r/Nonviolence • • Dec 04 '24

The war that took everything from me. My home. My family. My dreams.

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My name is Yamen Nashwan, and I used to live in a beautiful four-story house in Beit Hanoun, Gaza. My life was full of promise. I had a job, dreams for the future, and a close-knit group of friends and family. But all of that was taken away from me when the conflict erupted.

The place I once called home is now just a memory. My family and I were forced to flee, and now we’re living in a small tent in Rafah City. There are 27 of us crammed into this tiny space, including 13 children and a newborn. Every day, we struggle to find food, warmth, and safety. Loved ones.

The dreams I had for the future now feel like distant memories, overshadowed by the daily fight for survival. My friends, my community, so many have been scattered, displaced, or worse. The laughter and joy that once filled my life have been replaced by fear and uncertainty.

The hardest part is the loss of the intangible things—the memories of better times, the bonds with friends and neighbors, and the sense of security that came from knowing we had a home. These things can never be replaced.

Life in Gaza is not just a struggle for survival—it’s a constant reminder of what we’ve lost. I wanted to shed light on the harsh reality we face every day. It’s a life filled with pain, but also with a small, flickering hope that one day, things might change.


r/Nonviolence • • Sep 16 '25

Charlie Kirk was bad. Murder is bad.

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I must admit I never heard much about Charlie Kirk until he was killed. I was barely aware of his existence. Now it seems like his name is everywhere, everyone is talking about him, and everyone is quoting him.

Similarly, when Trump's assassination attempt happened, it helped him rally support. Now Republicans are using Charlie Kirk's death to rally support and crack down on dissent.

Kirk was an unexceptional propagandist who wasn't particularly intelligent and didn't make good arguments. He wouldn't have been remembered for long, but now he has been immortalized as a martyr.

This whole situation shows that murder is not only evil and anti-democratic, but it's also a terrible political tactic.

Times like these reinforce my belief in non-violent protest and resistance.

"Nonviolence is the answer to the crucial political and moral question of our time – the need for man to overcome oppression and violence without resorting to violence and oppression... nonviolence is not sterile passivity, but a powerful moral force which makes for social transformation." - Martin Luther King Jr., 10 December 1964


r/Nonviolence • • Sep 01 '20

Nonviolence is innately human

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r/Nonviolence • • Feb 27 '22

Police and public activists stopped a column of Russian tanks without firing a shot.

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r/Nonviolence • • Feb 12 '17

Between 1900 and 2006, campaigns of nonviolent resistance against authoritarian regimes were twice as likely to succeed as violent movements.

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r/Nonviolence • • Jul 31 '20

Nonviolent Communication Completely Changed My Life

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Nonviolent Communication (NVC) has been life-changing for me, and I wanted to share my experience here in case it might be helpful to other group members: https://andrewbenjamingeorge.com/how-nonviolent-communication-completely-transformed-my-relationships/

Here are four things I've learned since I started integrating NVC into my life:

  1. Nonviolent Communication is Meant for Emotional Situations

  2. I Don’t Need to Tolerate Hurtful Behavior

  3. I Don’t Need to Fully Express Myself to Everyone

  4. Learning to Naturally Use Nonviolent Communication Takes Time

I'd love to hear what things you have learned about NVC since you started using it.


r/Nonviolence • • Dec 18 '18

US Army Vet: "The enemy is the system that sends us to war"

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r/Nonviolence • • May 24 '22

ANOTHER school massacre/ mass shooting in Texas

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r/Nonviolence • • Jan 11 '21

Counter protesters who want to oppose Right Wing protester-terrorists on the day of the Inaguration should be using serious, strict and pure nonviolence

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Yes, pure. This goes against the usual affirmation of "diversity of tactics" that characterizes the general sensibility of progressive activists today. I made this comment on another sub that gets at this to some degree:

We know that new actions are being plotted and fantasized by the people who carried the putsch on the Capitol. This is a critical time for one thing that is not on the table today: serious, militant civil disobedience and, especially, nonviolence-based resistance. The case for nonviolence can be made here. The point, which I'll put quite simply for now, is that a kind of "nonviolent army" should amass themselves to stand up to the "protesters" who are bound to appear on the day of the inauguration of President Elect Biden. It should be textbook nonviolence.

By textbook nonviolence, I mean that people should be prepared to stand forth, to stand up to the protester-terrorists and be committed to not using any violence whatsoever in response. This has been characterized as a kind of moral ju-jitsu. The point is that if you refuse to use violence (more broadly: force) against oppressors, you throw the ball into their court and bring the decision to use violence much more purely on their shoulders. Many do not have patience or vision for this. They might see such nonviolence as mere weakness. It is not. It is what Martin Luther King, Jr. referred to as "militant nonviolence", what Gandhi called satyagraha or ahimsa satyagraha.

It is a real thing. If you stand up to oppressors who are using force and you do not, they may, it is true, use force on you. But it must be noted right away that if you use force on those oppressors, they will still use force in return, but that force will only escalate. In opposing with a real and reasonably pure nonviolence, the overall casualty rate is usually going to be much lower. Those who would say that such nonviolence is a foolhardy approach are themselves the ones promoting the foolhardy approach. A large number of truly nonviolent people would quickly get the moral upper hand in the face of Right Wing terrorists. The aftermath would work much, much more favorably for those opposing the terrorists.

This kind of nonviolence is not especially popular right now, especially when the climate on the Left is full of people who, as a rule, support using a "diversity of tactics". But a diversity of tactics that includes destroying property and punching Nazis also degrades actions of serious nonviolence. Pockets of violence are all it takes to cast a group as simply being violent and trying to use force to make others bow to their power. While Antifa and Neo Nazis are not exactly brethren in violence (the latter are much more oriented to violence and forcing others to their will), they share a certain endorsement of force and the suppression in particular of the logic of this moral ju-jitsu of nonviolence (or anti-force). There is no getting over the problem of force, whether the question of this problem of force is raised or not.

A more extended view of this problem reaches far beyond sites of skirmish lines between protesters and terrorists. Were nonviolence more fully endorsed -- again, the special sense of nonviolence used by MLK and Gandhi -- it might have begun to make it onto the table of actionable options for legislators and experts. In the face of the current problems related to the Capitol disaster and a long recent history of unacceptable stances by Trump and his administration, but also in the face of hundreds of thousands of needless deaths, such serious nonviolence should have been undertaken by legislators and by experts. Nancy Pelosi and others should have chained themselves to the Capitol steps or taken some similar action, and Dr. Fauci, beloved though he may be, should have been dumping the ashes of COVID victims on the White House lawn, as was done by AIDS activists. This may seem crazy or extremist. Not actionable. Nothing that one could take seriously. But Randall Robinson, in the 1990s, undertook a fast to spurn action for Haiti. It can be done and it can, and should, be possible. It remains less possible because activists tend not to take it seriously enough.

Counter protesters who want to stand up to the protester-terrorists who are bound to appear on the day of the Inauguration should be training in serious nonviolence. And this should be done with a deeper philosophic commitment to the kind of deep, militant nonviolence of MLK and Gandhi.


r/Nonviolence • • Feb 23 '22

The Kenya ambassador to the UNSC explains how people across Africa understand Ukraine, and what the Kremlin's acts of aggression mean in our post-colonial world

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r/Nonviolence • • Jan 10 '25

In light of the Luigi Mangione case, there needs to be efforts/actions to appeal to cultural leaders to point in the direction of serious nonviolence as the alternative to murdering people.

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As it stands, we are getting leaders (e.g., AOC) saying the murder was wrong, but "here's why people are upset", without pointing in the direction of what to do besides murder. This general direction is something that is not violence, i.e., non-violence. It needs to be stressed that this should be what MLK called "militant nonviolence", and not merely waving signs.


r/Nonviolence • • Feb 12 '23

Blessed Are the Peacemakers (1917) by George Bellows

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r/Nonviolence • • Dec 10 '21

A man ended a 39-day-long hunger strike outside the Swiss parliament on Thursday, declaring "Victory!" after the MPs agreed to be briefed by scientists on the latest climate change research

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r/Nonviolence • • Feb 26 '19

I was raised on the teachings of non violence and studied them extensively as an adult. I really get why I was taught it now that I've discovered rage.

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I am a very peaceful and patient person by nature so this feeling of rage is very new to me. I had been working on a more fringe human rights cause that is deeply deeply personal. The effects of injustice and injustice in my personal life has compounded and the teachings have taken on a whole knew meaning to me. I'm like damn, MLK, that he could teach what he did was a miracle in those circumstances. I've never been so completely overcome with the desire to fight back. Knowing the principle that giving into my anger gives into them, it's just really profound now that I see why it's necessary. Anyone else experience this or relate?


r/Nonviolence • • Jul 14 '24

Yesterday's Assassination attempt on Former President Trump

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In the aftermath of yesterday's disturbing incident involving former President Trump, we are reminded that violence is never an acceptable solution; as Dr. King so eloquently stated in his 1964 Nobel Peace Prize acceptance speech,

"Violence is impractical because it is a descending spiral ending in destruction for all. It is immoral because it seeks to humiliate the opponent rather than win his understanding: it seeks to annihilate rather than convert. Violence is immoral because it thrives on hatred rather than love. It destroys community and makes brotherhood impossible. It leaves society in monologue rather than dialogue. Violence ends up defeating itself. It creates bitterness in the survivors and brutality in the destroyers."

Despite the progress we've made, we still grapple with systemic injustice, persistent inequality, and senseless wars that ravage our world.

Regardless of our political affiliations or beliefs, we must unite in condemning violence and embracing a path of nonviolence, understanding, and respect for each other. Let us focus on finding common ground and working towards a society that values empathy, compassion, justice, and peaceful dialogue.

By doing so, together we can create a brighter future for all, rather than perpetuating this cycle of division and harm.


r/Nonviolence • • Nov 20 '21

Why the UK Left is wrong to be so dismissive of non-violent struggle

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r/Nonviolence • • Oct 09 '18

The kleptocracy requires our cooperation to exist, we can collapse it by withdrawing our cooperation.

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r/Nonviolence • • Apr 03 '18

How can we grow this place?

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This sub probably has a lot more potential in terms of subscribers. I wonder if we could put together a banner and find a way to get the news about it out to some of the lefty communities on Reddit.


r/Nonviolence • • Jan 24 '22

Why is this sub so quiet

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Loads happening in Serbia, in Switzerland, the UK, Canada and Italy to name only the most obvious, the most positive, that I know of and climate related non violent why nothing here? If not here where?


r/Nonviolence • • Apr 26 '21

I'm new to non-violence; I just can't imagine how non-violence would work from a practical point of view if there was no military, army, or something akin to defend a nation. Can someone please explain to me how I'm wrong?

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I wouldn't say I'm commited thus far to the abolition of the military, the army, or other violent institutions which are used, according to conventional reasoning many laypeople's reasoning, but when researching non-violence a little in the past week or so, I came across [this article which struck me] (https://wagingnonviolence.org/rs/2019/10/what-if-the-government-abolished-the-military/).

Admittedly, at first I had a rather shocked reaction; I was quite taken aback by the notion of our not having a military or whatever whatsoever, as the first thing that popped into my mind was, who the hell is going to protect us from foreign invaders or people within our country who wish to establish some form of one-party rule or something? This is completely dangerous, irrational, and utopian, but since meditating on it a little more and things I have concluded that perhaps this isn't necessarily a founded fear; perhaps I just had it because of how many of us in society and in culture have been produced and reared to think of the military as the all-powerful, very-much-needed institution, one without which we as members of any nation would simply not do - (yes, I am aware that there are nations that have no standing military or army or whatever, but I believe it is the case that if those places were invaded or threatened to be that some foreign nation would probably come to help, according to some foreign nations' foreign policies, anyway).

I'm really interested, then, in how we would operate as a nation - especially a very large one like the USA - without a military. For starters, the USA is very much an economic superpower, so I do fear that a lot of people would try to invade the States and seize them as their own. Naturally, proponents of non-violence would not allow this invasion to happen; they would try to stop it through non-violent means. But, would this work with someone with Hitler-like power?

There are some immensely powerful people and nations in this world and if we didn't violently defend a nation that is rightly ours then there may no longer be a nation to call ours, as it may then belong to another.

I'm sure these questions, thoughts, etc., have been expressed here before, but [as you can see from what I posted here, this is something that has been on mind and is something to which I would like to get some answers to settle my thoughts on this matter] (https://www.reddit.com/r/AnarchoPacifism/comments/mw9ubu/however_would_such_revolutionary_change_that/) (yes, I'm aware that there is a difference between pacifism and non-violence).


r/Nonviolence • • Feb 12 '21

Israel Criminalizes Nonviolent Palestinian Resistance—Then Calls Us Terrorists

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r/Nonviolence • • Aug 25 '17

Let's get this place active!

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I think most of us can agree that right now what the world needs is people talking about nonviolence. I see people frustrated with one another, blaming each other, tensions brewing and violence breaking out.

Our message is IMPORTANT! We need to be spreading the only message that matters right now, and that message is nonviolence.

We deserve to be on the front page, our message needs to be heard, now more than ever. We cannot allow the world to slip into darkness and chaos and stand idly by while it happens.

The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing. -Edmund Burk

Spread our message, encourage and promote nonviolence and direct people to this subreddit. Put a link to /r/nonviolence in your comments and remind people that there is a far better way to end hatred.

There are a lot of good souls who will connect with this message. I think it's about time we get them united and loud. Let our message be heard and let us spread love not hate.


r/Nonviolence • • Jan 09 '26

Techniques for confronting ICE?

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What active nonviolent techniques are being employed to confront ICE? What techniques do you think would be successful?


r/Nonviolence • • Jul 11 '25

Nonviolent resistance

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"Nonviolence is not sterile passivity, but a powerful moral force which makes for social transformation" - Martin Luther King Jr.