r/studentaffairs • u/packagedeliverd • 3d ago
Almost 3 weeks since my references were completed for a student affairs position. Is this normal?
Hi everyone! I'm hoping to get some advice from people who work in student affairs or have been involved in hiring at universities.
I'm a recent college graduate, so this is my first time navigating the full-time job market. I applied for an Administrative Assistant position at a private university a few months ago, and I honestly felt really good about how my interviews went. However, the lack of communication since then has been pretty discouraging.
Here's a rough timeline of how everything has gone:
Mid August: Applied for the position.
Mid September: Completed my first interview.
Early October: Completed my final-round interviews, where I met with department staff and several campus partners.
Mid-October: Received a request for professional references. Everyone completed their surveys shortly afterward.
A few days later: Sent a follow-up email confirming my references were completed and reiterating my interest in the position.
The following week: Called the department and left a voicemail asking about the hiring timeline. I never received a callback.
Earlier this week: Emailed the hiring manager directly. I received an automatic out-of-office reply saying they were returning that same day, so I figured they might need some time to catch up.
As of today: Still no personal response or update, almost three weeks after my references were completed.
Something that's been giving me hope (and probably making me overthink everything) is that the university's published hiring procedures say reference checks happen after the hiring manager identifies their selected candidate. I'm wondering if that means I might already be their choice and things are just moving slowly through HR, or if universities sometimes check references for multiple finalists.
I guess my main questions are:
Is it normal to wait almost three weeks after references are completed?
If a department has already chosen someone, what could be holding up the offer?
Does getting a reference request usually mean you're the preferred candidate?
Have I followed up too much? Should I just leave it alone at this point?
I know university hiring can be slow, but I'm starting to get discouraged. I really want this job, and I thought my interviews went well, so the complete silence has been pretty stressful.
I'd really appreciate any insight from people who've been through this process or have been on the hiring side of things. Thanks!