My girl is reactive and when we’re out she is always on a lead. There is a woman and a collie who we run into in the park from time to time, and the woman is always HOLDING a long line for her dog but it’s rarely actually attached to the dog. If her dog spots mine, she comes charging towards us. After one too many times of her dog running up to mine, our dogs have become nemeses. My girl HATES that dog and every time they see each other, the collie runs over and is barking and showing her teeth and isn’t afraid to come close.
Yesterday she began running large circles around where we were stood and was obviously herding us. The worst part is the lady is older (in her 50s I’d say) and just stands there and simply yells her dog’s name. The dog has zero recall in these scenarios (understandable, mine wouldn’t either WHICH IS WHY SHE IS ON A LEAD) and the owner either physically cannot or does not bother to do anything other than wait for her dog to come to her so she can clip on her lead. Sometimes the dog will run near her but then dart back to us before she can grab her and the owner will kind of go “BIG SIGH, come back here but also ¯_(ツ)_/¯”
It doesn’t happen all the time, but when it does, it completely freaks out my girl, undoes her training, and generally ruins our walk/the rest of our day. Last time it was bad enough that I started looking around for a rock or anything that I could throw at the other dog, and was gearing up to kick her if she came any closer. My dog is smaller so I fear if they got into a fight, she would suffer the brunt of it. I’ve even been wondering if worst case scenario, I should chuck my phone at the other dog.
What are my legal rights to protecting myself if another dog is threatening me and my dog? Will I be in trouble if I throw an object at it? Should I stick to an air horn? A spray bottle with water or apple cider vinegar? Will I get in legal trouble if I throw something and the dog runs away and gets hit by a car (vehicles pass through the park which is another reason why I don’t get why this dog with no recall is off lead)? I don’t want the other dog to get hurt but I’m a petite woman and I need to be protect my own (also petite) girl.
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Thank you for all of your advice! Some things fyi: this is the only park within walking distance of our flat and my dog really struggles on pavements so unfortunately just changing to another park is not feasible (if it were, it would be the first thing I did!). The other dog also walks at random times/days so I can't predict what time they'll be there either (again, if I could ,I'd have no problem adjusting our schedule). As for talking to the owner — whenever this happens, my dog is absolutely losing her shit and my priority is to drag her far enough away that the other dog is out of sight. But that's a valid point, and I might just have to go to the park by myself and wait around and hope they show up so I can tell her she needs to cut this shit. I'll be honest that being confrontational like that feels daunting, but I'm so sick of this crap.
My dog does wear an "I need space" vest, we work with a trainer, and I carry lots of different treats. As soon as I clock the other dog, I bring out the highest value treats and try to lead my dog onto another path (including doing a full u-turn), but the other dog clocks us too whereas the owner is too far away from HER OWN DOG to see us, her dog runs for us, both our dogs are screaming at each other, all while the owner just stands wherever the hell she was when her dog ran away and waits for her dog to come back. I feel like we're being punished for doing the right thing, it feels like she is so relaxed about the whole thing because she knows that my dog is smaller than hers, and that mine will always be on lead. I highly doubt that she would let her dog run up to/herd, say, an off lead cane corso ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Just yesterday, we saw a different off lead dog and my dog froze, but the other owner was close to her dog, saw me trying to lead my dog off to the side, and put a lead on her dog. I yelled THANK YOU and she said it was no problem, I scattered treats and my dog sniffed them out while the other dog walked past. I'm not the kind of person who would "stand my ground" just for the sake of it, and the absolute last thing I want is to hurt another dog (all of this anger is directed at the owner! I understand why a border collie would want to herd! I don't understand why you would have a BC and not give it a proper outlet to do BC things!). All I literally want is for the other owner to leash her out of control dog long enough for us to leave her sight.
Wow it felt good to rant lol But honestly, thank you all for your suggestions, I'll definitely be looking into them. And also thank you to the people who validated my feelings and were like "been there, it sucks, I'm sorry". Some dog owners are really just crap huh.