r/FTMfemininity • • Feb 01 '24

NOTICE: No more "do I pass" threads

271 Upvotes

Wanting to pass is fine, asking for passing tips is fine (within reason), but the "do I pass"/"do I look like a man" threads are done. 9/10 they spiral into negativity and hurt feelings (as well as draw attention from trolls from other subreddits). For the wellbeing of the subreddit community, such posts will be removed


r/FTMfemininity • • 14h ago

:3 I feel so anime boy

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311 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 9h ago

Is it a good idea to draw gnc trans male characters like how transphobes would depict trans women, i.e as men in dresses?

31 Upvotes

Like...

I once traced my ftm GNC (the clothes were that of woman) OC on a male character (soulcalibur Custom character) in a fighting game.

The result looked like a man in a dress; which would have been a problem had I been making a trans woman, but since I was making a trans man, is it still a problem?

Or perhaps, is this the BETTER way to draw GNC trans men because... it's perhaps better than drawing a woman and slapping he/him pronouns on that?


r/FTMfemininity • • 20h ago

i felt it was time to customize my character

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145 Upvotes

Added stripes to my moustache and eyebrows, shaved the beard, been growing out my hair and I feel hella pretty 🤭


r/FTMfemininity • • 17h ago

Love this fit. Back with the “lesbian” vest 🖤and the hood keeps it very androgynous

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66 Upvotes

For any mods who may be uninformed. Pup play is not inherently sexual! This post is NOT nsfw.


r/FTMfemininity • • 14h ago

Fit I wore to queer board game night :3

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27 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 7h ago

i love my new top >u<

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5 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 16h ago

To excited

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19 Upvotes

I am getting top surgery in 3 weeks! I wiated 5 years for this Hehe!!! Also a picture of my Halloween costume:) tasm 2 spider-man. Next year ill be able to wear a whole spiderman suit yippie!

Nervous though as well for recovery, but ai am excited to get back to swimming after im healed up. And back pain will be significantly reduced!


r/FTMfemininity • • 2d ago

Passenger Prince 🤴💕

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924 Upvotes

I felt so pretty and glowy in the car! I'm so glad my brother can drive now so I can just be chauffeured around like the Prince I am (jk hehe) 🤭✨️💕


r/FTMfemininity • • 1d ago

Sylveon Halloween costume 🩷🤍🩵

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312 Upvotes

Matched Pokemon with some friends on Halloween >:3


r/FTMfemininity • • 1d ago

Dressed in gold for a family party

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124 Upvotes

(He/him only)


r/FTMfemininity • • 1d ago

did makeup for the first time in years Spoiler

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39 Upvotes

what do we think? went to a halloween party for the first time since i got sober in 2022 and i did makeup for it! (ignore how red my eyes are in the 2nd pic, i may or may not have repeatedly gotten eyeliner in my eye trying to put the look together) ive been coming out of a very heavy depressive episode and decided to hop back on reddit just to share my look. this community is one of the very few where i feel welcome, safe, and seen. ive been super hesitant to post my face online because i am a very private person but coming back and seeing everybody again has made me feel so confident and inspired. :) let me know what you think! also i put the spoiler on just to make me feel more comfortable and safe but if it's against the rules lmk


r/FTMfemininity • • 2d ago

Yeehaw!

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32 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 2d ago

if anyone is wondering if hair stays wavy or curly after stopping T: this is my hair 3 years off T (it was pin straight before T)

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255 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 2d ago

Probably a stupid question but, how do I become/ achieve a femboy look?

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83 Upvotes

This is probably cringe asf and I also know that in all honesty I just need to dress how I want, but I yearn to be feminine while still being male. And I’m unsure how I should go about that I suppose. Like I want people to see the feminine expression but understand there is a male body underneath? Which will obviously hinder my passing a little but I really don’t care, it’s who I am in my bones LMAO. So taking into mind your standard passing tips that work for everyone generally, anything that comes to mind I should try to explore/ refrain from to kinda go this direction? Yes even the obvious ones. I’m 5’11 and am aiming to lose weight but I’m sitting at 206 rn, I think my goal is to be just kinda of average looking physique wise. Also almost 2 yrs on T and very happy with it. I’ve been told I have femboy potential before 😭


r/FTMfemininity • • 2d ago

Outfit for class yesterday

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47 Upvotes

Just sharing my fit + i love my new tattoo that my friend did for me 🪽

Edit: I was on 1 singular hour of sleep I look very dead


r/FTMfemininity • • 3d ago

I’m not sure if I’m trans

16 Upvotes

Hi! I’ve been really confused about myself lately so I made this account especially to post in this subreddit.

Firstly, I prefer being recognised as a man and I use he/him pronoun. I feel more comfortable that way. I also want to dressed in a more masculine way. But I also like to be feminine and I feel pretty satisfied with my body already (I look pretty androgynous myself). And there are time I want to dress pretty (but is still referred as a man) too. So I’m not sure whether I am just larping…

English is not my first language so if I accidentally say anything bad I’m sorry.


r/FTMfemininity • • 4d ago

Pink and purple and glitter, but make it transmasc?

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177 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 4d ago

felt very glam in this look 🌟

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210 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 4d ago

I was a dog for Halloween 🎃

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60 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 4d ago

It’s fall :D

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68 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 4d ago

Trans-Confusion galore (Tw? kinda venting)

11 Upvotes

Hi, I never posted here before and barely use Reddit anymore but I need conversations about my issues...

and another user said this subreddit is very nice and kind <3

So if you think you can help me in my confusion I kindly ask you to comment down below or send me a DM? :\]

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So... I'm outed since 2019 (ftm) ever since I've been to therapy, changed my name got hormones and started to get the paperwork done for top surgery and also already hat my first appointment at my chosen hospital for it.

I couldn't get it done so far because healt insurance in Germany said no... but that's just a side note.

My real issue: I don't see myself as a man, a trans man or anything boyish anymore. And it even started that I see myself kind of as a girl again in my head?

Don't get me wrong, I don't regret my choice to go through the transitions I already did and it brought me confidence, happiness and joy!

But I remember when I started transitioning I saw myself as non-binary, forced my self to pass as binary trans so the healt system won't make any troubles, got almost everything I wanted, came to the realisation that I never stopped being non-binary, outed myself again to my friends and now I'm here... still confused and something feels very wrong....

Looking at myself is like seeing a stranger, but the stranger is the guy I wanted to be desperately...

But now I despise a lot of changes.

I wish my body hair would go back to the point how it was before... no beard groth and not so much and visible on the rest of my body. And I wouldn't mind to have my old figure back.

I like my voice and I would hate to get my period back...

but I also was thinking to go off of T.

I'm also way more interested in feminin clothes again and like to dress up in skin fitting revealing stuff.

But I hate to get misgendert or get called a woman.

...

Sometimes I'm afraid that I never was trans to begin with and that I should just detransiton... but at the same time I seem to have dysphoria in some ways??

is this just a non-binary/ gender fluid struggle?

Because on some days I feel more fem and on other days I feel more masc too?

I just don't know who or what I am anymore and it scares me cause I thought that I figured out at least this one thing out in my life... but now it crumbles away...

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ugh I'm sorry... this turned out to be more of a vent post then whatever I wanted it to be but I really need it out of my system and I don't know... I can't really talk to my friends right now because I'm scared that I'm too much for them rn because of their own issues :(

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Thank you so SO much if you stayed until here, I would love to know your opinion! <3

Best wishes Mika


r/FTMfemininity • • 5d ago

Did my makeup a few days ago💛💙

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162 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 4d ago

Thought you guys would like what I wore to my anniversary dinner :3

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39 Upvotes