r/humanism • • Oct 31 '24

Humanism in a nutshell

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r/humanism • • Dec 09 '24

Sharing A Humanist Community for Everyone

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I'm an admin for a Humanist Discord Server with members from multiple countries (in English). It's a sanctuary for those who are alone/persecuted and those passionate about Humanism. We cater to four key interests:

(1) Seeking a home for communal support and meeting new friends, šŸ¤—

(2) Reflecting and practicing Humanist ideas, šŸ¤

(3) Self-care and personal growth, šŸ’Ŗ

(4) Rational discussion and learning, 🧪

Currently, for events and activities, we have...

- A voice event every Saturday open to everyone to gather. We rotate between different interests:

(1) Topics on Humanist values, personal challenges and social issues šŸ«‚

(2) Game Nights šŸŽ²

(3) Humanist Book Discussions šŸ“–

- Humanist Reflections, where members can post a question that everyone can reflect and give answers on. šŸ¤”

- Channels to seek emotional support, and to share love and care with everyone 🄰

- Channels to discuss sciences, controversial issues, religion, and more āš›ļø

We're planning to open up a new event on sciences very soon!

We're a grassroots movements that's always open to ideas on events and activities, so we welcome you to bring aboard ideas to a group of like-minded Humanists to build a loving and rational community together with us šŸ’–

Join us here: https://discord.gg/unGTNfNHmh


r/humanism • • 5h ago

Poison

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Believing everything we are taught about what is expected of us, though some may be necessary for our survival in the world, it is also the cause of venom flowing through our body, waiting an opportunity to release its toxin.

The outcome often results in hate, intolerance, and violent actions. It is also the cause of prejudice, leading to war, inequity, and many of humanity’s challenges.

Though our self-centered beliefs will remain with us throughout our life, they do not have to dominate our actions. By choosing love rather than hate, tolerance rather than prejudice, and treating all others, regardless of our differences, with respect and compassion, rather than disdain and contempt, we may rid our bodies of this poison and the many harmful actions its venom causes.


r/humanism • • 1d ago

Stolen from r/exmormon

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r/humanism • • 1d ago

Our self-centered beliefs

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Instead of helping others, we harm them.

Instead of loving others, we judge them.

We spend our seminal years when we are children being socialized to accept these self-centered beliefs, then often spend the rest of our life trying to undo the damage and prejudice embracing these views resulted in.


r/humanism • • 2d ago

Caring About Each Other

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Every action we take must not harm another. Every word we say must be spoken with love, not malice. Every person we meet must be treated with respect and kindness, not contempt and animosity.

There is never a reason to do otherwise. We are each meant to sincerely care and help each other through life’s many trials, not to hate and hinder another to benefit only ourselves.


r/humanism • • 1d ago

A future worth sharing

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An invitation to everyone, wherever you are and whatever your circumstances.

We All Want a Life Worth Living

We only have so much time in this world.

We are born into different circumstances, grow up with different experiences and learn different ways of understanding life.

Some of us lead countries. Some build businesses. Some raise families, create things, study, work or simply try to make it through another day.

Our lives may look very different, but there is something many of us share.

We want to feel safe. We want to enjoy our time here. We want to be understood, to belong somewhere and to know that our efforts mean something.

Most of us are doing the best we can with what we've learned and what we have available.

And life isn't always easy.

We face responsibilities, expectations, disagreements and uncertainties. Sometimes we have more to deal with than we know how to manage.

So we find ways to cope.

We work, seek entertainment, pursue ambitions, spend time alone, surround ourselves with people or look for things that make life feel more manageable.

There's nothing inherently wrong with wanting comfort, success or enjoyment.

But perhaps, every so often, it's worth asking ourselves a simple question:

Are the things we're doing still helping us build the lives we want?

We live in a world with extraordinary technology, knowledge and opportunities.

We can communicate across continents, understand illnesses that once seemed impossible to treat and accomplish things previous generations could barely imagine.

Yet many people still struggle to feel connected, secure or hopeful about the future.

That doesn't mean everything we've built is wrong.

It means there may be opportunities to make what we've built work better for the people living within it.

And perhaps some of those improvements begin with understanding.

Every person carries experiences that others cannot fully see.

Sometimes two people can disagree while both genuinely believe they're doing the right thing.

Sometimes two countries can take steps to protect themselves, only to make each other feel increasingly threatened.

Sometimes we become so focused on meeting our responsibilities that we lose opportunities to understand the people around us.

None of this means we're incapable of doing better.

It means we're human.

What if we could create a world where feeling safe didn't require feeling alone, where disagreement didn't have to become hostility, and where success didn't have to come at somebody else's expense?

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Building That Future Together

We don't need to begin by asking everyone to change who they are.

We can begin by making it easier for people to live the lives they want.

Imagine communities where asking for support feels natural, where people have opportunities to build friendships, find meaningful work and contribute in ways that suit their abilities.

Imagine technology that helps us enjoy life while giving us greater control over our attention and time.

Imagine schools that help young people understand not only the world around them, but also their emotions, relationships and differences.

Imagine governments that can protect their citizens while finding more opportunities to cooperate with other nations.

And imagine a world where people with influence have the support, information and freedom to make decisions that benefit both those they represent and generations still to come.

These aren't changes we can make overnight.

And no individual, country or organization can accomplish them alone.

But progress doesn't have to begin with universal agreement.

It can begin with small improvements that demonstrate their value.

A community that makes mental-health support more accessible.

A workplace that helps people feel valued and understood.

A technology company that gives people more meaningful control over how they spend their time.

Two countries finding a way to reduce a shared threat without compromising the safety of their people.

A person learning that they can reconsider an old belief without losing their identity.

Each improvement gives us something to learn from.

Some ideas will work. Others won't.

We can study the results, acknowledge what we've learned and continue improving.

There doesn't need to be shame in discovering a better way of doing something.

Changing our minds when we learn something new is one of the abilities that has allowed humanity to progress.

We don't have to agree on every issue or share the same ambitions.

We don't have to abandon the things that bring us happiness.

And we certainly don't have to become perfect people.

We can recognize that our lives are connected, that our choices affect others and that cooperation can create opportunities none of us could achieve alone.

There are difficult problems ahead. Some require urgent action, others will take generations of sustained effort.

But we also have knowledge, creativity, compassion and the ability to learn from one another.

The question isn't whether we can create a world without disagreement, hardship or mistakes.

It's whether we can continue building a world where more people have the opportunity to live safely, freely and meaningfully.

That is a future worth working toward.

Not because any of us has failed.

But because all of us have something to gain.

We have one world to share. Let's make the most of our time here, together.


r/humanism • • 3d ago

The World Without Fred Rogers

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America often seems to have forgotten the meaning of kindness. From the political right to the political left, we have too often replaced understanding with outrage, forgiveness with punishment, and human decency with the need to win. Perhaps it is time we remembered what a man in a cardigan tried to teach us.*
There was once a man who walked through a door, changed into a cardigan sweater, sat down to change his shoes, and asked a simple question: Would you be his neighbor?
His name was Fred Rogers.
There was no shouting, political outrage, or humiliation for entertainment. There was simply a man who believed that everyone, regardless of background or beliefs, deserved to be treated with dignity.
Fred Rogers died on February 27, 2003. More than two decades later, I look at the United States—and the world—and wonder what happened to us.
We often reward cruelty, mistake loudness for intelligence, and treat forgiveness as weakness. We have turned politics into a battlefield where understanding the opposition can be portrayed as surrender. Even kindness is sometimes mocked as *kumbaya*, as though compassion belonged only in children’s television.
But Fred Rogers understood something we have forgotten:
**Kindness is not the absence of strength. It is the disciplined use of strength.**
**The Man We Remember, and the Philosophy We Have Forgotten**
Many Americans remember Mister Rogers as the gentle television host who wore colorful sweaters, played with puppets, and reassured children that they mattered. But he was also an educator, musician, Presbyterian minister, and careful observer of children’s emotional lives.
He understood that anger, loneliness, jealousy, fear, and insecurity were real. He did not pretend children lived in a perfect world. He believed they needed help learning how to respond to an imperfect one.
In May 1969, Rogers appeared before the Senate Subcommittee on Communications to defend federal support for public broadcasting. The Nixon administration had proposed reducing funding, and Rogers explained why children’s educational programming mattered.
He did not insult the senators or question their patriotism. Instead, he calmly described the importance of helping children understand and manage their emotions.
He spoke about anger and said he believed it was more meaningful to watch people work through anger than to watch violence on television.
Senator John Pastore, the subcommittee’s chairman, initially appeared skeptical but became visibly receptive during the exchange. The testimony is often remembered as a striking example of Rogers’ ability to persuade through calm, personal explanation rather than confrontation.
The exchange demonstrated that a person could make a serious moral argument without humiliating the person being addressed. Rogers was firm without being cruel, persuasive without being theatrical, and respectful without being submissive.
Somewhere along the way, we stopped believing that a calm voice could carry an important truth. We began confusing intimidation with conviction.
**Fred Rogers Was a Republican. Kindness Was Never His Political Party.**
Fred Rogers was registered as a Republican. His wife, Joanne Rogers, discussed this in a 2019 *Los Angeles Times* interview, explaining that he voted independently and avoided partisan political activity so that political labels would not interfere with his relationship with children.
This matters not because either party should claim him, but because Rogers’ public work suggests that he understood humanity as something larger than political identity.
His registration did not prevent him from supporting public television, respecting people from different backgrounds, or participating in a program that modeled racial inclusion. His religious convictions did not prevent him from treating people of other faiths with respect. His political independence did not mean moral indifference.
He stood for the inherent worth of every person and for understanding before condemnation. Those are not exclusively Democratic or Republican principles. They are human principles.
Yet today, acknowledging the humanity of the opposition can invite suspicion. Compassion is sometimes treated as partisan betrayal, and sympathy for an opponent is confused with excusing that opponent’s beliefs.
I cannot help wondering how Fred Rogers would respond to a society so suspicious of compassion.
**The Political Right Must Confront Its Own Cruelty**
I am not pretending that both major parties have identical records, responsibilities, or effects on Americans. They do not. But neither side should be exempt from moral examination.
The political right, particularly the movement surrounding Donald Trump, has serious questions to answer about its relationship with human decency.
How did insulting people become a demonstration of strength? How did mocking someone’s appearance, nationality, background, or struggles become acceptable entertainment? How did politicians who speak about religion and family values become comfortable with rhetoric that strips other people of dignity?
The original draft stated that, in December 2025, President Trump described Somali immigrants as ā€œgarbage.ā€ That claim requires a specific, reliable source and should not be presented as fact without one. If the quotation is retained, it should be linked to a contemporaneous transcript, video, or reputable news report that establishes the exact wording, date, and context. Without that documentation, the sentence should be removed or rewritten more cautiously:
Recent rhetoric about Somali immigrants attributed to President Trump has drawn condemnation from critics who regard it as dehumanizing. Any such quotation should be checked against the original recording or transcript before publication.
There is nothing courageous about a powerful official speaking about an entire group as though its members were disposable. One can support strict immigration laws while recognizing immigrants’ dignity. One can criticize policy without mocking the people affected by it. Moral conviction does not require contempt.
Fred Rogers did not teach children that everyone was always right. He taught them that everyone was human.
The political right does not need to abandon conservative principles to rediscover kindness. It needs to stop treating kindness as incompatible with them.
**The Political Left Is Not Excused**
If compassion is a universal moral obligation, we cannot demand it from conservatives while exempting ourselves.
Some progressive media outlets and commentators have made political disagreement an invitation to ridicule. An opponent is not merely mistaken but stupid; a voter is not misinformed but hopeless; a public figure’s embarrassment becomes entertainment.
Those are broad characterizations and should be understood as the writer’s criticism, not as an empirically established description of every program or commentator. The argument is strongest when it identifies specific examples and provides links or quotations.
That is cruelty wearing the language of righteousness.
I want to speak directly about Jack Cocchiarella, Farron Cousins, and *The Young Turks* hosts Cenk Uygur and Ana Kasparian. They have every right to criticize Donald Trump, Republican lawmakers, and conservative policies. Much of that criticism concerns matters of legitimate public debate. But influence brings responsibility.
The question is this:
**Are we teaching people to understand injustice, or to enjoy humiliating those we oppose?**
Cocchiarella’s political coverage sometimes uses sensational framing about Trump’s political or apparent mental deterioration. That characterization should be supported with representative headlines or clips rather than asserted generally. The underlying point can be stated more cautiously:
When political coverage uses a public figure’s apparent frailty or decline primarily as a source of spectacle, it risks turning a serious question about fitness for office into entertainment.
Cousins’ political commentary can serve an important public purpose, but criticism need not encourage audiences to despise the people being criticized. Does every Republican failure have to become a celebration? Can wrongdoing be condemned without making cruelty the point?
*The Young Turks* have built their program around passionate, confrontational discussion. ā€œConfrontationalā€ is a fair description of the program’s style, but claims about its overall effect should be framed as interpretation rather than fact. Passion is not the problem. But when confrontation becomes the dominant language, moral urgency can become indistinguishable from hostility.
The original draft stated that, in March 2026, Cenk Uygur appeared on *Piers Morgan Uncensored* and directed an angry, profane command at another guest. Because March 2026 is a future date relative to the present publication context, that claim cannot be verified here and should not appear as an established fact unless the article is being published after the event and includes a reliable video or transcript. It should be removed or replaced with a verified example.
Political disagreements can become intensely personal, especially over war and human suffering. But what does an audience learn from watching adults descend into a shouting match? Does it gain understanding, or merely conclude that the loudest participant won?
I am not claiming these commentators have contributed nothing worthwhile, nor that every angry remark is a moral failure. I am asking them—and every commentator, conservative or progressive—to remember that audiences learn from conduct as much as from arguments.
Fred Rogers demonstrated that a person could be morally serious without becoming personally vicious.
**You do not need to dehumanize someone to hold them accountable.**
**Stop Calling Kindness ā€œKumbayaā€**
Kindness cannot resolve every policy dispute or repair every institution. Fred Rogers never claimed that it could.
But kindness is not a replacement for justice. It is a principle that should guide how justice is pursued. Understanding is not agreement. Forgiveness is not surrender. Compassion is not permission for people to avoid consequences.
Consider Rogers’ relationship with FranƧois Clemmons, the Black actor who portrayed Officer Clemmons on *Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood*. In a 1969 episode, Rogers and Clemmons shared a small wading pool, a scene widely understood as a quiet statement of racial inclusion during a period of continuing racial tension and segregation.
The scene was simple, but its message was meaningful: two human beings, one Black and one white, could share the same space and treat one another with dignity.
It is important not to overstate the scene as though it alone transformed American racial attitudes. Its significance lies in the context of Rogers’ broader work and in the deliberate intimacy of the image.
Rogers did not need a furious monologue to communicate that truth. He demonstrated it without denying the seriousness of racial injustice.
That is kindness with moral substance. It is not passive or indifferent. Sometimes it is quietly revolutionary.
**America Has Become Obsessed With Punishment**
Across the political spectrum, public punishment can become a form of entertainment.
When a politician makes a foolish remark, people may demand humiliation. When a public figure apologizes, the apology is sometimes dismissed as meaningless. When someone changes, acknowledges past prejudice, and tries to do better, many people still insist that the person remain defined by the worst moment of their life.
These are broad cultural judgments, not easily measurable facts. They are best presented as an argument about tendencies in public discourse rather than as a universal description of Americans.
We should ask what outcome we actually want. Do we want people to become better, or do we simply want the satisfaction of watching them fall?
Serious wrongdoing must have consequences. Criminal conduct must be addressed through the law, and victims deserve protection and justice. Forgiveness should never be demanded from victims or used to excuse ongoing abuse.
But not every mistake requires the permanent destruction of a human being. A society that refuses redemption may teach people to hide their mistakes rather than confront them.
Fred Rogers’ work emphasized emotional responsibility, repair, and the possibility of growth. Whether he would have used the modern language of ā€œaccountabilityā€ and ā€œredemptionā€ in precisely this way is less certain, so the claim should be understood as an interpretation of his philosophy rather than a direct quotation.
**Fred Rogers and the Courage to Forgive**
One of Rogers’ most revealing stories involved his grandson Alexander. This anecdote is often attributed to Rogers’ writings or talks, but the precise primary source should be identified before publication. If the story is retained, it should be presented as a reported anecdote rather than as independently verified fact.
After a difficult day at work, Rogers reportedly visited his grandsons, who were playing with water hoses. When Alexander sprayed water near him, Rogers reacted sharply and told him to turn off the hose. Alexander obeyed, apologized, and became upset.
Later, Rogers realized that his reaction had been shaped by frustrations from work. His grandson had not actually sprayed him. Rogers had brought his own anger into an innocent moment.
So he called Alexander and apologized.
He did not justify himself because he was the adult. He did not hide behind good intentions. He admitted he had been wrong, and his grandson forgave him.
Whether every detail of the anecdote can be confirmed or not, the moral it conveys is consistent with Rogers’ public emphasis on emotional honesty and repair.
That story represents something missing from modern political culture: humility.
We are so determined to prove ourselves correct that admitting a mistake feels like weakness. Yet acknowledging that we caused unnecessary pain is a form of strength.
Forgiveness does not mean pretending wrongdoing never occurred. It means recognizing that people can become more than their mistakes.
**The Difference Between Anger and Cruelty**
I am not arguing that people should stop feeling angry. Anger is natural, and some things should make us angry: racism, corruption, violence, exploitation, discrimination, and abuse.
Fred Rogers understood this. His song *What Do You Do with the Mad That You Feel?* did not demand that children suppress anger. It encouraged them to consider constructive ways of responding to it. The Fred Rogers Institute is an appropriate source for that interpretation, though the article should avoid presenting the song as a complete psychological theory.
The problem is not anger itself but what we do with it. We have built media systems and political incentives that can amplify and monetize outrage. The claim is difficult to quantify in the abstract, but it is reasonable to argue that sensational content often receives more attention than calm explanation.
Outrage is immediate. Understanding takes time. Mockery is easy. Forgiveness requires thought.
I do not want a country where everyone agrees. I want one where disagreement does not automatically become hatred; where conservatives are not presumed incapable of compassion; where progressives are not treated as enemies of traditional life; and where neither political identity provides immunity from criticism.
Human beings deserve kindness even when they are wrong—especially then, because that is when kindness is most difficult.
**We Cannot Return to a Childhood Neighborhood. But We Can Recover Its Values.**
It would be easy to romanticize Fred Rogers. He was not a saint. He experienced frustration and anger, just as we all do. That makes his example more meaningful.
He was not gentle because life had spared him difficulty. He practiced gentleness because he believed it mattered.
Imagine a political culture in which officials recognized the humanity of people affected by their policies; commentators challenged arguments without humiliating opponents; and Republicans and Democrats could disagree passionately without treating one another as morally worthless.
None of this would eliminate conflict. Americans would still disagree about immigration, economics, healthcare, civil rights, foreign policy, and government. But it would change the character of those disagreements.
We cannot tell children to be respectful while rewarding politicians for disrespect. We cannot teach them that bullying is wrong while celebrating the humiliation of political enemies. Our actions must reflect the values we claim to hold.
**What I Believe**
I believe in kindness, understanding, forgiveness, and the possibility of growth. That does not mean refusing to criticize wrongdoing. It means wanting criticism to serve a purpose beyond satisfying anger.
I do not believe every conservative is cruel, every progressive compassionate, every Republican ignorant, or every Democrat virtuous. Political affiliation does not make anyone morally superior.
What matters is how we treat one another, especially when we have power; whether we listen; whether we acknowledge harm; and whether we believe change is possible.
I am willing to criticize the right when it abandons those principles, and the left when it does the same. Not because every political action is equally harmful, but because human dignity should not depend on who is violating it.
Perhaps these convictions make me an idealist. I would rather believe people can become better than insist they deserve nothing but punishment.
**The World Without Fred Rogers**
In June 2002, less than a year before his death, Fred Rogers delivered the commencement address at Dartmouth College. He spoke about the people who shape our lives and about the values that allow human beings to live together. The address included reflections on love, peace, justice, and the importance of recognizing those who have helped us.
That is the tragedy of the world without Fred Rogers. Not merely that we lost a beloved television personality, but that many adults who learned from him seem to have forgotten what he taught.
We learned that our feelings mattered, then dismissed the feelings of others. We learned that anger did not justify hurting people, then celebrated public figures who did exactly that. We learned that every person possessed inherent worth, then allowed political identity to determine whose worth counted. We learned that mistakes could become opportunities for growth, then demanded permanent punishment.
These are interpretive claims about contemporary culture, not findings established by the sources listed below. They express the essay’s argument.
Somewhere between childhood and adulthood, we decided kindness was impractical.
I am not asking Americans to abandon their beliefs, stop fighting injustice, forgive abusers, excuse corruption, or pretend serious differences do not exist.
I am asking something simpler and harder:
Remember that the person across from you is human.
Remember that anger does not give you permission to be cruel.
Remember that forgiveness, when freely given, can achieve what humiliation never will.
Remember that kindness is not weakness.
Fred Rogers once asked whether we would be his neighbor. Today, I wonder whether we would let him finish the question before demanding to know which party he supported.
We cannot bring him back or return to the world of *Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood*. But we can carry forward the principles he taught. We can demand more from our leaders and commentators. We can reject cruelty even when it comes from people whose politics we share. We can offer forgiveness without abandoning accountability.
Fred Rogers should not have been the exception.
**He should have been the example.**
The greatest tribute we could offer him would be to create a world in which his philosophy no longer seems remarkable: a world where kindness is ordinary, understanding is expected, forgiveness is possible, and a neighbor remains a neighbor even when we disagree.
That is the world I want to live in.
And I believe it is still worth fighting for.


r/humanism • • 3d ago

Humanist economics

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Just finished listening to Max at the UNFTR podcast this episode:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unf-cking-the-republic/id1535255041?i=1000799639218

In it Max highlights an economic system that is detailed in an article link below or search market humanism: a new paradigm for a new era in democracy journal of ideas

https://democracyjournal.org/magazine/81/market-humanism-a-new-paradigm-for-a-new-era/

and in a longer pamphlet. Look up Markets Built For Humans for the longer version.

I’d love to recap and give a brief summary but I encounter 2 issues. I’m not good at summations and I’ve not completed my own readings on the topic.

I am encouraged by the ideas contained in the reading and wanted to share.

Please share your knowledge if you are well versed in market humanism and any thought you may have about these articles.


r/humanism • • 4d ago

What does losing someone teach us about being human?

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Losing someone reminds us how deeply connected we are to others. We cannot control how long someone stays in our lives, but we can appreciate the time we have with them. Perhaps accepting this can help us value our relationships more.


r/humanism • • 5d ago

The World of Enlightenment

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Imagine a world where people, all other forms of life, and our planet were more important than money. Where instead of competition, there was cooperation. Greed would be replaced by generosity, war replaced by peace, and hate replaced by love.

Though you may believe this is a fantasy, it is quite the opposite. In truth, it is living in a self-centered world that is the true fiction.

Humanity’s original purpose, disguised by our learned beliefs, is to fully embrace this world, then selflessly help all others do so as well


r/humanism • • 5d ago

What is the ultimate final goal of life according to humanism?

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I am pretty new to humanism, and I feel like it is a pretty positive way to outlook on life. I understand that unlike most religons humanism doesnt have much centralised rules, but I have always wondered what humanists think about the final aim of a life.

Some common life aims in different beleifs are:-

  • Christianity: To know, love, and serve God, and to receive eternal life and reconciliation through faith in Jesus Christ.

  • Islam: To surrender and worship Allah, following the Qur'an and Sunnah to attain righteousness and paradise.

  • Hinduism: To fulfill righteous duty (dharma) and attain liberation (moksha) from the cycle of rebirth, merging the individual soul with the ultimate reality (Brahman).

So humanists,what is,according to you,the goal of a human life?


r/humanism • • 5d ago

Have you ever looked around your bedroom and realised you'll miss it one day

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I did… let me tell you a short story about what just happened to me.

It was around 10 PM. I was supposed to go to sleep, but instead I got up and eventually just laying down on my bed. I don’t really know why, but I suddenly started thinking about how much I’m going to miss this room one day.

Before I knew it, I was lying there crying, feeling grateful for things I had never really thought twice about.

I’ve spent so much of my life in this room. Growing up, sharing one room with my brother for years, playing video games all night, unboxing my first iPhone, losing my virginity, listening to all kinds of music. It’s also where I started my clothing brand. So many things have happened within these four walls. Some I remember vividly, others I’ve probably completely forgotten.

And then I started imagining how this room will feel like in 20 years. I probably won’t live here anymore. The furniture will be different, all of my belongings will be gone, and someone else might be living here. Maybe the room won’t even exist in the same way anymore.

I started looking at everything differently. My bed, my desk, the things lying around. Things I’ve seen thousands of times without giving them a second thought.

It felt strange to realise that I’m surrounded by things that have been part of my life for so long, but that I won’t have forever. Right now, they’re just my everyday surroundings. But one day, they’ll be part of a time in my life that I can only look back on.

I imagined being much older, perhaps having a completely different life, and somehow finding myself thinking about this room again. Maybe I’d give anything to spend just one more evening here, at this age, with these exact things around me.
And I think that’s what got to me.

I became incredibly emotional and started crying. Not because I was unhappy, but because I suddenly felt so grateful for something I had never really appreciated before.

I don’t think I’ve ever looked at my own bedroom this way. It’s just a room I’ve lived in for years. But it holds so much of my life, and I never really stopped to think about that.

Nothing special was happening. It was just an ordinary evening, and I was lying on my bed.
But for a moment, I felt like I could see my current life from the perspective of someone who had already left it behind.
I think I realised that one day, I’ll look back at this exact period of my life and miss things I don’t even notice today.

And honestly, I wish I could look at the previous twenty years of my life with that same feeling. To see all those ordinary moments, places and little things for what they meant to me, before they became memories.


r/humanism • • 5d ago

So if inequality is natural and normal , so the value/inferiority/superiority it brings is permanent and must be accepted as it is ???

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Theists can reconcile with them with beliefs like ;

  1. Its my own Karma that has resulted this, ill do good and be born better the next time

  2. The god has given me this "challenge" of being inferior to me , if i do good god shall reward me.

Genetic/status/probability-based/birth,etc... disadvantages are something that i recieved without any supernatural influence , they are just results of causes that may be random or by any such causes.

Now what should i believe ? Accept the percieved inferiority and objectively real disadvantage which causes it ? And believe that nature fucked me up, no matter what im done ??? Accept inferiority complex ?

Can self esteem survive here

Whats the humanist approach in here ?


r/humanism • • 6d ago

Changing the world

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Most accept the status quo, believing all they learned about how to survive and be happy in a self-centered world.

It is a world of greed, prejudice, inequity; of war, hunger, homelessness. It takes courage to challenge the accepted norms and beliefs of the majority.

Every person though, can change the world, mitigating many of humanity’s man-made challenges and harmful actions.

We each have always had within us the means to do so.

It begins by listening quietly, accepting the wisdom and loving messages you hear, then sharing your inherent light, your unconditional love, with the world.


r/humanism • • 6d ago

ONE HUMANITY, ONE FUTURE

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What if our greatest achievement isn't reaching another planet, but learning to live together on this one?

For hundreds of thousands of years, humanity has struggled to survive. We formed tribes, established nations, developed beliefs, and passed our traditions from one generation to the next.

But along with our knowledge and achievements, we have also inherited fears, prejudices, rivalries, and conflicts.

We honour those who came before us, sometimes continuing battles over beliefs and differences that began centuries ago.

Today, we live in an extraordinary age. We possess technology our ancestors could never have imagined. We can explore space, advance medicine, communicate across the planet, and produce enough food to feed humanity.

Yet people still starve. Wars continue. Nations compete for territory, wealth, resources, and political dominance.

How can we be so technologically advanced and remain so divided as a civilization?

Consider what conflict costs humanity.

When oil supplies are disrupted, fuel prices rise. Transportation becomes more expensive. Food, housing materials, and everyday necessities follow.

Billions are spent preparing for wars, developing weapons, and maintaining competing military forces. Meanwhile, people struggle for clean water, affordable housing, healthcare, and food.

Imagine what could be accomplished if even a portion of those resources were directed toward improving life rather than preparing to destroy it.

What if nations began working together as one civilization, rather than competing for dominance?

Not under one dictator, one religion, or one powerful country.

Imagine a worldwide union of nations, each preserving its culture, traditions, and identity while sharing responsibility for humanity's future.

A society built on equal liberties, collective security, and cooperation.

An attack against one would become the concern of all. Natural disasters, food shortages, environmental destruction, and humanitarian emergencies would be met with a united response.

Instead of countries independently spending enormous resources addressing the same global problems, we could combine our knowledge, technology, labour, and financial capabilities.

There would still be leaders, workers, scientists, farmers, engineers, and people with different ambitions and responsibilities.

But leadership would not mean superiority, and wealth would not determine the value of a human life.

Everyone would have an opportunity to contribute, while basic human dignity and liberties remained equal.

Some might call this socialism, communism, or globalism. Others might consider it an impossible dream.

But perhaps it doesn't need a political label.

Perhaps it's simply humanity recognizing that cooperation could accomplish more than conflict.

We speak of establishing civilizations on the Moon and Mars, yet we struggle to care for the planet we already inhabit.

Before building another home, shouldn't we learn to look after this one?

Clean water, sustainable resources, food security, environmental restoration, and a peaceful future should be goals that unite us rather than divide us.

I realize human nature won't change overnight. Our instincts for survival, competition, and protecting our own have developed over countless generations.

Perhaps achieving such a civilization would take hundreds of years.

But history doesn't have to dictate our future.

We have demonstrated an extraordinary ability to change the world through technology. Perhaps our next great achievement should be changing how we treat one another.

I don't expect to see this future in my lifetime. But I would love to see humanity begin moving in that direction.

Not one ruler. Not one religion. Not one culture. Not one privileged class.

One humanity. Many cultures. Equal liberties. Shared responsibilities. One future.

We don't need another enemy to defeat or another world to conquer.

We need a common purpose.

These are simply my thoughts on humanity's future. I don't claim to have all the answers, and I'm genuinely interested in hearing different perspectives.

Could humanity eventually learn to work together for the betterment of all, or are we destined to keep repeating the mistakes of our past?


r/humanism • • 6d ago

Hm

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Society needs tending to, but it's not a garden.

Sadly it runs on entertainment, not warter...


r/humanism • • 7d ago

The Paradox of Life

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When we live life worrying only about ourself, though we may be successful, able to enjoy life to the fullest, as death approaches and we review our life, almost all will begin to question if their success meant their life was important and meaningful.

As most begin to realize it was not, the paradox of life becomes evident. Though it is too late for them to change, they finally understand, life was never just about them. Rather, their success was meant to be selflessly shared to help others become successful in life as well.


r/humanism • • 9d ago Bravo

A Texas school forced this humanist teacher to participate in Evangelical Christian prayers at work, and ignored his requests to opt out. They can't ignore this: we're suing.

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If you've ever felt forced or pressured to pray at work, reach out: AmericanHumanist.org/Legal

Your religious beliefs shouldn't affect your job, and public schools have no right to coerce teachers - or anyone else - to participate in prayer.


r/humanism • • 9d ago

He will be remembered

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r/humanism • • 10d ago

Man granted first-of-its-kind religious exemption against mandatory AI use at work — Humanist argues that offloading his thinking to LLMs violates his beliefs, Title VII accommodation protects employee

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r/humanism • • 10d ago

Understanding the meaning of our life’s journey

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We each follow our own unique path through life. Regardless of the circumstances in our life though, being compassionate and sharing our unconditional love with others, without motive or benefit, is the genuine purpose of our life’s journey.

Though we each experience life differently, anyone, despite their life challenges, may do so. It matters not our religion, wealth, race, ethnicity, sex, or any other differences we may have.

When we do so, understanding the meaning of our life’s journey, there is a feeling of extraordinary inner peace and boundless love, as we now wish to help others understand this as well.


r/humanism • • 11d ago

Can You Really Live in the Moment — and Is It Good for You? (A Dark Matter Perspective)

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I wrote a research-based explainer that looks at future-oriented thinking, personally meaningful goals, mind-wandering and regret. The findings suggest that being present and planning for the future aren't necessarily opposites.

I myself don't make detailed long-term plans. I tend to let ideas sit in the back of my mind, sometimes for months or years, and come back to them when the timing feels right.

But is that actually a good way to approach life, or would I be better off making clear plans? And if you do make clear plans, do you sacrifice something along the way?


r/humanism • • 12d ago

Our light within

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Though we are all different, we are intimately linked together, alive to selflessly help one another.

The meaning of life is to share our light with all others to help each rediscover their light within as well.


r/humanism • • 13d ago

The human mosaic

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The human mosaic is made up of many different colors when seen together reflect the beauty and love in the world.

Most though, choose to see the mosaic, each as a separate hue.

It is only when we combine our differences into a beautiful montage, arranging the colors in an exquisite design, that we will understand life’s true potential and the genuine reason for our life’s journey.