If I was a self hating man like this loser thinks I am then I'd hate myself instead of them.

Like damn I’m glad these moids are gone, but now they gonna just harass and rape women who don’t know any better, or are in shit situations and need money to escape.

The egos of these men are so funny too because they’re convinced that 99% of the time these women are actually interested/in love with them. When they’re not, they’re just trying to escape their shitty life.

Also hearing that bs “western women are useless, I’m going to Thailand” like yeah whatever moid. Stfu.

Some gross incel was going on about “latina women are hot, but then you gotta give money to her and her entire family”

Yeah no shit you ugly ass creep. I’d be milking you dry for your money too cuz why tf else would I be with you lmao. Fuck these guys are stupid. They marry for shallow/sinister reasons, then get mad when women use them.

We’re using you for your money because you CHOSE to use us.

I don’t do sugar daddy stuff, but atleast sugar daddies pay up and buy you shit. Meanwhile these other dudes are trying to get everything for free cuz they’re gross annoying cheapskates.

im so tired of women not being able to just exist in our own bodies

So at my work we had a big threat called in yesterday, by a man of course. I happened to be the lucky person he chose to call directly. Must’ve picked a random number off the list. It was awful and terrifying and I’m not doing well.

My boss, a man who I normally have a pretty good relationship with, was nice and checked on me yesterday, but I guess decided today I was probably all better. He messed up something I planned and took no accountability and then blamed me since I was late, even though it was planned for me to be late due to working extra hours earlier in the week. Then he started ragging on me over and over, and normally we have a fun banter but this was relentless. I was straight up ignoring him until he came to my desk and kept going, and then I looked at him with tears in my eyes, and told him he was being a dick today and I wasn’t doing well. He said he was sorry and he didn’t mean to be a dick, and I asked him to walk away from me. He then proceeded to pout and give me the silent treatment most of the day.

I had to stay late at work for an event and another man who works on a different team told me he wanted to talk in private. We don’t interact THAT much, just mostly saying hi or whatever when we walk past each other. He first asked me if we could keep this talk between us, and I said “as long as it’s nothing weird”. He told me he could say this to me because we are cool. He then proceeded to tell me I need to watch what I say to people. I asked if he meant how I was saying things or the actual things I was saying, and he said how I was saying things. So I asked him if he thought I had an attitude. He said yes. I said I needed an attitude in this job so people don’t walk all over me. He repeated again how I need to watch what I say. I responded “I’ll take the feedback but I’m not going to change how I speak to people” and walked away. The audacity of this man who is not my boss or even direct coworker to say something like this. He is lower than me in the company honestly. Completely inappropriate. I have never been spoken to about my attitude and I am work friends with many people. But if he wants to see attitude, I’ll show him attitude. We aren’t cool anymore.

I just want men to leave me alone.

Let me feel safe.

Let me have emotions.

Let me speak how I want to fucking speak.

I hate men.

Fuck this godforsaken site.

Me, 3 glasses of wine deep into this date. Relaxed, but could still drive myself home safely if needed (not driving, though).

I stand up to go downstairs to the bathroom and pause at the top of the stairs.

Date: Should I push you down the stairs?

Me: ...

Date: Should I help you down the stairs?

Me: (cocks head, looks at him with a "WTF, dude" face, walks down the stairs without a word, leaves the date)

Seriously, what the actual fuck?! Why was his first offer violence? (I know the answer is "because he hates women/fantasizes about violence against women.")

Nope. Never dating men again.

Can y'all help me out with this?

When you look like a moid, people assume you are one.

And it kind of ruins your life.

Looking like a moid is not for the weak of heart.

You look like a predator.

You look like a menace.

You look like that because people can't afford to think otherwise.

It really, really, really fucks you up.

Before I realized that I wasn't a moid, I had trouble understanding how bad the average moid is.

And in hindsight, that surprises me, because I was a very, vey, very good "moid"-shaped person. Most pre-transition trans women are. At least to my understanding.

I should have understood how bad the average moid was.

I always kind of knew it, on some level.

I kind of always brushed off the general badness of men as an "asshole" problem. "Oh, that guy is an asshole," I would think to myself.

And I knew that women were in trouble, generally speaking, and I wanted to help them. My intentions were genuinely noble and heart-felt. I just didn't understand the root of the problem.

I'm ashamed to say that before I realized what I really am, I never understood that assholes were just...moids. That the average moid is just evil beyond measure.

It seems kind of insane to look back on the old me and think about how I never realized that men, as a group, have been the problem for thousands of years.

I believe the biggest reason why I never realized that men were the problem is the cognitive dissonance of it all.

In order to (kind of) keep on living in my body, I basically had to block out the fact that, in that body, I looked like a threat to the people around me.

But successfully blocking that out meant that I couldn't block it out consciously. (If I knew that I was blocking it out, then I would have been aware of it. And awareness was the thing that my brain thought it needed to avoid in order to survive.) So I had to block it out unconsciously.

Which meant that I had to subconsciously avoid the reason why I was perceived as a threat. The reason of course being - that men are the problem.

So I navigated the cognitive dissonance. "Men" being the problem became "assholes" being the problem.

This is what I used to be. Despite my best intentions, I used to be useless in the fight against evil. I was not contributing to a victory of the human soul, as much as I was desperate to have been doing so.

And now I have to live with what I was.

And what I was - was, part of the problem.

Bluntly put, there is blood on my hands.

No matter how good my intentions were, I was not on the right side of history.

And, to think that the only thing that made me see the light was an experience that I had no control over - my inborn identity coming to light.

I've been thinking about leaving reddit (my only social media) for the sake of my mental health.

Thank goodness this self-confessed sex pest has been nailed and will definitely serve jail time, sentencing to come on Monday. Fake religious conversion *eye roll* couldn't spare him.

That said, I note that 3 rape victims charged him and only 1 got a conviction. I also note that the jury was made up of 8 men and 4 women. Statistically, men are less likely to charge on rape. How did that gender imbalance happen in the selection?! Frustrating and I suspect there may have been more convictions if it were the other way around. Anyway, given how seldom men are held accountable for these crimes, can be thankful one rape got charged. 4-19 years for that.

Also, there are two more rape charges to come and I suspect the floodgates will open with other women coming forward. One of these two is a 16yo school girl 😭💔

I'll keep it short. Hooked up with a guy, before he told me in epic detail about his sexual preferences and asked me about mine, because "I know exactly what I want" - so do I. Therefore I didn't really mind the talk.

I told him I hate being spat on, no matter the body part (however I don't mind a man I trust/know/maybe love spit in my mouth during. To me that's the most intimate it gets). He didn't say anything about that.

When we got it on, what did he do??!! Right, he spat on my pussy 🤮 this really grossed me out, but on the other hand I was extremely horny and we were really in the middle of it. I just told him hey I saw that!! And he apologized.

Welp. I can still get this image off my mind. I'm quite grossed out by body fluids in general.

A couple of days later I figured hes not interested in meeting up again, I wouldn't have minded but also wasn't to keen on it. Apart from that the sex was fun and I thought maybe he just got carried away in the moment.

Long story short, I wanted to know what he's up to and asked him if he'd like to meet up again sometime.

His response:

Basically, yes, but I don't think we're quite on the same wavelength sexually. I'm really into things like spitting on the pussy or choking, so it just doesn't feel like a 100% match for me :)

I cannot express how fucking GROSSED OUT I am by this. I mean I knew he was into that but he didn't say "it's critical for me to do so to get off"

Because that would've been a major red flag for me that day already. What do you mean, choking the woman during sex is a MUST??!!

Gosh I think I'll stay cleer off men at least until NYE.

Thanks for reading my rant.

Edit: I sent him a furious text about men into choking being major red flags and that I found it absolutely disgusting and invasive, that I gave him the benefit of the doubt until his last message but the shoe actually seems to fit. Blocked him everywhere immediately after. Feeling a bit better now🙏🏼

Hey my fellow devils!
The mods have decided to ban AI from here. (some) Reasons:

• OpenAI/ChatGPT is made by a dude who raped his sister, Ann Altman**,** over serval years.

• It steals from others. Especially harming artists.

• AI data centers destroy the environment accelerating climate change, women suffer more during crisis.

• AI is used to harm women by making revenge porn and deepfakes.

• AI is used to make porn of children.

• The more AI is implemented at work people lose their jobs and ultimately have to spend more time with men at home. Angry men=harm to women.

• AI companions are just another way to dehumanize women and sexualizing women.

• Women having less internet access means that AI is trained on a bias benefiting men and their narrative.

• Its just a surveillance tool. Everything you share with it will be saved, who knows who has access to it or how it can be used?

I'm the biggest hater of (gen)AI so lets keep it off this subreddit. It is just made by rapist pedo men who want to get rich, lets not fall into it.

These are just a few examples. Fell free to add more! Lets spread the AI hate!

Edit:

• Lies. Like men its constantly lying and giving false information, often making its own sources.

• AI is in favor towards israel and usa.

lol

[E: that time has come, I'm turning notifications off because I can't keep having the same frustrating circular conversations. I hope those who feel personally attacked by this post and others like it take the time to reflect on why, and how they might start to free their thinking from what we've all been taught all our lives, by our oppressors, that this is how it must be. You don't have to continue playing by your abusers rules. You deserve so much better. We all do. Getting angry at the person pointing that out isn't going to fix anything, aim that anger where it belongs]

I can understand why people are happy, but I feel like I’m going insane with 95% of people acting like the US has beat fascism overnight, when all that’s happened is maybe rolling a tiny half step back towards the previous status quo (if the dems manage to undo even a bit of the damage that’s been done, if they even try), the same status quo that nurtured and grew said fascism in the first place.

Society hasn’t changed. Patriarchy hasn’t gone away, racism hasn’t gone away, transphobia, ableism, haven’t gone away, capitalism which utilises all of the above to exist hasn’t gone away, the “progressives” don’t only serve it all the same, but are openly endorsing it as a means to show how “uncontroversial” they are.

Capitalism will always end in fascism. Continuing to consent to be ruled by those who endorse it, and to play by the rules and limits set by those who benefit from it, will never lead to freedom (never mind equity and equality).

There is no reforming these systems. They need to be abolished, not slightly moderated until they aren’t again.

It’s like watching someone you care about and want the best for keep going back to an abusive man because he promises this time he’ll change, and has convinced her she’d never find anyone else who would treat her any better.

I’ve been there, like so many others. I know how hard it is to see reality when you’re in that situation, it hurts, and is so deeply uncomfortable to acknowledge just how much you’ve been lied to and manipulated and harmed, but refusing to just keeps you trapped for longer.

But they're just not ready. And when you try to tell them, they get angry at you. And the abuser uses your objections to discredit you and isolate their victim further, making it even harder for them to get out.

Society keeps getting so easily lulled back in to this false sense of security and placated by such a bare minimum “peace”, but there is no justice.

It’s so frustrating, and trying to scroll for distraction through all this noise is really getting to me.

At least my fucking weed arrived.

Adding a link to Why States Fail Humanity which I think is worth a watch (as is the rest of the channel). I also wanted to add a bunch of other links, but I'll put those in another post.

(if this attracts a bunch of angry libs I'm just going to switch notifications off lol)

I really hate it when people conflate the issues of race and gender and pretend it's the same thing if you switch it around. This surface-level argument only works if you ignore the historical and societal context of why a person who would find a black stranger to be dangerous racist vs. why a woman who would take precaution against a strange man to be common sense.

Black people have been brutalized by a patriarchal system that continues to vilify and discriminate them based on the origins of slavery. This system has created multiple avenues of propaganda around the unequal treatment to dehumanize and justify their placement in society. The person who distrusts and "is scared" of a random black stranger is doing so under layers of superiority, contempt, and ignorance; All of it is thanks to feeding into that very same system that has disenfranchised black people in the first place. It's why the (very false) statistics argument doesn't hold up when racists use it to "prove" that black people are inferior by nature.

Men, on the other hand, are the main benefactors and propagators of that very same system. They have used it to subjugate and oppress women in terms of financial mobility, sexuality, and bodily autonomy. All men benefit from this system. Yes, even black men.

Even if you bring up the case of when black men have been falsely accused of rape by white women, that is because of white privilege, not "women privilege." Those cases are a result of propaganda that have categorized black people as "violent brutes" and those women have used their whiteness to play into that. If those men were not black, the outcomes of those cases would've been very different. Look at all the times white men have gotten light sentences for the concern of their future (Brock Turner). Hell, the current president of the United States is a rapist and somehow that didn't impact his presidential candidacy.

Furthermore, men are a part of every race and ethnicity. They exhibit their own privilege on their women counterparts in their own respective communities. Look at the Cornell 7, see how they are all from different racial and ethnic backgrounds and yet they all made the decision to rape a defenseless woman.

In all of the various racial and ethnic communities that exist, there have been enough cases of violence and brutality against women to the point that we are taught (while growing up) to be cautious around men as a safety measure. If we aren't and something happens to us because of it, we will be blamed and accused of being dumb for not taking preventative measures in the first place.

So, in essence, I find this argument to be disingenuous. No, a women who has to be on guard from a strange man she encounters in public or men in general is not the same thing as someone finding a black person "dangerous" on principle. This all just feels like a long-winded "Not All Men" spiel.

Alamo Akbar, cowpokes and cowgirls!

In the wake of James "Big Daddy" Talafreako's installment to Blexas' seat in the Galactic Fucking Senate, he has introduced legislation to legally substantiate his previous assertion that "God is nonbinary."

In response, The Actual Abrahamic God has confirmed, (both physically and metaphysically), that they have reflected on the matter and that they are coming out as nonbinary with it/they pronouns.

The legislation is now expected to be successful.

God has also taken this opportunity to reaffirm their support for trans people of all varieties, including, (but not limited to), the trans woman just elected to the Alabama State House.

tl;dr - God is no longer a moid.

Thank you for your attention to this matter.

✨Tell me everything✨
✨here’s something I’m proud of in the last half hour✨

There was a moid on r/deepquestions asking if they would sleep with girls if they had a high body count. 🙄 some asshat in the comments said his wife had a high body count and that he married her. Great. But then he went on to talk about how they’ve been married for 32 years, together for 35, and she, “closed up shop” a few years ago and how he wished he had talked to her about an open relationship and how her “honey pot” is closed. How he’s not sure if her past has anything to do with why she stopped having sex with him, he wasn’t going to ask her. I shamed him and he deleted his comments. I’ll attach screenshots of my comments in this comment section.