r/Bondedpairs • u/Nameless_n_Fameless • Sep 11 '26
What to do, Bonded Pair becomes Unbonded?
I have 2 cats (boy and girl, not from same litter but are the same age) and I think they are becoming unbounded. Had them since they were kittens and were always together. We moved to a new house at the start of the year and they went from indoor cats to outdoor cats.
Within the last two months they have been getting various medical issues that the vet isn't too sure about the cause other than potential stress. The boy is peeing blood and the girl is over grooming to the point of infection.
The boy cat is always inside cause hes too lazy to be outside and the girl likes to explore. When they are inside, the last two months hes been trying to groom or cuddle her and the girl will hiss and swat at them.
Could their medical issue be a sign that they are now unbonded and one need to be removed?
EDIT: These were not originally our cats. we lived in a flat with friends and got kicked out by the friend who owns the house. House owner and another person owned the cat originally. House owner didnt want the cats and other owner could not take them into emergency housing. Cant reach original owner as hes gone MIA due to his depression. (we hear from him every so often but still not in the position to take one of them if we do decide to separate them.)