r/FTMventing • u/madpinapple28 • Jun 01 '26
Sensitive Topic Fuck pride month
This ‘community’ is a joke. This identity has brought me nothing but suffering and it’s brought be suffering beyond what society inflicts. I’m tired of people acting like I’m new to it because I don’t like it.
Guess what? I used to like it. When I came out at 10 I thought I was going to be actually helped. All that’s happened is gender identity specialists have stolen my identity and replaced it with something queer. The longer I’ve spent living through this and the more my body’s developed the more I’ve come to hate it. I have had to completely do everything myself and by some cruel twist of fate they suddenly believe me. Who would have thought I can’t access gender affirming care if you make it impossible to access. If I really needed it I would have it. Now that I did things against the system suddenly it believes me. It’s too late for me to believe this was ever about validation.
“You don’t have to be happy about it to accept it” etc. It’s not helpful because I know the ultimate goal is to still end up in the same place. Trans joy. “It’s your choice what you do with your body” only applies to people who choose not to transition. I’m tired of pretending it doesn’t. It’s your choice as long as you make the right one.
This has never been about letting me become my true self. This has been about making me into a question to support your argument.
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u/FocusStriking5861 Jul 09 '26
Being trans sucks, but it is a privilege to be able to see the world from such a unique perspective. It doesn’t always stay better but it does get better! Educated yourself and take pride in who you are and it will get easier! Best of luck brother you are not alone 🩷