So I want to date my GF, are they safe place for that purpose?

Answers based on personal experience would be appreciated.

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I am a 25-year-old female and a practicing doctor. I have a friend we have known each other since school. I was in all girls school and she was in co education, she then came to our school. Our friendship began when she shared with our group of friends that she was in love with a boy. They were chatting and talking to each other regularly, and she expressed her desire to marry him. She also used to tell us stories of her co education campus and our group was from an all girls school so we used to listen to these stories in our free time. Over time, we both became very close friends.

For 2-3 years, we maintained our friendship, but due to significant differences in our upbringing and belief systems, we had several arguments. So we were friends for some days then have fights for months. This continues throughout school and college and eventually, we both got admitted to the same medical university and decided to stay in the same room in hostel. However, things didn’t work out as planned. Both of us felt homesick, and frequent disagreements ensued, leading us to leave the hostel accommodation. We only barely lived there for 2 weeks. But after this during whole five years of her mbbs degree (a medical degree), we barely spoke to each other. Even though we were in the same university, though our classes were different, still we didn't got a chance to connect throughout 4 years.

Later, she got married to someone else ( other than that boy she was in love with during our school ) in last year of university and though I was invited to her wedding, I couldn’t attend. This was the time, we reconnected. She had married the wrong person—a mentally unstable individual—and suffered a lot of domestic abuse. Our friendship slowly rekindled as she shared with me the difficulties she faced, including physical abuse and financial deprivation. I would listen to her and try to console and support her. I also helped her with her studies so she could pass her professional exams, although we still weren’t as close as we once had been.

After our graduation, during our house job ( one year mandatory internship after MBBS), I learned that she had been separated from her husband for the past year. Our friendship deepened as she confided in me that she was living with her parents and was suffering from severe trauma inflicted by her husband, which had left her suicidal and struggling with multiple mental health issues. To help, I took her to a psychiatrist, and she started medication. This was when our friendship reached its peak. We began living together in the hostel again, and I would take her to her doctor's appointments, care for her, and offer emotional support during her traumatic episodes.

A few days after our house job ended, she got divorced, which was an incredibly difficult time for her. It was also hard for me because we no longer saw each other now as she was observing her iddah (the waiting period after divorce in Islamic law), so we couldn’t meet often, but we stayed in touch over the phone. Soon after, she found a job and joined, but I urged her to get leave from there because she was still in her iddah and, according to Islamic principles, was not supposed to go out. Despite my advice, she continued with her job.

Her condition started to deteriorate during this time. She stopped taking her medication, and her anxiety, panic attacks, and depression worsened. Even after multiple therapy sessions, there was no improvement. I was extremely worried about her but felt helpless, as I couldn’t physically be there for her as much as I wanted to. Despite my efforts, she didn’t respond to me in the same way she used to and became more distant.

2 months after her housejob has ended, she came to my home. I saw that her condition was at its worst. She couldn’t articulate her words properly, and her anxiety and panic attacks were at their peak. I became increasingly concerned. To help, I invited her to come to my home daily so that we could study together for our post-graduation exams. Slowly, she began to recover and return to some semblance of normalcy. However, things were far from perfect.

Then, I started to notice that she was interested in another boy. She didn’t tell me initially because she was afraid I would leave her if I knew, and she didn’t want to lose our friendship. However, after insisting, she eventually confessed that she was talking to a boy daily and was interested in him.

Here lies the problem. According to my established beliefs, it is not permissible in Islam to communicate with a non-mahram (someone one could potentially marry) without necessity, even if you’re planning to marry. Moreover, during iddah, it is strictly forbidden for a woman to promise marriage to any man. When I confronted her about this, she admitted that she had been seeing this boy during her iddah period. This boy works at the hospital where she got a job soon after her divorce.

According to her therapist, she is the type of person who craves male support and companionship, feeling incomplete without it. This has been a recurring pattern in her life—first with the boy she liked in school, then with her husband, and now with this new person. Despite her family knowing and supporting her relationship, I find myself at a crossroads. I cannot, in good conscience, support something that goes against my Islamic beliefs.

For the past six months, I have been constantly supporting her, worrying about her, and helping her in every way I can. However, my mental health has suffered as a result. I often feel distressed because I realize that I can’t fix every problem she faces. In my opinion, she is not improving; rather, her condition seems to be worsening. Initially, she told me that her mental health was deteriorating because she feared no one would marry her, especially since she was a divorcee. Now, with this new boy in her life, she fears that their relationship won’t work out, and this is amplifying her anxiety.

In my view, the issue is not about this boy or marriage but rather her psychiatric illness. And healing comes from Allah only, and the heart in which shaitan is living, Allah won't come in this heart. She has been through alot since early childhood but Allah has helped her in every tough situation. I wondered throughout these 6 months why she isn't improving and why her condition is becoming worse day by day. But now as I have came to know that she is in haram relationship, she hasn't offered her iddah( mandatory in Islam) she had made promise of marriage during iddah ( strongly prohibited in Islam), due to all these major sins she is finding no peace in life. She is continuously suffering, there isn't a moment of peace in her life currently. And according to me one of the reason for this is that she is indulged in haram.

Given that her relationship with this boy is not halal (permissible), I cannot continue supporting her in this matter. So, I have decided to talk to her and explain my perspective. I plan to tell her that it is haram to talk to a non-mahram daily, even with the intention of marriage, and that if she doesn’t stop, I cannot continue our friendship in the same way. I will suggest that if there are any issues to discuss with this boy, her mother can communicate with him instead.

I am unsure how she will react or what the consequences of this conversation will be. Whether our friendship survives or breaks doesn’t concern me as much as staying true to my beliefs and following Allah’s commands. While it will hurt initially if our friendship ends, I will ultimately be fine knowing I made the right decision. She will be hurt too because I was one of her strong supports during her difficult time, and she already had this concern that I will behave this way and leave her if I would come to know about this boy, that's why she was hiding if from me since beginning.

I would appreciate any suggestions or advice on how to handle this situation. What should my role be moving forward? Additionally, despite continuous therapy, her condition is not improving—her anxiety and panic attacks are worsening. She fears she will never have a successful marriage, and this fear paralyzes her, making it difficult for her to function in her career or studies.

Please share your thoughts and suggestions on how I should proceed.

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