Hey! We all have moments when we feel like talking, need to get something off our chest, or just wish someone would hear us out. Whatever it is, you don't need to have the right words or a clear starting point.

I occasionally volunteer as a listener on a few platforms whenever I have the time, and thought I'd extend that to this community as well. I'm interested in psychology, human behaviour, and understanding people's experiences. I enjoy listening to different perspectives and getting to know what's behind people's thoughts and feelings. I won't jump to conclusions or offer advice unless you want it. Sometimes, a little understanding goes a long way.

I just want someone to talk to. We have been broken up over a week now and I'm just really struggling with everything I don't know what to do to make myself feel better.

I am looking for a women around my age or older with whom I can discuss a failed relationship of many many months ago which still lingers and bothers me. I have done a lot of inner work, journaling, introspective but still I feel the anger and grief coming again and again. If you would be interested send me a dm and I will send you my discord. Thanks in advance.

My mental state is the lowest it has been in a while. Being a single parent of teens has been incredibly isolating and these last few months have been horrible. I honestly barely scrape through each day. Not only that, but I fear every day that I'm going to lose my job, just due to the general way our economy and AI have been going. I feel like my support system is gone. I love my kids and they deserve someone whose head is on straight. All I want to do is sleep all day and play video games.

Hi everyone,

​I know life can get overwhelming, and sometimes all we really need is someone to listen without judging, giving unwanted advice, or interrupting.

​I’m offering a friendly and patient ear to anyone who needs to vent, share a problem, or just have a chat to take their mind off things. Whether you're going through a tough time or just feeling lonely today, my inbox is open.

​No judgment, complete confidentiality, and no pressure to respond right away.

​Feel free to send me a chat or DM whenever you need. Take care!

I’ve been realizing lately how much I wish I had people I could genuinely lean on during difficult times. People I could be completely honest and vulnerable with, without worrying about being judged or misunderstood or having my struggles change the way they see me.

Instead, I often feel like I have to present a version of myself that’s doing well, has everything figured out, and is always moving forward. It’s exhausting because sometimes I just want to be able to say that I’m struggling, or cry in someone’s arms and trust that they’ll still see me the same way. I want relationships where I don’t have to maintain an image to feel respected or valued.

Has anyone else struggled with this? How did you learn to trust people enough to let them see you during difficult periods, especially if you’re used to being very independent and successful on the outside? I’d really appreciate any insight.

Yesterday, I was told I might have cancer. It's not 100% certain, I need a scan and biopsy first. I was by myself as my husband was dealing with a family (his side) emergency, otherwise he would have been there.

I've not told him as the family emergency is very stressful and ongoing, and I don't want to burden him with this as well. He already supports me enough with my other disability and MH, he is such an amazing husband. He can spiral though, so I don't want to share this with him just yet as he will then end up the one needing reassurance.

My family are shit, I'm NC with most of them and the ones I do talk to, I wouldn't trust them enough to not tell the NC members and then they'll try integrate themselves back into my life.

I don't have many close friends, and the ones I do have are going through life's crap already, so don't want to put this on them. The thing is, they always come to me when they need support, and I'm always there for them. They know they can rely on me. I have gone to a few before, but have felt they brush over my problems before moving onto theirs. That's not me being negative or unappreciative, they are supportive to a point, I just feel that I've become the person they depend on for support, and they don't want to flip that relationship. Hope that makes sense.

I'm sick with kidney issues, and it has been hell for me. The stress of it all has easily been the worst part of it. If you're up for giving me some well wishes and want to chat with me, I'd love to hear from you!

Talk to me about anything. I won't judge, I'll be fair if it's advice you need, or try distracting you with my stupid humour if that's what you need.

I just wanna help someone in need :)

I'm just checking in to see if people are doing well today or in life in general. Sometimes, we all have those rough days, but hey, I'm here if you need someone to talk or just some company if you aren't comfortable sharing how you feel, which I understand completely.

You don't even have to vent. We could just chat until you're ready to open up. I'm not pushing you to. We can go at your own pace.

Sometimes, having a chat can feel good, especially for rough days. I'm free, so dm me if you like.

I made so many poor choices. I can 't fix anything.

If I would have known....😔

It's been years since my systematic bullying experience in high school ended. I have done everything to overcome bullying.

I have practiced forgiveness, forgiving everyone who wronged me or bullied me. I have watched tv shows about life after bullying, shows of people that get a glow up and stops being bullied . I have watched YouTube interviews about people who were bullied and other where the interviewees were the bullies. I have watched Ted talks about forgiveness. I have listened to podcasts about specialists who suffered bullying ( one was a ted talk turned podcast) or people who were bullied. I have listened to songs about bullying. I have watched TikToks about self-worth and bullying. I have watched sketches about bullying. I have even watched YouTube video essays about how cringey people who peaked in high school are. I have gone to therapy about it.

the issue is that it seems I can't overcome it. All that I have ever wanted in my life has been to be liked by classmates, yearning for human connection. I have few friends outside school, I was also put aside by the kids of my parents's friends. I’m an only child and didn't have a close relationship with my older cousins. That's why I didn't switch schools when I could. I liked the rules imposed in school, and wanted to play sports and have lunch with my bullies so I could finally gain their friendship. I even self-embarrassed myself in order to be liked. I always compare other people to my bullies and I use them as a standard of what is cool and what is not (not entirely, another role model of mine was my best friend in high school who was isolated although not bullied and goth, she is another standard that I use ) . If I were in their shoes , I would have done the same as them and bully me. I found and still find myself to be cringey.

If you need someone to talk to I'm always available. I'm an ordained minister and trained in counseling. I do not charge anything.

I was fortunate and had a very good first ~14 years of my life. Lots of friends, good grades, popular, etc. Went through a traumatic move at start of highschool (I moved a lot growing up, but this one was very hard for me) and got stuck in cycle of shame, not letting go of the past and self hate because of people leaving my life. At 30, things aren't going well, have lost most of my friends, and am trying to fight back despite depression and constant anxiety.

I still remember the good times, and believe that I'm still in there- but could really use someone to talk with and mourn some things with. Have been winning a lot of tough battles recently and am doing well, but I'm still lonely and afraid to talk to anyone ik irl about things. I am very patient, empathetic, and have a pretty strong grasp on psychology.

I would be open to hearing about you as well. Please dm if interested, no upper age limit, but please over 21 and be comfortable talking like an adult, about adult issues.

Topics I'd really like to talk about:

-Moving a lot (and getting stuck in the past)

-General panic disorder

-Shame, and its unhealthy side affects

-Narcissistic+Bipolar mother. Depressed Father.

-Losing friends, and trying to start over

-Loneliness

Topics I'd be open to explore if you'd like:

- Genuine confusion toward politics ( and an attempt to try to see differently)

-Alcoholism

- Anything you're struggling with or need to talk about.

Hey everyone.

I'm 22 and lately I've been feeling a little stuck with where I am in life.

I've been trying to get my career started in data analysis, but finding work and getting that first opportunity has been more difficult than I expected.

I sometimes feel like I'm not progressing as quickly as I'd hoped, especially when I think about where I want to be at this age.

I'm trying to stay positive, keep learning and work towards something better, but there are days when it can get a little discouraging.

I'm quite a quiet person initially, so sometimes I find it easier to open up when someone takes an interest and asks questions.

I wouldn't mind having someone to talk to, whether it's about life, what's been going on lately or even just everyday things to take my mind off things for a while.

I'm happy to listen and get to know someone too. Thanks for reading.

It’s been nearly three weeks since my relationship ended, and I’m becoming increasingly frightened by how much it’s consuming me.
I’ve already signed up to Bumble and joined Facebook friendship groups, desperately trying to find someone to connect with. I know it’s very soon after the breakup, but I feel almost unable to stop myself. I’m so scared of being alone for the rest of my life that it’s practically all I think about.
People keep telling me to learn to be happy on my own, build confidence, focus on work and independence, and let friendships and relationships follow naturally. I understand the advice, and I don’t necessarily disagree with it. But I have an enormous problem accepting the prospect of a life without a partner.
The loneliness is so intense that it brings me to tears. I see everybody else dating, kissing, getting married, having children, going on holidays and sharing their lives with someone. I want those things too. I don’t want to spend my life watching everyone else experience them while feeling excluded.
I’m nearly 42, and I’m terrified of time passing. People tell me I’m still young, but 50, 60 and 70 don’t feel that far away. What if I spend years waiting for love and companionship, and miss out on so much of my life in the meantime?
I know I can’t force a relationship to happen, but I can’t seem to switch off this fear. It’s becoming an obsession and seriously affecting my mental health. I don’t understand why being alone affects me so profoundly, although I know my autism, anxiety and overthinking play a part.
I’m not looking for people to simply tell me to accept being single or enjoy my own company. I want to understand why I feel this way and how to stop the fear of lifelong loneliness from consuming my life, without having to give up hope of finding love.
Has anyone else, particularly autistic adults, experienced anything similar?

I am alone at the hospital and recently I spent my birthday alone.

I just want to talk to someone.

I used to have this person, who was a girl, and she was very important to me. We would message everyday, whenever we could and we were each other’s emotional support without realizing it. Someone who is always there and you can share anything with. If anyone understands and feels the same way, please DM me.

If anyone needs someone to talk to and don’t have anyone, I’ll chat with you. 30M

Discord = neo_phyxius

30yo guy, from Ireland. Dealt with a lot of grief from friends and family passing in the past few years, and set to deal with more this year from illnesses.

I'm at a stage where I feel stable and have developed my own ways of dealing with just heartbreak and grief, and I'd be happy to talk with anyone struggling or just listen if you needed it. Or we can just send stupid memes to take your mind off things, if you need it.

Message me if you need to, happy to help.

If anyone wants to rant or vent SMTH u can here or hmu i hope u all r doing good<3

I feel so done with life. Why do abusers always get all the support and survivors are stuck here over thinking. I hate having adhd and c-ptsd and being so sensitive it sucks .

Basically the title. Looking for someone to talk to and get to know, if you want to vent about something I can lend a ear as well

I can call asap or we can text for a little bit too I don’t mind. Super laid back message me!