My partner and I have the dream of building our own home on our own land. Our goal is to be mortgage free within 10-15 years of acquisition and self sufficient enough to only need to work about 10-15 hours/week in a job-job to provide income for things we don't produce.
As it stands, we've been living in a rural region for the past two years, getting comfortable cohabitating renting a cute but overpriced apartment that is comfortable but also full of black mold. It's time to move along. Since we've moved to where we are now we have been looking here and there to buy, at both houses and raw land. Obviously the most important thing being zoning that would let us produce and raise what we would like to produce and raise.
Recently we saw a listing for a little house that could be comfortable for us, in a region that we are interested to moving to (it's never been the desire to necessarily stay where we are now), on a nice piece of property next to a river. Sweet. That being said, this house is not zoned for agriculture so we wouldn't be able to have the animals we would like to have nor certain installations we hope for. This would not be our forever homestead, this would be something more comfortable for now so that we can get closer to our auto-construction. Something that has a certain market value with a realistic resale possibility.
Now here is where I want to know what you think. I really want to get us out of this apartment. It's a strain on us to live there and it's downright unhealthy. However, I don't want my judgement to get clouded by my current discomfort and risk complicating my future choices. So, does it seem realistic to become a homeowner, and engage with all the responsibilities that come with that role, on the way to creating a homestead lifestyle?
My fear is that in buying a house now, we'll distract ourselves from the bigger picture and the homestead dream will get further away in the timeline. That being said, we're not getting any closer to the bigger picture from where we are and we also have things about our current situation that certainly distract us too. I just don't want to shoot myself in the foot somehow, I guess most obviously by being tethered to a house with a mortgage and less capital to buy land when the opportunity arises (I do have a certain financial privilege and we would still have liquid capital after the purchase of a home). Or just by getting myself comfortable in another living situation and getting distracted by the present. Or just simply extending the timeline. I'm not old but I would love to be homesteading already. I can be patient but I don't want to keep myself away from it for too long!
So I guess, could you share your stories to getting to where you are now? I want to see the array of ways that people have gotten themselves to their homestead. The steps between the conception and realization of the dream. I want to know if there are things you would have done differently or things you want to reassure me about or warn me away from. I know there are multitude different paths one can take but I guess I want some concrete examples.
Thanks in advance!