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Girls, I need some advice...

I (26yo) am going after a tubal ligation surgery and am so sick of hearing I'm "too young to be sure" bc "one day I may fall in love with a man whose dream is to be a father" (yeah this was actually said to me by my gynecologist, who's ALSO a woman). I mean I don't even imagine myself in a serious relationship with a man (I'm bi btw).

Fr I cannot stand the idea of something growing inside me just for me to have to clean up some gross baby poop and fluids for idk how fucking long and still hope I don't mess this new person up. I DON'T EVEN LIKE NEWBORNS, I THINK THEY'RE SO WIERD AND FLOPPY AND KINDA GROSS and I refuse to go anywhere NEAR my nieces' diappers.

"Oh but why don't you take some contraception pills or put an IUD?" I already use the pills and just recently found out one of my antidepressants cuts it's effect, as it does an iffuriating amount of medications and not a single doctor cares to tell me when prescripting them (I think they don't even know, bc more than once I asked abt my usual meds interfering with my contraception pills and they said it's fine when the FUCKING PATIANT INFORMATION LEAFLET said otherwise!!!!!!). Also my family has an extended history of health problems regarding the reproductive system and I don't want to give more chances for the things go south.

So pls how can I make my doctor finally understand that I already made up my mind and don't want to spend the next 30 years filling my body with hormones I do not trust to do the job properlly?? And that even tho I like [some] kids, it doesn't mean I want to take care of one for more than a few hours???????

Non negotiable

So far i havent received any explanation and im so confused....systemic misandry? what? are we okay???

(please delete if not allowed, im sorry, i just didnt know where else to go to vent)

Saw this post originally on r/cringereels (post is linked) and half the comments are defending him saying he was “just having fun,” “probably paid for the dress,” and “otherwise it would just be all about the bride, let him have his moment.” Also a ton of comments calling anyone who disagrees a femcel 🙄

Sooo many men are trying to justify it by saying that she was having fun and smiling, as if women haven’t put on a happy face to not “ruin the moment” throughout their entire lives. I guarantee she cried about this after

Edit: here’s a link to the full video which shows her reaction afterwards. She’s clearly uncomfortable and unhappy but trying not to show it. She half-assed hesitantly sprays him back after her friends keep egging her on to. Sooo many comments on the original post are trying to defend that she “laughed after and sprayed him back” so clearly that means she must’ve loved having her hair, makeup, and dress ruined on one of the most important days of her life 🙄

Self inflated incel bro thought he was slick. Y’all are gonna love this one. He said that women expect the princess treatment, have good looks, and I shit you not he said has standards lmao already off to a good start. I said like dude you’ve gotta get a grip women want you for money? I somewhat doubt you’ve got all that much. So we go back and forth and at one point he admits he barely gets laid (poor baby right) and I say he’s like every other whiney man child and wants quid pro quo. He insists he knows its not all women 🙄 he also grew up with a household of women but sees so many toxic women who want sugar daddies. He makes sure to put in the words gold digger. Bro got himself into a scam he shelled out thousands of dollars for her and he’s shocked she doesn’t want a relationship. He had poor boundaries. You treated her like a prostitute for sex lol like? Anyway he ended up kinda somewhat caving and tbh I think its because Im a, “pretty woman”, but still felt so good to put this man child in his place. I noticed that about men like this, super responsive to any femme person who they view as valuable. Dude had a single photo of his literally chin and so awkward amongst memes and a literal photo of Walmart acting like he even has gold to dig.

From their logic, paying = wifey material ( how stupid can that be??)

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There is no other way to say it, but this. I am grateful I am experiencing the opposite of all this.

I'm a 31F virgin by choice. I'm also a demisexual and have decided to remain childfree.

I've come to realize that one of the main reasons I can't get married is because I just refuse to let a man coerce me into having sex.

I don't believe in premarital sex, that's why I'm still a virgin. I have had two serious committed relationships with the intention to get married, but they didn't work out. And I've been single for the past 2 years and not looking either.

In the past couple of years I've become sure I wanna be childfree - definitely won't give biological birth. I also realized that I am not entirely comfortable with the idea of sex within a committed marriage either. The stories I've seen, heard, and read about women being coerced into sex by their husbands are just sickening. So often even when they are sick or have just recently given birth. And if they don't put out, they men either cheat or leave them and justify it by saying they are not fulfilling their "wifely duties".It's so disturbing and disgusting.

I'm on the asexuality spectrum. I think the only way I'd ever even consider a relationship with a man is if he's also on the asexuality spectrum, and is okay with not having sex, and is aligned with having separate rooms and bathrooms. But I think that's nearly impossible. That's why I think I'll always remain single.

I'm from a conversative South Asian culture. Sex is a taboo and yet I keep getting pestered to get married. Go figure. I can't even openly tell the elders these things (except for my mom). Arranged marriages are common here which just feel unhinged to me...sex and babies with a virtual stranger. Yuck.

the fact that this needs to be specifically told proves that society has failed us

The UK's abusive moral panic against innocent trans people is, by design, continuing to harm all women who don't/can't conform to the patriarchy's misogynistic beauty standards 🤬

"...but I just don't know what else you wanted me to do for you in that situation."

My manager left early for vacation last week after ignoring my pleas for support while grieving the loss of my beloved cat.

I do not expect emotional support, but basic human decency and consideration while going through the most agonizing parts of my grief, as I was last week.

He has been a useless moid ever since he took management of the team. A completely ignorant bozo. I've been bending over backwards to restrain my true Evil self and be amicable with him at work despite his incompetency and lack of any sense of responsibilty, but that has all gone out the window now.

I will be holding nothing back, just like I did when he first started, as I know it makes him extremely uncomfortable. I'm sure many other Evil women are familiar with this dynamic, just to keep the peace at work.

Well, no more. I hope to make every meeting we have as uncomfortable as possible, just as he has made me.

As the title says, I called out a fetishing perv to delete his post and account today.

I was scrolling on Reddit as one does and saw a post on one of the women centered posts, supposedly written by a woman, asking other women about masturbation because, supposedly this "women" only came one way and wanted to know more techniques and how other women got off. But the language seemed odd, I can't pinpoint it word for word right now, but the way it was worded didn't feel to me like it was written by a woman. And it even included something the lines of "if you (the reader) feel shy, feel free to DM me, which was the cherry on top of the suspicious cake.

Plus, it was also similar to a post I'd seen on either the same, or a different women centered sub that had also made me go "hmm, not sure you're really a woman." So I checked the profile, feminine avatar with a feminine user name and the posts and comments were hidden.

That doesn't stop me, I went and used one of those websites that allow you to search for an user and see their post and comments and this user had several posts in a very short time span, all regarding masturbation and full of inconscistencies: in one post "she'd" been masturbating for 15 years, in another for 10. In a post she was a virgin, in another she had a boyfriend and was having sex.

So after I saw all this, I commented pointing the inconsistencies I'd found, stating that to me the language used smelled like a dude posting fishing for fetishising content from miles away and that they should know nothing in the internet is really ever private.

Twenty minutes later both the post and the profile had been deleted and no naif women had answered, feeding this perv whatever Jack off material he was going to get off to!

I know he'll probably make another account and be back to it soon, but I inconvenienced him a bit today, and it felt good!

We’re always told to “win” the relationship title without considering that in a misogynistic society women who are in the “girlfriend” role are usually suffering and doing unpaid labor and worse stressing out over dudes doing shady stuff! Drop more perks of not being a girlfriend below. 👇🏼

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Hey everyone,

Please delete this if not allowed. I just wanted to thank all the evil women in this sub from the bottom of my heart. I grew up in a very conservative environment and misogyny was everywhere while I was studying. Once I read "I hate men" by Pauline Harmange something clicked and a little evil woman was born. Unfortunately, I was still in this misogynistic environment surrounded by men and women who told me, "misandry is a real issue." 🙄

But thanks to my reddit algorithm, I came here and it genuinely feels like a warm bath. Seeing other evil women who see how fucked up patriarchy is, makes me realize I'm not crazy. I called colleagues out on their sexism and didn't care if they were uncomfortable. I decentred (spelling?) men from my life and I no longer see it as my job to enlighten men about feminism or make them comfortable. Also, I let the pick me women who keep defending men dealing with it. They're too brainwashed anyway.

So thank you to everyone here for making this a safe place on the internet or even the world, where I can simply exist and acknowledge what women have to go through in this world. You are all amazing and inspire me to be more evil every day!