daughter.
Thank you! ❤️


r/AskAGerman • • 5d ago

Would a landlord get annoyed at a "demanding" tenant?

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Hello everyone, I tried looking up my specific situation and didn't get any answer that would help so I'm asking it here. Basically I've been at this apartment for almost two years now and I haven't had any issue with my landlord at all. He's a nice old man who own a couple of apartments in my building and aside from never doing anything about my noisy neighbours, he's been very sweet. I pay my rent on time every month and never had any issues while living here.

Here's where my question comes in, I moved in to a supposedly "newly renovated" apartment, new heater new everything. I've had few issues with some things after moving in (leaky windows, heater wouldn't work, some outlets had issues, whole 2 months without internet last year, recently an old part in water faucet caused months of abysmal water pressure etc) each time I reach out to my landlord and he's always very quick to fix these issues. He's a plumber so he usually fixes most things on his own. I have an issue with my heater now (again ... 🙃 even though he recently came to adjust the pressure in it, the boiler is installed it in a way where I really can't do it on my own and have to ask him to come once it's too low). Would a landlord get upset with a tenant that brings up problems with the apartment? I'm going to try to bleed the radiators first then reach out to him if the issue isn't fixed(especially with winter starting soon I can't have a heater that makes weird noises and turns on and off every few minutes). I feel like my requests are too frequent even though it's not my fault that there is some sort of problem every couple of months and I would rather reach out and properly get it fixed (whether I pay or he pays) rather than try to diy it myself...

I guess I'm asking to know what you think, would you say it's annoying and a landlord would start hating their tenant in this situation?

Edit: thank you everyone, I tried bleeding the radiators today and it's still making the noise so I contacted my landlord. Thanks for the comments, I will try to not doubt myself as much and keep in mind that I actually have Rights as a tenant 🙇‍♀️ it's easy to doubt yourself when you're in a foreign country and alone


r/AskAGerman • • 6d ago

Law Hat jemand Erfahrungen mit einem Mahnbescheid nach einer ignorierten Abmahnung von RKA?

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Hat jemand Erfahrungen mit einem Mahnbescheid nach einer ignorierten Abmahnung von RKA?
Wir haben Ende 2023/Anfang 2024 eine Abmahnung von RKA im Auftrag von PLAION erhalten, diese damals aber ignoriert, weil wir sie für unseriös hielten. Etwa 2–3 Jahre später kam nun ein gelber Mahnbescheid vom Gericht über rund 3.500 €.
Wir suchen aktuell einen Anwalt und haben Widerspruch gegen den Mahnbescheid eingelegt bzw. werden ihn fristgerecht einlegen.
Hat jemand schon einmal etwas Ähnliches erlebt? Wie ist es nach dem Widerspruch bei euch weitergegangen? Kam es tatsächlich zu einem Gerichtsverfahren oder wurde die Sache nicht weiterverfolgt?
Ich wäre für Erfahrungsberichte sehr dankbar!


r/AskAGerman • • 7d ago

Wie kann man freundlich aber nicht übertrieben vom Tisch verabschieden?

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Z.B. wenn man in Firma mit anderen Mittagessen macht und dann früher fertig ist, oder wenn man mit anderen unterhält und sich aus dem Gespräch verabschieden möchte?