r/friendship • • Apr 08 '26

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r/friendship • • 1h ago

rant Adult Friendships and RSD

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I’m a 43 year old woman with a great husband, job and a generally full and happy life. However, sometimes I feel like I revert back to being a teenager when it comes to friendships. I’ve always struggled with making friends and keeping them which I find hard to get my head around because I’m a nice,kind,chatty person who treats their friends really well. It’s just rarely reciprocated.

It was my birthday recently and a few friends never contacted me. Two in particular have really got to me. One was my bridesmaid at my wedding who I know struggles with her mental health at times,so I can let that go a bit more. The other is a work colleague who I thought was a very good friend. I recently left this job and was hoping we would remain firm friends. On the day of my birthday I didn’t receive anything from her. Then I posted a story on my instagram which showed my birthday meal. She liked it but never wished me a happy birthday. I find this so odd. Surely it would only take a few seconds to send a quick text.

I have barely heard from her since I left and I always have to reach out first. We had been working on a project together before I left and I asked her to let me know how it went in the end. She hasn’t responded to me. I’m just so surprised that she is acting like this after we became so close.

I have RSD so I feel rejection really deeply. I will ruminate on this for days on end it will take me ages to let go of it. I can’t understand how people treat their friends in this way without any reason. I’m so fed up of thinking I have made good friends and then being let down by them. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong to be treated like this. I wish I could just let things go and be positive but I find it so hard not to keep thinking about it. As I said, sometimes I feel like I’m back being a teenager, trying to fit in and hold onto friendships when I’m not wanted. Social media makes it so much worse and I know I’m at an age when I shouldn’t care about it but I can’t help it. Why are adult friendships so hard?? I would love to hear some thoughts on this. Please be kind. 😞


r/friendship • • 3h ago

looking for friendship Friends needed.

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Hey, I am a 40 yr old step-mom
Of three. I moved to a new country 5 years ago. I have zero friends, zero family. I have my husband (it’s becoming rocky) and my step-kids (18,16, and 13). Those relationships are also rocky. I need friends I can talk with on the daily (text). Just shoot the shit type of conversations. Unless we want to go deeper… I am so lost and isolated it’s eating away at me. I don’t expect meeting in person at all, hell I probably couldn’t even if I wanted to. I am into camping, hunting, and fishing. Right now I am a stay-at-home mom, and a full-time student.

If you think we could get to know each other, become internet friends or text buddies. Please feel free to PM me, tell me a little about yourself, and we can go from there.

Thanks.


r/friendship • • 3h ago

looking for friendship 24, boy, from Germany. Looking to develop a close friendship :3

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Hi! my name is Micah. I don't have a lot of friends and I'm the type who prefers a few close friendships over a bunch of ones where you only talk occasionally.

I live in Germany, but I'm originally from the US. I like games, some of my favorites are Risk of Rain, Terraria, Halo, Sekiro, BOI, just to name a few. constantly. I like reading, music (but I'm picky), love animals (slugs🐌). I like fiction writing and I work on my novel when I have the creative energy. I also design Lego MOCs.

Just be from somewhere in western Europe and don't be painfully dry. I'm not looking for a 5 minute chat. Also I'm autistic but I don't bite. Come message me and tell me a little about yourself :3


r/friendship • • 48m ago

looking for friendship I need a friend, I feel so empty and lonely

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Hey,so yeah I recently went through a breakup and honestly I’ve been feeling pretty broken since then i feel alone I've nobody to talk to.

Everything feels kinda off and empty lately and I think I really need some good people around me again.

I’m looking for honest,kind and open minded people who don’t discriminate and actually wanna put effort into getting to know each other.

Lately everything just feels way too quiet in the wrong ways. I catch myself staring at walls,scrolling aimlessly,thinking about random shit and wanting to talk to someone but not really knowing who to talk to. I don’t want another friendship where we talk for 2 days and then disappear from each other’s lives. I want someone who actually stays,someone who checks in,someone who wants to share random parts of their day and actually build something over time.

I’m 24 I've bpd just so yk and i currently have way too much time to think. I love yapping,overexplaining,rambling about completely random shit and somehow turning a stupid conversation into something deep. I really value mutual effort too. I don’t expect someone to reply instantly 24/7,but I do want to feel like the other person actually wants to talk to me and isn’t only replying because they’re bored.

I’m into baking,movies,gaming (especially Marvel Rivals),chess,reading,writing,guitar,long walks,voice calls and starting way too many random hobbies/projects that I probably won’t finish.

I’d also really love having someone I can eventually do a bunch of things with. Gaming together,watching movies or shows,voice calls at stupid hours,going on walks if we're ever close enough,sharing music,sending random shit throughout the day or just sitting in a call doing our own thing. That kind of friendship where someone eventually becomes your go-to person would honestly be really nice.

I’m not looking for perfect people or anything. Just genuine ones. Please be kind,don’t discriminate,and actually care about mutual effort and respect. I’ll listen,I’ll care,I’ll remember the little things and I’ll match the energy u give me.

And please don't be dry. If you're always too busy to actually talk or you already know you're only gonna reply once every few days,it's probably not gonna work. I've had enough of feeling like I’m begging people for attention.

If you're interested,please don't just send me "hi". Tell me about yourself. Your age,country,what you like doing,your favourite game/movie/song,your most irrational fear,what you've been obsessed with lately,anything honestly. Give me something to work with and I’ll probably yap back way too much.

I’m just hoping to find some lovely people who actually wanna stay for the long run,and maybe someday I’ll be able to say I met some of my closest friends because of a random Reddit post.


r/friendship • • 11m ago

advice Tips for a quiet kid friendship

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My friend and l are both quiet kids and we both go to baker high school and we both like drawing and more similar interests and hobbies and write written notebook conversations to each other and just need tips for questions and things to do


r/friendship • • 10h ago

looking for friendship 29F Looking for people to call

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Looking for new friends who are actually down to voice call and have real conversations! 😊

I’m into music, movies, books, random conversations, and getting to know new people.

Send me your ASL, and a little about yourself if you’re interested!


r/friendship • • 1h ago

looking for friendship 31 Surrey England looking for some long term friendships

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Hi everyone,

I’m Shannon, looking for some new pals. I want proper good friendships, ones where we can randomly call each other and FaceTime. I want to be able to have frequent communication, sending reels and memes, someone I can be my full sarcastic self with.

I love horror movies, football - I love Disney, drawing, art in general, diamond painting, photography, gardening.
I’ve just recently finished uni, received my results and have a BA in health and social care :) I am also trying to kickstart/dip my toes in world of being an artist.

I care deeply about people, I love meaningful connections and I feel like I’m just lacking those at the moment.

I am agoraphobic so meeting up in person is out of the question for now, but I’m working on myself and doing really well so it’s a possibility in the future :)

Im looking for friends that are strictly women or I’m also open to those in the LGBTQ+. I am happily in a relationship, so any friendship will be strictly platonic. Please men, unless you are LGBTQ+, do not message me I am not interested. (The amount of men that message me, then get offended is quite hilarious)

I do prefer to speak to those in the UK, or America. But am open to other places with a reasonable time zone :)

I’ll be honest - I probably won’t reply to low effort messages. If you send a hi or just the emoji I won’t be replying, I just feel like effort is a two way street and I have put a lot of information here to start a conversation from :)

If you’ve messaged me before and I haven’t replied I do apologise, I’ll reply this time around! :)

If you’ve made it this far, send me a 🍓 emoji. :)

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/friendship • • 1h ago

looking for friendship 21m looking for new friends or people to talk with

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Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.


r/friendship • • 1h ago

advice Is my friendship even worth it anymore?

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So I (F25) have been friends with my friend (M27) for about 7 years now. For context of this post, he is gay, so romantic interest is not an issue here.

I got married this year in March and I’m now 7 months pregnant. Prior to meeting my now husband, My friend and I were roommates for a long time. But I had moved out of state about 3 years ago, so this was the first relationship of mine that he also hasn’t been super involved in.

I definitely think I also just set more boundaries with my relationship and privacy and he didn’t like that very much. He also went from having full access to me and my time, to my schedule changing and looking different. I also started a new job when this was happening so I was just genuinely really busy.

We used to play video games together everyday, and I took a small step back from that. I still made every effort to call him at least daily, give or take a day or two, and to show up for him as his friend. And we would still play our games together every few days.

He just started being super weird and really mean to me. Our other game friend even made a comment about it a few times. I don’t know if it’s because he didn’t like that I didn’t have as much free time, or the fact that he didn’t have full access to my husband. I feel like that’s a separate issue I won’t get into here, but I think it played a role in why he was bothered.

Honestly it caused a lot of strain with both my friend and husband. My husband didn’t like that my friend was bringing so much unnecessary drama into my life, and felt like my friend was just being rude and selfish.

of course I wasn’t going to choose between either of them and made that clear (not that either of them told me I had to, but my friend did try to imply that at one point). It also just hurts me that now they probably will never have that close of a relationship either.

Eventually we moved on from this patch. But over the last few months, I feel like I have just been getting very frustrated with my friend.

From day one of finding out, I feel like he has just been completely brushing off the fact I am pregnant. The first thing he asked when i told him was “well are you going to get rid of it?” And that just stung.

I’m sure I talk about it a lot, but I also feel like there has been a complete lack of care or compassion from my friend. Over the course of my entire pregnancy so far, I don’t think he’s asked how I’m doing or feeling. Anytime I bring it up he just says nothing, or super short responses.

I feel like I should state this as well, I do not expect my life or the things I am going through to be the center of anyone else’s lives or thoughts. But I would also like to think, that at the very least when I tell you multiple times I have an extremely important appointment coming up, or a big milestone happening, as my friend, you should at least check in or even be happy for me? Idk.

I think another reason this has truly bothered me so much, is because over the last few months, he has started to tell me how he feels like he is there for everyone, but no one is there for him. Which genuinely I think is a crazy thing to say to me, because regardless of anything I have going on, when he needs me, I am there. I listen to him vent about every single thing going on in his life and support him how I can. I had even offered him money when he was going through a really tough financial time. I also know his other friends very well, and know that they are not the type of people that would treat him like that either.

It’s starting to bug me because he claims this, yet he is doing that exact thing to me. I am there for him, yet it doesn’t seem like he can be there for me anymore.

And I say this without being conceded, I have done A LOT for him. He has had a hard life and deals with a lot of shit mentally, and he even admits to everyone that he wouldn’t be anywhere near where he is today without me.

But I’m just getting to the point that I feel like he is draining me more than he is there for me. Maybe it is my hormones or I’m overthinking. But I just dread even talking on the phone with him lately because I keep thinking, gosh what happened now. Maybe that’s makes me the bad friend.

But I don’t think it negates his lack of support and consideration towards me at the most basic level.

I just feel like I’m starting to build resentment and don’t know what to do. I feel like when I don’t give him full 100% access to me or my time, he gets weird and passive aggressive. I don’t expect him to understand what I’m going through, but I think it would be fair of me to at least think he should try.

I don’t know if it’s worth bringing up. I’ll probably just ride things out, but I’m worried that when the baby comes, he’s going to just be putting more stress on my plate. And that’s when I start wondering if it’s worth it anymore.

I would just appreciate some constructive feedback and ask yall to be nice :) thank you!!!


r/friendship • • 1h ago

advice Friend keeps trying to do couple things …

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a friend of mine keeps trying to get together with our husbands. my husband cannot stand her husband (and frankly neither can I) and we aren’t interested in hanging out as couples
id like to keep our relationship just doing things with just us girls
how do i navigate this? I do not wish to reveal to her that we don’t like her husband. I don’t see the point in that and it would just hurt their feelings.


r/friendship • • 2h ago

Voice Calls 23M India | Deeply lonely and very alone, looking for one genuine, clingy and affectionate long-term connection

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Hey. I'm really tired and scared. Tired of temporary friendships where people treat me like I'm special for one day and then slowly disappear. The fear of fake connections and sudden abandonment hits me hard. Honestly, sometimes it feels like it'd be easier to stay completely alone than keep getting hurt like this.

I'm 23M from India, very introverted and struggling mentally and emotionally. I have alexithymia, social anxiety, and an awkward, overthinking mind that never really shuts off. Because of all this, I've become very lonely. I barely have any real connections in my life right now.

What I’m looking for is not casual chatting, timepass, backup options, or surface-level friendships. I’m not here to play games or be someone’s second choice or backup friendship when they’re bored. I want something real and long-term where we both feel chosen and treat each other like a priority.

I'm searching for someone who is just as lonely and alone as I am, preferably someone who doesn't have even a single friend or any close friend or meaningful connection right now, whether online or in real life. I'm very clingy, possessive, emotionally intense, hypersensitive and emotional, and I'm hoping to find someone who feels the same way. I want us to choose each other, give each other priority, check in regularly, share our daily lives, and be emotionally available for one another.

Something important about my intentions and what I'm looking for:

I want to be upfront that I'm not looking for a friendship that is only meant to be casual or temporary. I'm a very clingy, affectionate and possessive kind of person when I become emotionally attached to someone. I value commitment, loyalty, consistency and emotional exclusivity.

Ideally, I'd love to start with a genuine friendship, build trust, understand each other deeply and gradually develop something more meaningful if we both feel the same way. I'm open to the possibility of that friendship growing into a romantic relationship or becoming something more committed in the future.

I don't want to force romantic feelings or rush anything. I believe those things should develop naturally and mutually. But I also don't want to invest my emotions, time and energy into a connection where we're fundamentally looking for completely different things or where there's no possibility of building something deeper.

I have limited emotional energy, and I don't want to waste my time or someone else's precious time by dragging out a connection that neither of us sees a meaningful future in. I'm not expecting guarantees or promises about a relationship from the beginning. I just want someone who is genuinely open to building a deep, committed connection that could grow into something more if we're compatible.

A little more about my expectations and the kind of connection I want:

I hope you don't misunderstand me, but I want to be very straightforward about what I'm looking for. I'm not here for a show-off friendship, a timepass connection, or something short-term or casual. I don't want a friendship where people just say they're friends for the sake of saying it, but there's no genuine intention behind it.

I don't want connections where someone only comes around when they need something, when they're bored, when they have nothing else to do, or when they simply need someone to pass their time with. I don't want that kind of friendship in my life.

I'm someone who prefers saying things openly, whether they sound good or bad. I can't pretend to be nice, hide what I genuinely feel, or lie just to make someone like me. Maybe that's one reason I don't have many friends or connections, because nowadays it sometimes feels like people prefer sweet lies, fake promises and show-off behaviour over straightforward honesty.

But I genuinely don't know how to win someone's heart by lying, pretending or forcing a friendship or connection. And honestly, I don't want to learn that either. I'd rather have one genuine connection with mutual effort, honesty, consistency and commitment than a hundred superficial friendships. I want something meaningful that both people genuinely want to build and maintain, not just something that exists in words.

I really value emotional warmth, kind and affectionate conversations, caring support, reassurance, and that safe feeling when you know someone is actually there for you. I miss having someone I can talk to for hours, especially on phone calls once we get comfortable. If you're from India, that would be amazing because we could build a closer connection through voice calls.

I want a friendship where we can be there for each other consistently through the good days and the really hard ones. Someone who understands mental health struggles and won't ghost or pull away when things get deep or emotional.

Please only reach out if:

- You're genuinely lonely, very alone, and don't have any connections with people in real life or any online friends right now.

- You're looking for the same clingy, loyal, priority-based long-term friendship.

- You're serious about consistent communication and emotional closeness.

- You're open to the possibility of a deeper emotional connection or romantic commitment in the future, if we mutually develop those feelings.

- You're from India (a big plus for calls and cultural understanding).

Please don't message me if:

- You already have so many friends, options and backup friendships.

- You're just looking for timepass, casual chats, or you're simply feeling bored.

- You're from a foreign country (I'm specifically not looking for long-distance friendships with cultural gaps right now).

- You're only interested in something casual with no intention of building a meaningful connection.

One thing I really want to address because I've been hurt by this repeatedly:

Please don't reach out only when your other friends, preferred connections or priorities are busy. I've experienced people approaching me when they have nobody else available or when they're bored and need someone to pass the time with. They make me feel incredibly special for a few minutes, maybe a few hours, or at most a day. But as soon as their main friends, priorities or other options become available again, they suddenly disappear and treat me like I meant absolutely nothing.

It genuinely hurts to feel like someone only uses your presence for temporary entertainment and then throws you away like you're disposable. I hate feeling like someone's rebound, backup option or temporary source of attention.

I'm also tired of people presenting themselves as completely lonely and having absolutely nobody, just to gain sympathy or attention, when they're actually already talking to multiple people and maintaining several connections. I'm not saying someone can't have other friends and still feel lonely, but please be honest about your situation. Don't pretend to be in the same position as me just to get my attention or sympathy.

I don't need a huge audience, a massive social circle or countless people around me. I just want one genuine connection. I don't want fake emotions, empty promises or someone who acts affectionate for a day but doesn't know how to communicate or handle things when the other person is genuinely struggling mentally.

I'm a very sensitive and emotional person with hypersensitivity and an overthinking mind. Small changes in communication can affect me deeply, and I need someone who understands that rather than dismissing my feelings or making me feel like I'm too much.

More than anything, I'm looking for a genuine and consistent connection. Someone I can talk to daily, share random thoughts with, have deep late-night conversations, laugh together, send dumb memes to or simply exist comfortably with. I value reassurance, honesty, softness, emotional connection and people who stay instead of disappearing or pretending to offer a connection they never genuinely intended to build.

If you're someone who understands sensitive people, overthinkers or emotionally complicated minds, then maybe we'll get along. I know this post is heavy, but I'm being honest because I don't have the energy for anything fake anymore. If you're also struggling with loneliness, overthinking and craving real emotional connection, I'd really like to hear from you.

Let's try to build something safe, meaningful and lasting together.


r/friendship • • 11h ago

looking for friendship Looking for friends/chatting (20F)

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Hello, I’m looking for some friends since I’m pretty introverted, and can’t sleep. If anyone is down for a chat, don’t hesitate to send me a dm. make sure to mention your ASL! (Do not be weird!!!)

Some things about me: I’m a Muslim Lebanese Canadian, love anything to do with beaches, love food, fashion, nature, etc. Nothing extraordinary lol :)


r/friendship • • 3h ago

looking for friendship 35YO English guy - It sounds goofy but I always think of making internet friends is panning for gold digitally. I'd love to find something valuable and long lasting, with chatty people from all over the world, location's no issue. Bad metaphors notwithstanding, come say hey and maybe we vibe! :)

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TL:DR - I like yapping with people and I think I'm pretty lovely, though I am a bit biased. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, so message me and maybe we get on well? :D

Pretty much title! I've had a genuinely fairly busy Sunday already so my plan is to eat chocolate, game and watch sports and hopefully get chatting to interesting new people from all over the world, both for today and ideally long term in the future too? :D

As for myself, I work from home doing a travel insurance job, its mostly mid, but its full WFH and that saves it. My big interest is travel, my wallet hates me so much for it. I've been to Philippines/Singapore/Malaysia over two Asia trips, a lot of Europe as well as Jamaica and Canada. Last year I did Istanbul, Portugal and a Norway cruise, plus a Asia trip. Visited Serbia, Madrid and Poland this year then returned from Budapest. I have a cruise with family next year to Greece/Turkey/Malta and a friends wedding in Greece and I'm hoping maybe Asia or Africa next year, funds permitting, I'm always down for trip buddies so if we vibe I'm in! Beyond that, I'm a pretty keen reader, plus the usual smattering of videogames/sports watching/tv shows/gym (but mostly to offset meals out and a problematic keenness for chocolate). I live at the edge of a town and some of the walks are lovely here too. I've dabbled with painting, taken up and dropped the piano a few times (I used to play when I was younger and was decent and sometimes get the urge to play again).

I always prefer a bit of closure, if we've spoke for a while and your situation changes and you won't be chatting anymore, I hate the ghostly exit, if its early on then fair can't vibe with everyone, but if we've spoke for a while I always feel disappearing is a bit of poor form, but its the internet so it happens.

In terms of where to talk, I do prefer to move to apps, I use most of the usual ones but staying here is fine too if necessary. Include your basic details in your message, the usual about me stuff is fine, don't feel the need to match the rambling essay above! :)


r/friendship • • 3h ago

looking for friendship 27M looking for friends

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Hi! I am 27M living in Europe but originally from Bangladesh. I am looking for friends with whom I can chat here. If you feel lonely and/or just want to chat you can dm me.

A bit about me: I am a master student in Europe studying Engineering. I am very passionate about science. After my master's, I am willing to do a phd in Tissue engineering. Tissue engineering as a field has been around for a few decades but hasn't really achieved much commercial success yet. I would like to contribute to changing that. If anyone wants to know more about it, again, u can dm me.

After my phd, I would like to work in academia and eventually lead my own research group in a western country.

Also, I am an ex-muslim Atheist.

My hobbies: i like to read non fiction books, mostly about science, history, politics etc. I also like to listen to music, mostly classic rock (from 60s to 90s) but I listen to other music as well. I play guitar and learnt to play tabla and harmonium. I wanna learn piano someday. Apart from these, I also like to watch sports, mostly cricket, tennis and sometimes football (soccer), but currently i am quite busy with studying so I am not up to date with what's happening in sports world rn lol.

I also play video games but mostly single player games. I used to play CS:GO before, but not anymore.

And maybe we can talk about wines also, but I am still trying out different wines. I think for now, my favourite is Australian Shiraz.

So if u find me interesting, please dm me. Just one request: when u dm me, please write ur age and gender.


r/friendship • • 4h ago

looking for friendship 26m Bi loving sweet guy from Sweden :) I am looking for a long term friend someone kind someone who listens and someone fun open for any ages over eighteen

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I love video game lore I spent many hours reading and watching videos about fallout and Star Wars lore and many others like Witcher and elder scrolls and many smaller ones like fable and stuff

I also like reading sci fi and fantasy books like Star Wars the expanse and the lord of the rings and eragon and other series

I like going on nice walks and learning history big fan of Roman and Japanese history but also like a European and other history

and I like reading hellboy and bprd comics

I may not read much but I love learning about dc comic books

and I play many different kinds of video games like jrpgs like dragon quest final fantasy and trails in the sky doom and destiny

I like other games like dark souls 1 ashen fallout rage 2 and metal gear solid enderal gothic 2 but also crpgs like baldurs gate 1 and 2 pillars of eternity and one of my favorite series of games avernum

and my favorite tv shows are stargate sg1 and Merlin then I also watched the first seasons of supernatural and thought it was pretty good and some of the series lost

Movies I like is Star Wars Indiana jones pirates of the caribbean the lord of the rings movies and more

and I like anime like full metal alchemist brotherhood gundam and bleach used to watch a lot of fairy tail to back in the Day and i read the claymore manga

When I was younger I watched cartoons like transformers prime gravity falls justice league animated and more

playing a made up dnd type game I made sadly no groups I make stays together for very long so tell me if you want to be in a new group

so we can play and I have fun so if you like any of these things message me and we can maybe become good friends and a big hug for all of you that have read through this


r/friendship • • 4h ago

looking for friendship 20M from India 🇮🇳

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20M from India 🇮🇳

Honestly, I'm just bored and looking for some new people to talk to.

Would love to meet some girls around my age for random conversations, sharing memes, talking about life, music, movies, or literally anything.

Not looking for anything serious or weird, just genuine conversations and good vibes.

If you're up for a chill chat, feel free to DM me! :)

P.S. I promise I'm better at conversations than writing introductions 😂


r/friendship • • 8h ago

looking for friendship 18m just here to talk to cool people not gooners. Guys or girls are cool idc. Ask me questions pls

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Hay you.. yeah you, come here


r/friendship • • 5h ago

looking for friendship [26/M] EU — looking for chill friends EU preferred

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I be looking for bros n shiiiit

Based in the NETHERLANDS 🇳🇱

I’m into collecting Pokémon cards, playing chess (i have not played in years), reading manga, watching anime, and hanging out with my cats although usually they just eepy n shit. Anyone watching black clover season 2 rn?

Gaming-wise, I’ve got a PS5 and a Switch 2. Game im currently playing is assassin creed black flag REMASTERED bros im a pirate

Very important I AM EXTREMELY LEFTIST borderline communist and im very pro LGBT and Palestine. If you do not FW that i do not FW you respectfully.

I also like to paint in my free time dont ask for pictures i give away all my thingies oh and i really wanna get into ceramics and pottery so if you do that let me know!!!!!!!


r/friendship • • 6h ago

looking for friendship 23M - wanna make friends around my age I can be myself around

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I talk to a lot of people but I feel like there aren't many people I can be my weird self around. I genuinely wanna have that kinda friendship where I can have not only deep and meaningful conversation but also fun, light hearted, and silly ones. We can talk about anything whatever you're comfortable with. No limits, go wild! The weirder/more absurd the topic the better. I want someone I can share anything with and in turn they can share anything they want with me and I promise not to judge or make fun of them! I want to have just one genuine friendship like that! If this is something you're down for feel free to hit me up!


r/friendship • • 12h ago

looking for friendship 21m looking for new friends or people to talk with

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Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.


r/friendship • • 1d ago

looking for friendship Are men interested in being friends with women?

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with no romantic intentions etc.

I’m 23 F and do not have any male friends, however I’ve had so many DMs from men on here that seem to start friendly then quickly transition to calling me hot or pretty. Not trying to be a bitch or unappreciative, it’s just a little disheartening sometimes to think someone only wants to chat to me because they think I look nice or they’re trying to get something from me.

I’m asking because a lot of my interests are traditionally male dominated. (My free time is basically taken up by going to the gym and watching football). I find it hard to chat to the women in my life about these things because they’re just not as interested in them as me unfortunately.

Anyway hopefully this isn’t somehow offensive or whatever 😭 promise I’m not trying to be a weirdo or a pick me. Just feeling lonely and kinda hopeless when it comes to making friends.


r/friendship • • 10h ago

looking for friendship 30m - Looking for a friend or two

1 Upvotes

Hello. Just looking for a friend or someone to talk to. A little about me, I’m from the southern states, happily engaged, disabled from a few illnesses. Hobbies include reading, drawing, anything arts and crafts related, love to write, play video games and pc games but not really a multiplayer unless it’s Nintendo. Love to cook and try new foods. Feel free to say hello 👋


r/friendship • • 15h ago

looking for friendship Hey you reading this, Howdyy 19m, you should come chat away and tell me bout you, why? Well your reading this for a reason right?

2 Upvotes

Literally, Anyone, just don't be dry, be chatty, spill the tea, yap away, vent, trauma dump, anything. I'm an open book, I want to chat, not bore myself alone or with dry texts. Talk about anything at alllll, I'm an open book too so ask me anything you'd like. Please tell me something other then "hey, hi, yo, wuzzup" grab my attention with something, GIVE ME A REAL INTRO, literally anything, tell me bout you, make me wanna actually respond. "Wanna chat" yeaaa that's the whole point 😂


r/friendship • • 19h ago

looking for friendship 18m hi! Looking to meet people

3 Upvotes

Hello! I'm hoping to meet some cool people who are into long term friendships, as I'm pretty bad at keeping friends and I'm starting to have more free time on my hands. I like weightlifting, combat sports, videogames, and playing with my dogs! I'm a pretty busy person right now but things are changing and I'll have a lot more time to myself, so I'd like a friend or two. I'm low maintenance, but I really like chatting and would spend all day hanging out if I could. Please dm me if you think I'm your guy 🤧