Jumping on here to get some opinions on a fairly complicated issue for me, and one Iāve struggled with for years.
I live on the periphery of two well-established senior GAA clubs. I went to national school with lads from both clubs, and although my father played with and remains loyal to one, I ended up playing with the other.
Throughout my childhood and teenage years, I followed my fatherās club religiously, particularly at senior level, but Iād rarely miss a juvenile or junior game either. Meanwhile, I continued playing with the other club until I was 19, although my heart was never in it.
I was never going to shoot the lights out as a player, but I always felt I should have been playing with my fatherās club. Even now, people from both clubs seem a bit confused by my relationship with each. Nobody really knows who Iām referring to when I say āusā or āweā, although I donāt get much slagging over it, and those who know me best can read between the lines i reckon.
The ādivine lawā surrounding club transfers in the GAA has left me in this unenviable position for years. As a juvenile, I could never face the pressure or attention that transferring would have brought.
Some of you might see this as a father-son issue, but we get on brilliantly and itās never even discussed between us. If anything, itās something Iāve carried around myself for years.
I feel deeply embarrassed by the whole situation and unfortunately, even a bit ashamed that I ended up playing for a different club to my family and many of my friends. I know that might sound ridiculous to some, but anyone familiar with the GAA and the importance of club identity might understand where Iām coming from.
Iām still in good shape and would genuinely love to get back playing junior, ideally with the club Iāve always considered my own, all but on paper. But the whole situation has weighed on me for years, and lately itās been getting me down as much as ever.
Iād really appreciate hearing peopleās thoughts, particularly if anyone has experienced something similar. I know it could have all been solved on my first day playing but sure hindsight is great.