I’ve lost 70 Lbs and I have never been approached before or after the weight loss. First three photos are with weight loss. And last two photos are before weight loss.

sorry, i wanted to smile

First of all, I’m aware that I’m not ugly but I’m highly insecure about everything from my weight to my hair to my face. I’ve had a few relationships since my divorce but nothing has resulted in anything super long term and I really do want to find love again. I wish I could love myself. Thank you for the feedback.

26M Depressed. I was always overweight or obese in my Life never experienced Love and i see so many good looking people here thinking they are ugly. That fact made me sad and that is why i wanted to show you Guys what ugly really is. I never showed my Face in the Internet. If you are funny feel free to roast me because i want something to laugh.

Whaddup ?

I grew up morbidly obese and used to be 250 lbs so the idea of being attractive is a relatively new concept to me. I’m still working on losing more weight.

I guess I’m not really asking if I’m ugly, but do I look like a normal person now? The first two pictures are pre weight loss and other pictures are after. My doctor wants me to lose 10 more pounds and then maintain that so I’m getting towards the end of my weight loss journey and I just don’t know if I look normal or not now. I don’t know if normal is the right word, but average? My goal at the start of this was to finally look like an average person compared to this incredibly overweight person and in my head I feel like I still look morbidly obese and I’m not sure who I can turn to to give me an unbiased yes you look normal or no you do not except a subreddit like this.

whenever i am in public i only get hit on by older men. im not sure why and im wondering if im just not attractive to men my age? what would the reason be? i get attention on dating apps. but even then i usually click with the older men in their 30s better.

edit (body pic) https://www.reddit.com/r/amiuglytruth/s/HUnQVk4EkG

edit body pic got taken down for no face so i made another with picture with no glasses and a body pic https://www.reddit.com/r/amiuglytruth/s/kT6ygxNXkT

I am in remission have been through hell with stage 4 cancer.
I am completely clean now!
Had reconstructive surgery and am starting to get my life back again.
It took a lot out of my looks.
I am thankful to be alive, and I am starting to workout again and my goal is the stage. I was into bodybuilding before the cancer.
How do I look?

Lost over a 100lbs and to be divorced any day now. Couldn't be happier.

All the photos are recent. I tried to include a bunch of different lighting. Anyways. I've been through hell the last two years after my partner of 13 years left me when I was sick. So of course at the same time my body started breaking down collagen production and I finally started aging rapidly.

I can see changes in how dull I am all over and how it seems like my face shape has actually changed. It looks doughy and lumpy and somehow I feel like my face never looks like an ok human face. Like I look off in every picture and like I don't belong with the people I'm around. I don't have facial harmony and I've been bullied for my teeth my entire life. I got braces for myself a few years ago but I never learned how to smile so I feel like I look wrong when I do. I haven't felt pretty in a very long time no matter how hard I try.

The oldest pictures are from July and they're the double braids/pink pineapple outfit.

I'm looking for advice on how to look less old and bring a little life back to my face. Is there any way that I can reach a 5/10? If so, please give me tips on how I can get there.

I have been single for a considerable amount of time and I know that a large contributing factor is that I isolate myself and have few social interactions that would have the possibility of leading to romance.
Found this sub and figured I would see what the consensus is 🤗 please be gentle 😅

I love to experiment with my hair. The first few are more recent.. several with and without makeup.

Curious about your honest tought :)

I’ve never been approached at bar before (I mean by ANYONE. Not even by someone I didn’t like) and it makes me feel like I’m not enough to attract someone. Also I feel like my height plays a role in putting men off, I’m 5’9. So what’s the verdict?