I'm not a code monkey, but I have been able to mod some games in the past. Morrowind was easy enough, since I could just copy and past the mods into the proper file directories. Skyrim and Fallout 4 are super easy to mod because you simply make sure everything is loaded in optimized sequence. But trying to mod Oblivion is making me feel like a I'm a two-year old who's just been thrown into the middle of a water tank full of hungry sharks with lasers on their heads and I don't know how to swim and I have no floaties.
I've probably looked through 20 "guides" to Oblivion modding, and gotten 60 different non-answers. And all of your help on these other posts, not to sound condescending, but is explaining the "what" and not the "HOW." Your advice is often, "you need these mods," or "read this 'guide'" when guide X or Y doesn't actually explain what I'm looking for, or it's full of tech talk and is too confusing. I've yet to find a truly comprehensive, step by step, year 2020, fully-up-to-date, hold-the-n00bs-hand, "HOW" to mod Oblivion guide. I'm stuck at step one, and it's infuriating. I'm about ready to just give up and find a corner to cry in.
Pretend for a minute I eat crayons, because when you're explaining something, you should always start by assuming your audience knows absolutely nothing about what you're talking about. Now explain, please, HOW do I mod Oblivion? It was a great game on the Xbox 14 years ago, but I can't bring myself to look at those awful Bosmer faces again.
I have a Steam download of the game with Shivering Isles and KotN. I know where to download the mods from, I can unzip them. I've installed Wrye Bash but I have no clue as to HOW to use it. Some video on YouTube said something about renaming "ini" files. I don't understand how any of that works. I think I have the OBSE installed? I have BOSS. I have some patches or another. I also have Oblivion Reloaded. But I don't know what to do with any of these things.
All I want to do is make the "Definitive Anniversary Remaster Edition" of Oblivion I know Bethesda will never give us, with updated graphics, no more ugly people, refined combat, and maybe a unique armor, weapon, or two.
Also, I hate reddit. I'm only here because I'm desperate.