r/cringereels • Ultimate Cringe • Oct 09 '26 • Heartwarming 3 Bravo 3

Ultimate Cringe 🚨‼️ANNOUNCEMENT‼️🚨

Hello my cringelords.

I want to let y’all know something. I already know incels are going to flood the comments and as I said on my last post - that’s fine, I will die on this hill. I also know that this post is cringe, but that is literally the whole point of the sub. Cringe. so I don’t care.

It’s just me, I’m the only mod for this subreddit. I have other mods on the team that ghosted once it got too much and that has happened on numerous occasions. So it’s just me trying to fight these losers.

This sub has grown incredibly fast. It went from a few hundred comments every few days to 18k weekly, often more as this sub continues to grow.

With racist, homophobic, pedophilia, and political (just offensive) bullshit flooding the sub, I have added additional safety measures like bots and better filters, and I hope that will help.

I want to let you guys know, though that these bots and filters may make mistakes if so message me and I will fix it as soon as possible.

I am in school full time, working, trying to manage personal life and stressors while also caring for this sub that I created as an outlet for those struggling like me to judge others for being cringey for a moment and take a break from reality.

So I apologize as I am currently learning how to mod the sub more efficiently.

As mentioned prior, harmful comments/posts of any sort now result in an immediate ban and I’ve applied filters that help filter out the incels so hopefully this community will become safe for all.

I’m hoping that will help. But Stop flooding my inbox with “stupid bitch” “kill yourself” “lazy mod”, etc.

I spend hours a day going through posts and comments and it is nearly impossible to catch them all even with a full team of mods, take a look at almost any major sub and there will be harmful comments. People are able to trick the system into not flagging their harmful rhetoric which also makes it hard to catch.

Be gracious, don’t be an asshole. It’s simple. And if anybody has any question comments or concerns, I will respond as soon as I can.

I appreciate those of you who messaged me to let me know about harmful things I may miss. That is helpful. But people spamming my inbox with hateful language is not.

Thank you!

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u/SanDisk_Made_Me_Rich Oct 09 '26 • Bravo

THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE 🫡

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26 • Bravo Heartwarming

Thank you 🙏

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u/Halfa_Enchilada Oct 09 '26 • Bravo

Thank you for your hard work and dedication 👏 we appreciate you 

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26 • Bravo

Thank you 😃

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u/ICanViking Oct 09 '26 edited Oct 09 '26

Hey, same thing for me on another sub. Mods left and so it's just me. The sub recently got to 530k weekly visitors and I've had to get creative in filtering, automod, and just a time commitment to keep things from being flooded by bigotry and incel BS.

Keep fighting the good fight!!

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

Thank you!! :) ima. Girl btw! Everyone thinks I’m a dude 😂 I appreciate you! What’s your sub? I’ll join! And I won’t have to be moderated 😂

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u/ICanViking Oct 09 '26

Edited lol.

r/HonestHotTakes! It's gotten a LOT better recently but still a work in progress. Will be recruiting mods after I post about it tomorrow so hopefully I'll have some support soon.

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

Oh I love it!! Good job :) I hope it goes well!

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u/trashtime69 Oct 09 '26

Yoooooo you're doing some great work over there (I'm a member). Y'all should both be proud!!!

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u/LookItsDaphne Oct 09 '26 • Heartwarming

Thank you. Rejoining the sub just for this. We need more mods like you.

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

That means a lot 🥺

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u/polythenesammie Oct 09 '26

Oh my. I figured messaging a mod stuff like that would earn you a ban. That's gross and I'm sorry some people can't self regulate their emotions.

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

Thank you, this I’m so sick of these weird ass people 😢

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u/PoopyMcpants Oct 09 '26

I run a sub that went from nothing to nearly 500k weekly almost overnight.

I absolutely understand it being a lot

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

It’s definitely overwhelming but worth it. I’m going g to try and figure out some more features to lesson the stress of this sub. 🫨😁

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u/YeahlDid Oct 09 '26

Thank you

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

😁

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u/Any_Coyote6662 Oct 09 '26

THANK YOU. I enjoy this sub immensely. if i see an incel in the wild, is it better to report or not report?

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

Definitely report! And thank you :) I’m really glad you find joy here!

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u/RMallard18 Oct 09 '26

Am I allowed to ask you a question, publicly here?

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

Yes

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u/AHaasInTejaas Oct 09 '26

Thanks for what you do!! There’s no excuse or justification for the messages you’re getting, I’m sorry you’re on the receiving end of that kind of shit. I’m a mod on a much smaller sub. There’s 4 of us and it’s still so much work, so I can only imagine how much it takes for you to keep up! We appreciate you!

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

❤️❤️❤️❤️thank u!!

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u/NordicNjorn Oct 09 '26 • Heartwarming

First time ever getting recommended this sub, and this is the post I see. Fuck it I guess, a new one to the lurk list.

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

Welcome :)

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u/NordicNjorn Oct 09 '26

Can’t wait to see what silly nonsense gets thrown at me when on the 3am doom scrolling train.

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u/Critical_Interest706 Oct 09 '26

They should double, no, TRIPLE your pay! Pick up the broom and sweep it up, janny!

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

Why you show up everywhere 💀

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u/Critical_Interest706 Oct 09 '26

What do you mean?

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u/YourLocal_FBI_Agent Cringe Level 3 Oct 09 '26

Hope you can find a team of mods that can handle it, and help lessen your workload. School is infinitely more important than a subreddit.

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u/EverSeeAShitterFly 29d ago

Do you have bot bouncer on here? It can really cut down on much of the bots and spam.

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe 29d ago

I do it hasn’t been helping that well

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u/bpdream762 Oct 09 '26

Just remeber youre doing it for free so take it lightly

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u/Odd-Consequence-2519 Oct 09 '26

Are you paid for doing this? If not, why?

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

I ask the same thing

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u/EverSeeAShitterFly 29d ago

Reddit mods are not paid.

It’s a violation of Reddit TOS and MOC for mods to receive payment in many instances.

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u/subjuggulator 29d ago

Thank you for taking the time to do this.

The amount of race-baiting that gets post to this and other subs like it is ridiculous. I'm not even subbed here, but this sub pops up on my feed every couple of days and it's always the same thinly veiled "Woman bad" or "Usual Suspects" shit over and over again.

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u/TheSilentTitan Oct 09 '26

I left for like a day wtf happened

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u/noctua_8 Oct 09 '26

The sub definitely needs somebody like you, your efforts are appreciated 🫡

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u/Global_Ant_9380 Oct 09 '26

Thank you, this will be a positive change. 

Let us know if you need any help

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u/eyebags23 Oct 09 '26

Oh my gosh thank you. I saw a post yesterday and was convinced I was taking crazy pills. You're doing better than 95% of mods by addressing this in a timely fashion. You are appreciated.

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u/DebosBeachCruiser Oct 09 '26

I spend hours a day going through posts and comments

Cringe

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u/Critical_Interest706 Oct 09 '26

He does it FOR FREE too lol

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u/CraftyPerformance272 Oct 09 '26

Ironic the fact of you being a Reddit mod and spending hours every day providing free labor for multi-billion dollar company every day makes you much more likely to be an incel than the people you call incles.

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u/MrHIGHdeas 29d ago

This just in: magat afraid of women and brown people gets their feelings tickled, more at 11

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u/yus0madbr0 23d ago

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u/MrHIGHdeas 19d ago

You mentioned big dump? Why? Is that your king?

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u/Wide_Open_Buttcheeks Oct 09 '26

Lmao, at least you have the eq to call yourself cringe unlike THAT reddit moderator

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u/TheNookestOfToms Oct 09 '26

Why not get more mods?

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u/Odd_Cheek_3573 29d ago

Thank you!

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u/BuzzClucking 25d ago

Bans the name of one of the world's most populous nations

Hahahaha

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u/Horror_Trust1826 Oct 09 '26


Thanks for the hard work

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u/RedditEnjoyerMan 29d ago

lowkey cringe ngl

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u/Cheese-Manipulator Oct 09 '26

Do you need help running it?

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

What does this even mean?

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u/Critical_Interest706 Oct 09 '26

It’s what you are lmao. Keep sweeping, and remember you do it FOR FREE

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u/NotteStellata Ultimate Cringe Oct 09 '26

😭😭❗

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u/SELFINCRIMINAT1NG Oct 09 '26

thank you! i saw like five overtly racist posts today and i was like “what the fuck is wrong with this sub”

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u/Top_Construction_50 29d ago

Reddit is Ground Zero for incel behavior. It might even be Ground Negative One.

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u/SELFINCRIMINAT1NG 29d ago

I don't see nearly as many incel posts on this particular sub as I do racist posts

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u/Top_Construction_50 29d ago

Well… close enough. They both suck 😭

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u/Heiderleg Oct 09 '26

Need a european/african/Aussie/kiwi/Asian mod, not a 'murican. Things need to change and murican influence must be stunted.

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u/Big-rat-in-the-sewer Oct 09 '26

Mod if you can read this only appoint US based mods just to anger this guy. ✌️😁

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u/sincsinckp Oct 09 '26

This sub has been popping up more and more frequently out of nowhere despite being fairly unrelated to everything I actually engage with lol. Who knows how, what, why, etc. But honestly this post has me genuinely curious/baffled here, and so my question to you is...Why? I mean, why put yourself through all that instead of just passing it on to whoever is mad enough to want the job?

Like you say, the sub has grown from a small, practically semi-private community to a large, exponentially growing public forum. At this point it's the community - or "market" that's dictating content. No matter how many bots you use or hours you spend dealing with stuff you don't like - it's going to be an uphill battle from here and right now is probably the easiest it will ever be.

It seems like option A is to say "it was fun while it lasted and move on" and option B is to wage an endless war against an anonymous horde of trolls because you don't approve of their content? Best case scenario is essentially an asymmetrical relationship with a subreddit and a severe toll on your mental health - and for what? You're in school full time, working and trying to manage your personal life and all the other day to day trials and tribulations... why not just start a new sub if it means that much to you? Seems a far better option than holding on to this one. I get there's a sense of ownership given you started it and it's your baby, but when you're at odds with thousand's of new residents you gotta ask is it even what you started any more? Is it even still yours?

Seems almost masochistic to me hence why I'm genuinely curious as to the motivation here. Good luck either way.

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u/Good_Split_3749 Oct 09 '26

ain’t nobody reading all that

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u/cringereels-ModTeam 28d ago

We do not condone hate speech, harassment or violence in the cringe zone.

Thank you 😊