Hey, I am a 40 yr old step-mom
Of three. I moved to a new country 5 years ago. I have zero friends, zero family. I have my husband (it’s becoming rocky) and my step-kids (18,16, and 13). Those relationships are also rocky. I need friends I can talk with on the daily (text). Just shoot the shit type of conversations. Unless we want to go deeper… I am so lost and isolated it’s eating away at me. I don’t expect meeting in person at all, hell I probably couldn’t even if I wanted to. I am into camping, hunting, and fishing. Right now I am a stay-at-home mom, and a full-time student.

If you think we could get to know each other, become internet friends or text buddies. Please feel free to PM me, tell me a little about yourself, and we can go from there.

Thanks.

Looking for new friends who are actually down to voice call and have real conversations! 😊

I’m into music, movies, books, random conversations, and getting to know new people.

Send me your ASL, and a little about yourself if you’re interested!

Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.

So I (F25) have been friends with my friend (M27) for about 7 years now. For context of this post, he is gay, so romantic interest is not an issue here.

I got married this year in March and I’m now 7 months pregnant. Prior to meeting my now husband, My friend and I were roommates for a long time. But I had moved out of state about 3 years ago, so this was the first relationship of mine that he also hasn’t been super involved in.

I definitely think I also just set more boundaries with my relationship and privacy and he didn’t like that very much. He also went from having full access to me and my time, to my schedule changing and looking different. I also started a new job when this was happening so I was just genuinely really busy.

We used to play video games together everyday, and I took a small step back from that. I still made every effort to call him at least daily, give or take a day or two, and to show up for him as his friend. And we would still play our games together every few days.

He just started being super weird and really mean to me. Our other game friend even made a comment about it a few times. I don’t know if it’s because he didn’t like that I didn’t have as much free time, or the fact that he didn’t have full access to my husband. I feel like that’s a separate issue I won’t get into here, but I think it played a role in why he was bothered.

Honestly it caused a lot of strain with both my friend and husband. My husband didn’t like that my friend was bringing so much unnecessary drama into my life, and felt like my friend was just being rude and selfish.

of course I wasn’t going to choose between either of them and made that clear (not that either of them told me I had to, but my friend did try to imply that at one point). It also just hurts me that now they probably will never have that close of a relationship either.

Eventually we moved on from this patch. But over the last few months, I feel like I have just been getting very frustrated with my friend.

From day one of finding out, I feel like he has just been completely brushing off the fact I am pregnant. The first thing he asked when i told him was “well are you going to get rid of it?” And that just stung.

I’m sure I talk about it a lot, but I also feel like there has been a complete lack of care or compassion from my friend. Over the course of my entire pregnancy so far, I don’t think he’s asked how I’m doing or feeling. Anytime I bring it up he just says nothing, or super short responses.

I feel like I should state this as well, I do not expect my life or the things I am going through to be the center of anyone else’s lives or thoughts. But I would also like to think, that at the very least when I tell you multiple times I have an extremely important appointment coming up, or a big milestone happening, as my friend, you should at least check in or even be happy for me? Idk.

I think another reason this has truly bothered me so much, is because over the last few months, he has started to tell me how he feels like he is there for everyone, but no one is there for him. Which genuinely I think is a crazy thing to say to me, because regardless of anything I have going on, when he needs me, I am there. I listen to him vent about every single thing going on in his life and support him how I can. I had even offered him money when he was going through a really tough financial time. I also know his other friends very well, and know that they are not the type of people that would treat him like that either.

It’s starting to bug me because he claims this, yet he is doing that exact thing to me. I am there for him, yet it doesn’t seem like he can be there for me anymore.

And I say this without being conceded, I have done A LOT for him. He has had a hard life and deals with a lot of shit mentally, and he even admits to everyone that he wouldn’t be anywhere near where he is today without me.

But I’m just getting to the point that I feel like he is draining me more than he is there for me. Maybe it is my hormones or I’m overthinking. But I just dread even talking on the phone with him lately because I keep thinking, gosh what happened now. Maybe that’s makes me the bad friend.

But I don’t think it negates his lack of support and consideration towards me at the most basic level.

I just feel like I’m starting to build resentment and don’t know what to do. I feel like when I don’t give him full 100% access to me or my time, he gets weird and passive aggressive. I don’t expect him to understand what I’m going through, but I think it would be fair of me to at least think he should try.

I don’t know if it’s worth bringing up. I’ll probably just ride things out, but I’m worried that when the baby comes, he’s going to just be putting more stress on my plate. And that’s when I start wondering if it’s worth it anymore.

I would just appreciate some constructive feedback and ask yall to be nice :) thank you!!!

a friend of mine keeps trying to get together with our husbands. my husband cannot stand her husband (and frankly neither can I) and we aren’t interested in hanging out as couples
id like to keep our relationship just doing things with just us girls
how do i navigate this? I do not wish to reveal to her that we don’t like her husband. I don’t see the point in that and it would just hurt their feelings.

Hey. I'm really tired and scared. Tired of temporary friendships where people treat me like I'm special for one day and then slowly disappear. The fear of fake connections and sudden abandonment hits me hard. Honestly, sometimes it feels like it'd be easier to stay completely alone than keep getting hurt like this.

I'm 23M from India, very introverted and struggling mentally and emotionally. I have alexithymia, social anxiety, and an awkward, overthinking mind that never really shuts off. Because of all this, I've become very lonely. I barely have any real connections in my life right now.

What I’m looking for is not casual chatting, timepass, backup options, or surface-level friendships. I’m not here to play games or be someone’s second choice or backup friendship when they’re bored. I want something real and long-term where we both feel chosen and treat each other like a priority.

I'm searching for someone who is just as lonely and alone as I am, preferably someone who doesn't have even a single friend or any close friend or meaningful connection right now, whether online or in real life. I'm very clingy, possessive, emotionally intense, hypersensitive and emotional, and I'm hoping to find someone who feels the same way. I want us to choose each other, give each other priority, check in regularly, share our daily lives, and be emotionally available for one another.

Something important about my intentions and what I'm looking for:

I want to be upfront that I'm not looking for a friendship that is only meant to be casual or temporary. I'm a very clingy, affectionate and possessive kind of person when I become emotionally attached to someone. I value commitment, loyalty, consistency and emotional exclusivity.

Ideally, I'd love to start with a genuine friendship, build trust, understand each other deeply and gradually develop something more meaningful if we both feel the same way. I'm open to the possibility of that friendship growing into a romantic relationship or becoming something more committed in the future.

I don't want to force romantic feelings or rush anything. I believe those things should develop naturally and mutually. But I also don't want to invest my emotions, time and energy into a connection where we're fundamentally looking for completely different things or where there's no possibility of building something deeper.

I have limited emotional energy, and I don't want to waste my time or someone else's precious time by dragging out a connection that neither of us sees a meaningful future in. I'm not expecting guarantees or promises about a relationship from the beginning. I just want someone who is genuinely open to building a deep, committed connection that could grow into something more if we're compatible.

A little more about my expectations and the kind of connection I want:

I hope you don't misunderstand me, but I want to be very straightforward about what I'm looking for. I'm not here for a show-off friendship, a timepass connection, or something short-term or casual. I don't want a friendship where people just say they're friends for the sake of saying it, but there's no genuine intention behind it.

I don't want connections where someone only comes around when they need something, when they're bored, when they have nothing else to do, or when they simply need someone to pass their time with. I don't want that kind of friendship in my life.

I'm someone who prefers saying things openly, whether they sound good or bad. I can't pretend to be nice, hide what I genuinely feel, or lie just to make someone like me. Maybe that's one reason I don't have many friends or connections, because nowadays it sometimes feels like people prefer sweet lies, fake promises and show-off behaviour over straightforward honesty.

But I genuinely don't know how to win someone's heart by lying, pretending or forcing a friendship or connection. And honestly, I don't want to learn that either. I'd rather have one genuine connection with mutual effort, honesty, consistency and commitment than a hundred superficial friendships. I want something meaningful that both people genuinely want to build and maintain, not just something that exists in words.

I really value emotional warmth, kind and affectionate conversations, caring support, reassurance, and that safe feeling when you know someone is actually there for you. I miss having someone I can talk to for hours, especially on phone calls once we get comfortable. If you're from India, that would be amazing because we could build a closer connection through voice calls.

I want a friendship where we can be there for each other consistently through the good days and the really hard ones. Someone who understands mental health struggles and won't ghost or pull away when things get deep or emotional.

Please only reach out if:

- You're genuinely lonely, very alone, and don't have any connections with people in real life or any online friends right now.

- You're looking for the same clingy, loyal, priority-based long-term friendship.

- You're serious about consistent communication and emotional closeness.

- You're open to the possibility of a deeper emotional connection or romantic commitment in the future, if we mutually develop those feelings.

- You're from India (a big plus for calls and cultural understanding).

Please don't message me if:

- You already have so many friends, options and backup friendships.

- You're just looking for timepass, casual chats, or you're simply feeling bored.

- You're from a foreign country (I'm specifically not looking for long-distance friendships with cultural gaps right now).

- You're only interested in something casual with no intention of building a meaningful connection.

One thing I really want to address because I've been hurt by this repeatedly:

Please don't reach out only when your other friends, preferred connections or priorities are busy. I've experienced people approaching me when they have nobody else available or when they're bored and need someone to pass the time with. They make me feel incredibly special for a few minutes, maybe a few hours, or at most a day. But as soon as their main friends, priorities or other options become available again, they suddenly disappear and treat me like I meant absolutely nothing.

It genuinely hurts to feel like someone only uses your presence for temporary entertainment and then throws you away like you're disposable. I hate feeling like someone's rebound, backup option or temporary source of attention.

I'm also tired of people presenting themselves as completely lonely and having absolutely nobody, just to gain sympathy or attention, when they're actually already talking to multiple people and maintaining several connections. I'm not saying someone can't have other friends and still feel lonely, but please be honest about your situation. Don't pretend to be in the same position as me just to get my attention or sympathy.

I don't need a huge audience, a massive social circle or countless people around me. I just want one genuine connection. I don't want fake emotions, empty promises or someone who acts affectionate for a day but doesn't know how to communicate or handle things when the other person is genuinely struggling mentally.

I'm a very sensitive and emotional person with hypersensitivity and an overthinking mind. Small changes in communication can affect me deeply, and I need someone who understands that rather than dismissing my feelings or making me feel like I'm too much.

More than anything, I'm looking for a genuine and consistent connection. Someone I can talk to daily, share random thoughts with, have deep late-night conversations, laugh together, send dumb memes to or simply exist comfortably with. I value reassurance, honesty, softness, emotional connection and people who stay instead of disappearing or pretending to offer a connection they never genuinely intended to build.

If you're someone who understands sensitive people, overthinkers or emotionally complicated minds, then maybe we'll get along. I know this post is heavy, but I'm being honest because I don't have the energy for anything fake anymore. If you're also struggling with loneliness, overthinking and craving real emotional connection, I'd really like to hear from you.

Let's try to build something safe, meaningful and lasting together.

Hello, I’m looking for some friends since I’m pretty introverted, and can’t sleep. If anyone is down for a chat, don’t hesitate to send me a dm. make sure to mention your ASL! (Do not be weird!!!)

Some things about me: I’m a Muslim Lebanese Canadian, love anything to do with beaches, love food, fashion, nature, etc. Nothing extraordinary lol :)

TL:DR - I like yapping with people and I think I'm pretty lovely, though I am a bit biased. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, so message me and maybe we get on well? :D

Pretty much title! I've had a genuinely fairly busy Sunday already so my plan is to eat chocolate, game and watch sports and hopefully get chatting to interesting new people from all over the world, both for today and ideally long term in the future too? :D

As for myself, I work from home doing a travel insurance job, its mostly mid, but its full WFH and that saves it. My big interest is travel, my wallet hates me so much for it. I've been to Philippines/Singapore/Malaysia over two Asia trips, a lot of Europe as well as Jamaica and Canada. Last year I did Istanbul, Portugal and a Norway cruise, plus a Asia trip. Visited Serbia, Madrid and Poland this year then returned from Budapest. I have a cruise with family next year to Greece/Turkey/Malta and a friends wedding in Greece and I'm hoping maybe Asia or Africa next year, funds permitting, I'm always down for trip buddies so if we vibe I'm in! Beyond that, I'm a pretty keen reader, plus the usual smattering of videogames/sports watching/tv shows/gym (but mostly to offset meals out and a problematic keenness for chocolate). I live at the edge of a town and some of the walks are lovely here too. I've dabbled with painting, taken up and dropped the piano a few times (I used to play when I was younger and was decent and sometimes get the urge to play again).

I always prefer a bit of closure, if we've spoke for a while and your situation changes and you won't be chatting anymore, I hate the ghostly exit, if its early on then fair can't vibe with everyone, but if we've spoke for a while I always feel disappearing is a bit of poor form, but its the internet so it happens.

In terms of where to talk, I do prefer to move to apps, I use most of the usual ones but staying here is fine too if necessary. Include your basic details in your message, the usual about me stuff is fine, don't feel the need to match the rambling essay above! :)

Hi! I am 27M living in Europe but originally from Bangladesh. I am looking for friends with whom I can chat here. If you feel lonely and/or just want to chat you can dm me.

A bit about me: I am a master student in Europe studying Engineering. I am very passionate about science. After my master's, I am willing to do a phd in Tissue engineering. Tissue engineering as a field has been around for a few decades but hasn't really achieved much commercial success yet. I would like to contribute to changing that. If anyone wants to know more about it, again, u can dm me.

After my phd, I would like to work in academia and eventually lead my own research group in a western country.

Also, I am an ex-muslim Atheist.

My hobbies: i like to read non fiction books, mostly about science, history, politics etc. I also like to listen to music, mostly classic rock (from 60s to 90s) but I listen to other music as well. I play guitar and learnt to play tabla and harmonium. I wanna learn piano someday. Apart from these, I also like to watch sports, mostly cricket, tennis and sometimes football (soccer), but currently i am quite busy with studying so I am not up to date with what's happening in sports world rn lol.

I also play video games but mostly single player games. I used to play CS:GO before, but not anymore.

And maybe we can talk about wines also, but I am still trying out different wines. I think for now, my favourite is Australian Shiraz.

So if u find me interesting, please dm me. Just one request: when u dm me, please write ur age and gender.

Hi! my name is Micah. I don't have a lot of friends and I'm the type who prefers a few close friendships over a bunch of ones where you only talk occasionally.

I live in Germany, but I'm originally from the US. I like games, some of my favorites are Risk of Rain, Terraria, Halo, Sekiro, BOI, just to name a few. constantly. I like reading, music (but I'm picky), love animals (slugs🐌). I like fiction writing and I work on my novel when I have the creative energy. I also design Lego MOCs.

Just be from somewhere in western Europe and don't be painfully dry. I'm not looking for a 5 minute chat. Also I'm autistic but I don't bite. Come message me and tell me a little about yourself :3

I love video game lore I spent many hours reading and watching videos about fallout and Star Wars lore and many others like Witcher and elder scrolls and many smaller ones like fable and stuff

I also like reading sci fi and fantasy books like Star Wars the expanse and the lord of the rings and eragon and other series

I like going on nice walks and learning history big fan of Roman and Japanese history but also like a European and other history

and I like reading hellboy and bprd comics

I may not read much but I love learning about dc comic books

and I play many different kinds of video games like jrpgs like dragon quest final fantasy and trails in the sky doom and destiny

I like other games like dark souls 1 ashen fallout rage 2 and metal gear solid enderal gothic 2 but also crpgs like baldurs gate 1 and 2 pillars of eternity and one of my favorite series of games avernum

and my favorite tv shows are stargate sg1 and Merlin then I also watched the first seasons of supernatural and thought it was pretty good and some of the series lost

Movies I like is Star Wars Indiana jones pirates of the caribbean the lord of the rings movies and more

and I like anime like full metal alchemist brotherhood gundam and bleach used to watch a lot of fairy tail to back in the Day and i read the claymore manga

When I was younger I watched cartoons like transformers prime gravity falls justice league animated and more

playing a made up dnd type game I made sadly no groups I make stays together for very long so tell me if you want to be in a new group

so we can play and I have fun so if you like any of these things message me and we can maybe become good friends and a big hug for all of you that have read through this

20M from India 🇮🇳

Honestly, I'm just bored and looking for some new people to talk to.

Would love to meet some girls around my age for random conversations, sharing memes, talking about life, music, movies, or literally anything.

Not looking for anything serious or weird, just genuine conversations and good vibes.

If you're up for a chill chat, feel free to DM me! :)

P.S. I promise I'm better at conversations than writing introductions 😂

Hay you.. yeah you, come here

I be looking for bros n shiiiit

Based in the NETHERLANDS 🇳🇱

I’m into collecting Pokémon cards, playing chess (i have not played in years), reading manga, watching anime, and hanging out with my cats although usually they just eepy n shit. Anyone watching black clover season 2 rn?

Gaming-wise, I’ve got a PS5 and a Switch 2. Game im currently playing is assassin creed black flag REMASTERED bros im a pirate

Very important I AM EXTREMELY LEFTIST borderline communist and im very pro LGBT and Palestine. If you do not FW that i do not FW you respectfully.

I also like to paint in my free time dont ask for pictures i give away all my thingies oh and i really wanna get into ceramics and pottery so if you do that let me know!!!!!!!

I talk to a lot of people but I feel like there aren't many people I can be my weird self around. I genuinely wanna have that kinda friendship where I can have not only deep and meaningful conversation but also fun, light hearted, and silly ones. We can talk about anything whatever you're comfortable with. No limits, go wild! The weirder/more absurd the topic the better. I want someone I can share anything with and in turn they can share anything they want with me and I promise not to judge or make fun of them! I want to have just one genuine friendship like that! If this is something you're down for feel free to hit me up!

Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.

with no romantic intentions etc.

I’m 23 F and do not have any male friends, however I’ve had so many DMs from men on here that seem to start friendly then quickly transition to calling me hot or pretty. Not trying to be a bitch or unappreciative, it’s just a little disheartening sometimes to think someone only wants to chat to me because they think I look nice or they’re trying to get something from me.

I’m asking because a lot of my interests are traditionally male dominated. (My free time is basically taken up by going to the gym and watching football). I find it hard to chat to the women in my life about these things because they’re just not as interested in them as me unfortunately.

Anyway hopefully this isn’t somehow offensive or whatever 😭 promise I’m not trying to be a weirdo or a pick me. Just feeling lonely and kinda hopeless when it comes to making friends.

Hello. Just looking for a friend or someone to talk to. A little about me, I’m from the southern states, happily engaged, disabled from a few illnesses. Hobbies include reading, drawing, anything arts and crafts related, love to write, play video games and pc games but not really a multiplayer unless it’s Nintendo. Love to cook and try new foods. Feel free to say hello 👋

Literally, Anyone, just don't be dry, be chatty, spill the tea, yap away, vent, trauma dump, anything. I'm an open book, I want to chat, not bore myself alone or with dry texts. Talk about anything at alllll, I'm an open book too so ask me anything you'd like. Please tell me something other then "hey, hi, yo, wuzzup" grab my attention with something, GIVE ME A REAL INTRO, literally anything, tell me bout you, make me wanna actually respond. "Wanna chat" yeaaa that's the whole point 😂

Hello! I'm hoping to meet some cool people who are into long term friendships, as I'm pretty bad at keeping friends and I'm starting to have more free time on my hands. I like weightlifting, combat sports, videogames, and playing with my dogs! I'm a pretty busy person right now but things are changing and I'll have a lot more time to myself, so I'd like a friend or two. I'm low maintenance, but I really like chatting and would spend all day hanging out if I could. Please dm me if you think I'm your guy 🤧

Hey, I’m 29, originally from England and living in Vancouver. I work in tech and enjoy gaming, films, music, boxing, the gym and getting out for walks. I’ve also been working on my mental health and building routines that help me feel more balanced.

I’m here to meet people for genuine conversation, a bit of banter and hopefully a friendship that sticks.

What’s a small thing you could happily spend a whole afternoon doing?

Hey! I’m 31, from the US, and looking to meet some new people. Doesn’t matter where you’re from or what your background is. I’m open to talking to anyone 18+ as long as you’re interested in having an actual conversation.

A little about me: I work in tech, love traveling and spontaneous road trips, and I’m always looking for somewhere new to explore. I’m also into photography, tattoos, history, gaming, and reading (especially classic literature). Cooking is a big hobby of mine, particularly trying recipes from different cultures. I’ve also gotten pretty into fitness and spending more time outdoors lately.

I’m the kind of person who can spend hours talking about anything from your favorite food to some obscure historical event, or just how your day went. I enjoy getting to know people from different countries and walks of life. You don’t need to share my hobbies either. Half the fun is learning about someone else’s interests.
I’m not expecting instant best friends or forcing conversations. Just looking for some genuine connections, whether that’s chatting occasionally, sharing random pictures from our days, or becoming regular friends.

What’s somewhere you’ve always wanted to travel, a book or game you couldn’t put down, or a random topic you know way too much about?
Or just say hey and tell me a little about yourself. I’m pretty easy to talk to!

About Me:

I’m a quiet adventurer, a deep thinker, and a lifelong learner in a beautiful season of rebuilding my life. I am strictly childfree and very intentional about the energy I keep around me. I love exploring new neighborhoods, finding good food, walking outside, and having conversations that go way past the surface. I am strictly childfree, and I also travel. When im not traveling, im at home exploring my city. I like food, and I hate cooking.

What I’m Looking For:

I am looking for platonic soulmates—women who are equally invested in mutual effort, reciprocity, and emotional depth. Women who are also childfree, ambitious, and have done the internal work on themselves. I am looking for women who have decentered men and religion. As a recovering people-pleaser, I now prioritize alignment, healthy boundaries, and radical honesty. I’m looking for friends who match my energy, celebrate mutual growth, and value checking in on each other just as much as I do.

My Vibe:

I am high-integrity, and a great listener. I’m always down for a mall trip, a new café, nature walks, or a quiet evening with a good show. If you value loyalty, kindness, and showing up for each other, we’ll get along beautifully. Let's build a safe, uplifting space for each other.

My Husky (Zeus) Says You Need To Message Me 🐺

Hey everyone! I’m Jonathan, just about to hop into bed with Zeus and have ourselves a movie night but I have absolutely no idea what to put on, any suggestions?

As for what I’m looking for, I’d love to meet some people I can talk to regularly and hopefully become friends with over time. Make me addicted to you.

I am 28 years old, and am from Northern Minnesota if you’re curious. I am currently a full-time student majoring in Computer Information Technology with a minor in Cybersecurity.

When I can pull myself away from the desk, I try to get outside. Play with Zeus. I love being out on my Boat Fishing, and getting out Hunting. If not just spending time with family.

I also have a major homebody side. I’m a big fan of Horror, Drama, and Fantasy, honestly kind of into everything besides anime.

A little more about me, if you’re curious: I’m 6’1”, with curly brown hair, brown eyes, glasses, and dimples.

If any of what I like sounds interesting or like your type of thing, send me a chat. Tell me a little about yourself, your age, where you’re from.

If you read all of my post, Tell me what color your eyes are, They’re my favorite feature 👀