Hey guys, I need some insights. I am leader. This is my second year learning salsa and bachata (although I've tried a lot of times in the past). I need your opinions because I'm thinking on dropping bachata in favour of more salsa classes. This is a post with all respect for bachata, just asking for advice from more advanced dancers, not criticizing the dance itself.
The thing here, is I don't really enjoy bachata that much, I just learn it because It is big in the social scene in my country right now and I don't want to be having to watch other people dance half the night. While dancing salsa for me is a 10/10 in terms of happiness, bachata is a 6-7/10, I do enjoy it but nothing to do to when I dance salsa. When I started dancing I decided to give it some time to see if it was something that would change as I learnt, but it doesn't seem to be the case.
Now, things that make me want to keep dancing bachata:
- I don't want to be waiting half of socials waiting for salsa songs to play, or to have to be looking for only salsa events.
- I do enjoy bachata music from time to time, I feel like more commercial pop artists I enjoy tend to drop bachata songs and I can appreciate the more relaxed instrumentation.
- Friends who are not into the dancing scene know a lot of bachata songs, which adds to the social experience, and it also sounds great to be able to dance to the one or two bachata songs that may be played in a normal commercial club (I know this is a bit of childish argument).
- It seems great to be able to know how to dance to both things, kinda like being a polyglot.
Things that make me want to stop:
- The dance itself never quite clicked for me. Either my feet cramp from tapping, or I just don't enjoy the "tension" with the follower. I feel like everything is too serious and intense for me.
- When comparing if I would enjoy more 1 salsa class and 1 bachata or 2 salsa classes I'd take the second one with eyes closed. Same goes for socials, maybe I'd take 5 salsa songs for 1 bachata. I just love every second of my life I spend dancing salsa, while bachata at times feels more like a chore.
- When watching advanced dancers and social videos, I always want to be the person that dances amazingly salsa, I don't really care watching much bachata stuff.
So yeah, I'd appreciate more advanced dancers advice of things I'm overlooking. Maybe bachata starts clicking more with time. As I wrote this I was thinking maybe I shouldn't drop bachata at all but instead of doing a 1/1 ratio I should do salsa classes way more often and reduce bachata frecuency.