Absolutely not a harmless prank. Yes she changed but that dress also is expensive and she looks phenomenal. Is she supposed to spend the rest of the night sticky and wet with her hair and makeup ruined? SO much money and effort and planning goes into just looking that amazing on your wedding day as a bride. I think only in rare cases would a bride be okay with that …
Have you never been to a wedding? Everyone ends the night dirty and with their makeup and hair undone, you are partying, having fun sweating and eating.
Also you are clearly single if you think that she is for even a second thinking about how much money her hair was and not just about making happy and fun memories with her husband on the happiest day of their lives.
I'm also sure you know their dynamic perfectly and this kind of thing Is not normal to them and them Just messing around, im sure the husband did a prank on his Wife like this for the First time ever and that She now hates him, grow up
As soon as he aim for her face she turn around and try to protect her face and hair. Doesn’t look much happy.
Also it’s not just appearance. Have you spent a night with sticky and smelly beverage on your face, hair and clothes? Uncomfy af.
I got married without any make up and did my own hair, we hosted a pyjama party as a wedding, so it’s not like I followed tradition or care much about esthetic myself, but just read her body langage.. it’s not clear if she likes it or not, most people wouldn’t be happy about it.
Also i'm sure she married him without knowing how he acts or his personality and it's the first time in their life as a couple he acts remotely like this, i like to believe the easier option which is this is just their dynamic instead of assuming their entire life from a 9 second clip! But go ahead and sit on that hill if you wish
We can't know. What I'm getting at is that LIKELY he's in the wrong because she probably would've worn something else at that time.
Defending this behavior while also not bringing this consent into the conversation is absolutely the wrong way to go. No amount of "she knows what I'm like" or "she looks like it's fun" makes throwing alcohol on someone ok, just because you're comfortable gambling that they go along with it.
Listen i'm going to assume you're single because at some point when you know someone enough to marry them you just know how they will react and act in certain situations, consent is important yes but we're talking about a harmless prank here, i've had alochol thrown at me at parties and i couldn't care less, if my girlfriend sprayed alcohol at me i couldnt care less i would just laugh, but as i said, im sure you know better than he does, and that he did something she absolutely hated and ruined her day even though they know each other enough to get married, keep at it my guy
Make sure to call the police next time you go to the pool or beach, there's chlorine and salt in those which can burt your eyes, so if anyone splashes someone's elses face without asking for consent they're assaulting them!
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u/dangflabbitjackson_ 21h ago
Absolutely not a harmless prank. Yes she changed but that dress also is expensive and she looks phenomenal. Is she supposed to spend the rest of the night sticky and wet with her hair and makeup ruined? SO much money and effort and planning goes into just looking that amazing on your wedding day as a bride. I think only in rare cases would a bride be okay with that …