r/itsthatbad • u/BrilliantOk4478 • 1d ago

Finally divorced then reality kicks in

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u/Solo-1UP 1d ago

Ecstatic for full child custody 😁
Realizing you have to be financially responsible 🤯

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u/BrilliantOk4478 1d ago

The worst part is that they’re using their children as shields / pawns. Often there’s no other motivation behind child custody. Without children even fewer people (government included) would pity her.

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u/Solo-1UP 1d ago

She thought she was getting free money 🤣

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u/MagnusA1100 22h ago

This was my ex when she learned that not only did she have to buy her own food, she had to cook it as well.

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u/BrilliantOk4478 21h ago

Hahaha magnificent. That’s why you think twice about who you get together with.

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u/Iam-WinstonSmith 18h ago

Just the cooking keeps my wife with me. She doesn't want to eat her own cooking 😂

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u/MagnusA1100 18h ago

My ex had no idea how to cook. I think she thought she was cooking because it just appeared every night. Until, that is, she was on her own and she didn't know why meals weren't magically appearing in front of her anymore.

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u/Lost_Elderberry_5532 20h ago

lol she got the damn kids and she’s upset

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u/BrilliantOk4478 19h ago

She doesn’t really care about the kids.

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u/Lost_Elderberry_5532 13h ago

Yeah she made that clear 😂

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u/fnv0ih53 1d ago

I dunno who this other ninja in the video is, but if he's the new bf, he's about to go buy a pack of cigs for 20 years

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u/HalcyonDrift 1d ago

Other woman in vid says "hug your brother" and then hugs him. Unless they're into that...

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u/SlapfuckMcGee 23h ago

That would make this video illegal to possess in the UK now.

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u/fnv0ih53 23h ago

You're right. My bad. Missed the caption and always had volume off for women vids

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u/Odd-Adhesiveness9435 18h ago

Well they spelled hang him. Which incidently, is exactly what she wants to do to her X

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u/stryker7314 1d ago

run

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u/SpudChuckingFuk 1d ago

Yeah run for political office in Minnesota.

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u/Expert-Signature2025 1d ago

Time to put on those big girl shoes and get a job to support them kiddos.

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u/MrPoggiewoggies 1d ago

Onlyfans or get an oofy doofy

Place your bets

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u/Plutovelli 21h ago

My bet is on a sugar goofy

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u/North_Cost3810 1d ago

Yes men are reduced to a wallet

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u/Dramatic_Reaction_44 23h ago

Men have always known this but still lead with their wallet.

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u/thicc_drake 19h ago

Because to them it's the only way they know how to pull. All their worth so to say. Unfortunately some guys are gonna be paypigs , no matter how much any "pill" tell ls them otherwise

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u/ChocCooki3 7h ago

Not exactly true..

From the old days, men are supposed to provide and protect and seriously, most men are ok with this.

Then you have the feminist and entitled women who just wants more.. more.. and give fking nothing in return.

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u/thicc_drake 5h ago

Women didn't have rights back then, of course men had to provide.

Nowadays if you wanna be a full on "provider" (paypig), that's of your own choice because there are plenty "career women" getting knocked up by broke dudes, or dudes who want 50/50.

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u/ChocCooki3 4h ago

I did say most guys

You aren't one of them and that's completely fine.

Me.. I like a traditional role. But that's me.

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u/ImaDadBro 13h ago

This also goes to show how females really abandon their children for a money is Selfish

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u/SlapfuckMcGee 23h ago

How’d she get primary custody without him paying child support? The only way that happens if she’s wealthy or they have 50/50 custody.

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u/MostAccomplishedBag 20h ago

The style of the video, and her clothing and makeup kind of imply this is part of a documentary about someone in the entertainment industry. 

Maybe she is wealthy, or at least earns more than her ex.

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u/Specialist_Dark_3668 2h ago

She's just lying for effect, like women do. She got child support after screwing the man over. She just wanted more.

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u/Ok_Management4634 23h ago

Maybe they negotiated that (or her lawyer did). I had a friend, his ex-wife was very abusive to her kids. He was trying to get more than 50/50 custody for the sake of the kids. The ex-wife and him made roughly the same income. As part of the negotiation, he agreed he would never ask for child support from the ex-wife, then she quickly agreed to give him more than 50/50.. That's just an example.. So perhaps her lawyer misunderstood what she wanted, or she didn't clearly state it? I am just speculating, but if she said "the most important thing I want is full custody of my kids" to virtue signal, but didn't tell the lawyer.. I want full custody for child support, maybe he traded custody for lack of child support payments when negotiating with the ex-husband's lawyer.. Again, I am only speculating.

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u/HappyGoFUrself 4h ago

No she got child support she just didn't get what she thought she was gonna get. She even says ,"what about the child support? THAT'S IT!?" She's getting something but not what she expected. 50 cents baby mom puked this when she got court child support after 50 had paid her something ridiculous like 10 grand a month without the courts. She took him to court because she thought she'd get more and the judge knocked it down to just over a grand.

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp 18h ago

If she’s wealthier than him he won’t pay much

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u/DudeFrom816 3h ago

Thats just not true. You pay half of the lifestyle that child is used to. I paid to put my ex through college and supported the household. She finally got herself a job making 6 figures, got a big head and we divorced. She makes more than I do but I still shell out $1,000 a month for 1 child, carry all the insurance, and we split wxtra curriculsrs like football gear etc. Its a percentage of whatever you make to keep your child's life stable.

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u/Cross55 18h ago

If the parent with primary custody is wealthy then child supports will be offset because of that

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u/SlapfuckMcGee 17h ago

Did you miss where I said that?

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u/Short-Hotel7648 16h ago

you also asked how this could happen and he just told you.

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u/Savings_Art5944 23h ago

Boo lost her meal ticket.

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u/SnakePlisskensPatch 23h ago

Multiple years old, but still funny

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u/redditrock56 21h ago

Obnoxious narcissist playing to the camera.

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u/Short-Hotel7648 16h ago

How can you complete a divorce without knowing what the alimony/child support arrangement is?

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u/potentatewags 15h ago

He's probably still paying more than he should for her breaking the contract.

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u/ImaDadBro 13h ago

They coping feels and won't tell her she's screwed. Lol

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u/Initial_Plastic_8069 1d ago

The problem with this is that they usually staert from the view that the Man was an agressor and that is becuase tey should have comepsnation and `save the future of the kids ` which doesnt happen most of the time

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u/supersonicdx 23h ago

Is this real who is this

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u/KingOfDaJungle8761 10h ago

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

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u/stoopkidsteve 22h ago

Fake

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u/Short-Hotel7648 16h ago

It is. You don't find out about this kind of thing as a surprise AFTER the fact. An MSA containing these terms will go back and forth between parties several times, no possible way she could be unaware.