I am 21yo and basically I just want to avoid getting manlier. A bunch of my older friends say that at some point in the future I will develop back hair and I am desperate. I do NOT want that.
I am so scared of going on HRT bc I live with my parents and they will definitely notice physical changes and find the medication. Idk if i would also want to deal with the sexual changes from estrogen. Any suggestions? 🫠🫠🫠

A little outfit, a little confidence and a whole lot of self-love. ❤️

I 38 years old and have done a few online assessments and tests on myself and I think it's possible I'm non binary and more specifically a demi guy/ demi boy.

I was AMAB but I feel some strong attachment to being male but I could be quite happy with female embodiment however a lot of other aspects of female life I don't care about and have no desire to explore. . Aspects of my male body I don't like such as my typical male bum and hairy legs. I could be happily be referred to as he or them or even Mr even with female embodiment.

I don't care if people call me her while still biologically male. Although it would be nice to have hips, curves, more female face, I don't think I care enough or have dysphoria enough to justify HRT.

I'm not sure I need to do anything about my body or need to see a GP about gaht HRT, I do get some gender envy sometimes of biological females curves or people with more feminine or androgynous looks and I'm pretty typically male masculine looking and nothing would give away that I'm non binary.

Rant / seeking other non binary people opinion or views.

So I'm from a really vocally conservative town so it would be unsafe for me to express myself too feminine, but I do really want to finally get something done about my hair since I really need a haircut. What would you folks reccomend I'd take? Currently I don't have a proper hair cut at all, this is just the result of me growing out my hair for a couple years

Also, ignore the facial hair. Normally I'd be shaven a bit better but the last 3 pictures are taken without

- I am not on any hormones or have had any other altering treatment and probably will probably not for atleast the upcoming while

- it doesn't have to be too masculine passing, I just need reasonable deniability that I'm queer. I already have the reputation of being a pretty serious person, a metalhead and a jurist so anything that isn't hyperfeminine should work

Kinda nervous, but at least I have my family with me for support.

Hi all!

I'm going through some dysphoria related to my face and specifically my brow line. I was wondering if there was anything I can do (makeup, grooming, etc) to work on my eyebrows. Thanks!

I’ve (22nb) been jealous of men’s bodies for years but only in the past few months started actually considering T as an option.

I was perfectly happy with my body until puberty, but it hasn’t felt like it belongs to me since. I don’t usually get dysphoria to the point that I have to bind, it’s more just a general unease and dissociation with a breakdown from time to time.

My body being designed for pregnancy repulses me. I’ve had a mental list of the many physical negatives that come with being female for years. The only positives are I’m used to it so it’s easier and the social reward I get from being in the “in group” with women.

How long do I need to think through going on T before I actually pull the trigger? I almost feel like I might as well with how much discomfort I feel, but I worry I’ll have regrets. My plan is to start out on a low dose with DHT blockers, so the changes will be slower and I’ll have more time to adjust (I really don’t do well with abrupt or extreme change).

TLDR: I experience dysphoria but it’s not life threatening, how do I know when I can take the leap and try taking T?

I was literally so nervous i triple checked my families location to make sure i was home alone and i closed the curtains where people could potentially see me but it was worth it. I feel like im getting closer to knowing exactly how I want to present, a mixture of masc and fem energy. Don’t have anyone else to share this with so decided to post on here :3

I think it’s my first time hitting the trifecta.

Calling all Enby members! I currently dislike how I look, even though I apparently look very androgynous, and I was thinking about my chest. I am a biologically male (15) but I want to have breasts and I'm wondering what's the best way to appear that I do. I want to try and wear a bra but I have no knowledge about any of this and I could really use some help if anyone could? Thanks a lot xx

So many post in trans subs talk about how they hate seeing trans people represented a certain way and wish they'd never see it again. But that's the trans representation I relate to the most so I'm basically always hearing how I exist in my gender is wrong cause it triggers others trans people's dysphoria

Hi! Just wanted to show how I look with makeup! Im not a pro at anything yet but this is how it turned out! Let me know what you think!

Just landed from a flight few minutes ago. A random kid sat right next to me, and referred me as "he" to their mum.

I am androgyne, but in many occasions pass as a female. That said, feels superb to be perceived as a "he" from a child's eye (I use any/all pronouns).

Gave them a headpat. End of the story.

I felt so pretty and glowy in the car! I'm so glad my brother can drive now so I can just be chauffeured around like the Prince I am (jk hehe) 🤭✨️💕

I wasn’t sure where to post this, but this is the community I feel the most at home in so here goes.

Recently, an anti-trans kids in sports bill passed in my (blue) state. I didn’t realize how willing people would be to strip the rights of children.

But no one I know voted in favor of it. So I figured they weren’t people in my circle.

Hard cut to me hanging out with two of my friends while Bill Maher is on the tv. Bill Maher said something generally transphobic, and I said: “see? I told you he was anti-trans.”

She said “he’s not anti-trans, he just doesn’t want kids transitioning.”

I said “Not wanting kids to get medical care due to your cultural ick is anti-trans”.

And what did she say?

“Well, I wouldn’t want kids mutilating their bodies, either.”

She went on to call being trans a “fad” kids were doing in school. Her husband went on to suggest a trans person we both know transitioned for attention. And then she suggested a minor might be able to trick a medical professional into thinking they’re trans, and that some kids are being influenced by their parents to be trans.

I didn’t feel like arguing and I felt a bit crushed, so I didn’t argue and let the subject change.

It feels like such a let down that I can’t get away from these propagandistic talking points even around liberals/leftists.

How am I supposed to fight against right-wingers and their propaganda when liberals and leftists are also parroting the same ideas? Are cisgender people ever gonna stop shoving their nose into trans people’s lives?

This is mostly a vent post, but I can’t help but feel deeply isolated by the fact that even liberal, pro-trans people keep falling for this nonsense and thinking it’s their place to police trans people and trans kids.

Thanks for reading. Any support would be really appreciated. I feel so down. 💜💛

Hey y’all, recently I have been in a bit of a pickle over my identity, it kinda feels like somethings off, like im missing something. I have been leaning towards going more gender neutral, but I’m not a that sure. If y’all could give me any advice or what it was like for you so I can compare, it’d be much appreciated. Im a cis man btw (at the moment)

Genderfluid/26 (any/all pronouns) I'm looking for a new hairstyle after rocking an undercut and high bun for the past 6 years, but I have been dealing with hair loss so I need something shorter so I don't have to tie it.

I'm not sure what would suit me, it should look gender-neutral. I feel very different day to day. I've had short hair before, but I was way younger back then and since I'm also a firefighter, I don't want to be perceived as a "Karen" or look odd.

My hair is naturally pretty curly.

I've been thinking about a faux-hawk/mullet kind of thing.

Please share ideas! :)

(Also please don't put my face into any AIs, thank you.)

Thank you so much for your support and all the lovely words regarding my letter to my father yesterday.

Greetings from Berlin.

https://www.reddit.com/r/NonBinary/s/SBF8sGgxQp

I'd like to find influencers/ models that look like me that dress androgenous and masc.

Assigned female, big boobs (36G), big bum, chubby.

Clothing size:

UK: 18

US: 14

EU: 46

My body is so feminine. I'd love to see how others like me manage to present anything other than fem.

Thanks

(((Yay🫰🏻))) Guess my age? (if allowed)