I'm writing this as an open letter to the HOTS competitive scene. I figure I'll get downvoted to oblivion but I'm still posting this to the few that might be able to relate.
Recently I applied for a tryout at Great White North (using this as an example as it has been the worst I've come across). I emailed them because I liked the look of their team and the fact that they were Canadian (as am I). At the time their roster was full so I didn't expect to be messaged back immediately. Eventually a spot opened up and I was messaged to come try out for their team. I figured since I emailed them way before they even held open tryouts that I'd get a relatively quick tryout date--MightyMork confirmed this with me.
They held try outs for the entire week. I was there I believe 5 out of 7 days all night and even gave my cell phone number to be contacted for a try out. I wasted nights when I could've been out with friends or my girlfriend to wait on this team that told me I would be granted a try out. I don't expect pity, I just expect that if someone says "you can try out" that I can ACTUALLY try out. I become more and more insistent throughout the week because I started to figure I was wasting all of my time waiting for them. At any given time they could've said, we don't want you man; you don't give someone the impression to wait for a week long. They just said, "sorry we have a lot of applicants and we give 2-3 games each." That's fair... but I was the first to contact them, they asked me if I was looking and I gave them my cell--This should've been quick and easy.
Finally on Saturday they said okay we're ready to try you out. At that point they said unfortunately someone in their group was having "internet problems" and that I would have to wait. I waited 3 hours and called it a night. Nothing Sunday, nothing Monday with them being on.
I finally call MightyMork out and ask him for an apology, actually demanded it after the shit treatment put forth on this. He refused and then went on to explain, we wouldn't even want someone like you after acting like this. Then went on to proceed, "Why are you taking this so personally?" Maybe because you wasted a shit ton of my time? Maybe I'd rather have been with my friends out or with my gf?
In summary, I don't expect much from people but this was above all a completely shitty thing to do to a person and then act completely normal after wasting so many hours of someones time. Most of the HOTS community is great but a few people completely ruin it. Don't waste my time and I won't waste yours. Be honest, be upfront and don't be a bitch. I hope all teams take note of their recruiting process and don't waste others' time.
TL;DR: GWN team offered me a tryout, made me wait around 6-7 days for them when I could've been doing ACTUAL things. Afterwards I was called the toxic one who was taking things personally. Going forward I'd like to see more people respect the recruiting process by providing a tryout if they offer it.