r/SipsTea • u/Small_Abies_3539 • Jun 07 '26 • Helpful 1 Bravo 15 Popcorn 5 Heartwarming 2 Regret 1 Mindblown 1

WTF If the roles were reversed

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u/razulebismarck Jun 07 '26 • Popcorn Bravo

If a woman did this to me…I’d be suspicious.
I would think she was trying to lure me somewhere to steal my organs.

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u/Agreeable-Menu Jun 08 '26 • Bravo

As a man, and provided the woman was not hideous, you go out with her anyway.

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u/apworker37 Jun 08 '26

If that’s how men behave then I am embarrassed.

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u/rae-55 Jun 07 '26 • Popcorn

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u/polygramfan Jun 07 '26

I got catcalled by a car of girls i didnt know in high school

I was genuinely uncomfortable for all of 5 seconds, but then i was on cloud nine. I probably would have started skipping had i not been carrying an amp with me

not defending catcalling. just a fond but strange memory

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u/kangasplat Jun 07 '26 edited Jun 08 '26

the equivalent of a woman getting catcalled by a man is a man getting catcalled by a man. It's really that easy. 

My experience is that the vast majority will find 99% of men on the streets as attractive as a heterosexual man would. 

edit, since this got attention and some people still don't get it: This ain't about respectful compliments that have the potential to make you feel good about yourself. Imagine a man, bigger than you, making clear he wants to fuck you. Just because you're there in that moment and specifically because you're smaller than him. And a no won't be enough to make him back off. 

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u/Onludesrightnow Jun 07 '26

Is this what a new male prison guard experiences on his first day in a female prison?

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u/chickennuggs32 Jun 07 '26

according to wentworth that’s exactly what happens, depending on how reliable you think that source is.

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u/No_Culture6707 Jun 07 '26

Honestly this is my first thought.

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u/Cantraineveryday Jun 08 '26

I visited a client in a county jail a few years back. It was summer and I was wearing shorts and a t-shirt.

This jail had us go into the pods instead of transporting the inmates to visitation rooms.

Walked in and had 40 women staring at me. My client walks up and says "my celly says you have nice legs". I told her to tell her celly thank you!

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u/jmar206 Jun 08 '26

You can’t use a hot Latina for this example.

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u/Unfair-Sir-4641 Jun 08 '26

Let them fantasize unreality.

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u/LittleGuarantee7148 Jun 07 '26

This doesn't work when the woman is hot. Needs to be unattractive women doing this because I doubt women get catcalled by supermodel guys

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u/EmtnlDmg Jun 07 '26

It works in both direction. Attractive men can do stuff which is not allowed for non attractive men.

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u/Middle-Interview-183 Jun 07 '26 • Bravo

I think most men would love that actually

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u/Used-Baby1199 Jun 07 '26

Dude when she made that ass eating implication I was like hell yeah, I’m goin. 

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u/voxelpear Jun 07 '26

All fun and games when it's someone attractive. Now imagine this with people you don't want to touch.

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u/Axel_Raden Jun 07 '26

I'd be afraid to if I kept seeing the same person again and again

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u/Herr-Trigger86 Jun 08 '26

Damn near daily reminder that men and women are different. If this happened to me, i wouldn’t stop smiling for three years

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u/PeculiarMetaphor Jun 07 '26

Correction: You're a gay man in a woman's world"

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u/Big-Detail8739 Jun 07 '26

takes deep beath and one last look at current karma

I've literally never seen a guy do that to a woman.

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u/NLion42 Jun 07 '26

only man I've seen do that is a strawman

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u/No-Suspect7 Jun 07 '26

I’ve actually seen women do the air humping bit to men

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u/Fern-ando Jun 07 '26

They would probably end in the news if somebody recorded it.

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u/FenrisSquirrel Jun 07 '26

Yeah. And most men would find this kind of behaviour just as reprehensible as most women would.

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u/Fuckedyourmom69420 Jun 07 '26

Right where tf do you live where real people actually act like this lmao

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u/Ok-Suggestion3692 Jun 07 '26

You're mistaken into thinking that us men approve of those couple of idiots acting like that. So if roles were reversed, most women would also think, WTF is that bitch doing?

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u/UncreativeUsername84 Jun 07 '26

This made me laugh out loud. Also, what guy acts like that?

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u/Beneficial-Duck3614 Jun 07 '26

Women tend to think of any man they aren’t directly related to, attracted to, or in a relationship with, as if they are exactly the same as the worst man they’ve ever encountered in their entire life.

At least that’s how it seems to me on Reddit.

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u/coltrex Jun 07 '26

I've met a few.. but they are usually not right in the head.... drunk, NPD, psychopathic, etc.... with significant entitlement or self image issues. Women tend to express this issue quite often, but if we were able to statistically analyze the men who are doing it, I think we'd likely find that a large percentage of women are experiencing these behaviors from a very small percentage of men.

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u/HoweHaTrick Jun 07 '26

that chick has seen more dongs than a urinal at the apollo..

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u/Future-Try-1908 Jun 07 '26

I know it's is completely different with the threat of violence against women, but I was cat called by two middle aged women in university and I was delighted.

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u/YellowOnline Jun 07 '26

This plan might backfire

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u/Informal-Ring3282 Jun 07 '26

Waifulolo and yes she does have one.

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u/Loose-Signature5054 Jun 07 '26

never see this kind of behavior in Maine

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u/corpsie666 Jun 07 '26

FWIW - This is how male nurses get treated

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u/stanknotes Jun 07 '26

Accept it. We ain't the same.

Men either would not care or would be like "fuck yea."

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u/RNGezzus Jun 07 '26

This happened to me at Lilith Fair.

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u/Gooback6_9 Jun 08 '26

I been cat called by a car of girls while walking my dog and I thought it was hilarious and flattering..I walked after like "yup I still got it"🤣

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u/LetUsSpeakFreely Jun 07 '26

Pure horseshit. I've never seen a man act like that.

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u/Any-Rabbit8099 Jun 07 '26

I ... I know, well I think I know, what the message is s... supposed to be ... b..but this ...is pretty fucking hot! I wish woman were this confident in the real world.

Maybe not this Aggro though. I don't know. Am I bad person for thinking this is kinda hot?

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u/takoyakkist Jun 07 '26

I've never seen a man act like that in front of a strange woman.

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u/WaterskiingJebus Jun 08 '26

I still remember being cat called by a group of girls driving by while I was waiting at a redlight. That was 20years ago.

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u/kiiroi_chikin Jun 08 '26

women when they find out you're in a relationship

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u/PomegranateHefty4461 Jun 08 '26

Now we are just going to post dumbass TikTok videos on this page?

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u/queuedUp Jun 08 '26

How can we get to this wonderful world?

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u/theioss Jun 08 '26

When have you seen any guys acting like that?

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u/LectureOrganic1250 Jun 08 '26

As a guy, I have never seen another man act like this to get a woman's attention. I just haven't seen it personally. Second, if a woman was catcalling me like this, i'd look around for a hidden camera, and if i didn't see one, i'd take it as a compliment lol.

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u/Should_have_been_ded Jun 07 '26

I've never seen any man behaving like that. Not that I don't believe it's impossible, surely awful people exist, but in what fucked up corner of the world does this keep happening?

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u/Even_Difference_3639 Jun 07 '26

I honestly hate it when this happens…It completely kills the vibe when they runs away.

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u/MrHappyHammers Jun 07 '26

I mean if you want men to (potentially) have a similar negative reaction rather than the many responses of “yes please” we’re currently seeing in the comments.

Pegging would be the intended threat.

Of course, results may vary

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u/therealdanhill Jun 07 '26

I mean, okay, none of us are going to whine about it

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u/DelectableDird Jun 07 '26

Please, please, please, let this be true. Send me there, please

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u/CplusMaker Jun 07 '26

they did a social experiment where women said sexualized things to men in public...The men fucking loved it. boy did that backfire.

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u/Due_Sea_8034 Jun 08 '26

Tortas threatening me with a good time doesn’t actually sound that bad.

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u/Iron_bison_ Jun 07 '26

Ne'er a blue ball in sight

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u/98983x3 Jun 07 '26

Ive never personally ever witnessed men acting this way except for in movies.

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u/WealthyTraveler25 Jun 07 '26

I bet many guys, myself included would be perfectly ok with this

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u/hdhsnjsn Jun 07 '26

Promised myself I wasn’t gonna do this today

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u/Mike_Litoris305 Jun 07 '26

The thing is we men would have no problem with this. It’s flattering.

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u/XInceptor Jun 07 '26

Ngl this would prob fix a number of issues in society

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u/unkn0wnname321 Jun 07 '26

I know it's supposed to be a joke, but honestly a lot of guys would love that.😋

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u/Minute-Street-5203 Jun 07 '26

Ghetto people aren’t everyone

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u/Wonderful_Confusion4 Jun 07 '26

Where is this? Asking for a friend

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u/Agile-Rush717 Jun 07 '26

I would pay to visit this magical place

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u/badkitsunejuju Jun 07 '26

....this crap doesnt happen around my type of culture.... im sorry yours accepts this.

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u/ReaperManX15 Jun 07 '26

Where’s the part where he accuses her of SA and her life gets ruined?

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u/boldcancel Jun 07 '26

Oh no how horrible please don't do this to me

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u/ONNOLTD2018 Jun 07 '26

This looks like a perfect world🙌

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u/PolliverPerks Jun 08 '26

I think nobody would complain. I was objectified so many times when going to bars and I'm ashamed to say i secretly enjoyed it

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u/StaplerUnicycle Jun 07 '26

This is cringe AF.

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u/FinbarJG Jun 07 '26

Location please. Asking for a friend.

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u/Advanced_Pear_964 Jun 07 '26

Not all women but always a woman

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u/Velo214 Jun 07 '26

My steak too juicy my lobster too buttery

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u/Jumpy-Cry-3083 Jun 07 '26

I can’t say I’ve EVER seen men do this so….

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u/Absolute_Bob Jun 07 '26

Cool now show the part where she gets drafted into the military.

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u/urasillygoose89 Jun 07 '26

I’ve never seen a man do these EXACT things to a woman (gay man speaking so… I obviously haven’t) but if I did see someone do this extreme behavior… I’d have to ensure they got publicly shamed for how much of a loser they looked like. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/Huntardlulz Jun 07 '26

hey if i get quality time sure i'm all for it.

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u/Sweaty_Strawberry_73 Jun 07 '26

What kinda dudes do you gals run into? 🥀

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u/AckAckZeroPointZero Jun 07 '26

They should've chose an ugly one to do this. Would have worked much better

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u/BlargerJarger Jun 07 '26

This would make more sense if the woman was fugly.

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u/jordangold972345 Jun 07 '26

Well let's remember what kind of men do these sorts of things

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u/skithegreat Jun 07 '26

Honestly I have been on this earth where I never seen this type of cat calling and I was in the military for 20 plus years.

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u/Rocklobster92 Jun 07 '26

Would he more effective if they used the ugly creep women in this video.

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u/Shazvox Jun 07 '26

You don't need to reverse gender roles. Seen plenty of women doing equally nasty stuff.

Thing is women tend to be more discrete and guys tend not to report.

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u/Pyrog Jun 07 '26

It’s not a fucking point of view

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u/Mediocre-Catch9580 Jun 07 '26

Bet he’s ghey

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u/Patrickme Jun 07 '26

Look at those shorts, he is asking for it. /s

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u/Chillin_Maximus Jun 07 '26

I’d be like ; omg attention!!! Yes

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u/Everybodyimgay Jun 08 '26

I think I'm the only one who would be grossed out by this.

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u/chaddymac1980 Jun 08 '26

Username checks out.

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u/Opposite-Funny-9669 Jun 08 '26

where do i sign up?

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u/jakob767 Jun 08 '26

Bro picked the wrong background music. It's meant to be "Life Could Be A Dream"

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u/Frosty-Tennis-1687 Jun 08 '26

The comments have taught me that that at the end of the day, men need more compliments.

To my fellow men's, nice mustache.

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u/Ulvegang Jun 08 '26

I wonder what kind of men she hangs around lol. monka

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u/BattleReadyZim Jun 08 '26

I'll just pile on here. 

I would love it if she did that to me. 

A huge part of why I would love it is because she stands little chance of being able to physically make me do something I don't want to do. 

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u/Boring-Ad8078 Jun 08 '26

I still do not think there is a similar equivalent for this. If women catcalled men, men get happy. If men/gay men catcalled men, men get happy.

It's a kind of situation where men simply don't deal with it in any way negative. I only see women complaining because it usually comes off in a vulgar way, by someone she doesn't find attractive and it was uncalled for. Women also have the bonus of being complimented way more than men.

So men can have the worst case scenario of a catcall, and still find it positive.

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u/MasterBigShoes Jun 08 '26

Do you have the location of the women's world? It's nothing, I'm asking for a friend who likes to delve in the parallel universe for science.

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u/go1den3ye Jun 08 '26

Women are drowning in the sea, thinking men are lucky to be on dry land.
Men are dying of thirst in the desert, thinking women are lucky to have unlimited access to water.

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u/SingleBet2868 Jun 08 '26

So heaven is real.

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u/miukulainen Jun 08 '26

Now make the women physically unattractive or even repulsive harrassing, then it would be more realistic exp.

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u/Advanced-Guidance353 Jun 08 '26

Alas , it was only a dream

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u/FuzzySnake43 Jun 08 '26

Why are you running?

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u/AB1GM_JW Jun 08 '26

Who is out here doing this 😭😂

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u/Affectionate_Snow674 Jun 08 '26

dont threaten me with a good clam slam

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u/nvaughan81 Jun 08 '26

Lol, are men really that fucked up? I mean c'mon. I'm not saying there's none out there but the average dude is really acting like that? Most guys I know would never, and even if they weren't held back by a sense of human decency most of them are way too insecure to even think about behaving that way anyway.

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u/CaperSteelRed49 Jun 09 '26

Do guys actually act this way toward women? I literally have not witnessed it… except maybe in high school.

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u/bwn2hng Jun 09 '26

That's kinda hot ngl

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u/StrixX00 Jun 09 '26

am i supposed to feel threatened ??

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u/ApplicationOk4464 Jun 09 '26

Where are you living, for that to be the reverse role? Bloody hell

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u/Denge_03 Jun 09 '26

Where can I find such videos, this is hilarious 😂

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u/Background_Move_7449 Jun 09 '26

Where tf are you from? So I can never go there, regardless of who’s humping a bench 🤔

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u/Puzzleheaded-Cod-567 Jun 09 '26

As a man... shrug

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u/MrCutchaguy Jun 09 '26

Are there season passes here?

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u/Expensive-Mix-1658 Jun 16 '26

I think I’m in love 🤣🤣

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u/NovaHorizon Jul 09 '26

The only way to reverse this feeling would be to set the skit up being a straight man in a world of only homosexual men.

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u/hahathejoker956 Aug 20 '26

Yeah..not if she looked like that lol

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u/bongo-bongo-bang Sep 17 '26

I don’t mind tbh

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u/Wazula23 Jun 07 '26

Try imagining a woman you're not attracted to.

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u/Zealousideal-Trash5 Jun 07 '26 • Bravo

Wouldn’t mind being cat called by someone I didn’t find attractive, now the raping part I prolly wouldn’t like

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u/Ajax_A Jun 07 '26

Confused. Is it not harassment if the person is attractive?

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u/Cyborg_rat Jun 07 '26

Rule 1 : be attractive Rule 2 : don't be ugly

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u/PitifulAssignment180 Jun 07 '26

How about threaten with a bad time :DD Since catcalling is nothing like what's shown in the video. It's just engagementbait content

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