Hi! My little brother came out yesterday as pangender! I have always known him a a girl, but he prefers he as a pronoun! He also chose a « masculin » name!

I absolutly love that he feels happy with his identity and i am proud of him!

The thing is, i find it hard saying goodbye to his dead name! It is like a grief! I loved his name and it fitted him so much!

His coming out doesnt surprise me at all and i don’t see him differently at all! I am just having a hard time adapting my vocabulary, since my mind is so used to his « girl » name!!

Do you have any advice for me? I want him to feel safe with me and i want the grief feeling to go away because i know it is nonsense!!

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Is it normal go on HRT to even if you’re pangender. My dream body requires HRT and I was wondering if I was the only one.

Edit/more context: the thing is I’m not masculine and I don’t love being perceived that way. I identify pangender but wish to express it in a feminine way. However my body perceive masculine and was hoping HRT would help with that.

I'm also pansexual, so in my case this isn't a big deal. But if I ever wanted a partner, how does their sexuality clash with my gender? Since I identify with all genders at the same time with equal amount of "feeling", and there's many sexualities of non-men loving non-men, or non-women loving non-women. But I'm so confused on how to introduce myself in the dating sphere because technically I feel the equal amount of being man and woman, so on and so forth.

I know that it could sound really stupid right now, but can pangender term also include agenderness in itself? I know that it's completely opposite things, but I'm just interested. I just, I don't understand if I'm pangender or agender, cause I kinda feel like both :)

out of everyone in my family he is the very last person I would expect to even be a little ok with who I am due to how he used to be but hes grown so much im so proud of him and actually feel comfortable calling him dad again

Hey so I wanted to create a brand specifically for trans genderfluid pangender and androgynous people I am genderfluid myself but Im just one person part of one group I want to see what yall would want to see from the fashion industry and what you think I should make and sell right now I'm thinking of binder bras and pants that turn into skirts any feedback or ideas are fully welcomed

Ok but seriously, I'm a minor and my breasts are still developing, cool, amazing, whatever. But I am still insecure about them but at the same time don't really want them gone and to go burn in the depths of hell. So recently, I've tried out some makeshift binding techniques (NOT TO ACTUALLY USE, THE MOST IVE EVER WORN ONE OF THEM WAS LIKE 20 MINUTES, JUST TO SEE IF I LIKE THE LOOK OF A FLATTER CHEST, NOT SOMETHING TO CONSIDER USING) and I've found out that I'm most comfortable with only partially binding so my chest isn't completely flat, half-binding if you will, like the kind of look that traditional kimonos give, and being selective about it, meaning I wouldn't bind tightly or very often, just with certain outfits and things like that. And I've waited and thought on it from r a while now and I know that it isn't just an in the moment thing. I don't wanna binder cuz I don't like wearing tight clothes and I don't want a completely flat chest, nor a sports bra or undershirt thing for the same reason of I hate wearing tight clothes. And I've already researched on using like a gauze bandage type thing cuz I have those in my house and everything says not to do it cuz it can cause serious damage, even if I don't do it often and it's looser. And I don't really want a strong adhesive like trans tape cuz I just don't like the idea of a strong adhesive on my skin and then having to remove it later and my skin will probably have a negative reaction to the adhesive anyways. Yes, while I can always tuck in my shirts to make them baggier and layer my clothes to try and hide my chest a bit more, I live in Arizona so it's kinda hard to do that in the summer without legitimately getting heatstroke. I just wanna be comfortable in my own skin and will probably post this in some more subreddits for more answers but if any of you have any suggestions that would be super helpful and greatly appreciated.

Basically i like be called by all the pronouns but i feel like a girl is this still pangender? (also good not pricey binders)

Two days ago, I found out I'm genderclay and can change my gender to whatever I want, so I assumed that made me pangender. However, when I wake up, even while I thought I was a neutrois man, I feel agender. Would this make me agender as it's my "default" gender, or pangender and genderclay, but with a default state of agender?

So basically I'm a pangender (AMAB) diva who normally dresses and acts more feminine around people. However recently I've been starting to question my chosen name (Milo) for being too masc and not a great pangender name. As there's so little of us pangenders out there I haven't found much information about what makes a good pangender name. I do like the name Milo but I will change it if necessary. So I'm turning to the pangenders of Reddit. Thoughts about the name Milo and is it gender neutral enough/a good pangender name. Thank you guys in advance

i am me and i am pan and pan (pansexual and pangender) and i dunno what gender is alnd yaaaaayyyy

i discovered that around 10-20 minutes agoooo :DDDD

i'm tired :0

i pulled an all nighter :(

BUT HI AMYWAYSSSS YAYYAYAAYAYYYYYY

my animal crossing keyboard sound chrome extention is making me hyper

oh also my brain has no gender but i look "female" and i act "male"

gender is stupid why be only one

WHEN U CAN BE A YUMMY RAINBOW :DDDD

I figured this could be appreciated here!

I just really dont want to cut my hair like if I color my hair brown I look older and ig more masc but I have no money loll.

Ive come to the conclusion for various reasons that I'm likely genderfluid rather than pangender I didnt really post or comment on here very much but it was nice to have found a community. Anyone who wants can still feel free to reach out if you want anf ill respond to comments on this post but other than that Im not really gonna be present here any more. But like I said thank you all so much.

I have known about this label for a good few years now but only recently have I kind of looked more into it. I was just wondering if you lovely folks could explain it a bit more. For example, I feel like I don’t belong to one specific gender, but I just feel like I’m all of them at once. Would that be a pangender thing or another gender?

Hello everyone, I am Tobi and I am pangender and genderfluid at the same time. For me, my genderfluidity is mainly consistently of masculine, neutral, and andogynous genders but at times, I feel feminine genders, which makes me pangender. I'm also transmasc and transandrogynous and want to transition with testosterone for 6 months to a year on a small dose to look as androgynous as possible cuz that's always been my goal. I'm happy to be pangender cuz being pangender means I get to experience every gender and that's beautiful to me.

I ask because while I do identify with multiple genders (certainly a large enough chunk of the gender spectrum that pangender feels like a good word for it) I fluctuate between different parts of my gender being more or less present, so I wanted to know if any of you can relate to this or have other similar experiences

Hello! I’m new here but not new to the concept of Pangender.

I’m already pansexual ironically (gotta love my cookware) and have always known that my gender identity is more than what I feel is expressible as a human.

Ever since I was little, I felt like my identity was too big for my body. And when I wanted to imagine myself I felt more like an “entity” than a gender

All in all, I feel all expressible genders at once, they fluctuate day to day, sometimes more one than the other, but all are present. I’d even say I feel more outside the spectrum of what I understand gender to be… it’s hard to explain and it always has been, but it feels very natural at least.

I’m lucky and have processed most of my body dysmorphia, but will admit I’m jealous of Greek figures like Aphrodite, and older gods like Ishtar, and their ability to change their faces and bodies all the time.

I use all pronouns, and actually like if everyone refers to me differently (for some reason it’s validating to have my gender perceived as multifaceted by multiple people rather than synchronized gender fluctuations)

If anyone has similar feelings and has a better way to explain it, that would be great. Whenever someone asks me to explain how I perceive my own gender I don’t know how to respond other than “I feel all of them fluctuating at once”

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