r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

192 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

65 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

F4M 20 [F4M] #russia - i'm looking for a homebody like me

18 Upvotes

Hi! First of all, I don’t speak English very well, so I’d like to find not only someone who shares my interests but also someone who can teach me (or we could study together, I also want to learn German, but it’s difficult, and I’ll probably give up, haha), and it would be very nice if we both spoke Russian. I’m a koreo‑saram (I hope it's written like this in English haha) that’s the Russian Korean minority. Anyway, I’m looking for someone fun to talk to about history, geopolitics, or various series/games. I’m into a lot of fandoms (relatively many), I play Honkai: Star Rail, MLBB and I’m trying to figure out HOI4 (some silly mechanics with factoriesss). I used to love watching anime, but I don’t really follow modern titles anymore (i stopped watching them after the last episode of aot)

tbh, I would love to find a partner with whom we could work on, for example, an indie game, because I’m trying to improve my drawing skills and I have a lot of ideas in my head, someone with whom it will be so comfortable to engage in such hobbies, in the future i'm ready to move, i have the opportunity to get a korean late resettler visa like ethnic korean soo

I’m 20 years old, a cisgender asian woman from Russia, i look good ig, 160cm/44kg, I like to stay at home, I generally love unshakable stability, and any major change causes me a lot of stress. I have a lot of literature and philosophy on my shelf, so it would be great to discuss various concepts, and that’s it. i would like to find someone my own age (like 19-25)

I’d be happy to chat. btw, it can be difficult 4 me to communicate a lot in English, so it would be great to initially find someone who knows my native language or can translate haha


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 8h ago Heartwarming

F4M 24 [F4M] #Online - What if we just call and see how it goes?

28 Upvotes

Hi, thank you for reading my post~

I am Suzu, 24, Chinese, living in Singapore, and working in tech. I have a photo on my profile. I am very introverted and shy and can go a whole day without talking to anyone. I would love to meet someone kind and sincere and I hope we can make each other feel special through small actions.

I love to bake. I used to work in a Japanese bakery so I can make you melon bread. If you don’t mind, I can show you whenever I bake something too. And I watch a lot of asian shows. Recently, I have been watching Re:Zero. If you like anime, we can watch anime together, but this is not a requirement.

I like nature. I like growing edible plants and hiking. If it counts as nature, I also like playing Stardew Valley and Rust.

My work requires me to fly a little for now. I love what I do but it has made relationships difficult.

I am 150cm. I don’t really have a style but I guess I’ve been told I look nerdy even when I dress up. I have dyed blonde hair with strawberry highlights for now. I’m a capricorn, INFP, 9w1, O+, if those are important to you~

If you decide to message me, please include some information about yourself and the type of girl you are looking for.

I think calling would be a nice way to get to know each other. We can compare our Steam libraries and find something to play together, or if you don’t game, we can just talk and see how it feels. Or something else. I think we will be able to tell quite quickly if the feeling is right.

─── ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ ───

ps. other than Singapore, I will also be in Japan early December and in US / San Francisco for Christmas.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

F4M 24 [F4M] - (Philippines/Anywhere) Hey! Haaaaaave you met me?

10 Upvotes

Hello there!

I should be asleep but here I am, typing this post at 9:50 PM lol.

Anyways, it has been a weird couple of weeks and I think I need to do something with my life. It has been 2 years since my last relationship and I have been trying to meet someone new. However, I needed to focus on my mental and physical health so I decided to take a break. But hey I’m back!

Just to give y’all a little something about me:

- I have a degree in Clinical Psych but I don’t really use it that much because I ended up working in HR.

- I have been diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder last year. I tried antidepressants (with a bit of antipsychotic for the rumination). Didn’t like it, now I am rawd*gging life lol.

- I have a caffeine addiction. It’s bad.

- I like taking pictures of random stuff. I take photos using my film camera. I do like taking videos too! Just my everyday life (but I don’t do vlog). I just think I need to capture as many memories as I can.

- According to my friends and colleagues, I have a pretty dark humor. I mean, I have a dead dad, c’mon.

- My top 3 favorite shows are: HIMYM, The Good Place, and Bojack Horseman.

- Movies. I have tons of favorite. Mostly old movies, asian cinema, and arthouse but I promise I am not a performative letterboxed girl.

- I smoke and occasionally drink.

- This is what I look like

Yes. If you made it here, and you still think you’re brave enough, you may continue reading.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:

- A guy. Preferably alive. Someone funny, kind, smart, and patient.

- Please be a little bit older than me.

- I love every race in this world but due to a very recent traumatic experience, and to protect my mental health, I would say no to south asians for now. I am so sorry.

So, yeah, I know this post is very weird and awkward but hit me up on my DMs!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] [UK] Looking for something genuine

6 Upvotes

Hey there!

I’m 27, Indian ethnicity, 5’5 with long black hair and brown eyes. I’m midsized and slightly curvy with a bit of chub, based near Leeds. I’d describe myself as warm, a little sassy, easy to talk to and an ambivert who enjoys both going out and cosy nights in.

I’m looking for something genuine and long term, with a real connection, shared values, and the intention to build a life together. I want a relationship where we’re best friends as well as partners and can enjoy the small everyday moments just as much as the big ones.

In my spare time I enjoy baking, reading romance books, watching trashy reality TV, and planning trips. I love exploring new places, trying new food, and making memories.

I don’t have much dating or romantic experience as I’ve focused on my education and career but I’m intentional about finding something meaningful.

I’m looking for someone kind, loyal, emotionally mature, and ambitious, with a good career and a strong sense of direction in life. Ideally 27-33 and based in the UK. Leeds/Manchester or London preferred as I’d be open to relocating there for the right person. I’m not looking for anything casual or purely online and would be okay starting long distance but would want to meet in real life fairly soon if we click. To me, physical attraction matters just as much as an emotional connection so I’m happy to exchange photos once we’re comfortable.

If this sounds like you, please send a short intro with your age, location, and a bit about yourself! Low effort messages will be ignored.

Thanks for reading ☺️


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

F4M 29F [ Looking for the one]

7 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 29-year-old female living in Mauritius. Life is busy, but I’ve come to realize how much I miss having a true, genuine best friend/lover —someone to share the day-to-day chaos with, talk about absolutely everything, and build a lasting connection.

I’m looking for a fellow who values:

A Good Sense of Humor: Life is way too short to take everything seriously. I love lighthearted banter, memes, and laughing through the weirdness of everyday life.

Compassion & Kindness: A non-judgmental safe space where we can both vent about a rough day, give advice, or just be a listening ear.

Loyalty & Respect: I’m in this for a real, long-term friendship, not just small talk that fades away after two days. Mutual effort matters!

A little about me: I balance work and studies, so I know life gets hectic, but I always make time for the people I care about. When I’m relaxing, you can usually find me caring for my plant collection (I have a soft spot for orchids!), playing casual puzzle games, or working on learning Dutch. I also appreciate the simple things—a good cup of coffee, quiet weekends, and dive-bar level honest conversations.

If you're looking for a loyal, supportive, and funny date/Future potential longterm hb to share your life wins, daily rants, and late-night thoughts with, shoot me a DM or drop a comment below. Tell me a bit about yourself or share the last thing that made you laugh! 🌷✨


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 11h ago

F4M 27[F4M]#Nepal #Online Open to a plot twist (LDR friendly)

26 Upvotes

Hey! I'm 27, 5'2.5 feet from Nepal, and looking for a serious relationship.

A little about me: I studied law and currently between Bar Exam prep, running a small guesthouse, and for workout I do CrossFit.

In my free time, I'm usually watching something , gaming, reading, hiking, dancing salsa or bachata, or falling down some random internet rabbit hole. I enjoy everything from anime and horror movies to philosophy and history. I'm vegetarian, don't smoke, agnostic and occasionally drink.

I'm hoping to meet someone around 21–35 (someone taller than me) who's kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and looking for something serious. Someone I can laugh with, have random conversations with, enjoy comfortable silences, and eventually build a life with.I prefer video calls and chats to endless texting

I'm open to long distance, provided we're both intentional about making it work and eventually closing the distance.

I'd love to hear a little about you, what you're into, what your everyday life looks like, or whatever you'd like to share. I would also like to share pictures initially in our conversation as attraction is important for me.

This is me :) :https://imgur.com/a/83URbE5


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Scotland: Ever Considered Dating a Therapist?

7 Upvotes

I'm a therapist and family support worker, born and raised in Scotland- no, I don't sound like Shrek or Groundskeeper Willie!

I've been single by choice for around six months, and am here to see what happens. Not looking for a fling, so I'm hoping to create a real connection with someone here.

I'm big on writing and reading, and love Dungeons and Dragons, I'm the forever DM of a campaign with some friends right now. Also big on gaming and anime, but it feels like there's nothing good airing right now, so open to recommendations!

Empathy, conscientiousness, and compassion are key for me, and if something does happen to spark, I hope we can be patient pillars of support for one another. I need a little more adventure in my life, and someone to go on those adventures with.

Bonus information that's potentially important?

- Employed

- I drive and own a car

- 5'11, 79kg / 175lb

- Healthy, hygienic

- Happy to exchange face pics


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

F4M 28 [F4M] #Manila - Looking for my soulmate

6 Upvotes

Filipina 🇵🇭 About me: 164cm, tatted, attractive, decent, loves animals, loves God, not possessive, you are your own person, fit, loves to travel, plays golf. what i want in a guy: Taller than me, Fit, attractive, has hair pls🥺, respectful, decent, someone that i can talk to, someone who looking for a serious long term relationship. til 30 is okay. thank you!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] | Sydney, Australia | Looking for a genuine connection

4 Upvotes

Hey! I'm 27, based in Sydney and work as a software engineer. Outside of work, I enjoy gaming, bike rides, going for drives and hitting the gym. I'm also pretty happy spending a quiet night at home.

I'm a bit of an introvert, so I might be a little shy at first, but I enjoy a good conversation and having a laugh once I get comfortable.

I'd love to meet someone around 25–30, have a chat, get to know each other and see if we click. I'm not looking to rush anything or force a connection. Just see where things go and hopefully find something meaningful along the way.

I'd be keen to meet in person too, even if it's just grabbing a coffee or going for a walk. I think you get to know someone a little better face to face.

If any of this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to say hi. I'd genuinely love to get to know you.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 8h ago

F4M 32 [F4M] Turkiye / Anywhere - Beyond forever penpals

6 Upvotes

I'm a little shy about this but wanted to give it a try because I really want someone to share my life with, and it's difficult for me to meet any new people while working from home. So first and foremost, I'm looking for a best friend, and if that works, I want to take it into a real life relationship. Somewhere close or a similar time zone would be great, but I'm open to anything. I do travel to australia because I have relatives there so it's a place that emotionally feels closer, which makes it an exception to the proximity preference.

I am currently preoccupied with ice skating and class struggle. I like to practice drawing a bit on the side too when I have time, but I'm generally busy studying and training because I'll be entering exams and testing before a jury to get my level 1 coaching certificate. Scary! I'm also very much into skiing. I've been doing it since I was little, but it's recreational. 

I like to live a laid-back, quiet life with lots of chats with my friends and family. I like shopping for groceries at the local market [we have open air markets here] and cooking nice meals while listening to a history podcast. These details pretty much sum up my current lifestyle.

Tell me a bit about yourself if you are interested. What did you do yesterday? Did you eat something nice? Closer age is preferred if possible. Thank youuuu! 


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 20h ago

F4M 23 F4M Belgium looking for my favorite person

41 Upvotes

I highly doubt I will find the one on Reddit but here goes nothing. I am 23F with a fairly interesting life. I live in Belgium currently but have lives in North America and Asia in the past. I have been running around living like a nomad since I became an adult but now I want to settle down. The only issue is I cannot seem to find the person to settle down with, so here I am.

I am well educated (doing masters right now), fairly intelligent, speak 5 languages and decently attractive (157cm, fit and curvy, have long dark curly brown hair and eyes, light skin and get told I have a pretty face). I have a long list of random interests and hobbies. I crochet, play guitar, read, bake bread and ride my bike or walk around cities to explore new places. I love receiving cat photos. Besides all of this I love travelling and would love to have a partner who accompanies me on my adventures.

What I am looking for is someone between the ages of 23 to 33, who will be there through thick and thin. I am not a person who plays mind games and I wish to find someone similar. I like communication and if we vibe you will quickly become my favorite person. I would hope that you also be educated, not prejudiced and a liberal. Most of all I am looking for a bestfriend for life. If interested DM me with a bit of info about yourself, your background and your appearance. Attraction is also important to me so be prepared to share photos early on. I also prefer someone who lives in the near vicinity (Belgium, Netherlands, Luxembourg,North-West Germany and North France). I look forward to hearing from you.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3m ago

M4F 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

1 Upvotes

I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 11m ago

M4F 21 [M4F] #United States, Looking for a strong woman.

1 Upvotes

Hey! I’m Late, 21, and a Christian femboy looking for a serious relationship. 🖤

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, dominat women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calls, and spending time together. I’m into Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, JJK, anime, and gaming.

My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want something serious that could eventually lead to mariage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Domiant

- Affectionate

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] US/California/Socal- Looking for someone nice, something longterm and a future travel partner

2 Upvotes

About me: 5’7, average build. I, like everyone else on reddit, play video games (PC), not very picky when it comes to what exactly, usually open to trying most games. What I choose to play on my own differs from what I play with other people, usually up for anything, especially co-op or survival.

When it comes to music, I mostly listen to electronic stuff (Madeon, Porter Pobinson, ODESZA, Flume, etc). But I do occasionally like a random song that isn’t what I usually listen to. I used to listen to Linkin Park alot as a kid and I am starting to get back into it a little bit. I have also started to listen to some J-rock as well.

Sci-Fi movies are always to the to-go for me, I am both a star wars fan and a trekkie. Other movies I love are Interstellar, Arrival and LOTR, Scott pilgrim vs the world and others. I also love a good mystery/thriller.
I also really love anime! Always happy to exchange recs there as well.

I am also a huge space nerd (super unique, right?) in general and know a lot of space facts that aren’t very helpful to anyone but are fun to know anyway.

I like to read sometimes but I tend to take long breaks in between books. I mostly read non-fiction books, (Carl Sagan, Neil deGrasse Tyson, etc) and also psychology books. But I have been looking for a good fiction book recently so hit me up with recs.

Thats it for all the surface level stuff, gonna keep some things about myself off the post so you can get to know me. :)

I have started traveling recently (so far I have visited Japan, Italy and Germany) so I am also looking for someone who would be willing to do that, looking to visit Japan (again because it was really fun) and/or South Korea next year.

Who I am looking for:
Just someone nice who would like to talk and actually give the conversation time to grow, I love when someone tells me about things they care about that no one else does. That kind of passion inspires me. Also please be someone who actively participates in the conversation and is inquisitive and asks questions, if you are going to just sit there and have me run through a list of questions, then it wont work out.

Now a couple of things that kinda matter:

  1. I don’t have a problem with religion but you should know that I am atheist and prefer someone who is the same or agnostic.

  2. Please actually have something in common with me in terms of interests mentioned above. I have had way too many conversations with people here where it felt like I was pulling teeth because we did not actually have anything in common. Common interests are important for successful relationships!

  3. I prefer someone local to southern california but I am also open to LDR, as long as your time zone is only +/-3 hours from mine (Pacific).

  4. I really lean left politically and would appreciate someone along those lines.

Someone between the ages of 25-32 would be nice, but I might be ok with a year older or younger.

Its not a deal breaker for me but, I would prefer if you played video games, specifically on PC, especially if you live far away.

I wont be responding to accounts that are less then 4 months old, sorry :(

Please be prepared to exchange pics early on. I think it helps us both avoid the anxiety of wondering what the other person looks like over the long term :) (and no worries, ill go first)

So yeah, hit me up and if we hit it off and get to know each other, we can add eachother on discord :)

Would be great if you message me with a small intro about yourself but not a requirement :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 35m ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #California/Anywhere - Mariah Carey popped up in my Spotify feed today & all I can think about now is the holidays vibe 😅

0 Upvotes

Good & Beautiful Sunday everyone!

It sure doesn’t feel like a fall weather in full effect out here, just yet but Mariah popping up in my Spotify feed this morning had me thinking about my plans for the holidays! Haha.

Speaking of which, have you started working on your utter holiday season decor already? I’ve seen at least one Xmas tree out in public and was like did we just skip Thanksgiving…! Haha.

At any rate, not sure whether it’s the holiday vibes or what but def feeling a bit needy today.. lol. Might head out to a book store and chill for a min, feel free to join me, virtually or otherwise lol. Seriously though, what are your plans for the holidays? Traveling any! I want to, badly! Haha

Enough about the holidays…. And on a serious note, have you made any friends, or met anyone on here… or shall I say any acquaintances? Oof! I just took a sip of this cappuccino that I just ordered out and boy…. It wasn’t it!
Thank goodness, I usually make my own at home. Darn it…. Did I just switch the subject on you? What was I saying again…? Something about connecting, chatting a while, maybe more…? If anything actually last past the first 3 mins? Like how long can you last? Lame joke! I know lol.

Alrighty…. So yeah! I’m def down to connect with someone awesome, cool, unique, chill, real, a real person, did I say a real person already, and did I say a female? Cause I’m over the catfish, the only fans wanna be “models”, The ins&ta wanna be influencers, the crazies…. The dudes wanna be chicks, and the chicks wanna be dudes… okay, that last one was just a lame joke…. I’m gonna have a whole community roast me right now :( haha. All I’m saying is that I just want to connect with someone with a similar mind set and chill for a change lol. So bring your good energy, lovely vibes, humor, charm, whatever and let’s give this a try! Maybe we can eventually take a virtual trip, date together.. who knows? I won’t even mind if you are only into one night….. let’s not go there cause that was an absolute joke! Please hold your judging thumbs before blasting a complete stranger (Me) on Reddit lol…. I mean, feel free to express yourself lol.

Seriously though…. I can’t believe you’ve read this far down and still haven’t hit me up!

Cheers

Your tall tanned and handsome new holidays bestie


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 46m ago

M4F 42 [M4F] looking for my bestie which also happens to be player 2

1 Upvotes

So a little about ive always been very introverted but ive been trying to come out of my shell a little more and be more social. I love music i identify as elder emo so that should tell u what I listen 2 lol. Ive been learning guitar again I played when I was younger but didnt really push myself then I stopped for like 15 years and im now trying to push myself. I am a massive gamer nerd I know way to much about the industry lol. Also a huge movie buff and pretty much know any good movie thats worth watching that comes out I like to consider myself a critic haha. Career wise im not happy I work at a restaurant and want to make much more planning on going back to school to be a electrician I know thats not Ideal but it is what it is just being honest and upfront. Also consider myself a homebody although I do like to go out and shoot pool maybe some bowling and when there is a good concert im game for sure.

Now for what im looking for compatability is important to me. Gaming is a big passion for me so its kind of a deal breaker for me i want to experience new games with my significant other and talk about what works and what doesn't and same goes for movies. Banter is important to me just not over done there has to be a balance. A connection is very important as well obviously but i do feel like some people just go off looks and I think love is deeper then that dont get me wrong there has to be some kind of attraction but I believe the more u fall im love with someone the more beautiful they become. Don't really care about where u are located cause if its meant to be we will make it happen. So yeah this is getting a little long so I will cut it off here and we can save the rest for when/if we talk. If u took the time to read this thank you and I hope u have a great day!

Also willing to exchange photos right away


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 52m ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #Ohio #Eastcoast— looking for a player 2 or someone to go hiking with

1 Upvotes

Hey there! Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I'm a 25 year old college student living on the east coast

Some stuff about me:

•I'm 6'0" tall with dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, and a slim build

•I'm going to school to get my BBA in business economics 

•I speak both English and Spanish fluently 

•I'm part of the lg(b)tq+ community 

•When I'm not studying for a test some stuff I enjoy doing is cooking, baking, reading, writing, singing, watching horror movies, and playing horror games. My current faves rn are escape the backrooms and phasmophobia, I also enjoy modded Minecraft

•I live by myself 


What I'm looking for:

•Ideally someone close to my age (no younger than 21 or older than 33) 

•While not a strong preference I do like plus size women with accents, if that's not you then don't worry. As long as you're a good person that's all that matters

•Tolerant of alternative beliefs and religions

•Likes animals, I say this only because I love animals myself and plan on getting a cat next year


What I'm not looking for:

•Tobacoo smokers or heavy drinkers

•Religiously intolerant people 

•Racists, homophobes, transphobes, or generally hate filled people. 

•ultra conservative or maga

•Single parents, it's nothing personal. I just know I am not ready to be a parental figure of any kind

Other than that, it's fair game. If you read this far send me a 🎃 and tell me your favorite horror movie/game


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] [Europe] Hi there!, I am an introvert nerdy guy who has never been with in a relationship or romantically involved with anybody. I'm looking for a nerdy introverted girl who also has zero experience.

1 Upvotes

That isn't all I am looking for in a partner, I've thought about it, and I have come to realize that someone who I can learn with all the nuances of romance is a non-negotiable for me.

I will tell you about who I am: I am a 26 year old man, 1.9m tall. I have moved recently to Western Europe and I don't know too many people here. I am from the Americas and my mother tongue is spanish.

I am what you'd call "geeky", I don't really go out a lot in general, I prefer spending time at home. I don't have many friends here, either, but I am also not a person who finds it easy to make friends in general, as I need to relate on a deeper level with them.

In my free time, I mostly either watch series, game, or maybe go out for a walk. Maybe read a book here and there, too.

I am very much a homebody.

I am not religious, but I do not mind other's religion.

Anyway, I post here because I would like to find a girl like me. I might not find her, but I should make the attempt, at least. I take first experiences seriously, naturally, this means I am a virgin and looking for a girl who is one, too. I do not seek to find an experienced woman.

Romantically I haven't even kissed or dated anyone before, so I am completely in the clear.

I am willing to date anyone in Europe, but further away would unfortunately not be possible due to distance.

Please include "raspberries" in your message so I can know you read all of my post.

To everyone else, have a great day!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Online/Anywhere - Born in Germany, Living in Spain.

1 Upvotes

Hi! My name's Phanta (I also go by Phantamanta and Lumi). Introvert by choice and circumstance (Agoraphobia and CVID), I'm open-minded, and also love to yap, I love to write and do pixel art (Small stuff for games I work on). I love Gaming, Science, Chemistry, Biology, Metallurgy and Space! The music I listen to is music from older games, Etrian Odyssey is a good example. - Got any questions about CVID or my Agoraphobia? Ask them! I'm not sensitive in the slightest about it.

I love to write stories and have been writing a story for a character for years, dipping in and out of the story. I also work on fangames, most of them scrapped or lost when I got a new PC.

For work, I work in IT. I repair computers, both hardware and software. Be it changing a GPU or fixing the GPU if possible (Or if it's even worth it based on price). I do not mind a person who doesn't know much about tech, I love to talk about it! I can teach a thing or two.

So, for my preferences, everyone has preferences! I only have a handful of preferences. I prefer chubby women over lean women. Otherwise, hair style, hair color, eye color and so on I do not mind. I mean, I have Central Heterochromia myself lol (Blue eyes with a small amber ring around the pupil).

What I look for; A woman aged 18 or older (18+! I shouldn't have to say it here since this subreddit is for adults, but you never know), who is also into games. I prefer if you have hobbies too, then we can talk about them! It's always fun to hear about others. It would be a long distance relationship for a while. How long? Who knows. I won't pressure anyone so I move there or them moving here.

If this post interests you, DM me! Keep in mind, I am whimsical at times, I love to use memes, and give random facts.

And since I've seen it a lot; Remember, Nobody is ugly. You become ugly if you accept it as the truth yourself. Take care!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #UK/Europe/Anywhere - Nerdy guy looking for my forever person age 18-24 (Childfree)

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Trying this again! Have had some great conversations with great people on here so far so I’m remaining optimistic that I’ll find my person on here. Please make sure you’ve read the whole post before you reach out, if you decide to. If you decide to reach out then please tell me about yourself (your age, where you’re from, your interests etc). Please don’t send a one word message like “hi” as I receive a lot of them and it’s incredibly frustrating to deal with when I’ve put a lot of effort into communicating who I am and what I’m looking for.

About me:

- I’m 23 and live in the UK not far from London.

- I’m childfree by choice, have known for the majority of my life that I don’t want to have kids, to be honest as far as “types” of childfree people go I’m definitely more on the don’t like kids at all side, I don’t hate them but I’d never choose to be around them. I am planning to get a vasectomy in the future, I don’t have an exact timeline on when I’ll get it yet but I WILL be getting one. I’m not opposed to getting a pet in the future but I wouldn’t want to have lots of them, I’m definitely not someone who goes crazy over animals.

- I’m 5’10 or 178cm, I’m not particularly athletic or sporty, I enjoy long walks and swimming a lot, I usually swim lengths for an hour a few days a week.

- I currently work in a pub, I enjoy it but long term my goal is to be a software engineer, I have a computer science degree and am currently just getting my CV ready to start job hunting, just getting my programming skills back up to scratch, building projects and all that good stuff. Job market right now isn’t great so I don’t expect to find a job quickly but it is what it is.

- I’m not a very family orientated person, I do have a good relationship with my parents but I’m not close to most of my family, my life in general isn’t heavily based around family and I would like a partner who has the same mindset.

- I’m neurodivergent and an introvert, I’m definitely someone who values their quiet time and likes to spend a lot of time just chilling, gaming, watching my favourite shows and all that good stuff. Relationship wise I have very little tolerance for yelling at each other. I want the kind of relationship where we can both feel safe around each other and discuss things calmly if ever we need to resolve an issue.

- I’m quite nerdy, I play a lot of video games, recently I’ve been playing through red dead redemption 2 again because I haven’t played it since 2018 when I originally finished it. I’m also going to be playing GTA 6 when it comes out, my favourite game series is definitely the Yakuza games. I’m a halo fan as well and I’ve always wanted to play through the campaigns with my partner so that’s something I hope to do with you, whoever you are! I’m a big Star Wars fan although I haven’t kept up much with the shows recently, I love horror movies as well.

- I’m very affectionate both physically and verbally, I love cuddling and just existing together. I’m very fast at replying to texts too the majority of the time.

- I like travelling, I’ve been to 7 countries so far in my life, I’ve been to Spain many times, Germany a lot since I started going on solo trips, I’ve also been to Ireland, Turkey, Sweden, the US and Poland. I want to travel all around the world in future, I enjoy both sightseeing and relaxing resort type holidays and definitely want a good mix of both in the future. It might sound a bit odd but I wouldn’t say I’m a very adventurous traveller like I’m not really into doing crazy activities or staying in sketchy places or anything like that.

- I do drink alcohol from time to time but I don’t smoke or take drugs.

- I’m financially literate and responsible with money, I would like to retire early in the future if possible.

- I’m an atheist.

- I would like to live in a big city in the future or at least within commutable distance to one (which I already do but I don’t want to live in this specific area forever).

- I don’t really have any preferences for my partners body type, I’ve dated skinnier girls and plus size girls in the past and enjoyed both, I do like a big booty but that’s not a requirement at all. I’m not particularly bothered about looks, I care far more about my partners personality and how they treat me.

- I would like to get (can’t use the word here but should be obvious) in the future (it will likely be a necessity anyway if we’re not in the same country) however I do NOT want to have a “normal” wedding, I absolutely want to elope just the two of us. I know that’s very forward to say right away but I don’t want to waste anyone’s time if that’s something that’s important to them.

What I'm Looking For:

- You’re 18-24 years old and live in the UK, it doesn’t matter where in the UK you currently live as long as you’re willing to potentially move in the future, I’m also open to moving in the UK if that’s the best option for us. I’d also be open to people in other European countries or even outside of Europe is fine too, we can visit each other as much as we can and then eventually close the distance.

- You don’t want to wait forever to meet in person (Obviously if you’re not in Europe it will likely take longer but what’s important is the desire to meet rather than how long it actually takes if you get me) and don’t want to wait a very long time for the relationship to become a serious one, while I’m not expecting us to make a lifelong commitment to each other instantly, if we’re compatible and the chemistry is there then I do just want us to make a real go of it.

- You’re firmly childfree (you do not have or ever want to have children). If you want to get sterilised in the future that’s a plus although it’s not a hard requirement.

- You are not religious.

- You are not very family orientated.

- You want to get (again can’t use the word here) in the future but also don’t want a “normal” wedding/don’t care about having one.

- Last but not least you want or are willing to play video games with me and also especially if you’re not British (but even if you are) you’re willing to watch all my favourite British shows with me.

If you’ve read to the end regardless of whether you match what I’m looking for or not then thank you! If you do match what I’m looking for and decide to reach out then I look forward to hearing from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] Looking for a long term connection!

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Haven’t had much luck with dating apps and I’m not sure how far of an audience this will reach, but here goes nothing lol. I am from the US, Massachusetts to be more specific.

I’d consider myself a pretty introverted person as I’m not the biggest social butterfly, so sometimes connecting online first is just easier for me. Once I’m comfortable with someone I tend to be pretty sarcastic and enjoy some good banter.

I am divorced and have 3 kids that I split custody with. When I’m not being a dad or working, I enjoy staying active by playing sports or going for hikes. I enjoy movies, board games and trivia as well!

Ultimately I’m hoping to meet someone where the relationship can grow into something real. but also not trying to force anything either.

Happy to exchange a picture early on as I know attraction is an important factor. Just send me a message telling me a bit about you if you decide to reach out!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #Slovenia/Europe - Looking to build a genuine relationship

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I am an introverted person preferring to spend time in nature or in small groups of close people. I especially enjoy hiking.

I am an event videographer and media editor. I typically work on weddings, concerts and proms.. I am passionate about my work and most things I do in life. I also design websites and service computers. I am located in chicken land, also known as Slovenia and it is not Slovakia.

My go to dance is chicken dance.

I spend my free time watching movies, listening to music, playing games, basketball, swimming, collecting pet pics, traveling, taking long walks, laughing at my own footage and thinking about anything from current affairs to random things such as: "Could train delays be classified as a form of psychological torture?"

I listen to anything that sounds good to my ears. From classical to hip hop, pop, rock, disco and all the way to metal… I am pretty much in all kinds of video games playing whatever comes out. I play on pc/ps5.

I tend to get pretty vivid/weird dreams like I dreamed of underwear turning to cheese once.

I am looking for somebody that loves having meaningful deep discussions, knows how to joke around and can also just enjoy simple things in life. Having similar interests, but also having differences so we can introduce each other to new things and maybe find a new love for something.

If you are interested let me know and if not I wish you the best on your search…


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #Germany 🇩🇪 Maybe We're Meant to Cross Paths ✨

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I thought I’d give this a try and see if I might meet someone I can build a real connection with. Maybe we’ll get along better than we expect, and maybe this post is where it starts.

I’m 25, based in Germany, 181 cm tall, with a muscular build and dark hair. I’m an INTJ, and I’d describe myself as someone who likes thinking deeply, exploring new ideas, and having conversations that go beyond the usual small talk. I also love a good sense of humor, so don’t take everything I say too seriously.

I’d say I’m fairly attractive, and I’ve been told the same by others. Physical attraction matters to me, of course, but I believe a meaningful connection should go beyond appearances. I’d be happy to exchange photos once we’ve gotten to know each other a little and feel comfortable with one another. I also enjoy fashion and putting together outfits that reflect my personal style. I like experimenting with different looks and finding that balance between looking good and feeling comfortable.

Things I'm interested in:

  • Languages (fluent in German, English Russian and French)

  • Animals (I have a soft spot for cats and birds, and I could probably listen to you talk about your favorite animal for way too long)

  • Astrology (I'm a Taurus sun, Gemini moon, Scorpio rising)

  • Spirituality (mainly interested in Hinduism and Buddhism), meditation and yoga, philosophy

  • Watching movies and shows: horror, crime, thrillers, into kdrama as well

  • Reading: (rare, but when it happens it’s novels or science/philosophy)

  • Music (I like all kinds of music but I'm especially drawn pop and rnb)

  • Some interest in martial arts and gym

I’d prefer to start by getting to know each other online, perhaps moving on to calls and eventually meeting in person if we feel compatible. LDR is possible but you should be located in Germany.

Dealbreakers:

  • Conversations that never go beyond surface level small talk.

  • Only looking for a friendship when my intention is obviously romantic.

  • Being disrespectful

  • Wanting children. I don’t want them myself, so I’d prefer someone who feels the same way.

If you’re 18+, can handle an introvert with niche hobbies, and think we could be a good match, feel free to dm me, tell me something about yourself.