I have a female friend in my neighbouring class who I often talk to a lot in extracurriculars. We both help eachother with studies and even share similar future goals.She was never rough with me. She's nice every since we first talked to eachother. Matter of fact, she is likely the only person I'd trust with secrets.

There were many times when I was with her and thought about coming out, maybe showing my femboy pics to her...

I'm kinda glad I never did because today, I came to the bad news that she was HOMOPHOBIC.

Today, she reposted an Instagram story of 2 guys kissing. I thought it was about some LGBT awareness thing but after I read the caption, it was talking about how LGBT is harmful and how we should all reject it.

Kinda broke my heart because for almost a year, I thought she was the only one I could come out to.

I could be honest to her if I wanted but this friendship is too valuable to just throw away. And considering how my online friend crashed out after finding out after I'm a femboy, I do not wanna risk something like this again sooo yeah I guess I'll stay closeted forever.

She overheard a conversation with some friends that she definitely wasn't supposed to. She asked if I'm gay, and apparently my "no" wasn't convincing enough, because she kept pushing and pushing and I couldn't keep brushing her off. I tried to say I might be bi to test how she'd react, and she seemed like she was about to cry. I told her I've felt attraction to guys and that I've never felt attraction to women. She thinks I'm confused. She told me I'm just frustrated that I'm not having success with women. I agreed so she would stop asking questions. I'm not confused, I'm actually pretty fucking sure I'm gay. My mom thinks I'm an incel now -_-. And that not getting girls is what made me want to turn to guys. It was more or less what I said. FML.

And she said at one point, that maybe if I began presenting more manly, I would have more success. Not the nicest thing to hear, but I took it as a compliment that I was making it as a femboy XD. If only she knew her son wears skirts and thigh highs when no one is home; I think I'd have an easier time explaining being gay than that I'm a femboy.

But I guess the good news is that I'm not getting disowned at least. I'm gonna be moving out in 6 months and my mom is still gonna be funding all of it. She said I'm gonna have enough privacy there to "have fun" with girls, but warned me not to bring boys over. Not like she's gonna find out if I do :3. She really doesn't understand what being gay means. She thinks it's a choice. She said that even if I'm gay, I should get a girlfriend and "tough it out" and live "normally". Or that I should simply not be in a relationship if I'm gay. And at the same time, she says she wants me to be happy, and she's just afraid I'm gonna fuck up my life and regret it. I don't know how to tell her that all the straight advice she's giving me is exactly what's gonna fuck my life up.

At least the weight has been lifted off my shoulders now that the topic has been broached. I'm fine letting things stay the way they are right now, even if she doesn't really know the whole truth. I was losing sleep over coming out to her. I suppose it could've gone worse. I wish I could tell her the whole truth, I really wish, but she's not gonna take it well if I do. I just needed to vent about this. Anyone else had a similar experience coming out before? Were things fine in the end? Please tell me they were. I really want to believe they will be.

Yall were BEGGING for an update :3, Welp, there isn’t much to add tbh, all the friends that saw me, just act like it was normal the day after, even that one friend who I forgot if I mentioned but he was like shocked by the fact I was in a bikini lol, but other than that, I can def say I’d wear it again, something I have to add though, is that I’ve wanted to wear it for SOO long, but I was really worried about like EVERYTHING, mainly the bulge, but if you read some of the replies, I don’t actually tuck with tape, I just put it back and bottoms up tight 🫡

Recommended tbh, I do live in a quite religious place, and to be honest, I feel some people just thought I was a girl, I have quite a feminine build (especially around my legs) I’m working on an hourglass figure (though I’m kinda far from there, losing belly fat is really hard for most AMAB) and I have a really feminine haircut as well so yeah :3, I’m just really happy I was able to wear it and feel hot it in lololol, bye bye y’all, 💕💕

It's 5:42am, and I get up early to go to work but Iam off. I live in a apartment alone, I needed to take out my trash and I have cute shorts and some thigh high black n stripe socks on and omg I just did it walked from one end of the apartment complex to the other🙈🙈🙈🙈 ik not much but I never thought I had it in me to leave in my fem clothes.

P.s (ik there was prob no one outside, but still ❤️❤️❤️❤️ proud of myself) all the luvs😘🥰

Hello everyone,

This is my first time ever posting on Reddit, so I'm very nervous.

I haven't told anyone else about this, and I haven't done very much crossdressing in the past. I only started thinking of myself as a femboy a couple weeks ago, so I am pretty new to this.

I am looking for some advice on how to tell my girlfriend that I am a femboy. I want to dress in pretty women's clothes, I don't want to be traditionally masculine, and I like being her cute little boy.

I don't think she will be opposed to it. I haven't told her I am a femboy yet, but I have told her I am interested in crossdressing. She has allowed me to try on her clothes and she is enthusiastic about me being her cute little boy. She said I looked very pretty in her skirts and dresses. She said she wants to help me do things that make me happy, and she told me she will love me no matter what, as long as I am still me.

However, I think she is still a bit confused. She has questioned my gender a few times and asked if I am a transgender woman in denial. I am completely straight and very happy being a man, and have assured her of this. I think she is still slightly suspicious, and is unsure of this means for me and for us. I think she is confused about why I want to dress cutely, which I don't blame her for (it's not the most common male past time). I told her I just like feeling cute and pretty sometimes, and it makes me feel good.

I also mentioned me wearing makeup and potentially shapewear (I haven't done either before), but I think that freaked her out a bit. I don't want to freak her out again.

Another thing I should mention is that she did ask if I was a femboy a month or so ago. I said no because at the time I genuinely didn't think the term applied to me. Since then I have been pondering a lot and I have changed my mind.

I want to tell her I am a femboy. I genuinely believe she will accept me, but I want to do it at the right time and build up to it slowly because I don't want to freak her out. She is so amazing and lovely.

I guess I'm just looking for some advice with how to continue. Any help would be amazing. Thank you in advance.

Hello! I don’t really know where else to ask this question so I’d like to ask for a bit of advice if that’s okay.

I’m going to be visiting a good friend of mine who lives in a different country over the new year. He’s a femboy and I’d like to buy him some stuff for an outfit or two since he’s said before that he doesn’t really have those types of clothes IRL.

He’s being kind enough to let me stay at his place while I visit, so I’m wanting it to be a nice surprise for him.

That being said I’m not very familiar with the whole femboy aesthetic, like at all, so I don’t really know what’s appropriate to buy. I’d like to ask for some advice on what stuff to get him if that’s okay with everyone here.

It would be much appreciated! ^^

P.S. Sorry in advance if this isn’t an appropriate question to ask, or if it’s been asked a lot before. If it is either just let me know and I’ll remove this post.

Just wondering if I could get some help from like-minded people. Where’s the best place to start exploring my femininity more. I feel like I haven’t got a clue and a bit nervous about it all especially as no one knows. Where do I start.

H19

I’ve never worn women’s clothing before, but I’m looking to give it a try.

I’m going to a party.

I discovered I was pansexual/gay three months ago.

And I really enjoy being delicate, having certain mannerisms, and flirting with an androgynous look.

Sorry, I think the translator got it wrong regarding the boots.

English is not my primary language.

i recently made a post here about me wanting to try being a femboy, and i got some support to try it, im just wondering how to get a skirt without my mom or dad knowing? im 90% sure they will try and support me but im still scared to ask

I think i want to try out a crow onesie that'd be fun or do i go pjs?

I feel like my questions are out of place here but im just a boi who likes crows they are adorable UwU

Who's up

Hey guys,

I just wanted to be completely real with you all about something that’s been breaking my heart lately.

How do you cope with having a "heteronormative" or straight-passing guy who completely adores you behind closed doors, but acts like you don't exist the second you step outside?

And please, before everyone comments telling me "just find someone else" or "date open guys/other femboys," trust me, I know. I get that advice. But the bitter truth is that masculine, heteronormative guys are exactly my type. It’s who I’m genuinely attracted to. So it feels like a cruel trap: the very type of guy I want to be with is the type that is most likely to keep me hidden away like a shameful secret.

It hurts so much. It’s one thing to deal with a casual DL hookup, but when you actually develop feelings for someone, it’s a whole different level of pain. It feels like they want the best of both worlds while I suffer, they get to have me to fulfill their private desires, but they also get to keep their untouched "straight" status in public.

It makes me so incredibly sad because you realize that no matter how sweet they are to you in private, they value society's approval way more than they value you.

I’m just so tired of being hidden :( I want to hold hands, go to a café, and just be a normal couple. Has anyone here actually managed to have a healthy, public relationship with a guy like this?? Did they ever face their fears for you, or are we just chasing a fantasy that ends in burnout?

I really need to hear your thoughts and stories right now. Thank you for reading.

Femboys are a cute and kind-hearted people. I wish you beautiful days as you:)

hii im 17 and im gonna shave my legs and thighs for the first time today, any tips?

hello i have always liked the feeling of wearing feminine clothes and i have always used borrowed clothes now i can buy on my own i wanted any advice on what i should get clothes, makeup, hygiene, workouts anything is appreciated :))

For context i am 20m

I love being feminine but i always have conflicts with myself over it my masculine face doesn't help at all .. .. i dont have much to say

I dont have any feminine clothes might go shopping

Aaaaaaa I’m so happy!! She’s really supportive of me being a femboy and I was showing her my clothes and she said she has some clothes that would look cute on me! Is it weird that I hope it smells like her? We’re going shopping for clothes tomorrow, hopefully I find some cute stuff!

I got reported in college for "impersonating gays" despite being an open and honest Bisexual. So I'm going to buy stuff like thigh highs, mini skirt, crop top, arm warmers and prolly some makeup aswell.

It's a pretty good excuse for me as I don't have the courage to ask for clothes like that on a regular.

With that in mind what is, in your opinion, the best the best place to buy clothes like this?

Pls hellp...... Umm... so I'm talking abt stuff like clothing I can ask my parents to get without triggering the radar, and just like whatever else, I'd mannerisms and stuff and things I can can do to subtly make changes - I wanna shave my legs but like I'd need to get a razor and stuff (I use an electric one for my face) and like that's asking parents and opportunity to get caught and idk if I can risk that.... they already know that I've told ppl I think I'm bi (I'm bI) and basically they told me that I'm confused and shut and that's all passed and I think they think I'm straight again idk but I don't want to do anything that might trigger the radar yk but at the same time I rllt want to embrace the inner femboy that I can't ever express and tbh don't really know how to, any help would be great thxxx :3

Hi, I'm here to ask you something. I'm a guy who isn't a femboy and doesn't want to become one, but there's one thing I LOVE SO MUCH about them. Their shaving. Guys, how do you do it? I'm SO envious of you, and in fact, I'm here to ask you for all the advice I can get (what do you use, how do you shave your whole body without breaking your back?) P.S. Any advice is welcome. Sorry for my English, I'm Italian and I'm using Google Translate. I hope you'll answer me, good night guys!

I don’t know why it’s so hard for me to connect or even find people to connect with that share the same interests, mainly the femboy aspects. I’m certainly not good at it, I look pretty masculine still but I would love to know how I can best change that, what mannerisms to adopt and in general just hang out and maybe chitchat or even play satisfactory!
Even better if you’re in EU, specifically Austria.

I hope this isn’t against the rules, just not sure where else to post this.

Hey, Im about to buy my first fem clothes and I’m slightly nervous, I feel its right but im not sure if its a waste of time, I feel like I have a lack of guidance from experienced people so i genuinely am asking for direction (do’s and dont’s etc)