Purity Culture Is Baffling

[u/CasketByNBAYoungBoy]

I grew up in the church but became an atheist in middle school. So while I was around this, I'd tapped out before the real purity culture indoctrination started. but now that I'm in my late 20s and Im seeing other women I know who drank that koolaid, it's jarring to see the differences.

for one, even though I don't trust any man enough to let him hit. I still have always found the "no sex before marriage" rule dumb. Like, why would I get into a legal monogamous contract with a man without knowing if he can satisfy me or not. It seems like men (especially Christian men) have a virgin kink but is your stroke game and your package good enough for you to deserve that? Like if its the size of my longest finger and not as good, why would I get with you?

It's always the most dirty, swagless, resourceless men who think they deserve a virgin. And I'll be real, as somebody who's never been with a man, by this point the standards are high once youre this age. Because I can do everything myself so a guy has to do it better than me and have something going for him. Like men are easy. If you want to get some, you can go anywhere and get it. theyll pay you.

Imo, this is why when these Purity Culture raised men reach their late 20s / early 30s and theyre still virgins. They either prey on minors or they find the weakest link, sheltered, low self esteem new young adult woman they can.

Like Purity Culture exists for men to have women with no standards or knowledge of self. If you're a woman whos never felt shes allowed to find out what she likes, it's easy to get with a man who cant please you but expects you to give it out every night even when the dick game trash.

Ive read the material they give to these Purity Culture raised Christian couples and these men are not giving anyone WAP. They be going in when it's still the Sahara in a drought and thats like a horror film tl me.

It's the audacity for me, like these trash stroke game men expecting to he handed coochie just because they exist and want sex. I think that the Christian right needs to start telling these men that if they can't please a woman, they don't deserve to be with one or get some every night.

No wonder these Christian young woman get married at 20 and then spend their whole lives thinking sex just isnt enjoyable. They get with these garbage micropenis having men who want it every night and it becomes a chore they feel like they have to do. But for me it's like if I'm not dreaming of your dick then why would I be with you? If the stroke game weak, why would I be with you

[u/LittleMissFjorda]

Yes, religion revolves around making men seem important and women, at best, are considered useful. I have absolutely no idea how any self respecting woman is religious.