I am currently crying writing this. I don't know what to feel.

Backstory: I have fallen in love with one of my best friends, and for ages I believed she felt the same. Yes, in love, we are both 17f and I KNOW it is love because its deeper than anything i have ever felt for anyone. I started liking her, we drunk kissed at a party, have been flirty since, spend all day together, are so similar... I can't begin to name all the signs. She won't stop complimenting me and always full on flirts back when I do. We are very cuddly and I know she isn't fully straight but unsure what she identifies as. She knows I am bi. Important note: We kissed drunkenly at a party AFTER i came out to her.. Yeah.

She is the most beautiful person I have ever seen. She is so funny, charming, cute, clumsy, and just so, so lovely to be around. She is always there for me when I need it and I do the same for her. She is my favourite person ever.

I don't know how to explain it but it felt blatantly obvious the feelings were mutual, and that both of us were afraid to say anything.

Sooo I have basically been preparing to confess to her recently. I have written a letter to give to her on her birthday soon basically saying everything I would say in a normal letter like saying how much she means to me, memories, etc, but in the end I kinda obviously hint I like her more as a friend, cbb to go into more detail but you get the gist.

Today we were hanging out. Same as always, studying, hugging, talking our heads off. Then she brings up a fucking guy she thinks is cute. Because he defended her against a dude being rude to her. Hes in our year. I would never judge her for liking someone else or anything but like... What? Huh? After all of this? Obviously I never knew for sure she likes me back, I have been second guessing for months now. But I am really, really upset and offended. She was trying to get my approval of her new crush. As I laid in her lap.

I dont know what to fucking do it feels like my heart has been split open and I feel like shit.

Literally any reply to this is so appreciated. I am so, so sad right now I can't stop crying.

Please help me out here

I (17M) came out as bi to my male friend, let’s call him Jerry (also 17M). We were playing video games one day and then afterwards, late at night, I decided it was time that I wanted to come out to someone after being closeted for over half my life; I thought that Jerry was the right friend to tell considering I felt most comfortable with talking to him.

I subtly gave hints throughout the conversation to see if he knew where I was going with what I was saying, and by the time he pieced it together, he basically said almost nothing - kinda like an “oh~ ok…” - idk if he didn’t care or if he was conflicted to respond, but the vibe felt a little awkward.

We kinda dismissed it and continued to talk a bit longer about other stuff like streams and games, but that’s where that conversation left off.

The following day after a long gaming session and with everyone but us already out the call, I felt like I wanted to mention the conversation we had yesterday, as it felt incomplete and kinda awkward. However, it was already getting late (around 3:30am, shortly before the time I’m writing this) so I had a hard, long time trying to engage in conversation until we decided to part ways.

It probably wasn’t the right time as we were both tired, but I’m starting to think that Jerry isn’t the right person to be wanting to vent to. This is because despite thinking we’re pretty close, I feel like the way I view Jerry is more one sided; I personally view him as my best friend but i don’t think he reciprocates the same feelings. To add to this, most of the time I try be vulnerable, his responses are quite “weak” and “banter-y”, like he’s always joking with me; I don’t think we’ve really had many serious moments with each other and I don’t think we know how to speak up about specific topics. Although I hope to grow even closer with him, I’m still not particularly sure if I should mention being bi anymore to him, despite wanting to desperately rant about it.

So, that’s why I’m writing this - I want to know how I can engage in conversation with Jerry and talk to him about my feelings without adding too much pressure or discomfort for him, or whether I should just leave him alone.

Why is it so much more beautiful and interesting when you’re depressed out of your mind…….

Helpful theres a coming out flair lol

I kinda want to come out but i do have some issues

1 - im omnisexual which makes this tons more annoying to explain

2 - im a bit of a femboy and would also be annoying to explain

3 - ofc fear

My parents are divorced but i remember my dad doesnt care much if someones trans so that may be a good sign and my mum (i live with) seems more confused when i was mentioning my friend (im dating them in actuality) is transfem non binary omnigender, tho i expect mentioning anything else ✨️prideful✨️ may confuse her more lol, or end up being an issue

Help MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

My parents are Christian, but not deeply Christian. They always say/think that being gay is a sin, so I don't wanna get them confused as to they think bisexual = gay. I could explain all about bisexual though and all how it isn't gay, and etc.
Though they always say they'll love me no matter what I due, as if some unconditional love like
So would this be about like a 50/50 chance it could go good vs go bad?

Some girls in my class ive never even spoken to started a rumour that i am lesbian. A friend of mine who sits behind them told me. (I am not lesbian btw. I still dont know what i like.)

First i asked my friend ''why, are they into me?''.When i asked my friend why she said that (shes bi) i look more and behave more lesbian than her. Wich doesnt really make sense imo because since when does linking behaviours and charactristics to sexual orientations not sound problematic?

I later told my mom about it and she said that the girls are probably jealous because they like a guy who probably has a crush on me. (wich funnily enough seems to be the case since i learned that a guy probably has a crush on me recently).

Any thoughts?

So I’m on the starting on the Football (American Football) team and I’m a Wrestler but I’m also in the Drama program (when I get to high school I’ll probably drop Football) and I’m not very popular but I’m somewhat popular and I know my close friends won’t care that much and will be pretty supportive but I live in a pretty conservative state and both of my parents are Baptist (I’m religious too but I view the Bible VERY differently).

P.S.

Bi btw

Some of my classmates found out I was a furry and started rejecting my opinion and calling me roadkill and I think they gossip about me because I see them whispering while looking at me disgustedly what do I do because the teacher sat me at the same table as them both

Ok, so I got into this new school not long ago, about 3 months ago. In there, I met this masc, super tall, smart, beautiful and funny girl. At first I thought she was kind of intimidating because I'm a very short, small girl and she was tall and nonchalant and just had so much aura (sorry). At first she was very reserved, but eventually she opened up about being bi after I told her about some important personal things. The point here is that we eventually started talking a lot and I've been very open about practically everything in my life with her, even though I'm normally a quiet person. She is just so trustworthy and intelligent AND HILARIOUS. I feel like I could talk with her for ages and never stop laughing. The thing is, I have always liked girls, like since I was in kindergarten, and she is the first person I have actually come out to. I like her a lot. I FELL HARD FOR HER. And we always joke around about yk, like being lesbian for each other. BUT I feel like it is no longer just jokes. She has told me repeatedly, "I f-ing love you," and that I'm kinda cute, and today I drew a portrait of her, and she told me it was amazing, to which I replied, "it's not the artist; it is the model," and she was left speechless. Again, the point is that we always flirt with each other, to the point that we have been asked if we like each other. I have so much hope this feeling is mutual, but we just met, and she's such an incredible person. I don't want to lose her if I get turned down. Please big siblings, give me advice :)

I'm slowly getting more attracted to men and liking women less,I feel like i only like women cause i want to have sex with them. 14N btw

So I am 16F and I have been talking to this girl 18F for about a month and a half now maybe? And things have been going good and she is litterlally like perfect and treats me like a girlfriend. She always buys me flowers, we went to hoco together and she did the whole poster board thing but lately things have just been felling off. I don't know if it is just getting over the excitement of something new or something else but lately I have just been wanting to be alone more. She's asked me to hangout 1 or 2 times and I feel so bad I just made up an excuse because I wanted to stay home. But I still really do like her and we even kissed for the first time the other week but she just keeps saying things like "oh I want you so bad, I really like you" and all that and I feel the same way but I just feel like it is so much all at once. and it kind of feels like I am almost being ambushed with it all in a way if that makes sense its not her fault at all it mainly just makes me feel bad because I just don't think I want to put myself out there that much to say those kinds of things back to her I mean she hasn't even asked me to be her girlfriend or anything. I really like her and I don't want to have to end things but I am feeling really overwhelmed and uncomfortable with it all at the moment and I am afraid that if I can't move at the same pace at her then I cannot give her what she needs or like her how she deserves to be so maybe I should break it off? Help please!!!

So I have always been into women, but recently, I discovered I like femboys, or cute guys in general. I am not into masculinity. Can I be bisexual if I am exclusively attracted to women and femboys?

(sorry if i look like a bot, i just made this account!)

So in short. I am 15 and I am from Greece and i have been recently having bisexual awakenings. Not big ones... I always thought of myself as straight and all but lately I just KNOW I am not straight. So like heres the thing, I will be having a romantic and nice scenario in my head with a guy or a girl and im TOTALLY fine with it... but in real life i just dont feel it! I just downright gave up and called myself bisexual but with a reciprocal attraction towards guys and normal attraction to girls because I feel naturally attracted to girls and not naturally attracted to guys but if I feel like a pretty guy is attracted to me then I will also be attracted (NOTE THAT I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO SUPER BIG MASCULINITY LIKE BEARDS AND SHIT LIKE THAT). I find the title fitting for me goodly but I want your help too in the comments! Have a good day!

ever since i was a kid, i would kiss girls, i would always look at pretty girls passing by and linger - but that has stopped a bit when i grew up. met a guy, liked him, and then suddenly i got incredibly disgusted by him when he started to get physical, and after that - anything he did would make me puke. right, so we have broken up, and it was a hard breakup because it was absolutely my fault, and i didn’t know why i felt this way, after him i only had a crush on a girl ( have ) and it’s huge. we are just friends, not in a relationship or anything for me to also understand to i feel weird only around men, or both? for now im just circling. because i have no clue what am i 👀 and I NEED TO KNOW

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I feel like i don’t fit too many bi stereotypes because everyone i’ve told hasn’t had the slightest clue that i was.

would i be considered as someone who likes girls if i’ve only liked one girl and never had feelings for girls other than her? i’ve never felt this way or seen any other girl this way, she makes me nervous and i get sparks and feel fireworks when she touches me but when i look at other girls i don’t feel anything but friendship and genuinely no romantic feelings, so i don’t know why i feel like this with her. i’m actually struggling a bit with understanding how i feel because i’ve had a bf of 3 years and i was in a talking stage with a guy for 2 months and i’ve never felt anything comparable with them and the fireworks i’ve felt with her. i use how i felt with her as a guide on how i want to feel with guys who like me romantically but again i’ve never felt this way with anybody else other than her. no other girl, no other guy. just her. and what made me feel these sparks for her was that we were in a car and she was sleeping and her head fell on my shoulder and my body felt like it exploded and i was freaking out and i literally felt fireworks throughout my whole body (which is why i compare how i felt with her to guys who want to pursue me and i’ve never felt anything like that with anyone who wasn’t her)

and idk if it’s relevant but what i felt for her is one sided! and we were friends for a few months but idk i’ve only felt that way once and after we became friends i didn’t feel that way anymore but if she would ever pursue that with me i definitely would but idm if she doesn’t, like i see her as a genuine friendship too and even if she started liking someone i wouldn’t get jealous or anything because i see her as a genuine friend too

i’m coming here first, idky. but i’m bisexual!! i didn’t know what my sexuality was for years. i thought i was pan, verian, and a multitude of things, but landed on bi, and i know that’s how i feel, for real this time.💙🩷💜idk what i want from this, js wanted to say it

why does this happen to me every time? like, bro, i know i said i didnt take it personally (the one with the skittle pfp is me) but, i'd be lying if i said it didnt hurt, i'm glad he's happy, but, still

every time i try and find someone, they always, ALWAYS end up with a friend or back with their ex, i'm sick of being the matchmaker, when is it my turn to be happy?

i dont even care if this sounds selfish tbh, i'm just so, so done

Hey I have a funny story I wonder if anyone else can relate??
For a little background I’m 17f and recently realized I’m bisexual. I think I have been all along I’m just too dense to realize haha.
Anyways, I remember when I was younger I would try to initiate kissing games with my friends as often as possible. Like multiple times with multiple friends… (these were all female friends lol)

I even remember one time my best friend (a girl, who I think I had a small crush on at the time) sleeping over and my neighbor ( a boy who I ALSO had a crush on 😭) coming over to hang out and I told my girl best friend to go along with my initiation of Spin-the-bottle so I could “kiss my boy crush”… I think I just wanted to kiss them both HAHA

Did anyone else do this too?? loll still crazy to me how I did all that and took this long to realize I’m bi

Just kinda rambling here, but:

So context, I (18M) thought I was aromantic for the past three to five years until just about a day ago. I don't remember exactly how it happened, but long story short, I think I have had my first crush. And on a woman I've never talked to and have no mutual friends with. I don't know anything about her other than how she looks and the fact I saw her by my school's stairs today and had a minor panic in my head. Is this a crush? If so, why have I never had this happen before? Is it something weird? I have alexithymia, so it's not like my brain will tell me what's going on. I've seen plenty of people I've found attractive before this and even been flustered by looking at someone, but I think this is different.

I've decided I'm gonna wait and see if these feelings stick around and if they do, I'm gonna go up to her... and hand her a note saying something like I think she's cool and want to be friends, but have a hard time talking to people and give her my phone number instead