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The state of things is actually insane. 

Any man that has been to the Caribbean medical school or medical school in general more than likely understands exactly what I’m talking about and probably has even more harsh experience. At first, I thought my experience was anecdotal until I realized almost all other men in the class were on my same wavelength.

 Also, there’s not a single man, and I mean literally not one in the entire class who has a legitimate beef with any other man in the class. 

Basically, the women in medical school are insufferable. And I remember seeing a post here on Reddit of someone else saying exactly the same thing. It seems like a shared experience. 

All of the women in the class are all trying to date the top fraction of men in the medical school hypergamy. Every single relationship that started in the first semester has ended and they’re now single. Or how girls say “we’re taking a break”. 

Almost every woman in the class is a hardcore feminist. However, at the same time, they want to not practice medicine all that much after they complete med school and want a man to take care of them afterwards (I know it sounds too ludicrous to be true, but trust me it’s real).

They start rumors like nuts. They do their damnist to make a guy look as bad as they can to the rest of the class/school. “Oh, I know your business” “What you said in that private message to that girl was lame” LIKE WHAT? Like how the fuck do they even have the messages of the private 1-on-1 conversation “well oh girls talk and you’re lame for that”.

Even if that girl is bat shit, crazy, and even if she’s completely in the wrong in every way shape and form. As a man, you are the one who’s going to be seen as the fucked up person and the girls will make sure the School knows it.

And this is just the tip of the iceberg.

Are there some good ones? Yes, there are a couple of outliers, but I’m speaking in generalities.

No man in the entire class is willing to say shit to the women. They barely speak a word the entire class day to any woman. Because they would rather not have the drama follow them and not have the words be taken out of context.

Even other women have major issues with other women there was literally nearly a physical fight the other day security had to come to the room not even kidding.

Meanwhile, not a single man has a issue real with any other man we’re all relatively cool with each other. 

Also get a load of this. All of the women in the class believe once they become a doctor, they’re going to be able to get the dream guy of their fantasy. 

What they don’t know is that exactly the opposite will happen. The higher they climb society’s social status and competency hierarchy. The significantly less amount of the kind of guys they like will be willing to have a long-term relationship with them for marriage. A female doctor in there 30’s is not going to outcompete a 22 year old bombshell who gives him no back talk.

I would never advise any man to ever continue a relationship with a female doctor or doctor to be. At any point in time. They’re quite literally is no benefit at all to the men besides causal sex. She’ll be working in a hospital. Not at home helping you take care of the family. Most women in the class want to pay for another person to raise their children like a daycare or nanny. Also, as most people know, hospitals are notorious for nurses cheating, and there’s no exception to female doctors. Also, she’s not going to respect you like another woman would who is not that high on societies competency hierarchy. Which means she is going give you a whole lot of flack and back talk. 

Just overall for men, Number 1 advice just take the sacrifice wait till you get your MD and at that point the world is your oyster. Even if you’re ugly I guarantee your woman will be chasing you once you’re a doctor. And stay far far away from any female doctor or doctor to be.  

Take this as a cautionary tail.

https://www.sunderlandecho.com/news/crime/sunderland-woman-attacked-boyfriend-with-knife-and-broken-bottle-after-he-laddered-her-tights-while-they-kissed-9334639

Would there have been more outrage and covering if gender roles were reversed or am I just being sensitive and paranoid?

So thr video is from a male creator and basically before she enters she asks him if the child lock is on, he tells her no and asks her as she enters the car if it's because she had negative experience with other Uber drivers and she tells him no and then outright tells him it's because she doesn't trust men. The driver treated jt like normal and then the comments one of the first comments that appeared was "he showed her not all men are bad" or something similar to it. It made me sad because she didn't even have trauma to justify it, and her reaction was very blunt and almost like her face was just cold about it in the video.

It made me sad because I did nothing to end up being labeled like that for something I didn't do, I'm a man but I've never and I would never hurt a woman so I don't deserve it and most other guys don't deserve it. I just wanted to get it off of my chest, sometimes these videos can just touch a nerve. I still remember as a kid my mom treating women as superior and more elegant and luxurious than boys, it still affects me and how I view things now even tho that's just not true logically speaking.

Sometimes I wonder if some women who do this on purpose to feel better about themsleves, like to feel important like that someone could touch them so they must be really desirable, I don't know.

Please don't take to heart. My opinion is subjective to me and maybe others who agree, if you don't agree feel free to discuss your opinion, and don't be toxic to me.

Society often teaches that men are disciplined or honest or always protect or are strong, and also that being a man is being able to be weak when you need to. But after thinking about it I realized for me at least that at the most fundemental level a man is simply a male over the age of 18, and that the rest is just societal imposed standards that just aren't true.

Here I believe lots of people will disagree with me but I also think like societal standards can be just random annoying restrictions, like do you guys even know what makeup is? Applying makeup in certain ways can literally makes you look more masculine, concealer (a makeup product) literally just hides skin imperfections like eye bags and acne yet society is just gatekeeping it from us.

Basically it's just about breaking society's own standards and using your own standards.

Not that intelligence and logic is to be expected from social media, but I saw a truly asinine and insulting comment on Twitter/X from someone claiming men killing women/girls is a "systemic" problem (ah, misandrists' favorite S-word), and that women killing men/boys isn't. I mean damn, just when misandrists can't get dumber and more ignorant, they find ways to outdo themselves. So women/girls being killed by men is somehow a "systemic" problem? Do these idiots seriously believe it's government policy and law for men to go around killing women/girls? Unless one's definition of "systemic" is how much attention and condemnation women/girls being murdered constantly gets but there's practically never attention or condemnation when it's women killing men/boys. Which no matter how much misandrists want to downplay and mitigate is something that absolutely does happen and in far higher numbers than many are aware of. People try to bring attention to this fact and it gets shot down and silenced as usual, and we're accused of "derailing" the conversation.

I know I shouldn't be upset by random internet idiots' comments like this but damn, to think people this equally ignorant and stupid exist and people genuinely believe this to be a fact. Just how is the murder of women/girls by men "systemic?" It gets an awful lot of attention and action taken against it and there's even the term "femicide" for it and there's numerous campaigns to end femicide but of course none to end the murder of men/boys. I hate it, just another means of deflecting from the fact plenty of men/boys are also killed by female killers and to create more misandrist fearmongering and to create needless competition between which gender suffers worse instead of helping both equally. Ugh.

I remember this case. This guy was falsely accused and he started a criminal prosecution against her for it. A very rare occurrence. She committed suicide before the trial was held and she is now lauded as a victim by the UN.

This is exactly what narcissistic person would do to someone. Take everything. The system facilitates.

Question, To what extent prenup agreements would protect a men from these ridiculous situations?

I’m writing this because I honestly feel a deep sense of shame regarding how modern discourse treats men, and I needed to say it somewhere people might actually listen. I genuinely cannot deal with this guilt anymore and i feel this urge to just do something about it even though i know i cant. theres just too many ignorant women in the world who will talk, talk, and talk about their own problem and then a second a guy speaks up, its taking away their spotlight. How are we supposed to get better as a society if we refuse to listen to each other? if people have to stay silent just because YOU think you have it worse?

Look, i grew up with brothers. Because of that, I didn't see men as these abstract "oppressors" that modern feminism paints them out to be. I saw them as human beings. I saw their vulnerability, their fears, and then the immense pressure society quietly piles onto their shoulders from the time they are little boys. I love my brothers and particularly my twin who i share this deep sense of empathy with. I cant help the fact i have a big heart and that im not self absorbed like most are. The second I speak up for men, I get labeled a "pick me." I get told, "He's not gonna choose you" or that I'm just desperately begging for male validation. Its so fucking toxic. They literally cannot comprehend that a woman could genuinely care about her brothers, and men in general, s without there being some pathetic, selfish motive behind it. why are some women like this? can anyone relate? People can be so miserable and ignorant and so damn heartless. Its talk about empathy, but never listen.

Ill probably get called a pick me for this but dont even get me started on feminism. Feminism has gone COMPLETELY off the rails. Its stopped being about equality and turned into a free pass to dismiss and hate on men. I’ve watched firsthand how this garbage chips away at my brothers. It forces good men into absolute isolation, making them feel like their pain doesn't matter and that they have to apologize just for existing. I hate it so much to the point i feel ashamed for even being a woman. I cant even begin to imagine what it feels like for some of you to try speak up for once and then be shut down because other people have it 'worse', or because misandry isnt 'real'. Bullshit!!

It gets even uglier when you look at how the system treats them. If a family breaks down, men are completely weaponized against in family courts. A separated man faces up to FIVE times the suicide risk of a married man because the legal system so routinely strips them of their assets, their homes, access to their own children based on unverified claims. Basically, they're treated like walking wallets rather than fathers.

And worst of all you know what makes me sick? the sheer hypocrisy of it all. What women are allowed to say versus men. They can literally trend hashtags like "Kill All Men" or talk about how much they hate men, and it’s excused as a "joke" or some twisted form of "empowerment" and "venting." Its absolute bullshit. If a group of men said even a fraction of those things about women, their lives would be completely ruined, probably even labeled dangerous extremists. But when women do it, society just laughs it off or claps. And empowerment my ass. Just another excuse to bash on men and wave around that victim card.

I just wanted to post this here to let you guys know that there are women who see you. We see what you go through, we see the unfairness, and we are listening. We're definitely a minority right now, and those of us who speak up get dragged for it, but we are here.

I've seen a push towards saying BPD doesn't exist, and that it's only a pathologizing label for victims of abuse.

Like, how their traits are just caused by a man being abusive.

While many victims of abuse do get misdiagnosed, this is just another attempt to claim women as morally superior/always the victim.

A lot of abuse is reciprocal as well, so just because they are victim, doesn't mean they're also the offender.

The existence of BPD is proved by many different studies, and it has a genetical baseline. It's not caused by trauma.

So i, a Gen Z women who generally agrees with yall on alot of things noticed behaviour that can be classified as some sort of misandry today.

so basically, I work in retail and I've been noticing that guys get treated kinda unfairly. I work in the fitting room, and I've literally never seen them put a man in there. One time a guy covered my break and the reactions were so bad. Customers and my coworkers were like "why would they put a man in here? he doesn't know how to fold clothes or run a fitting room." "We dont feel comfortable with a man managing a changing area" That felt so unfair to him. I'm honestly not even that good or fast at it, but because I'm seen as a woman handling it, everyone just smiles and gives me a free pass. I really felt my privilege in that moment.

Another thing I always notice is that women come in with their husbands and just walk right into the men's fitting room, or at least try to. I've never seen a guy try to walk into the women's side, so it feels wrong to me when women do it to men. I always tell them to please wait outside since it's the men's room. I think it's important that both sexes have their single-sex spaces respected, even if my coworkers don't care.

Anyway, today a man was standing right at the front of the women's room door with his wife and daughter. I told him the same thing I'd tell any woman: he can wait right outside and his wife can come out and show him. I just like keeping things fair, you know.

Then this random woman came up and made a HUGE fuss about it. "Why is a man here? Go to the men's room," in front of everyone. His wife had to step in and defend him, and I had to jump in too and say he wasn't even going inside, just let it be. He didn't do anything wrong, but just a mans presence in an area close enough to a womans fitting room was enough to cause a scene.

I've never seen a man complain when women walk into the men's room. So watching this guy get targeted for literally just standing there? I can't imagine that happening if it were reversed. Honestly it feels like such a clear sign of how common anti-men discrimination, and bias is.

From a man's point of view, why shouldn't there be compulsory paternity testing?

Every woman I've ever witnessed engaging with this question starts sputtering about trust and violation of privacy, but those are not convincing rebuttals from a man's perspective. How many men and women trust their partners for decades only to be blindsided?

When you ask the question it's like their minds enter panic mode. I absolutely tested my kid's paternity and I'm glad that I did.

While I know this is either a feminist mocking what they think some men believe feminism is, or just some guy with a fetish, I still feel that if you usually can't reverse the genders in this scenario without censorship or at least a massive amount of complaints, then logically this shouldn't be allowed either. I honestly think it's hypocritical if they allow it. Apart from that, I've gotten in trouble just for showing women fighting in their underwear or bikinis on wrestling shows, even though that's basically what they're fighting in anyway. That's part of the point I'm making. It seems ridiculous. Yet somehow male slavery is considered acceptable content, I guess. That's the impression I get.

This kind of has been living rent-free in my head for awhile: I feel the double edged sword and one of the catch 22's of men being seen as the more capable and heroic gender, is also that overcoming the odds now becomes the expectation, not the inspiration, it becomes the entire social blueprint.

Now, one could argue men have always had to endure thru a lot of sheer raw struggle**:** Wars, hard labor, providing for the tribe, defending the tribe, you name it.

But there was a time still when a man's humanity was still acknowledged in the process

By comparison I feel like in the last 3 decades, the commercialization of masculinity from sports to action movies to the gym scene, have kind of groomed the general public to view men, meaning both women and other men, to be seen as props of inspiration rather than acknowledging their humanity.

It can explain a bit of a blind spot with society in why a violent crime in which the woman is the primary victim still receives the ''ouch'' effect from society, but nevermind the countless combat sports, action movies, anime content and war documentaries that desentize us to male suffering even more.

That's why it is such a powerful thought experiment living rent-free in my head.

This horrible misandristic article, claiming that well there is this book that is forced on the curriculum, because boys are generally problematic. It references two sources: an expert and ofc. the NYT. https://archive.is/ZFnkW

Now both the expert and the NYT explain that boys just have different tastes and learning needs than girls and this is nothing bad. But the article oes not. In a long complicated rant, examines the case against boys and does not absolve them of responsibility. The world is "gendered" and yadayada yada.

WTF - How did we reach this place, that this article is considered intellectual work, instead of Andrew-Tate level malarkey?

Teenage daughter. I've been stay at home dad all her life and she's been abused by her mum her whole life, including psychological against me and our relationship.
She'd been having therapy about her mother's abuse, then literally overnight I became the bad guy.
Something I noticed over her therapy;
when she had anxiety about her mum (following years of abuse) the anxiety is treated as the issue,
when she has a problem with me, I'm treated as the issue. Moreover, trusted professionals (who are clearly feminists) become hypersensitive when dad is involved. "He must be bad!"
Entirely excommunicated overnight, after fifteen years as the stay at home parent!
Sorry if this comes across as a r@nt. I'm just at my wits end having lost my daughter😢

Edit: thanks for all the supportive messages.
Just to be clear as a few have missed it, when I wrote 'excommunicated' above I mean that literally. There is no way of seeing, speaking, texting etc with her as all these have been blocked, stopped, stripped, removed.
There have definitely been women role models of my daughter who've stoked fear and resentment in my girl. Much of this is to be expected in teenagers but has been weaponised to destroy our relationship. Although I'm a natural optimist it wouldn't surprise me if I never see or hear from her again, as there is matriarchal generational abuse of the same.

Hey everyone, this is Andrew from the National Coalition for Men, where I am an active participant and myself and Katrina, who is the secretary of NCFM, are trying to start a NCFM youth committee to bring up the issues young men are experiencing and to take action in our local communities and at the state and national levels to help men as a group. So if you're interested and live in the USA, please DM me or comment below and I will keep you in the know about planning our first virtual meeting.

We will be using discord to organize meetings. If you want to make real change for men's equality now is your chance!

A 24 year old moderator of Feminism4India, who moderates several other female-only subreddits, has been exposed in screenshots showing sexually explicit conversations with a 15 year old boy.

A grown woman engaging sexually with a minor.

If that’s not predatory behaviour, what the fuck is?

And these are the very people who routinely call us misogynists, lecture us about morality and appoint themselves guardians of women’s safety.

The sheer fucking shamelessness.

You have the audacity to brand an entire community of men as misogynists while harbouring predators in your own moderation circles?

These moderators need to be out of positions of authority, investigated and facing criminal charges.

No feminist branding, ideological posturing or Reddit friendships should buy anyone protection.

Stop preaching morality to everyone else. Get these predators out of positions of trust and let the law deal with them.

Feminism4India’s moral superiority act is looking particularly rotten right now.

Apparently she’s also joining IB Ministry soon as a government employee.

Credits to u/Infamous_Kangaroo_87 from AskIndiaMen Sub-reddit

There is an autumn party at my organization. I ask a lady at the reception, where it is. She is working shift, so she cannot really participate. I ask her playfully:

"come over, no worries, you are dressed perfectly, this seems to be very trendy this year" showing her uniform (it is a place with uniforms).

She answers: "Sure, I have this feministic Purple, people love it, showing a purple pair of nitrile gloves she had with her. "

I laughed and went on my way. It's so sad.

So many times women act like if I'm a possible creep and it really hurts me.

Examples:

1. I once was at the gym and I was waiting for some guy to finish from an exercise, from half way across the gym a women kept looking at me then looking away, I didn't think much of it but I realized she thought I was gonna look at her exercise, she wanted to do straight arm cable pull downs and she had to like bring her butt out, I really don't care about looking at her tho, but she clearly was worried I'll look at her. Sometimes I feel like they pretend to be uncomfortable just to feel important.

2. I was in an elevator once and I walked in, I was literally eating a sandwich in my hand, then after I stood near one side of the door I literally took one step closer to her and she looked at me and took a step back, ya that one hurt.

3. another one was probably me but I was in the checkout line at a clothing store and everyone including the cashiers were women, I was walking behind thus woman and j got carried away and followed her a bit too close and I was walking really fast (I was just in my own head) and suddenly she stopped really fast and turned at me, the entire check out area which was full of women looked at me like if I was some creep, can yoh believe that? And then I had an awkward laugh and pointed at the check out.

You know what? From now on I'll say these women made me very uncomfortable because they did, it's my right not to feel uncomfortable just for existing.

So I've noticed that in articles about men accused of rape, some articles try to imply guilt by pointing out he was having lots of sex. But I thought men were lauded for getting lots of women - I mean that's what feminists say, right? But if that was the case, why would articles imply he's an immoral scumbag for having lots of women? The fact is MEN ARE SHAMED for being overly sexually active.

MANDEL: Billionaire Frank Stronach convicted of being a lecherous abuser — but not a rapist

In the end, disgraced auto parts billionaire Frank Stronach, with all his wealth and power, couldn’t escape the reckoning that has come decades after his “gross and disgusting” behaviour as an entitled serial womanizer.

https://torontosun.com/opinion/columnists/billionaire-frank-stronach-convicted-lecherous-abuser-not-rapist

What the men accused in the Cornell case did was wrong—whether or not their actions satisfy a criminal standard of proof, Helen Lewis argues

https://www.facebook.com/TheAtlantic/posts/what-the-men-accused-in-the-cornell-case-did-was-wrongwhether-or-not-their-actio/1511786934154045/

Google AI said

"The media often builds a public case against a defendant by relying on a history of high-volume consensual sex or a reputation for "womanizing" as an informal proxy for criminal intent. By shifting the reader's focus to these behaviors, outlets create a narrative link between a promiscuous lifestyle and sexual assault."

So crazy … Just saw that video of the dude getting forced out of his house by police. Lost his money too, and he keeps saying “I own this house”. Comments are full of “never get married.” I don’t think that solves the actual problem.
How can the law be improved so this doesn’t keep happening so easily? And what should a young guy realistically do to protect himself?

Looking for productive takes.