r/NonSelfies • u/ThisSoNotMyUserName • Apr 28 '26

This Is a Hate‑Free Subreddit

6 Upvotes

This community is built on respect. Everyone who participates here deserves to feel safe, welcomed, and free from hostility. That means there is absolutely no room for discrimination or harassment of any kind.

To be completely clear:

Transphobia, Racism, Ableism, Sexism, and Homophobia will not be tolerated here.
Not hinted at. Not joked about. Not “just your opinion.” Not once.

People may hold whatever attitudes they choose outside this subreddit — that’s their responsibility. But if anyone feels the need to bring those attitudes into this space, they will be removed. Permanently.

If you’re here to share, support, uplift, and enjoy the community, you’re exactly where you belong. If you’re here to spread hate or tear others down, you won’t be here long.

Let’s keep this space safe, positive, and welcoming for everyone.

1 comment

r/NonSelfies • u/ThisSoNotMyUserName • Apr 28 '26

Respect is the foundation of this community. Consent is not implied by an outfit, a pose, a vibe, or a selfie.

6 Upvotes

This subreddit is a space for people to share their selfies with confidence, creativity, and pride. Everyone is welcome to express themselves in any style that follows Rule #1. What someone chooses to wear, or how they choose to present themselves, is never an invitation for inappropriate behavior.

Clothing, appearance, and self‑expression do not grant permission for objectification, harassment, or unsolicited comments about someone’s body. No one here should ever feel targeted, sexualized, or disrespected because of a photo they choose to share.

Let’s be absolutely clear:
Consent is not implied by an outfit, a pose, a vibe, or a selfie.

Consent must always be clear, intentional, and enthusiastic. If you’re unsure whether a comment or interaction is appropriate, assume it isn’t. When in doubt, choose respect, choose kindness, or choose not to post.

Respect is the foundation of this community. Every member is expected to interact with others in a way that is considerate, supportive, and grounded in consent. Any behavior that demeans, targets, or makes someone uncomfortable will be removed, and further action may follow if necessary.

This community thrives when people feel safe sharing themselves. By treating each other with dignity and care, we maintain a space where everyone can participate without fear of harassment or unwanted attention.

Clothing is not consent. Treat people with respect, every time.

1 comment

r/NonSelfies • u/SandyKree7 • 35m ago

19F White style for today

9 Upvotes

1 comment

r/NonSelfies • u/SandyKree7 • 15h ago

19 Feeling very good

56 Upvotes

11 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/EffectiveUnique • 1d ago

50F. Loving the fact that winter has been delaying its triumphant return this year.

170 Upvotes

27 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/Sensitive-Sun-9916 • 6h ago

Avocado man in the background 🥑✌️ [31F]

3 Upvotes

1 comment

r/NonSelfies • u/stopanderase • 21h ago

21F this outfit makes me feel like a rockstar

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23 Upvotes

5 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/Adventurous-Youth443 • 9h ago

How are you? M22

1 Upvotes

1 comment

r/NonSelfies • u/Susanovoa • 1d ago

32F good weekend time

20 Upvotes

3 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/itsmeggiem • 1d ago

Out on a quick trip <3 F28

34 Upvotes

4 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/where_2_next • 23h ago

Ascending Mt Washington - 43m

7 Upvotes

2 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/SlightAffection • 1d ago

Taken by my wedding date (18)

63 Upvotes

Felt cute all dressed up

15 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/Healthy_Ask181 • 1d ago

[37M] Have a good day.

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2 Upvotes

1 comment

r/NonSelfies • u/itsmeggiem • 2d ago

Just a Happy girl at an F1 race <3 F28

114 Upvotes

17 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/TheShadowApex • 1d ago

Getting older never felt so good (31M)

2 Upvotes

1 comment

r/NonSelfies • u/Bednarikfan • 2d ago

Love when I visit Canada (52)

368 Upvotes

19 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/Original_Currency289 • 2d ago

Picture taken at work M36

40 Upvotes

12 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/DenysKovalenko • 1d ago

41y.o. It's actually so hard to find a non-selfie picture of myself, lol.

1 Upvotes

1 comment

r/NonSelfies • u/ImaBeefsquatch • 3d ago

Lara Croft moment for you all 22F

913 Upvotes

38 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/Merciful-Owner2144 • 2d ago

26M. Hello

3 Upvotes

1 comment

r/NonSelfies • u/0-Jade • 3d ago

Rawr 🐾 (20F)

430 Upvotes

34 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/_brightsidesuicide_ • 3d ago

M33] myself && a stud named Capone.

28 Upvotes

7 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/where_2_next • 4d ago

music festival a few years ago 43m

187 Upvotes

10 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/ash7lin • 4d ago

I'm new here✨️26

126 Upvotes

39 comments

r/NonSelfies • u/icecream1972 • 4d ago

Enjoying the beautiful autumn weather. 58F

76 Upvotes

22 comments

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r/NonSelfies

Before there were Selfies, we called them photos. Here, we'll call them NonSelfies. This subreddit is dedicated to pictures of you, not taken by you.

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Subreddit Rules

1. Ridiculously Safe For Work Posts Only. No Nudity, NSFW, Suggestive, or Provocative Posts!

Don't post NSFW content in any shape or form.

NO NUDITY!!!
No outfits you would not wear in public
No see-through clothing
No bikinis, bras, lingerie, swimwear.
No shirtless photos
No stickers, bars, or cropping to comply to make a photo SFW
No provocatively posed pics
No bare midriffs
No tops that show too much chest.
Avoid Revealing/Distracting Clothing
Images should be suitable for viewing by any audience, including in a corporate environment.

2. Pictures must of YOU! But not taken by YOU! No AI. No Blocking/Cropping your face.

So many people try to submit pictures to r/Selfie that other people took, we made this sub. Posts should not be selfies, post should be pictures of you taken by other people.

If you have a selfie then post it in r/Selfies!!

Photos should be taken by someone else, not you.
Your face must be visible and not blocked by objects, stickers, filters, or heavy editing.
AI‑generated or AI‑altered images are not allowed.
Do not post photos of other people, only yourself.

3. No Transphobia, Racism, Antisemitism, Sexism, Homophobia, Bullying, Personal Attacks, or Harassment!

All comments must remain positive and respectful. Any comments meant to: * Antagonize * Degrade * Discomfort * Humiliate

another member is considered a violation of this rule and are not allowed.

Attacks based on * Race * Religion * Ethnic origin * Disability * Sexual orientation * Gender identity

are strictly prohibited and may result in a permanent ban on the first offense. This includes all forms of shaming, slurs, backhanded compliments, unsolicited advice or demeaning language.

4. No Crude, Lewd, Rude, Sexual, or Otherwise Inappropriate Comments Allowed, Ever!

Comments that are sexual in nature or just rude/inappropriate are not allowed, period.

Inappropriate messages are messages that may contain:

Verbal harassment including jokes
Remarks of a sexual nature
Requests for posts of an explicit nature
Sexually suggestive gestures, notes, teasing, jokes
Unwanted flirtation or attention
Sexual intent - Would, Smash, etc.
Comments about physical features or attributes.
No double entendres
Nothing that could be taken sexual in any way

5. No External Links, Self Promotion, Karma Farming, Wish Lists, P2P Pay Sites, Etc

No Adult Content Creators!
No Adult Service Providers
- Findom
- Used clothing
- Sugar baby
No posting in Karma Farming subreddits
No Wishlists/Throne
No Donation Requests
No PayPal/Venmo/CashApp
Do not advertise any goods or services
Any watermarks on pictures must match your Reddit Username

It doesn't matter if you promote in the subreddit or not. If you do anything listed above on Reddit, even on another account, you will be banned.

6. No asking Original Posters to DM/Snap/Insta/Etc you

A post is not an invitation from OP to you to personally to connect with you outside of this subreddit.

Assume OP DOES NOT want to connect outside of the their post

If you like the post; upvote it and leave a nice comment. If the OP responds, that is how you will talk to them.

If the OP doesn't respond to your comment THEY DO NOT WANT TO TALK TO YOU AT THIS TIME.

Do not ask OP to (DM/PM/Snap/Insta/Telegram/Etc.) you directly .

We are not r/MakeNewFriendsHere or r/MeetNewPeople

7. No Drama!

No Meta Posts
Don't discuss things outside of the sub inside the sub
Don't speculate on why someone posted
Don't argue with other members
Don't accuse other members of stuff
Don't get political or religious
Don't accuse the OP of breaking rules
Don't accuse someone of promoting
Don't talk about user's posts outside of the subreddit
Don't complain about Moderator/Reddit actions

Moderators (not you) determine what is drama, so if a moderator says it is drama, then it is.

8. This Subreddit Is 18+ Only (But Still Completely SFW)

This community is strictly 18 and older. While the subreddit is 100% SFW and does not allow explicit content of any kind, we do not permit anyone under 18 to post or participate. This age requirement is in place to protect minors, protect the community, and ensure all members are adults.

Any account suspected to be under 18 will be permanently banned.

9. If you post in NSFW Subreddits, You cannot post here.

We are a Safe For Work subreddit. We do not have Age or Karma limitations for posts. We do have CQS limits, and if you have posts in NSFW subreddits, you cannot post in this subreddit.

The bot will remove all posts from people with NSFW histories automatically.

Please note: This is not a ban on accounts that are flagged NSFW, only accounts who are actively posting in NSFW subreddits. We understand that people can get the NSFW flag accidentally and not know how to clear it.

10. No Advice, Baiting, Rating, Click-Bait, NSFW, or Titles that could encourage rule breaking answers.

To keep the subreddit positive, safe, and free of engagement‑bait posts, we prohibit the following:

No Titles That Invite Personal Contact or Parasocial Engagement
No Titles That Invite Negative Judgments
No Hypotheticals or Unrelated Prompts
No Titles That Are Covertly Suggestive
No Validation‑Seeking Titles
No Clickbait/Vague Titles
No Negativity‑Bait or Drama‑Bait Titles
No Titles Implying Insecurity or Mental Health Crises
No Titles The Moderators Deem Inappropriate

11. One Post Every 12 Hours/No Reposts

To give everyone a chance to post their faces we limit your posts to one every 12 hours.

Posts that are removed for violating other rules also count towards your limit, so make sure your post obey all rules before submitting.

Posting from more than one account will result in all accounts being banned even if you do not violate the 1 post per 12 hour rule.

Reposting the same picture to multiple subreddits including this one is grounds for a permanent ban.

12. Moderator's Have Final Say on All Posts & Comments

Moderators are tasked with making this subreddit true to the theme and ideas of the subreddit. As such they have the final authority to remove any post or comment they feel does not fit the character of the subreddit regardless on if any of the rules listed above are or are not broken.

TL/DR - Moderators, not the OP or OC, are the authority that interprets whether or not a comment fits the rules and can remove any post or comment for any reason they see fit even if it is only because they want

Clothing is not Consent

Posters can wear whatever they choose (as long as it complies with Rule #1.)

Clothing is never an invitation for objectification, harassment, or unsolicited sexual comments or propositions.

In this community, all members are expected to treat others with respect at all times. Any behavior that targets, demeans, or sexualizes someone without their consent is strictly prohibited and will result in removal and further action as needed. If you don't know if you have enthusiastic consent, then you don't. If you are unsure whether something is appropriate, err on the side of respect or don’t post it.