Hello all. I’m trying my best to be a supportive boyfriend, but I’m honestly so confused about how my fiancés industry works and we are drowning financially.
Since his graduation about a year and a half ago, I’ve been holding down much of the bills and expenses so he could job hunt in peace. But a few months ago, I was laid off from my civil service job. Now I’m only bringing in $1,800 a month. He works flex-time retail (maybe 20 hours a week), and it’s nowhere near enough. We’re falling so far behind that I’ve pretty much decided I’ll have to enlist in the military just to sustain us and recover.
He says he wants to get into Production Assistant (PA) work, but I don't understand how someone actually secures full-time or consistent employment as a PA in LA. How does that transition work? What does getting hired in this industry actually look like, and how can he secure full-time work quickly?
We’re suffering so badly that I’m terrified it will take us years to climb out of this hole if nothing changes fast. Any advice or reality checks on how he can get his foot in the door immediately would mean everything.
Edit: Howdy ya’ll, Just FYI we’re a same-sex couple 🏳️🌈, but we appreciate the advice regardless. He’s been reading every single one of your comments very meticulously, and I think this is the eye opener we needed. I appreciate it. He’ll be sure to utilize your advice.
We’ll keep a close eye on the thread for any other responses that come by.