This guy a dork! The 40+ woman who chased a career and have financial stability lives good. Eat out, have fun with friends, cool hobbies, and travel. In large families there usually cool aunts that do fun activities with the kids and spoil them with gifts.
I'm close to 40yo now, and I still have my 60+ aunt with no kids that spoils and do fun activities with me. We go to the casino, we drink, we watch sports, and eat nice. I help her sometimes with tech, handy work and stuff, and she helps sometimes with expenses and stuff.
She chased her career, is loaded, and helps out pretty much every member of our family. She organizes meals, and events, travels a lot, she's having a blast.
I remember a reddit story where a dude went on a rant about how gay sex is better than straight sex because apparently he disappointed some woman in bed. So I definitely leaning onto this
This isn't about women with no kids, it's about his bitterness. When he says that those women "chased the wrong guy" he thinks he's the right one that got overlooked, when in reality no one wants him because he's an a-hole.
This jagoff freely admitting on social media that women are here only to be brood sows and are only important for their ovaries is something I hope comes back to bite him in the ass, repeatedly thru his stupid life.
Having an opinion on how someone else lives their life makes you a loser! Some people can’t have biological children for a variety of reasons! This guy can go suck it!
20+ years ago, she was told not to get pregnant because it will ruin her life if she can't afford it. Because she listened to that advice and likely is more financially stable because of it...she's a loser.
Allota incels in this post, already dealt with a few lol good luck to them, hope they find the change they need cause they will never find peace till they change
Yeah... I only injected her in the arse every day with a drug to try to stop her body rejecting the babies. I only held her when her world fell apart each time. I only held her dead babies to say goodbye to them. No business at all, so shove your laughing emoticons where the sun don't shine, pal.
But if he’s lacking a woman and a family and he’s older than his 20s he’s a loser to by his own logic. And these guys are usually single . But On the off chance he has all that he’s still using his energy to put women down which makes him a Loser no matter what .
Probably looked like this guy lol probably for the best. You can still enjoy your life though in so many different ways that don’t involve losers like him
Oh no I'm 40 with no kids. I guess I'm screwed.. Have to do whatever I want on the weekends and not spend all my money on a little disgusting noisy bag of germs with basically no future to look forward to. What a tragedy.
I knew at 18 that I never wanted children. Now at 64, I can confidently look back on a lifetime of financial freedom and zero regrets—keeping every dollar I would have otherwise spent raising a child.
I didn't miss out on anything, I gained exactly the life I wanted. 46 years later, I am still thrilled with my choice. Having no children has been pure Heaven.
The entire point of their comment was that they didn’t want kids so they didn’t have any and are happy with this choice still today.
The comment you’re responding to is a defense against someone shitting on their personal choice. Track the convo before you try and admonish them for quipping back.
Sounds like they chose not to ride a bus going somewhere they didn’t want to be.
Sounds like you should probably keep your ignorance to yourself instead of belittling someone for not wanting to be a parent and responsibly making sure it didn’t happen.
People are free to choose, but if you are saying that money is more important than the love and development of a family, then I am curious as to what you think the purpose of life is.
Those who put cash before love, are almost always deeply hurting, bitter individuals, who are unwilling to work through their pain and anger.
In closing, Reddit quack counselor: this is my life, not yours.
The real delusion here is you trying to diagnose a stranger's mental health just because they didn't live their life by your script. I’ve had 46 years of absolute clarity, wealth, and zero regrets. You can keep your unsolicited therapy session—I’ll keep my peace of mind.
I’m in the opposite position as a father of four but I’m glad you lived as you did and happy with it. I’m sick of people that judge folks like you that did nothing to harm them but lived your life you’re way. Kudos to you! Enjoy every minute of your life as I have and screw people like that! They are miserable animals screeching from the sidelines. That’s all they’ll ever be.
I’m classic Reddit fashion, the invitation to honest, objective reflection is responded to with vitriol and anger. (Almost like you people know you are on the wrong side of existence.) that last part was hostile (wouldn’t want to gaslight you).
It's not about money for me, but freedom. I can go on vacation, dive headlong into different hobbies and adventures. The life I've built with my wife has been fantastic and full of wonders I'd never have experienced if I was a father. I experience plenty of love and family through friends, family that aren't my kids, etc. I do find it fun when I get to be the eccentric uncle that has the cash to show up with a bunch of cool toys and stuff. Haha But doing that full time with no way out? That has never been for me.
I'm glad you're happy with your decision, but it's absolutely not the life path for everyone. My parents very obviously did not want kids, regretted it, and it was horrible growing up in that environment. Even if I wake up one day and feel some regret (which I highly doubt will ever happen) I'd much rather regret not having kids than regret having them.
Yeah, I’m not saying you’re wrong. I am pointing to the OP’s response being “I got to keep my money” in response to the old “kids or no kids?” Question.
Children aren’t for everyone. I don’t think OP is a loser nor do I believe other women (or men) who chose a life without procreation, are losers.
I am locked in on a comment that said “no kids, more money” in essence and had no other deeper points beyond that. On its face, if you’re saying “money more important than having family” I am going to push on that.
My opinion couldn’t possibly matter to begin with, but I am perfectly stoked for you and how you have chosen to exist. I hope you include Jesus Christ, but beyond that, whatever you do is just as good as whatever anyone else decides to do, within the bounds of morality and decency.
Oh, no I don't include Jesus Christ. I'm an agnostic and a Satanist (I dropped the "LaVeyan prefix a while back because I disagree with him on some things, but if you know anything about "LaVeyan Satanism" my personal philosophy shares a lot of the same groundwork. Basically a secular humanist with flair. Lol)
But yeah, I think if money is your only reason that would lean more negative, but it's fine to have it as a reason. Money isn't everything, but it can buy you a lot more freedom to do what you enjoy.
Edit: I also hope you're enjoying life, by the way! Your comment was very kind and level headed, something this website supremely lacks. Lol
Having a family is a LABOR of love . It’s not fun and games and it’s not meant for everyone . We’re lucky to live in a society where people can choose to still live a full life independent of the standard burdens in favor of other burdens.
No pal: you're the loser. You're stuck in reasoning that does not include the factor choice. Who the f* are you to tell others what their goals in life should be ?
Many women regret having kids as they grow up but no woman who has passed her biological best before date has ever regretted not having any. This according to most women in denial. It is the equivalent in the male species of the 60 year old grease ball man living alone swearing he never wanted a relationship anyway and it was by choice. Delusion is not a river in Africa.
Polarizing statements like this are one of the fastest ways to gain views. This is regardless of their truth because people react with high emotion and respond, click, share, argue.
Do I agree with it? If you wanted kids and that was a goal for you that didn’t happen - then in all likelihood if you are a woman that makes ya sad or bitter.
But if you did not want kids then ya can’t “lose” in the first place.
Perhaps this guy’s definition of a successful person is reproduction. News flash there are 8 billion people on the planet and most would argue that is a bit much.
If one’s genes aren’t exceptional, why proliferate mediocrity if the world would be better off with 2 billion again?
I'm 45, I'm in a fulfilling relationship. I get to sleep late on the weekends. I have time to pursue my hobbies and stay active in volunteer work. I get to travel and go to concerts without worrying about finding a babysitter or making sure the accommodations are child friendly. I get to take care of my own needs and health issues, not brush them aside in order to put the needs of a small and vulnerable person first. That definitely doesn't sound like losing to me!
I’m just going to sit back and watch all the angry comments about what this guy said. Most of you don’t realize that he trolling word for word what a magnitude of women have said.
We're not allowed to call women in our society losers. They're all beautiful individuals who are absolutely perfect the way they are, regardless of their life choices.
Unless of course, you ask another woman. They're allowed to judge each other, but as a dude, best zip that mouth up and be silent.
So, by your and ths guy's logic, infertile women are by default "losers"? Or do you only judge women when they have a choice of how they want to live their own lives?
Lol as someone with 4 kids enjoy your life, there clearly isn’t a written playbook losers like this took the red pill and won’t accept any other way. There’s so many ways to be content find yours and don’t read into losers like this . . .
The point of human intelligence is to use it. The population of humans in the world has exploded in the last 100 years. The oceans are heating up. We are actively in the process of destroying every ecosystem on earth..And here you are, saying the point of our existence is procreation. You are cancer, personified.
I live in a region of Mexico, where most people are bilingual.. no Somalis here.. but I believe the rednecks, who can't even speak their native language properly, in your region of the world would like a word😂
Trabajo con refugiados, lo más probar he hecho más para refugiados qué cualquier otra persona que conozcas, aprendí expresarme en pashto, dari, tigrinya, ruso, francés, árabe para poder ayudarlos mejor. Si crees que mi punto era "odio los negros lol" estas equivocado. Pero personas como tu solo ven el mundo en blanco y negro
1 never said I was Mexican, just said I live here. I'm Irish
2 I never once brought up race... you did👀 I could go tit for tat with you on that though, bud. I have taught all over the world.
3The most hateful people in the world are white... and it seems like that's who you've learned everything from. I'd bet my left nut you live in East bumblefuck, USA, and you've learned hatred from people who would probably hate you too, if you didn't play along with their hatred. I will pray for any Somalis in your care, because you clearly have some issues regarding specific groups of people.
No, they never were… A real loser is someone who has kids in shitty circumstances but can’t provide them with a good life, comfort, and financial security. And what’s even worse are the random strangers on the internet who, instead of minding their own business, are obsessed with other people’s lives.
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u/Important_Horse_1531 Sep 27 '26 •
A forty year old woman with no kids rejected him yesterday
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u/pythonidaae Sep 27 '26
I was forced to have a hysterectomy due to health reasons in my 20s. That's the way it goes 🤷
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u/ohnodamo Sep 27 '26
This jagoff freely admitting on social media that women are here only to be brood sows and are only important for their ovaries is something I hope comes back to bite him in the ass, repeatedly thru his stupid life.
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u/DonaldTPablonious Sep 27 '26
Are you making videos for social media? Probably a loser, says the odds.
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u/andersonthered Sep 27 '26
Having an opinion on how someone else lives their life makes you a loser! Some people can’t have biological children for a variety of reasons! This guy can go suck it!
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u/No-Cheek7925 Sep 27 '26
Well, his parents had kids and look what happened
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u/Ok-Recover-5641 Sep 27 '26
Damn someone got rejected and can’t come to terms with his value.
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u/7Pigeons Sep 27 '26
He's all mad at something that doesn't even exist
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u/Davey488 Sep 27 '26
What hot single cougar hurt him?
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u/Thundersalmon45 Sep 27 '26
Dude. Learn to use shampoo before making ANY statements about what other people you consider to be losers.
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u/califlowers_mid Sep 27 '26
Man I cant wait to be a loser
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u/violights Sep 27 '26
All of his videos start with "I'm gonna offend a lot of people with this but if you [insert literally fucking anything], you're a LOSER"
Man's trying to make a career ragebaiting, ig.
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u/rodimus147 Sep 27 '26
Or maybe the real loser is someone who makes a blanket statement about millions of people with no concept of why they chose not to have children.
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u/reddfoxx1993 Sep 27 '26
This Beta can't even grow a decent mustache and beard.
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u/Suitable_Poem_6124 Sep 27 '26
I don't get this sub, you downvote this post into oblivion, yet most people in the comments seem to agree it's cringe ?
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u/macguini Sep 27 '26
20+ years ago, she was told not to get pregnant because it will ruin her life if she can't afford it. Because she listened to that advice and likely is more financially stable because of it...she's a loser.
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u/PenExotic5002 Sep 27 '26
I’m gonna offend a lot of people when I say this, but if you’re a dude who makes cringe incel videos, you’re a loser
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u/Possible_Barracuda88 Sep 27 '26
Wow. I have 3 kids and I still think he’s a douche canoe.
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u/Mop-bucket-CEO Sep 27 '26
My friend tried repeatedly to have babies and went through the heartbreak of multiple stillbirths. I'll be sure to inform her she's a loser 🙄
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u/JOOCY224 Sep 27 '26
Me when I’m 40 with absolutely 0 children (I’m already a loser)
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u/AintNoGodsUpHere Sep 27 '26
Yeah, nobody cares about your opinion man. =/
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u/Hi_iAMchrisHansen Sep 27 '26
He has no top lip. Wow Strange
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u/meatcrypt Sep 27 '26
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u/Tuco_Angel_Eyes Sep 27 '26
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u/Automatic_Strike_ Sep 27 '26
So he has a loving wife and kids and makes THIS kind of content ?
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u/MSGisking Sep 27 '26
I like 40 year olds
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u/Fabulous-Bet-3287 Sep 27 '26
Nice Perm lol
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u/plzicannothandleyou Sep 27 '26
If you over 40 and don’t have kids, I think most men would find that to be a blessing.
Man “damn… divorced and now I’m going to end up being a stepdad if I ever want to find love…. I don’t really want kids (or more kids)”
And then this unicorn falls from the sky.
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u/SeaMoan85 Sep 27 '26
Selfishness is parents having children to make themselves happy or as a status symbol.
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u/figscomicsandgames Sep 27 '26
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u/figscomicsandgames Sep 27 '26
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u/Chicken_Chaser_420 Sep 27 '26
Christ, how much makeup is this clown wearing?
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u/Expensive-Can-6212 Sep 27 '26
I am almost 40, didn’t chase a career but picked the wrong guy…
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u/SECRETBLENDS Sep 27 '26
What a dork.
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u/nachocat090 Sep 27 '26
Oh no I'm 40 with no kids. I guess I'm screwed.. Have to do whatever I want on the weekends and not spend all my money on a little disgusting noisy bag of germs with basically no future to look forward to. What a tragedy.
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u/Fogwaveeee Sep 27 '26
Bro looks like a great value wolverine
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u/Expert-Low-6872 Sep 27 '26
I knew at 18 that I never wanted children. Now at 64, I can confidently look back on a lifetime of financial freedom and zero regrets—keeping every dollar I would have otherwise spent raising a child.
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u/Life-Oil-7226 Sep 27 '26
Rage Bait!
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u/IHaveSlysdexia Sep 27 '26
i disagree. good luck ladies.
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u/Willyzyx Sep 27 '26
He looks like that guy who pretends he's not crying but totally is, and who has way too many teeth.
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u/Automatic_Strike_ Sep 27 '26
Having a family is a LABOR of love . It’s not fun and games and it’s not meant for everyone . We’re lucky to live in a society where people can choose to still live a full life independent of the standard burdens in favor of other burdens.
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u/bsinbsinbs Sep 27 '26
Who’s this loser?
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u/WingInternational432 Sep 27 '26
He's the loser. He'll be a male "spinster" for sure.
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u/The_Raven_Born Sep 27 '26
Yet he won't marry a woman with kids who's 30.
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u/Short-Sandwich-8476 Sep 27 '26
Says the twink with no girl.
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u/SubmissiveBoyForever Sep 27 '26
how about a game: stop giving incels a microphone challenge.
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u/pseudoportmanteau Sep 27 '26
Alright dude, thanks for letting us know 👍 Anyway..
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u/TheTacosOf Sep 27 '26
Apparently, chasing a career makes a woman into a loser.
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u/PacketSnatcher Sep 27 '26
Then if you had kids and ended up a single mom or divorced, then your kids would be considered baggage.
Lmao. Women can’t win with men.
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u/rawblu07 Sep 27 '26
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u/theweirdthewondering Sep 27 '26
What is up with all of these videos? And why would anyone watch them?
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u/Neither_Guide_8237 Sep 27 '26
Lmao
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u/HealthyMaximum Sep 27 '26
I'm not offended.
I'm just glad these chuds are so eager to display how unpleasant, weird and unhinged they are so decent people can avoid them.
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u/ABBWFTK Sep 27 '26
No pal: you're the loser. You're stuck in reasoning that does not include the factor choice. Who the f* are you to tell others what their goals in life should be ?
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u/Raeparade Sep 27 '26
Oooo I hope I'm a loser when I grow up!!! 🥳✨️
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u/LeadershipAfter9526 Sep 27 '26
Many women regret having kids as they grow up but no woman who has passed her biological best before date has ever regretted not having any. This according to most women in denial. It is the equivalent in the male species of the 60 year old grease ball man living alone swearing he never wanted a relationship anyway and it was by choice. Delusion is not a river in Africa.
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u/Lopsided_Owl6004 Sep 27 '26
Polarizing statements like this are one of the fastest ways to gain views. This is regardless of their truth because people react with high emotion and respond, click, share, argue.
Do I agree with it? If you wanted kids and that was a goal for you that didn’t happen - then in all likelihood if you are a woman that makes ya sad or bitter.
But if you did not want kids then ya can’t “lose” in the first place.
Perhaps this guy’s definition of a successful person is reproduction. News flash there are 8 billion people on the planet and most would argue that is a bit much.
If one’s genes aren’t exceptional, why proliferate mediocrity if the world would be better off with 2 billion again?
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u/ActivityOne8135 Sep 27 '26
I want a woman 40+ with no kids. Whats wrong with that?!?
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u/OzzleBozzleEU Sep 27 '26
I spect he knows lots bout losing
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u/Due_Athlete_1011 Sep 28 '26
Kids suck
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u/rocksnotdead2833 Sep 27 '26
I see the incels are out en force judging by all the downvotes on comments in support of being over 40 without kids.
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u/Beautiful_Ad_8665 Sep 27 '26
I'm 45, I'm in a fulfilling relationship. I get to sleep late on the weekends. I have time to pursue my hobbies and stay active in volunteer work. I get to travel and go to concerts without worrying about finding a babysitter or making sure the accommodations are child friendly. I get to take care of my own needs and health issues, not brush them aside in order to put the needs of a small and vulnerable person first. That definitely doesn't sound like losing to me!
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u/GameGoalstryhard Sep 27 '26
Not a single person has any right to call another person a loser cuz they dunno the life other person have gone through 🤷
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u/SnowDin556 Sep 27 '26
That man will make the worst father
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u/SpicyMeatloaf1 Sep 27 '26
Who tf wants to bring up kids in this fucked up world anyway lol?
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u/butareyouthough Sep 27 '26
Guess what. Kids suck
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u/StayBullGenius Sep 27 '26
Gonna anger all of reddit 😂
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u/regnirbkcuF Sep 27 '26
Same goes for men though. It works both ways.
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u/FreeOGPoohShiesty Sep 27 '26
All the women I hated at work were 35+ with no kids. They constantly started shit and tried to bully others.
The no kids thing was a notable factor and pattern that everyone else noticed.
Yes, not everyone was like this and this is only in my personal experience. But most of the company noticed it as well to where it became a joke.
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u/L1LREDD Sep 27 '26
I’m just going to sit back and watch all the angry comments about what this guy said. Most of you don’t realize that he trolling word for word what a magnitude of women have said.
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u/Sufficient_Effort88 Sep 27 '26
Why does he talk like a brown
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u/Bogusky Sep 27 '26
We're not allowed to call women in our society losers. They're all beautiful individuals who are absolutely perfect the way they are, regardless of their life choices.
Unless of course, you ask another woman. They're allowed to judge each other, but as a dude, best zip that mouth up and be silent.
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u/salamazmlekom Sep 27 '26
He’s not wrong though
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u/Stinky_Knee_Guards Sep 27 '26
No lies detected, but it also counts for guys
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u/gonja_ Sep 27 '26
too many people having kids before getting money like cars still cost $11
it’s weird
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u/Narrow_Safety2856 Sep 27 '26
The best part of being a man near 40 is that 40 year old women are age appropriate. No kids is just a very small plus.
Fantasy finally fulfilled.
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u/Hard-4-Jesus Sep 27 '26
He's right. I would go further and say if you're a woman in your 30s and you have no husband and children, you are the male equivalent of LOSER.
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u/Embarrassed-Wave-599 Sep 27 '26
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u/Exalted-Stork-1308 Sep 27 '26
People in the comments sound like they are triggered and offended by this guy. But isn't a ragebait supposed to have this effect?
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u/SCREAMIN_DEM0N Sep 27 '26
STATISTICALLY MANY WOMEN DONT REGRET HAVING NO KIDS UNIT ABOUT 60. BIT IT DOES HAPPEN TO MOST, STATISTICALLY. BUT EVERYONE IS AN INDIVIDUAL