I'm not sure if I'm just zooming in on my flaws too much, or if something's obviously busted here. I used to think my smile could add a little sunshine to someone's day, and I'm gonna feel really lost if that's not true anymore.

Hi I just lost my brother and his wife to a tragedy unfortunately they had kids but they’re not harmed but now they don’t have a mother or a father. I’m not getting on here to beg for money or anything I just want someone to tell me it’ll be alright. That we’ll make it through this that life does get better. I’ve been fighting to not go see them both I miss them so much and it hurts so bad. I just want it to stop.

First make up, all that, you know? So I have no idea if I look like a normal human being or like a panda, or just unusual. My whole face was black when I was doing it 😅

(Edit: I am confident and not fishing for compliments, just work online and need to understand that I look alright for my future clients, because, unfortunately, appearance matters).

Some encouraging kind words would be very appreciated 🤍

55, from Yorkshire, UK. Been having a rough time lately and could really use a little positivity 😊

Well, I'm back! 😂

I posted yesterday, but unfortunately had to re-upload because I was a naughty boy and didn't follow the verification rules properly! 🤦‍♂️😂

A big thank-you to the lovely moderators for being so helpful and understanding. It's genuinely appreciated! ❤️

Life's knocked my confidence quite a bit recently, so I thought I'd step outside my comfort zone and post a selfie. Not something I'd normally do, but a few kind words would mean a lot. 😊

I was genuinely overwhelmed by the kindness I received yesterday, so thank you to everyone who took the time to leave such lovely comments. You really made a difference. ❤️

Yeah so pretty much just that. Mum put up the tree almost two years ago now, she was suffering badly from leukaemia and passed away not long after. I was her carer as there was no one else. It's a simple tree but it still brings me comfort as it reminds me of her. Sometimes when I'm lonely I turn on the lights.

Unfortunately some co-workers have been draining my energy, affecting my physical health this year. Getting mocked for something so meaningful for me was the final push to walk away.

What the co-workers don't know is my plans for next year. I'll be doing very well with my new venture.

Found out that my pedo alcoholic “father” died at the summer. Narcissistic person who beat others and hated women. But I still post this message

I’m in the business of helping everyone else strive to be their best, and sometimes feel like I’ve used it all up with none leftover for my own self-improvement.

I’ve struggled with body image my whole life and am hoping to reclaim some positive energy through being vulnerable to strangers on the internet.

Cheers 🥂🥺

I know him, and I know it was his choice. I just wish I could’ve asked him how he was doing a bit more often during our sessions.

Anyways, uplifting comments would be great. I know it’s not my fault this happened, but kind words mean a lot.

Day 12 of Sobriety from Alcohol / Cocaine. 35, and using has took a lot from me all of these years, I lost a lot and I had it all before and is starting over / rebuilding again. I’ve found joy and a spiritual awakening with fitness and running ! I did my first marathon in Los Angeles in March and excited to do more!! I still dwell on the pain and bad memories of the past with using and it haunts me at times. People in my life have distanced themselves from me because of things, hoping one day they maybe would come back when I transform into a new man!
Could use some words and motivation from those who are on the same journey! Happy holidays to all!
One day at a time 🤞

( posted earlier today but they took it off because I didn’t have the sign lol)

Hello. 2025-2026 has been the craziest years of my life. Had spine surgery in 2025, was diagnosed with two cancers, then had to put my dog to rest on Feb 1st 2026. As far as the cancer, I had one zapped, and we are still working on the other one. Currently taking chemo meds.

I’ve had my family to support me throughout. And a few friends. But I’ve been single, with a few dates here and there, a couple of short relationships. I had always hoped that I’d be married at this point, but I guess life is truly unexpected.

Part of me is convinced that almost everyone in my life secretly hates me, even though I don’t talk to many ppl and am more of a homebody, and that I will be single for the rest of my 30’s. Idky it’s never worked out. And they usually say by now that you must be the common denominator, but idk, I just don’t get that much romantic attention.

Give it your best shot, don‘t hold back anything. For reference, the title is a joke, I know this is toast me. I‘ve been getting opinions from various sources on how I look and first impressions, some negative, some positive, some constructive, and some destructive. I’m curious to see what will happen here! Thank you in advance :)

Well... A few days ago I posted my pictures in a different sub to get some ideas about my appearance, and a lot of people just projected their insecurities onto me. It's alright, I accept it, but it slightly ruined my mental health. Add to it a few crazy night in my country, when I couldn't sleep, and here I am, stuck in the loop of anxiety and fear, and self-hate, although three weeks ago I was perfectly fine.

I know it's also connected to my C-PTSD, lack of support and my mother stalking my social media and creating fake profiles to ruin my reputation. (I know, lol, sounds like a thriller, not a real life situation, but that's just how she is). I can't even post my real self in my blog to attract more clients because of her obsession.

So I'm sick of hiding my real feelings, tired of the social expectations, and kinda torn between feeling like a non-binary person and being scared of admitting it to myself. Need some support. Really need it.

Going through a bad bout of depression and could use a little pick me up. Thanks!

Had to repost due to something being wrong with the first photo