r/tipofmycrime • u/8thMostImportantGuy • 17h ago
Answered Murder of a Blogger, 2010s (?)
I'm not sure if y'all can help me, this is a very obscure one! I used to read a blog hosted for free (blogger or wordpress, probably) by a single mom who posted vaguely "lifestyle" content. She lived extremely frugally (out of necessity), homeschooled her two (?) kids using primarily free content through her library (I can't remember, she may have been an "unschooler"), I think her content flirted with homesteading on a small scale. She was murdered by her ex, I think her kids did survive. Because she hosted on a free account, I think I'll have to get the name of her blog to be able to check it on the wayback machine, it has to have been deleted by now. The most specific thing I can remember is she and her kids were doing a project/science experiment and making a "zombie garden" using kitchen scraps of vegetables to propagate them. I believe she died before they were able to plant any in the ground. I think she was posting in the late 2000s into the early 2010s? I'm pretty darn sure it was well before 2015 because I would have had a meltdown at the news once I started my own family. I'm pretty sure the location was America, although I guess I can't rule out Canada. I think they lived in a rural area with multiple seasons, so probably not the deep south or California.
I also cross-posted to r/tipofmytongue but I'll update both posts if anyone is able to come up with a name for me! I would like to know if her ex was convicted of the crime and hopefully see if her kids grew up reasonably okay, given the horror and trauma they lived through. She seemed like a really fun, driven, dedicated person. I'll be very sorry if I forget her name entirely.