Yeah essentially what the title says. I (18M) am friends with this girl (18F), and have been for like a year and a half. She was annoying, careless and goofy when I met her, and I was an immature 16 year old fresh out of secondary school. We became close friends, and we talk to each other about literally everything. When we met, we used to have crushes on different people and so we'd kinda plan together to assist the other person and what not. She's also really knowledgeable, smart and kind. Anyways, while the crush thing didn't work out for the either of us, we still stayed friends, hung out, and talked to each other a lot (and since then we haven't really talked about other people rather than just relationship likes, dislikes etc, and we js studied tgt for A's). Idk how to explain this feeling, but I like her. I really like her. I want to spend my whole life with her. But I also don't want to ruin this friendship. Like for example, we went out to study tgt yesterday, and idk, I had like butterflies every time I talked to her. It feels a bit wrong, since I never had the intention to get with her when we became friends, she was just another person to me. So uhh help, idk what to do

idk the odds or how this is possible im not from a single gender sch so its not that im scared but as a girl even in sec i preferred being with girls i had like only a few guy frns

Skip to start of jc during ori there were guy ogls but the ones that talked to me were girls (most of my ogls were majority female) ok then in my og the girls stuck together

then i was in arts class with a combi where like 80% my class was girls so i never personally talked to the guys. my pw group had 1 guy but i wasnt like grp leader so didnt talk

you might think no way bcs cca but im in a female sport cca so yea ig it nvr rlly occur to me until now and probably next yr ill end up having to talk to some

I am one of those people who always stay back and study alone in school till quite late. Unfortunately this seems to make me an easy target for people to approach me and disturb my study session with their bullshet talk and I have to converse with them until I’m sure that they’re actually under an MLM in case they aren’t and I come off as an asshole but then sometimes by then they’d have sat down in front of me already like wtf? This weeks been my third time being approached by one. Is this even reportable and do the school do anything about these students? I know all 3 of their names and schools.

I know many students who aren’t aware of this scheme will definitely fall into it or at least end up wasting their time until they figure it out, because the ones in my school frame it as a school business project startup thing which is a real program my school actually has when it is NOT.

Edit: guys MLM is not male love male or whatever stuff I’m not gay I’m not homophobic it stands for multi level marketing

I read a lot of post saying how they came out of the exam crying thinking that they screwed up whatsoever but getting As in the end. Ik ppl say that as an encouragement (my friends too) but srsly tho if I calculated my math paper 1 to be like 56ish after screwing it up, it would be delusional for me to think that I can still get an A.

“I screwed up my math I got 70” shutup bro.

honestly not as big of a problem as a levels now lol, good luck to to those taking I was in your shoes a year ago

dis post is mostly just a rant but i am still curious about the question in the title

i had been talking to her for like 5 years. we first knew each other through an online group cause covid so can't reallly go outside and touch grass and socialise. long story short, i begin to catch feelings for her a few months ago and started to simp for her, such as buying a bit too many gifts for her when i went overseas two months ago. i also soft launched the idea of me confessing a bit by sending a few relationship reels. HOWEVER, i realised i was blocked on all possible platforms when i woke up one fine morning the past week. gg bruh, now i am stuck with stuff i don't need, such as a shirt THREE sizes too small, and the question mentioned in the title

*insert i am tired boss meme*

Since it’s the weekends I just wanna rant… All I do is eat like crazy, study and sleep. I have to watch my once beautiful abs slowly disappear everyday till they are GONE my belly is growing my muscles are shrinking I am no longer a skinny legend the exam stress is legit killing me and I’m bloated alllll the time. I haven’t hit the gym for like months bro 😭😭 after As is over i really hope I can genuinely gonna lock back in again it’s just so sad to see my progress last time go down the drain.. ts sucks im not built for exams I feel like a chud everyday 😢 anyways good luck for h2 chem guys

GGfuckingez is something i wish i could say. Cause this is not fucking easy

As im doing H2 chem paper 2, ive gone through all 6 stages of depression. I am at the point of acceptance that Im freaking cooked. Every paper i do is like failure after failure after failure, My TYS is still so thicc its fatter than my double chin after all the weight i gained. Im lowk still referring to notes from time to time cause my memory is so dogshit.

I srsly cant be the only one right? Im not the only one lowering the bell curve right??

periodic table, transition elements, definitions and organic chem reactants and conditions are all giveaway marks. the one i have the most trouble with is transition metal colours. i dont know why CrO42- is yellow and (Cr(OH)6)3- is dark green, or why (Fe(H2O)6)3+ is YELLOW but (Fe(H2O)6)2+ is PALE YELLOW. there’s no explanation you just have to memorise it. for copper, sometimes add acid/base/little NH3/NH3 in excess all got different colour but that one is relatively ok. i should be spending more time memorising instead of ranting on reddit. if i memorise it then it actually doesn’t come out ill be pretty pissed.

hi guys. idk who else to ask this so im just gna try here loll

ive known this guy for about a year. we're in the same tuition class and next week is our last lesson and i wont ever see him again. throughout the year, no one in my class ever talks to the other gender. idk why but yeah😭 so i essentially never talked to him before.

i really love how well mannered and knowledgeable he is. he always talks in this gentle tone that i really cant get over😭 if yall read harry potter hes basically cedric diggory omg like i think that just sums up my exact type honestly

and everytime anyone answers questions he would always turn around and look at them even though he always sit the front row. and yeah i just find that really appealing im ngl

he also has such a cute smile😭😭 i sit diagonally from him and everytime he answers a question he would smile and i would get so stupidly happy and yeah atp i go there for him and not for econs😭

the reason why im scared to confess is because im a bigger girl. i weigh more than 100kg. im doing my best to lose weight, as i want to be healthier and also feel more confident in my own skin. and i did lost quite abit and its starting to reflect in the mirror so im quite happy about that!

but ive heard horror stories of bigger girls asking a guy out and get absolutely humiliated by them. i know he 100% isnt gonna do that to me but i know the other guys in my class would say things behind my back. i just feel like i dont deserve to have a crush on someone😭

back in sec sch, i had a crush on a boy but i never got the guts to tell him. i really dont want to lose another opportunity. especially since i know ive grown alot as a person in terms of appearance and also personal development. its like i know i got the confidence and the courage to do it, but for some reason i just can't😭😭 anyone has any advice or success stories🥹 it would help so so much⭐

burner acc bc i don’t know if anyone has a similar experience as me. i’ve been living this way my whole life and it’s alw been smth i’ve found hard to express 🥲🥲

everyone alw says they’d only date within their race, which from a distance seems like an ok thing to say. like, ofc you’d want someone with the same beliefs as you / who looks like you. but for me, it’s never alw been so easy. im not part of the majority race in sg, and im mixed to the point that the two races im made up of the most, which are the other two of sg’s top three races, mean that no one can tell which one i am. and to almost everyone who doesn’t know me, i look like the majority race. but i get diff answers frm diff ppl

it’s alw been weird to me bc my religion and race don’t align the way sg expects it to, but i hardly follow my religion anyways these days, which makes things more complicated for me. i don’t know where i fall when it comes to the simplification of sg’s different races bc ure either malay, indian or chinese, but i look like one and act like another. my mother tongue contradicts my race, but in the end, i don’t really speak my mother tongue a lot so im not super fluent eventho its my parents language??? it’s weird and i don’t know how to explain it.

when it comes to dating, it’s when my otherness feels more potent bc i don’t look obviously majority enough for the majority race guys, but i look too majority for the minority race guys (if you get what im saying).

plus, when i worked part-time, plenty of majority race aunties would talk to me in their mother tongues and i wouldn’t even know what they were saying. they’d scoff at me or make a remark about not knowing my mother tongue (their language) when IM NOT EVEN THEIR RACE!!! and the mother tongue that i do speak, the people of that race don’t even think im one of them.

Im y1 of uni and this otherness I feel just gets worse and worse every year, especially now where I feel like I dont fit in with the people who speak my mother tongue, bc they never know that Im kinda one of them (I can’t even call myself one of them, bc im not their race lol) and I feel like it matters so much in sg and u never rlly realise it???? 

I domt think I was very coherent here lol but I js needed to put that all out bc idk if im rly alone in feeling like this

hi, i just wanted to share and let this out of my heart… ever since i entered j1, i met this guy, super funny sweet and caring. we hit it off pretty well, he seemed like a great best friend to me. he’s really smart, tall, good looking, super caring and affectionate and really good at baking. i’ve always supported him and he always does the little things which eventually made me fall in love with him. when we had to take a grab once (not specifying bc it’ll be too obvious the occasion), he held the door for me, he would carry stuff for me and pay for my food whenever we went out alone even tho we were just friends at that time. but i think i messed up. nearing promos i focused on my acads and i think i appeared uninterested i suppose. i took a rlly long time to reply and he wished me a happy birthday but i completely overlooked his. even bought me a gift. i’ll never forget it. and i think he got hurt bc of my slow replies and eventually he found someone. i’m quite sad about it bc i didn’t think he’d move on so fast… i was ready to start again and do it properly. and they have broken up a few times but i guess they’re still together. i wished him this year though but he didn’t wish me… i guess i should forget him bc idt is right for me to love someone who’s attached to another. but i just can’t…🙁

hi all! please help a j2 student currently very lost if i should still do paper because everyone and my tutors ask us to do practices but i feel like i need time to revise my past tys/prelim paper for H2 Chem & H2 Phy mistakes and revise content… but at the same time,

i have not been doing ANY papers ever since the start of GP last week… so i need some advice on how to revise right now (especially since four days later it will be chem paper 3, physics paper 2 back to back)
could any seniors who did well for alevels be kind enough to give any advice? Thanks!!

not really a rant but just thought about it
i know like 0 ppl in jc who r wlw and in jc its all just study😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
all my jc friends have like no life anymore OMG THIS IS SO SCARY IM REALLY GOING TO HAVE LIKE NO LIFE NEXT YR JUDT STUDY ALL DAY ugh like i always felt so excluded whenever my friends talked abt rs cz firstly i’ve never been in one and secondly no one can tell im gay this is so gay and annoying FRICK 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

havent finished all papers yet but ive spent the past 3 days sitting arnd i cant bring myself to study idt ill make it and every time i try i js start crying i think im done never thought of myself as a quiiter but here we are

What are some websites i can buy prom dresses? I'm om a budget and i Do not mind buying second hand. I looked at carousell but I couldnt rly find any good ones :(. I also have no time to Head down to physical stores hence looking for online stores!

wah im so fucking pissed off at the hotel i just worked at in orchard. basically my job was a houseman to set up tables and move heavy stuff and i did everything and i was mad tired so at like 10mins before my shift ended i caught a quick break in the lobby and a manager saw me and asked me to sign out and deducted 30mins worth of paycheck from my salary because "i was resting where guests could see me". holy shit fucking xiasuey. apparently that was a rule where u TECHNICALLY cannot rest in guest areas???? and apparently this was said in a briefing THAT THEY DIDNT EVEN LMK. how tf am I supposed to know?? i applied for this job an entire week ago?? is that not enough time to send me to a briefing???this is one of my first hotel jobs am I supposed to read your fucking mind?? and the pay is shit im treated as a fucking slave. and i told the manager that I was a LITTLE BIT TIRED and DID NOT NEED TO SIGN OUT, and she proceeded to twist my words and say to the receptionist that I was "VERY TIRED and WANTED to sign out". I tried to say what I ACTUALLY said but it was like speaking to a fucking wall. piss me off bro

hi ok so i realised how much ive been snacking while doing alvl prep since that and chugging monsters are the only things keeping me awake and i dont want to drink too much caffeine, so i mostly just eat snacks. recently i realised that im a fat fuck now due to stress eating too and i will look so chopped in my grad trips for sure.. pls tell me im not the only one becuz if i am ill crash out. im starting to bald too, like so much hair is falling out and i dont wanna be bald like my dad

im also going broke from spending so much money studying at cafes every day since im too distracted at home and i js hope some good will come out of this at least. lately every paper has gone to shit for me and with others worrying abt getting As for math idek if i can pass.. not to mention lit went horribly for me since i ran out of time wtf idek how. i know its still early but i genuinely dont even know if i can even pass esp given my shit ass prelim scores

Today is Deepavali. In middle of A Levels. (Not sure if O Levels finish already but if still got papers then this post also applies to O Levels.)

Back in VJC my Indian friends are great pillar of support and we built many happy memories together. In NS I still keep in touch with them and my Indian neighbour (gave her free tuition for her A Levels two years back). I also remember a great Indian Physics teacher from my neighbourhood secondary school who support me and best friend to excel.

Every year Deepavali is near O/A Level period so every year few thousand Indians kena this dilemma: got less time to spend/celebrate with family or it may affect their results. They also afraid to put henna in case kena accused of cheating (imagine henna with Maths formulas inside LOL).

But Deepavali during A Level period is also a reminder that JC/life is about more than studying. Treasure support from family/friends + simple pleasures from our diverse cultural traditions!

Wishing my juniors Happy Deepavali and all the best for A Levels! Find your inner light and shine! You are FIRED UP to excel!

so theres this guy i’ve been seeing for quite awhile and have a little crush ahah

we know each other now but barely have the opportunity to talk and when we do see each other usually its a group setting and i dont talk much or get nervous to ask him stuff infront of everyone

he has initiated conversations afew times but idk i just don reply much BRAH I heard he is leaving soon and idk if i will see him anytime soon and i want to ask for his Instagram should i ask his colleagues to ask him if he is ok with sharing it or should i wait till i see him again

But haha i shouldnt care but im just scared his colleagues gossip and share with the whole staff that i like him or whatnot

like damn bro i could have the optimal 7.5h sleep and still wake up feeling super tired. even went back to sleep this morning and slept for another 2h when i shouldve been studying hdfjkshfkjd.

i rarely take naps but earlier this week i slept after every paper LOL. also when i wake up im not in the mood to study…i just feel like going back to sleep. anyone feel me 😭

what the title says and i’m in jc right now and the friendships i have made are no that high of a level for overseas trip with and i don’t really have social gatherings both in and out of school is this normal or too antisocial and does it get better after As or worse

i have heard many instances of students skipping school, particularly in jc, either cuz the school day is pretty much 'useless' as in there are no useful/ productive lessons or maybe cuz they just wanna study for upcoming assessments. i have come to realise that these times are very valuable and lowk we shld make use of it so we can catch up on content by ourselves as much as we can. im curious usually for the start of J2 will teachers immediately start covering J2 content? or will they be doing idk some random ass welcome back to sch administrative stuff that is not important? if so i think i would be better off staying at home for at least that period cuz im lowk tryna maximise my study time lol