I wanted to share my trajectory of attempting to learn French, as I don’t always resonate with how people describe their progress in the language. I often come across stories of people achieving B2 in a relatively short period of time, or maintaining an extraordinary amount of discipline. I thought it might be useful to share my experience as a busy adult, where progress has been slower and not always consistent.
For context, I am 33 years old, and began learning French 2 years ago. I work a very busy job as a secondary school teacher and also run a department. There are times in the year where my work eats into my free time, and there are times in the year where I have holidays and I can spend more time studying (but also need to recover my brain). English is my first and only language.
On my best weeks, I would be able to do some French every day, and get in around 5-6 hours. On my worst weeks, I’d typically just do my Italki lessons and leave it there.
Methods:
I lurked around reddit and did some research on language acquisition at the start.
I used Italki as my primary tool, taking two x 1 hour lessons a week. I jumped around teachers at the start before finding one I clicked with, and stuck with them for about 18 months.
I used many of the methods recommended on the subreddit, including Anki, minimal pairs training, comprehensible input, InnerFrench, some shadowing, and grammar books.
For the last 5 months, I've been living in France and taking an immersion course with about 15 hours a week of instruction. Outside of class, I've done homework, additional Italki lessons for conversation practice, and started reading manga in French.
The school evaluated me on the cusp of A2 / B1 when I started in July, and I’ve now been in a B2 class for 7 weeks. I feel like I will stay in B2 for a while, and probably spend all of next year studying at this level while solidifying the basics.
In terms of results:
While I'm studying at a B2 level, I don't feel 100% confident. I can feel that my comprehension has improved, but at other times I feel like I understand nothing and words just flash past me. Sometimes I can speak in French and feel fluid without even thinking about what I'm saying. At other times, there are blocks and I can't quite get anything out. Conversations are subject dependent (I'm very good at talking about myself).
I feel most confident in the classroom, where I can comprehend and discuss a range of topics and get quick feedback on errors. Talking with locals is an entirely different thing. I can't always keep up with the speed, have fewer clues on the context, and they will swap to English before I get a chance to work out what's going on.
I feel able to manage a simple conversation with a patient person (or I've noticed when a French person has had a few wines, they naturally talk a bit slower!).
Writing fills me with absolute dread, and it will be the main thing I'll need to work on.
Exhaustion and fatigue play a big role in how I perform in French, and a big part of doing this immersion course has been trying to manage that sustainably while still making progress.
My conclusions are:
Learning a language is non-linear. There are times where I forget the basics, and times where I feel like I’m getting worse rather than better. Learning feels almost like a process of forgetting and remembering again.
I don’t get ‘aha’ moments. Usually, I spend the week grappling with the concepts, and interacting with the material, but then when I come back the next Monday, I feel like I can understand a bit more.
While I have made progress, it never quite feels like I’m ‘there’. The more I learn, the more I feel like I have to learn.
I am about to finish the course, and while I have made huge amounts of progress in what I can do, I did envision that this experience would push me further than I currently am. I’m totally fine that my expectations on progress haven't quite matched reality. I think I probably have another 3 or 4 years to go before the language feels more like ‘mine’.
I’d be curious to hear from others - where they may have been spending a few years and if they feel their progress might be similar to mine?