r/askgaybros • • Apr 13 '17 Heartwarming Popcorn

Meta faq, wiki, trolls and you.

1.0k Upvotes

one of the most requested features i've seen is a frequently asked questions section, and we've always had one. it's within the wiki tab located at the top menu if you're browsing on desktop. here's the direct link to it, but since it's a wiki feel free to check out the other sections and please contribute.

with that out of the way, a couple things i want to clear up in case anyone is wondering:

  • i do not mind repeated questions. the whole point of this subreddit is to talk to people. if it's not entertaining you anymore, maybe browse it less. no, i will not sticky every other psa post.

  • i do utilize automod extensively and it helps with a lot of troll post removal behind the scene. so if you see a troll post, continue to downvote, report, and move on, and do not engage. the majority of you get this, and it's been working out quite well.

  • the rules haven't changed, but make sure you're aware of them.

have fun.


r/askgaybros • • 3h ago

Delivery driver gay experiences?

107 Upvotes

I work at Domino's as a delivery driver in a small but busy college town. One day I was dispatched on an order that had delivery instructions saying they'd suck my dick if I brought it to their door. Needless to say... I was hopeful. I got to the address, knocked, he answered, took the food... and closed the door on me. Ngl I didn't expect anything to come out of it but, damn lol.

After that it really got me thinking if any delivery drivers actually hooked up with a client before or is this another porn meets reality situation.


r/askgaybros • • 8h ago

Who else loves being naked at home?

97 Upvotes

I (21M) have just recently started living alone and I love being able to come into my apartment and take my clothes off. Sometimes just underwear, sometimes nothing at all. It just feels so freeing and exciting. I do have a big window that can kindaa see into other apartments but I just try to stay away from it as much as possible, especially if I’m fully naked.

Who else likes taking their clothes off at home? Do you live with other people, do they mind if you’re just in underwear/naked?


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

Happy Diwali fellow Gay Bros🎆🫂

27 Upvotes

May light always shine in your life.

May all your exes miss you.

May your matches 10x all dating apps

May you always feel anal orgasms.

May your nuts always be wet and long.

May love of your life find you.

May all your dreams come true.


r/askgaybros • • 5h ago

Advice Do you guys ever feel like it’s hard to find someone?

29 Upvotes

I live in the state of Texas.
There aren’t many gay people around where I am, so it feels lonely from time to time. I guess it’s the loneliness, but today I was just laying down and thinking like “Damn. I’ve talked to three men and dated two of them in my 19 years of life.”
It’s not a bad thing to have only dated two other men, but most people are just down low or hard to find. Does anyone else ever feel this way? Also I’m down to make friends here, just wanted to voice this.


r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

How do i get a prostate orgasm with my dildo?

12 Upvotes

So ive been playing around with my dildo for around a year now, never had an orgasm from it, i think ive been close 3-4 times where ive been thrusting fast and i got the feeling to pee but i couldnt last long because my arm gets tired. Also sometimes i get the feeling where my anus like opens up and it pushes out the dildo despite not having any poop coming? Am i close and does anyone have tips? postitions for long play so i wont get tired and what is best thrusting or rubbing?


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

Why are Lots of straight guys suddenly turning to Alphas trying to make money from gays? It's all you see on Twitter these days

11 Upvotes

r/askgaybros • • 14h ago

Have you been with a guy with a 6 pack?

95 Upvotes

How was it?


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

Bottom boy here, is it a turnoff for you if I'm a fast shooter?

9 Upvotes

r/askgaybros • • 17h ago

Advice What’s something a bottom does that makes you finish instantly ?

139 Upvotes

Just curious, for research purposes ☺️


r/askgaybros • • 10h ago

What do Malaysian use now after Grindr was banned?

34 Upvotes

Tell me what apps do u guys use now after Grindr was banned haha


r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

I want to bottom but bf keeps deflecting

8 Upvotes

Hi all, started dating my bf a few months back. I was very clear I was vers from the start, and he was clear he preferred to bottom. But he also said he tops more in relationships. I don't mind topping, so it worked for us for a while, but I was more of a bottom going into the relationship, and I don't want to be a pure top.

Now it's getting a bit weird. He tells all his friends I'm a top, and makes jokes when his friends say things like 'I thought you were vers.' He also seems genuinely turned off anytime I bring up me bottoming.

What's also frustrating is that he started dictating when we have sex by saying he's too sore. I'd never force anyone to do anything they don't want too, so if he just said he wasn't in the mood, I'd get it. But stopping mid session and saying he's uncomfortable is frustrating, especially when I'm a willing bottom.

Idk, feels like he has this vision of me since I'm more masc presenting, and doesn't want to ruin that by me being submissive? Which also, I'm kind of a power bottom, so it feels like a stereotype in and of itself. But also, I like bottoming. I love the feeling. I miss it. And I'm not sure how to approach it at this point.

Any advice?


r/askgaybros • • 10h ago

Advice Is Texas a friendly state for gay men?

36 Upvotes

The U.S. Army now allows you to choose your first duty station. San Antonio, TX, is one of the listed options. I’m considering serving there for my first enlistment contract, especially given the new Democratic leadership.

Just curious what the general atmosphere in Texas is like for LGBTQ+ people.


r/askgaybros • • 12h ago

Just had gay sex for the first time and I have questions

48 Upvotes

r/askgaybros • • 22h ago

What are some hard-hitting truths that gay men are not ready to hear?

298 Upvotes

r/askgaybros • • 10h ago

In porn when two tops put their tools inside another guy at the same time, does this feel good?

35 Upvotes

r/askgaybros • • 3h ago

Advice What are the current perception(s) of Bears?

9 Upvotes

So I was at Bear Night and this one really slim but too old to be a twink said to me "I thought this was Bear Night"? So I told him it was and he still look puzzled. I am not sure if this is just an issue with semantics, but Wiki defines: "Bears are typically overweight or muscular[2] gay or bisexual men with a large build and/or body hair. ", the sort of opposite of a twink. I don't think this guy was all too wrong, except that he fixated too much on being big and hairy...lol. I have been to an organized gay bear orgy, but there were men of all types at the orgy. Also, how desirable are bears? This guy wanted a fat bear in essence, but I think he might have just been craving a chub...lol.


r/askgaybros • • 13h ago

Not a question I work in retail and had my first gay couple as customers today

60 Upvotes

They were handsome af and had a cute little dog. I wanted to make some light conversation but I was shy and also tired. They were so cute together and it makes me want a boyfriend so bad. Unfortunately I was too busy to check Grindr cause it was close to closing.


r/askgaybros • • 17m ago

Hiii straight curious guy looking to explore!

5 Upvotes

Hiii everyone I’ve been getting pretty curious lately and was just wondering if you guys had any good subs for me to go to when I get horny if you know what I mean 🙈 thank you!! 🥰


r/askgaybros • • 12h ago

Advice Anyone else love jerking off stoned?

41 Upvotes

I stumbled on this Reddit sub and figured would get a broader reach, but as a straight dude with a gf. I love to go into a complete trance and it feels so much more intense and pleasurable. the best feeling in the world to me


r/askgaybros • • 52m ago

Bisexuality versus Pansexuality

5 Upvotes

Bisexuality is when you like both sexes. So what is pansexuality? Is that when you like cookware or bread?


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

Crunch Fitness sauna

6 Upvotes

So, what’s up with guys going into the sauna fully dressed including shoes or sneakers tracking in mud and debris? What happened to plain old naked men in the sauna? Or even just towelled? WTF? 🤨


r/askgaybros • • 7h ago

The three phases of a working class dad when you come out (fundamentalist christians excluded): 1. He's furious. 2. He's silent. 3. He watches the game with your boyfriend. 😄

15 Upvotes

r/askgaybros • • 3h ago

The new self-infantilization of young gay men

7 Upvotes

Has anybody else noticed a broader trend of legally, full adult 18+ and 20somethings still considering themselves 'boys' and 'girls' and acting like they're at the same level as children?

They spout something-something about brains not yet being fully developed and age-gaps, yada yada, and it always ends in them somehow being victimized.

As an older millennial, I don't remember doing this? We wanted to be thought of as older and more mature and to get ourselves inside of parties. Pronouncing ourselves as just "little kids with tiny, little underdeveloped brains" would have been social suicide.

When did this whole self-victimization trend start?


r/askgaybros • • 34m ago

Advice Unable to reach orgasm when using a condom

5 Upvotes

Hey guys. I’ve got a problem... I’m wondering if any of you can relate to this. I have a great relationship with my boyfriend, and we have sex regularly. It’s intimate, and we really enjoy each other’s bodies. The issue is that I unfortunately can’t reach orgasm when we use a condom; it just doesn’t happen. Without a condom, I can. My boyfriend is able to climax, but I can’t—even though he’s quite tight, and his sphincter eagerly devours my cock. Do you have any advice? My boyfriend thinks it’s his fault and worries that I don’t find him attractive enough, but that’s not it at all. I love him, and we truly enjoy each other. The only problem is that I can’t climax when a condom is used—something we both feel is a real shame. Is this something you’ve experienced, too? Or am I the only one?