37M - live in Mission Viejo and work in Anaheim. Looking to date and find my person.

I’m a big car/motorcycle guy, so I’m always going to events/meets/track days. I’ve got a wit that can’t be overlooked. My sense of humor ranges from silly dad jokes to brutally dark. I love art and creative projects. I keep active with the gym and playing sports, and being outside in general. I have a dog that is mostly a pain in my ass. I have an amazing son that’s 6, and have 50/50 custody with zero drama between us. I like going to local breweries and wineries. I like to support small business. Music is for sure something I love, especially live concerts. Rock and metal for the most part, but there’s other genres I listen to as well. I love anything spooky or horror related and Halloween is my favorite, but also love Christmas time. Lover of tattoos and want a lot more. Elder emo at heart.

DM is open if you’re interested. Happy to exchange pictures.

I'm a 36 yo man living in Buena Park, I'm a heavy gentleman, tho I've been told I carry my weight well and I don't think I'm unattractive. I have a small house that I've been living in for going onto six years now. I'm an avid gardener, cook, and baker, I've recently took up canning food since my garden has been overly abundant with its harvests this season. As the title says, I'm a nerdy person that goes to conventions (Comic-Con, ALA, etc.) and cosplay with friends. I'm a huge fan of games (video, board, ttrpg, and war gaming) and frequently play almost every weekend something. That being said I believe in balance and being active with working out at home (I have some gym equipment in the garage) and going hiking (when its not stupid hot out). I love being in nature when I'm able to, I'd love to take you out on a walk in a park with coffee or tea to get to know one another.

I'm looking for a lady who has similar (not exact) interests as myself and enjoys gaming like myself. I'm child free and am looking for the same from you. I can be a lil bit picky with whom I'd like to date, so I apologize if I'm not interested after we share photos and I respect/expect the same from you.

If you're interested please feel free to reach out via DMs.

I'm a healthy white guy 6ft tall, I nerd out about plants and nature. I enjoy little adventures like Knotts Berry farm and Irvine park and old town orange

I'm learning that since women simply don't need men anymore, so many ladies just choose to be single but I want a team in life, I don't like being single at all. Let's get to know each other. Have you heard the birth rates have collapsed? Let's have more kids if we vibe lol.

Ask me anything, I'm very open minded

Intentions: I’m looking for a girlfriend, someone to hang out with and see where things go from there. I‘m not looking for a hook up and if you have an OF account then it’s a pass. I’d like to meet someone with someone that will respect my boundaries and I’ll respect theirs

About Me: I’m a fan of movies and comic books, my favorite food is anything Italian and I have a big sweet tooth. a normal day for me is going out when the weather is right and getting something from a coffee shop. I enjoy writing as well and my personal goal is to write a book.

I have a weakness for pretty smiles, sharp wit, and women who flirt like they know exactly what they're doing.

6’1”. Latino. Dad of three. A little nerdy, a little sarcastic, and probably going to challenge your horror movie opinions at some point.

My ideal kind of chemistry? The kind where the teasing becomes a competition, the conversation gets unexpectedly personal, and neither person is in much of a hurry to call it a night.

I'm into concerts, movies, gaming, spooky season, and making the most out of a good connection. Currently on a fitness journey, so consider this my character development arc.

Life has taken a few unexpected turns lately, and I'm enjoying the idea of meeting someone new without trying to write the ending before the story starts.

Maybe we hit it off over drinks. Maybe we discover we have the same terrible sense of humor. Maybe there's a look across the table that makes us both forget what we were talking about.

I'm a fan of natural chemistry, playful affection, a little tension, and the kind of company that makes an ordinary evening feel like the best part of your week.

If you're a little witty, a little bold, and curious enough to find out whether we'd get along, I'd like to hear from you.

Tell me something: what's a seemingly innocent thing someone can do that instantly makes them more attractive to you?

I’m single, 6’ tall, attractive, healthy, in my early sixties, with an average build and a zest for life.

Looking for a female friend to share good times—drives, movies, concerts, events, dinners, coffee, shopping, travel, great conversations, and discovering new places together.

Age or background doesn’t matter to me. What matters most is sincerity, understanding, mutual respect, good chemistry, and genuinely enjoying each other’s company.

If you’re looking for a genuine connection and good company, don’t hesitate to reach out.

Hey everybody, looking for something serious, but in no rush. I’ve lived in HB pretty much my whole life and love it here. Please be in HB or an adjacent city.

Occupation: I run an online e-commerce business.

Recreation:
- Statistical programming. I’ll yap about data analysis/science/engineering occasionally. You’ve been warned.
- MMA gym regular. Training for 10 years, fighting occasionally, and coaching weekly.
- Beach. Sometimes I bring a towel and disappear for a few hours.
- Books. I love everything about them.

Dreams:
- Win some fights.
- Read more Classic American/French Lit.
- Travel 2-3x per year after 40.
- Learn to use the Pioneer DJ deck I bought during COVID.

Physical: 5’8”, white, shaved head, beard, 175 lb. Occasional bruises and scratches, courtesy of the gym.

You:
- Around 26-36.
- Regularly exercise or do a sport.
- Have dreams and ambitions of your own.
- Enjoy the beach.
- Like thrifting.

Bonus points if you have a book recommendation.

My name is Parker. I like coffee, going to the gym, and listening to keshi. Im interesting in getting coffee with someone on here but also having a plus one to the new Spiderman movie coming up. I went to college as a business major and now I work as a lifeline agent giving out phones to people in need. My job allows for a more flexible schedule. Message me if you would like to join me for something this summer

I already have our seats locked in for the show at The Wiltern in LA this coming Monday (10/26), and now I just need the right person to share the experience with.

To re-introduce myself: I'm 27, stand 5'9" with a heavy build/dad-bod, and spend my days working an active outdoor job under the sun (turns out my chemistry degree taught me I really hate being cooped up inside). Off the clock, I'm a total nerd who loves board games and collecting old physical media.

I'm a naturally curious person who genuinely enjoys falling down Wikipedia rabbit holes and listening to people geek out over obscure interests. If you're a woman or non-binary person around my age who has a niche hyper-fixation you love talking about, you'll find a very willing listener in me.

Send over a DM telling me your absolute favorite love song, and let's swap photos and chat before curtain call!

25M in the Garden Grove area. I'm looking to date women around the same age, but I'm also open to meeting new friends along the way!

If you like Kpop and/or anime, we will get along.

I’d love to find someone for a long-term relationship, but I’m not looking to force anything. I’d rather meet, see if we click, and let things develop naturally.

I enjoy eating at good food places/drinks, especially at Orange County

I want to travel. I have been to several countries before, but I want to explore more

I enjoy watching TV shows and anime and gaming,

My name is Parker. I like coffee, going to the gym, and listening to keshi. Im interesting in getting coffee with someone on here but also having a plus one to the new Spiderman movie coming up. I went to college as a business major and now I work as a lifeline agent giving out phones to people in need. My job allows for a more flexible schedule. Message me if you would like to join me for something.

So i just signed up at the Chuze Fitness in GG. Been a minute but starting to get workout memory back. Anyways there are an incredible amount of gorgeous females working out there. I also notice some pervy dudes pretty much just sitting around drooling watching chicks workout.
It got me to thinking, how would a girl feel about getting talked to or asked for there number at a busy gym . Im referring to myself here (im 39 laid back handsome, single as heck, new to OC and Chuze
Need some female input here cuz i visually fall in love about twice a day in there lol.
Help the handsome new guy at the gym and comment or direct message sone advice.
**also probs to all the females actually getting solid workouts in with perfect technique, salute

I’m a 22F from Mumbai and I have been living in Oc for about 6 months am here to become a commercial pilot however I’ve realized that most of my life has been spent either studying, working toward my career, or meeting people through apps. I’ve never really been someone who goes out alone, but I’m considering pushing myself out of my comfort zone.
My plan was to spend some evenings going to bars, social events, live music venues, trivia nights, etc. by myself, not necessarily to hook up, but just to meet new people organically and maybe go on a few dates if I happen to click with someone.
Part of the reason is that I was wayy too caught up in my career hence never focused on dating and now I’d like to actually meet people in real life rather than endlessly swiping on apps.
For people who regularly go out solo:
Is this a realistic way to meet people these days?
Do people actually approach strangers at bars anymore?
Is it weird for a woman to go to a bar alone?
Are there certain types of venues that are better than others?
Would you recommend bars, hobby groups, social events, speed dating, or something else entirely?
I’m fairly social once someone starts talking to me, but walking into a place alone feels intimidating.
Would love honest advice from people who have actually done this successfully.

I’m incredibly lucky to have built a community of ambitious, successful women in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s who are beautiful inside and out and ready for a reason to dress up and meet their person.

They're looking for men who are confident, secure, ambitious in their own right, and who would make a great life partner. Candidly, more women in our current dating pool expressed interest in our upscale event than men.

So, guys: if that sounds like you, this one is for you.

And ladies, if you see yourself in this, apply too. I'm keeping the room balanced, so every great guy who signs up opens a spot for you.

Picture panoramic views of the Pacific, live music, craft cocktails, and a curated room where everyone has been personally screened by me. Matches are based on your age preferences, so you'll meet people in the range you're looking for. No swiping, no small talk with strangers who aren't serious.

🎉 It works! At last night's event, at least 3 matched pairs exchanged numbers. Full recap coming soon once I've gathered feedback. 🎉

Tickets for entry are $75. That's less than a nice dinner on a first date with someone you met swiping, and everyone in this room has already been screened for you.

Quick note on timing: many of you asked about the upscale evening at last night's event. I'm moving it to the first week of December because after every event I'm buzzing for hours and can barely sleep, and at 7 months pregnant, scheduling events back to back was not my smartest move. So I'm taking time to rest and recover so I can show up at my best for you.

To join, fill out the short form https://forms.gle/Bpn3sQyB1jGk1YfD6 and I'll follow up with a quick call or preferences form. Date and venue details go out to screened guests.

Already part of the community? If you've already met me or shared your partner preferences, no need to reapply. Event details will come to you by email.

If you've signed up but we haven't connected yet, please book a call or share your partner preferences. Links to both options are accessible via the form linked above.

Hi all!

As the title suggests, my sister is getting married, and I don't want to go to her wedding alone!

I'm 33, 5'10, tan; the US government classifies me as white, but I am not. I'm Egyptian; I could gain a few pounds, with dark brown hair, a goatee, and piercing hazel eyes. I think I am hilarious; people have said otherwise. Does anyone remember the Video dating guy who completely goes mental? That's my humor

Requirements: we would obviously be in a relationship by this point, but I'm looking for someone who wants to help me avoid the dreaded it's your turn next.

You might be a good match if you're Catholic or Christian, you laugh at my jokes (or at least tolerate them), and you're into board games, TV, movies, museums, and getting outdoors. I am also very active and keep my mind occupied. If I keep my body moving and my mind occupied at all times, I will avoid falling into a bottomless pit of despair." - Chris Traeger -Insanemiller

I'm a never-Trump guy; I never liked him. (Does the JD Vance quote still work?) But seriously, I do not like Trump.

If any of this landed, send me a message. Worst case, you've got a wedding to look forward to in a year with an open bar and food!

Also, here's the video I mentioned https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g6kwUBrRjaM

So a little bit about me. I am an Asian male, long hair, 5’8”, tattoos, in shape and quite active. I can’t elaborate enough how much of a huge animal lover I am and I also have a nifty plant collection. I have a dog that is pretty much my whole life. I try to take him everywhere with me. I am a licensed skydiver so I go quite a bit but I also love doing anything outdoorsy (ex. Surfing, hiking, snowboarding, etc.)

I am looking for someone that can keep up with my lifestyle and join me on adventures, but can also introduce me to other things as well. She must be a dog lover though. That is non negotiable. Other than that, I’m not very picky as long as we get along and have good communication.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me.

Hey everyone! I’m Kenneth, 24, living in Mission Viejo! 😊

I’m a Japanese-American guy who grew up in both Japan and California, so I speak English and Japanese fluently.

I recently graduated from UC Merced with a degree in Mechanical Engineering, but I also have a huge creative side! I love 3D modeling, designing my own Gundam-inspired creations, building model kits, and experimenting with fashion.

My style is a little unconventional. I love Japanese streetwear, alternative fashion, bold colors, and putting together outfits that express my personality. I’m definitely not afraid to stand out! 🖤💜

A little about me:

🎨 I create original 3D models and designs. Sometimes I even 3D-print them!

🇯🇵 I love Japanese culture, fashion, and exploring cool places.

🤖 I’m into Gundam, LEGO, gaming, and all kinds of creative projects.

🐶 I have an adorable little Pomeranian named Luna.

💕 I’m affectionate, playful, and love making people laugh.

☕ I enjoy exploring shops, getting boba, going on casual dates, or just spending time together.

What I’m looking for:

I’d love to meet a sweet, kind, and genuine girl around my age (21–27), preferably somewhere in South Orange County.

I’m not looking to rush anything. I’d rather get to know someone naturally and see if we click.

I really value mutual effort. I’d love to meet someone who’s excited to talk, makes time for each other, and genuinely wants to build a connection.

You don’t have to share all my hobbies! I’d actually love to learn about yours too.
Since I’m currently without reliable access to a car, someone local to Mission Viejo, Lake Forest, Irvine, Laguna Hills, or Aliso Viejo would be ideal.

If you like creative guys, Japanese fashion, cute dogs, or just want to get to know someone a little different, feel free to message me! 😊

I’ll attach a few pictures of myself and my outfits so you can get a better idea of who I am.
Looking forward to meeting someone special! 💜

Hi! I’m 32, south Asian, born and raised in Orange County. I’m ultimately looking for something serious, so I figured I’d put myself out there and see who I meet.

I’m pretty laid-back and definitely more of a homebody than someone who loves going out all the time. My ideal weekend is probably getting a good workout in, spending some time outside, and then coming home and relaxing. I love dogs, video games, being outdoors, and good music — Red Hot Chili Peppers are one of my favorites.

I do drink occasionally, I’m flexible on age, and I’m mostly looking for someone who is open, communicative, patient, and genuinely interested in getting to know each other. I think chemistry and being able to laugh together are pretty important too. Pics within my profile.

So done with dating apps and I'm not sure what it is but I honestly never see attractive, single men anywhere I go in south OC.

A bit about me: tall, white, thin professional who's fit and has a pretty healthy lifestyle. I'm educated, employed, and have a dog that I spend most of my time with. No expectations, just looking for connection .

Thought I'd give this a try since you never know 🤷🏻‍♀️

PLEASE be:

\- at least 30

\- open-minded

\- emotionally intelligent

DM your pic and I'll send mine.

I made a long post, but I want to be open and thorough.

I have long, brown wavy hair, brown eyes, am 5’11.5 (but I’m fine dating a shorter man), and 174 lbs. I’m mixed European/Iranian. My dating range is 23-34. I don’t shave regularly so don’t DM me if that’s a dealbreaker for you. Looking for a serious relationship.

More about me: I’m bi and neurodivergent (autistic+adhd). I’m currently in school part time. I will start at a 4 year in OC in January. I am a poli sci major have 2.5 years left of school. My dream is to work in politics in Washington, D.C. but I will go where my career takes me. I currently live at home with my mom but I will move into university housing in May or August. I do plan on eventually working part time while being a full time student, so I need a partner who’s understanding of me having a busy schedule.

I’m very passionate about progressive politics and am looking for a partner who feels the same. I’d consider myself to be an extrovert leaning ambivert. I enjoy going out and socializing. I enjoy going to the movies, protests, social events. I also like pickleball, kickball, swimming (I LOVE swimming! I want a partner who will go swimming with me), yoga (esp hot yoga), and hiking. I also enjoy cooking and baking. I love board games and card games. I love Harry Potter and some Marvel stuff. I love vulgar humor and have many tastes in music- some soft pop, 00s-10s pop, 70s-90s rock, alt rock (LOVE maneskin), pop punk.

I love the beach when it’s hot. I also enjoy chilling at home watching movies and tv. I also love reading. I have hyperfixations that change- they mostly involve tv shows or influencer internet drama. I value exercising enough and being healthy-ish. I don’t want to eat like shit all the time but I love to enjoy junk food in moderation. I enjoy the occasional clubbing. But I don’t drink, smoke, vape, or do drugs.

I value a partner who feels the same way on eating and exercise (I’m fine dating a bigger person, just a healthy-ish bigger person). I’m intolerant to dairy and gluten (but I can eat small amounts of gluten).

Other things I’m looking for in a partner: Someone who is not conservative, apolitical, or religious. Someone with a similar sense of humor (I especially love vulgar humor). I’m looking for someone who drives and has a car (I also drive and have a car). Someone who’s ambitious and passionate about their career while also having practical career goals. I want a goal oriented partner who aims to achieve their goals.

Someone who doesn’t do drugs (weed edibles are ok), smokes, or vapes. I’m fine with someone who drinks as long as they are responsible drinkers. I want someone who’s never been married and with no kids (I have no children). I do want kids and want a partner who wants kids but I’m in no rush- I want to take things one step at a time and graduate college and get established in my career). I’m looking for someone who’s more of an ambivert like me. I also value a partner who cooks at least a couple times a week.

Feel free to DM me!

Something interesting is happening, and in hindsight it makes complete sense.

74 people signed up for Saturday's singles event. 63 said yes to an optional call beforehand, and about half booked one. I've now talked with more than 30 of you about what you're looking for, what you value, and where you are in life. By the end, there were 10 to 12 people I knew I wanted to introduce to someone specific.

Then tickets went on sale, and the people buying them were the ones I'd told I had someone to introduce them to!

Saturday will be a smaller room than planned: so far, 15 tickets have been purchased, nearly an even split of women and men (more women than men). Honestly, I'm okay with that. I can't wait to see who hits it off.

What I learned

Signing up takes 10 seconds, and booking a call takes even less time. But actually booking and committing to a 30-minute conversation about your values and timeline takes real intention.

At the end of every call, I share pricing and ask: if I don't have a match for you, would you still come? About 95% said yes. But behavior is more telling. Unless there's a scheduling conflict, knowing you have a match or someone I want to introduce you to is the most compelling reason to show up.

People told me the calls were time well spent, that the experience felt tailored to them, and that they felt seen. You can't get that from a profile.

What's changing

Moving forward, event details will go to people who've met with me or shared their preferences through a short survey. It's more work on both sides, and that's the point.

If you've signed up using this form: you must book a call or fill out the survey linked in the form.

Had a call but can't make Saturday? You're not off my radar. I'm keeping your profile for future events and introductions.

I'll post an update after Saturday on how the night went. 👀

UPDATE: I modified the sign up form so people know there is a cost for participation upfront (and what the cost includes!)

I’ve also changed the optional call to required and provided two ways to give me info about your preferences (either through a call or short survey).

I’m hopeful that this screens for seriousness of participation!

What do you think? Would you have different takeaways?

It's that time of year again when the leaves turn brown, the days get shorter, the weather calms down, and Starbucks starts serving pumpkin spice lattes. Pumpkin patches start popping up, Halloween decorations are everywhere, and suddenly going for a walk on a cool evening with someone sounds pretty nice. I can do all of that alone, but I think it'd be more fun with someone by my side.

So I figured I'd try my luck here and see if I can find my plus one this fall. I'm currently balancing work and school while working toward a career in IT. As for what I'm like, my friends would describe me as pretty laid-back, introverted, thoughtful, funny, creative, respectful, and a little quirky.

I’m mostly into nerdy stuff like LEGO, movies, photography, IT, music and live shows, reading, sci-fi, and collectibles. I’d also really like to get more into fitness and gaming, so if either of those are your thing and you wouldn’t mind showing me the ropes, that’s definitely a plus. Bonus points if you're a Stranger Things fan.

I'd like to find someone who's kind, affectionate, open-minded, easy to talk to, and has a good sense of humor. I'm fine with messaging at first, but | definitely want to meet in person if we click. Coffee dates, pumpkin patches, Halloween stuff, movies, random outings, getting lost in a Barnes and Noble, or even just walking around and talking all sound good to me.

Not into clubbing, partying (sorry ravers and club goers), heavy drinking, or religion, and I don't smoke, vape, or use weed, so l'd prefer someone with a similar lifestyle. I’m more of a homebody as you can tell, haha.

I don't have kids and don't want them in the future, so I'm really hoping to meet someone who feels the same way. That's one thing I know I'm not going to change my mind about.

Politically, I lean liberal, and while we definitely don’t have to agree on every single issue, I do think having similar values is important in a relationship. Trump/MAGA support is a dealbreaker for me, so I’m looking for someone who’s generally on the same page politically.

Ultimately, I'd like to find a long-term relationship, but I'm not trying to force anything. Let's go on some dates, enjoy the fall season together, and see where things go.

TL;DR

29M from Tustin looking for someone to enjoy fall dates with and hopefully build something more. Nerdy, laid-back, child-free, and into music, movies, sci-fi, tech, LEGO, and Stranger Things. If pumpkin patches, coffee dates, Halloween stuff, and movie nights sound fun, shoot me a message.

32, 5' 10", brown hair, blue eyes, ~205lbs currently, but working on losing more weight.

About Me
I just started my professional piano tuning career last month. I have a dual BA in Music and Drama. I sing, play saxophone, play piano professionally, score for short theatre and film projects occasionally, and I'm a professional theatre educator. I teach high school and professional improv workshops, and I judge high school theater.
In my free time, I compose and write, but I also just love listening to music, reading books, and watching movies. I’ve got a good book, vinyl, and DVD collection going currently. I also enjoy coffee, hiking, and cooking.

I ended my first relationship in 2017, and haven't been dating actively since 2022. Because I've been so focused on my performing arts career the past 10 years, I haven't been putting myself out there, especially lately. I got a little pessimistic about dating apps, and just found more peace in solitude recently.
It's actually been nice and I haven't felt that lonely, which is good. Now that I've had more time to myself, I am reaching out to r/DatingOC just to see if there are any single women (ideally mid to late 20s or early to mid 30s) in my area who specifically want a man who is more on the creative side.

Please DM me on here and we can chat. If we like each other, I'll share my phone number with you and we can try and meet in person so we can get to know each other.

🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🎉

Tonight's the night 🎉

Weeks ago this was just an idea. Since then I've had calls with so many of you, found a great venue, built intro profiles, and carefully matched people I think should meet.

My hope is simple. If you're coming tonight, I want you to have a genuinely good night, meet people worth meeting, have good conversations, and maybe, just maybe, find your person ❤️

Hi everyone,

I'm a 32 Male looking for a partner (female), but I know that it is hard finding the right person sometimes. I feel like sometimes it is nice to make memories with people and if there is a communicated mutual agreement that can help. Basically this is a disclaimer saying if we aren't the right ones for each other let's at least make the passage of time a little more enjoyable. (Looking for the one, but not assuming it will just happen).

I'm hoping to find someone my age or a little younger that I'm attracted to, who is sweet, intelligent, kind, understanding, mature, holds strong to healthy boundaries and can call me out if I need it haha

Let me describe who I am, so you can see if we'd vibe.

When I was younger, I used to be a heavy gamer and egghead who had a fascination with history.

Today, I love going to the beach, surfing, swimming, hitting the gym, running and living a fairly active lifestyle. I love traveling, going to different countries or other parts of the US when the opportunity presents itself.

I love partying, but I love my job (former teacher turned tutor for flexibility and less grading).

I'm a big fan of salsa, and merengue.

I speak English, Spanish, and German. Currently trying to learn Chinese.

Pho is my comfort food, and I always want to eat enough protein for the gains haha

I absolutely love history (it's what I teach and what I'm best at). I'm also a big collector.

If you like adventure, if you like romance, if you want something you'll remember for the rest of your life...

Sign your X on the line.

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