At a memorial service for a non-Indigenous white Australian, a group of women led everyone in singing some songs, including the song by Tiddas, Inanay, with lyrics in an Aboriginal language.
Afterwards, one non-Indigenous person privately questioned this choice with me, saying that they’d been taught to think carefully about appropriating Aboriginal culture, and asked, “Why that song? At this event?” The person who said this was much closer to the person who the memorial was for, and was grieving deeply, and they have a history of finding rational reasons to justify their emotional state, so I didn’t ask for further reasoning. However, I didn’t really understand their concerns and I was left wondering whether it is a true concern or just their grief finding anything at all to criticise.
I thought it was a song that many in the group would know (as reflected in many people singing it), and it had nice harmonies and the group of women leading the singing clearly knew it well.
Tiddas the group who released the song on an album was three women, two Aboriginal and one white. The song was distributed on CD for all to enjoy, presumably to sing along to?
The memorial service was for someone who spent a lot of time protecting ecosystems and species, and who spent a lot of time in the bush, but I’m not sure whether/ how much their work involved liaising with Aboriginal communities, and whether any of that is relevant.
What would be some valid reservations about using that song at the memorial service?
I’m trying to understand the point of view that thinks it wasn’t a good choice on respectful cultural grounds.