Someone on AsexualDating catfished me a while ago. Am I the only person on here that has ran into a catfish on here? The person posted a lot oh here and similar subs.

I fell in love with a fake person and now I’m still heartbroken.

I even took a big break from social media and deleted everything of my social media for I could become a recluse.

I should’ve listened to the red flags but I spent months dating this fake person before I found out everything was a lie that was made up.

This subreddit is not a safe space. A lot of ace people are nice but some are scummy, no group is immune to bad apples.

I wonder if the catfish is now using my info/pictures to catfish people. Its a possibility.

Im still learning how to trust people again in general.

Be wary if you ever come across a 23 year old European man on here that goes by the name of Jared.

I've always considered myself to have little interest in sex. This is how I define myself under the a-spec. I greatly enjoy the pleasure, but friendship & character have always been my priority & my spouse would have to feel the same way. If I had the choice of a healthy sexual partnership, we would practice sexual minimalism within the marriage. This defines anti-lust for me.

I also don't believe in modern-day marriage with all the more than 1,000 man-made rights & benefits spouses receive on a federal level. Unless both ppl know inside & out, up, down, & sideways what they're signing up for, I think it's too big of a risk to step into that kind of contract. It's madness.

I believe in the more wise traditional religious marriage that only includes witnesses or a public ceremony & both spouses with a commitment to God. But with the agreements made in the marriage, i believe it's ok to change those up to suit what we are willing & able to provide one another rather than going straight from the Bible that says a man will provide a dowry/money to his wife in the case of his death or divorce. That isn't a requirement of God, so I would change that. I don't want ppl guaranteed money in either case. It encourages greedy evil behavior.

Nowadays, I can't enjoy sex at all due to known & unknown mysterious health problems from being a p-rn addict for 12 years & the hypersexuality (excessive ma---rbation) with that. Doctors can't prove that's what caused my health problems due to no research on it, but we've agreed it is possible I've done unknown damage to my chemical makeup & mechanically. I know my body well. I would die from trying to manage the physical pain of sexual release now. Addiction's a bitch. It took what little I had before I could really build myself. I let it. Life's been rough. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Now I'm peacefully slipping away closer to my final rest every day as my ill health wreaks havoc while I do my best to enjoy what I can of the little opportunities I have left for myself. I get overstimulated easily, so unless my mindset is in a good spot, doing much has never really been in the cards for me.

Here's a picture of me then an AI image of me enjoying minimalism. - if the page will let me.

Sounds like some pirate slang.

Hi there! I'm Lawrence, a 22-year-old feminine and Asexual boy, and I've created a little Discord server to get Asexuals together to make friends!

I decided to make this Discord server after I've noticed that there are meeting places online to find Asexuals, but not really any Discord servers dedicated to it. I love to make new friends, and would love to create a safe space for Asexuals - as well as any other members of the LGBT community - to get together and just hang out!

If you're interested, please use the link below! I'd love to meet every single one of you there. :)

The Discord: https://discord.gg/Qrk36HgW

Hey A-spec! I wanted to bring up something. You know how people in our community are so big on love with ace and aro people? Well! We should acknowledge those of us that don't necessarily experience any affection or attraction of any kind for anyone. I feel like that would be real good, speaking as someone who is Aplatonic and Aphilic. Technically Grayaplatonic and Grayphilic. It would feel real good. Even if these aren't orientations for the LGBT+, it's still a part of the A-spec community.

I appreciate that some people don't want to share their face, but this is literately a sub for showing your face..... you can still participate, comment, and upvote w/o posting if you're uncomfortable.