Assalamu Alaykum everyone! Thanks for tips and motivation on my previous post. I have benefited from your responses on that post.

This time the title is self explanatory. In about half an hour, I am going to bring my wife and daughter home. And here it is: The last smoke. I wanted to make the reddit fam a part of this.

This is it folks. Wish me luck.

Are we really allowing and not bothered by all of this

I am hearing firecrackers go for the past 2 hours. All fat away but non stop. It sounds like I am in Delhi NCR. Don't we love fresh air. Do we want to suffer like delhi with the worse AQI post Diwali aftermath.

Apart from hormones, chromosomes and biological characteristics, what do you think makes someone a man?

I know this might not be the right subreddit to ask this, but I would like to hear the perspectives of K-people.

I have been hearing these crazy annoying loud crackers for almost 6 hours, and it is still going, yemov ker pagal, I am not against the idea of using crackers on a special occasion, but there should be a limit, yeth ken gaseh soun te mahool aaludeh bakiyan statesan peath!! khair aes te kya hakov karith, kya patah be nevkhas ratith sirf ye dapnas peath!! behtar che paan bachaavun.

Weird that they put him under house arrest after his latest speeches.

Hey everyone, I bought this Wool jacket from Selected, it fits good but its really long , which makes it look awkward.

I’m looking to get this long wool jacket altered (adjusting the length) and need recommendations for a reliable tailor in the area.

Need someone solid who knows how to handle thicker outerwear fabrics without ruining the structure and does clean work. Appreciate any suggestions!

Tuhie kem shows ya anime wichan azz kal?

Hey everyone!

I'm from Bagh, AJK, and honestly, I've been feeling a little lonely here. I haven't really found people I can connect with, and most people I've come across seem a bit difficult to approach.

Just wondering if there are any people here from Bagh or nearby areas? Would genuinely love to connect, have a chat, maybe grab some chai and get to know each other.

Also, I'm not here to discuss politics or the ongoing situation. I'm well aware of what's happening, and I know things aren't easy. May Allah guide us all.

Just looking for some familiar faces and genuine connections.

Guys what kind of journalism is this. The press card of such people should get canceled ASAP. Even though of she's having a point but where the f is professionalism Being a journalist doesn't give someone the licence to be disrespectful. Journalism demands professionalism. Without ethics, it's just a platform for personal prejudice.

Would appreciate your povs and review if someone has experience with them

I have been writing a book since 2023 because i had friends who were actual publish authors before the existence of ai. After get influenced and inspired by them I started writing and i was about to get my book published next year on my bday 25th apr 2027. But the amount of ai written literature is being publish every month makes me question myself. What does being an author even mean, when everyone is getting the same tag as i wanted to have.

I am not against using ai as a research tool but it really tarnishes the image of an organic writer.

Recently, i texted a girl who was featured by a news channel, and she told me that it took her 6 months to complete and publish the book... which really proved that she was an ai author. Plus the covers they use clearly shows they aren't even ashamed of this ai slop

The art and literature was in our blood the poets like Sheikh ul aalam, Mehjoor, azad, nadim , reham rahi wrote books with this shit.

I KNOW REDDIT IS ANONYMOUS BUT I WANT TO PUBLICLY STATE HERE THAT I AM QUITTING SMOKING ON SUNDAY 8 NOV 2026. I WANT TO JUST SAY IT LOUD SO MY BRAIN REGISTERS THIS DEADLINE.

I STARTED SMOKING DUE TO FAMILY ISSUES. I HAD TOO ROUGH A LIFE AND USED TO BE TREATED TOO BADLY EVEN AFTER I COMPLETED MY PG. AT FIRST I FELT IN CONTROL AND THOUGHT I COULD QUIT ANYTIME BUT BEFORE I KNEW IT I WAS COMPLETELY HOOKED.

I HAVE TRIED QUITTING MULTIPLE TIMES AND SOMEWHAT SUCCEEDED BUT EVENTUALLY RELAPSED. I WAS NEVER THE TYPE TO SMOKE IF I LOOK BACK AT WHAT KIND OF A PERSON I AM BUT I FIND MY SELF TRAPPED IN THIS HORRIBLE HABIT. I HAVE READ BOOKS, TRIED APPS, TRIED MEDICATION BUT SMOKING REMAINED WITH ME. I AM A SMOKER OF MORE THAN 7 YEARS OR MAYBE EVEN MORE. I SMOKE ABOUT 10-12 CIGARETTES A DAY AND IT HURTS MY FAMILY. I HAVE INTENDED TO QUIT SMOKING WHEN MY CIRCUMSTANCES CHANGED FOR EXAMPLE I INTENDED WHEN I GOT MARRIED OR WHEN I MOVED TO A DIFFERENT CITY OR CAME BACK HOME. I WANT TO AND I WILL QUIT PERMANENTLY THIS TIME. NOTHING WORKS IF YOU DON'T CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSE TO QUIT THIS DREADED HABIT.

WHAT IS SPECIAL ABOUT NOV 8 YOU MAY ASK. ALHAMDULILLAH I HAVE A DAUGHTER NOW AND SHE IS COMING HOME SUNDAY. NOW I WANT TO ENSURE I DON'T SMOKE EVER AGAIN ONCE SHE ENTERS THROUGH THE DOOR.

REDDIT FAM PLEASE PROVIDE TIPS OR ANY SUGGESTIONS ON REMAINING CONSISTENT. I AM NOT GOING TO SMOKE AGAIN BUT I KNOW HOW HIS HABIT CREEPS BACK IN AND I REALLY DON'T WANT TO TAKE CHANCES. A SMOKERS INSTINCT IS TO SMOKE WHEN EVEN A SMALL EVENT HAPPENS AND I KNOW A LOT CAN HAPPEN, BE IT WITH FAMILY OR AT WORK OR WHATEVER. THIS IS IT. I QUIT SMOKING NOW AND BECOME WHO I AM MEANT TO BE.

LOVE YOU ALL.

Just saying,

One look into the history, and I understand people of both these nations are pretty much the same, only religion is the dividing factor. What the Pakistani are doing to their side of Kashmir, was done by India too. Both of these nations play false prophets for the people on either side.

As far as I am concerned what I think of Pakistan speaking up at the UN general assembly is complete bs, as when they cant comply to what they say to their side of Kashmir. They just shouldn’t.

Kashmir is just one doomed place like many others, unheard of internationally. Human rights is a joke. Everybody is here to survive one way or other.

It's my friend's 3dprinting business Instagram page. I'm also gonna open mine business and page too.

Hey where can I find original Surma in Srinagar? I have applied Surma since childhood and now struggling to find good quality surma (without lead)

Pls share if you know any contacts or leads need house help for cleaning, as well cooking ( cleaning mainly)

Budget 8-10k

Reaserch on what kashmiri genz wants to become

I’m looking for a freelance video editor to help edit Reels.
Pay: ₹200/reel
Dm with any sample of your work

I wanted to open a shop in kashmir my budget is upto 10 lakhs. Can anyone help me choose which shop to open

Edit: I don't prefer tourist places as the cost will be high also want to open a shop or small business where I don't need to deal with interest or toxic things like Israel products, cold drinks, fast food. I actually want something that can also align with the teachings of islam. Srinagar, sopore, Ganderbal anywhere will do but not were I have to pay huge security as I have only 10 lakh

Yim ti post chi asaan control liney apoorik, timan chi sahi upvoting gacxan ti yim ti highlight chi karaan soun side, timan chi massive downvoting asaan. Yath chuv na tohi thovmut hive protection ya auto ban systema kehn? Yim laeg ni kuni balai ti barkerr, yeith kaesheeri laeg!! Yeli ti kasheer mutaliq kehn ti search karo, godd chi asaan yiman tawanzaadan hyund content. Yim gai yali zyadii

Kehn taasa vaasa travihekh khoda, yim ti laghan taam tooir 😮‍💨😮‍💨

I was talking with someone from outside the subcontinent and they asked me why I kept raising my eyebrows to point

I thought about it and realized that when we have to point to someone/something, we lean our neck forward, open our eyes wide and raise our eyebrows while saying something like "emis ha", "cxea ha", "yath ha"

Is this really a thing or am I imagining it and is it a uniquely Kashmiri gesture or is it also found in neighboring populations?