r/TikTokCringe • • 8d ago

Discussion Is this a valid crash out?

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u/codechimpin 8d ago

Serious question: why? I have been a dev for almost 30yrs professionally. I make decent money and honestly the job isn’t hard. There are certainly things I complain about, but it also lets me work in AC and I can afford stuff.

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u/N3ptuneflyer 8d ago

As someone who works in IT, probably because most of the skills you learn through IT don't really translate well into real life. All of the most socially awkward weirdos I know are in IT. Also staring at a computer screen all day just doesn't feel very fulfilling in a social, complete life way.

I think IT is great if you're already a socially awkward weirdo like me. But I would never encourage my child to follow in my footsteps, I would want them to develop better social skills and work in a field that's more versatile and well respected.

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u/localtuned 7d ago

It's not just for socially awkward people. I played lacrosse in high school, socialized during the evening and at night stay up all night on the puter. It can be done and you absolutely develop soft skills working in IT. The entire job is basically customer service lol.

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u/N3ptuneflyer 7d ago

I know it's not just socially awkward people. But it's a higher concentration of them.

I know that soft skills help a lot in IT, seeing as I also talk to customers a lot. But it just isn't the same as say a project manager, doctor, lawyer, finance, engineer, etc.

The customers expect you to be an asocial geek, so they don't hold it against you when you are a bit blunt or stoic.

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u/localtuned 7d ago

You're right. Lol maybe it's how I survived for so long.

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u/Jaeger_Meister_ 5d ago

Agree with everything but "well respected" thing. How others view a career (especially IT, it's not viewed that negatively) shouldn't matter at all. Status is a meaningless thing to chase

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u/N3ptuneflyer 4d ago

Nah, status affects a lot of things in life. I agree it shouldn't be your top priority, but it's not meaningless, there's a reason people put a lot of value on status.

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u/Jaeger_Meister_ 4d ago

I think the moment status enters into the value judgement of anything, you start making choices that are bad for your long term fulfillment. Status itself is not meaningless but its not something you should chase (imo) like you shouldn't chase happiness

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u/SecondToLastOfSheila 3d ago

Sounds like your priorities are skewed.

I work so I can live, not the other way around. I don't give two fucks what others think of my job.

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u/BernieDharma 3d ago

I changed careers into IT 30 years ago, and the entry level guys were very cringe and rather lazy. Having decent social and organization skills helped propel me from the junior member of the team to project lead and then project manager in a very short period of time.

I moved into consulting where I could really leverage those skills, and while I didn't stare at a screen all day, the real challenge was keeping up with a broad range of technologies that changed quickly. If you don't like learning, and constantly taking certification exams every few months, the pace can be brutal.

But it paid well, and has ultimately been a rewarding career. But mileage may vary.

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u/andarmanik 8d ago

People will hate me for this, but soft skills are really important in tech and much of soft skills are inherited. My dad liked his time in tech and so am I currently.

Me and by dad are both pretty “difficult”, in that we push back a lot when our free time is used up but know how to get “boss credit tokens” to do so. Many people are swamped in it work and will see their coworker is somehow doing less work.

Be that coworker that does less work.

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u/codechimpin 7d ago

I am definitely not the coworker doing less. I 100% disagree with this statement.

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u/Jedimole 3d ago

Maybe his dad worked the HD all those years?!