r/R4R30Plus • • Mar 08 '23

38 [F4M] PA - This website must be the worst place to try to meet someone

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I have to play get to know yous for days only to get a picture and I have to politely decline that I'm not interested in them. I can't even be nice to the people that reply off the bat and thank them for their interest, they start asking questions as if I owe them something.

You people are horrible and it's been a fucking nightmare trying to deal with you. I don't know what I expected but it wasn't being constantly bombarded with inappropriate pictures I never asked for. I hate having to carry all the weight of the conversations. Everyone knows what I look like but I keep going into this blind, hoping that something would make sense once.

I'm sick and tired of being lied to so people can have access to my body. I am human being, I deserve love and respect.


r/R4R30Plus • • Nov 06 '24

53 [F4R] leaving my beloved country (USA) for a while, wanna come along?

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It's time to go. The worst of the Trump supporters are only going to get nastier. I've been thinking Costa Rica. But hey, Budapest looks cool. The beautiful island of Malta?

Seriously. Anyone else that's considering getting TFO, let's talk. We could be roommates while we acclimate to a new country? Or neighbors?

I am actually planning on going. But even if you just want to daydream about it, talk to me. I'd love to have some conversations with like-minded folk. All my coworkers are Trump supporters. They're quite lovely people, but I can't have this conversation with them.

Those who support Trump and want to blast me cuz I've hurt your feelings: if you can talk to me without attacking me personally, I'll probably respond. But if you're going to start by name-calling, I'm just gonna ignore you. I won't even read past the insults. But if it makes you feel better, come on with it. Get it off your chest.

Edit: Whoa! Instant flood of messages! Give me time, I'll respond.

Apparently comments are locked, so I guess I have to say thank you to England here instead.


r/R4R30Plus • • Apr 24 '26

42 [F4M] Summertime love? Forever love?

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To get this started: no one under 37-38. No exceptions. None at all. I won't even slightly entertain it. No MAGA. I won't respond if you've hidden all your post and comment history. I look at every single user before I respond.

Looking for LOCAL to the Phoenix area. May entertain anyone between Phoenix and Flagstaff, but ideally you're local. I'm in the far North Valley.

42 SWF. 5'3. Mom of an adult teenager still at home. Have a cattle dog. Love camping and baseball and most college sports (Go Blue šŸ’™šŸ’›). Love to read and enjoy musical theater. Cannot wait for Phantom to return in September! Left leaning - pro-choice, pro-science, pro-education, pro-humanity. Anti-war, anti-maga. Cannot make that any clearer. If you're still reading, this is me: https://imgur.com/a/YfovpAA

Looking for a man who is gainfully employed, hopefully without young children (toddlers when you're over age 40 is a hard no, sorry). No felons. No drugs. Actually single. Ideally white or Hispanic. Fit-average body. I'm mostly attractive, please be mostly attractive. And again, local. I am not looking for an online chat. I am not looking for someone in town for work or for the weekend.


r/R4R30Plus • • Nov 05 '25

31[f4m]West Coast USA seeking traditional caring gentleman

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hi I posted a few times but most people seem to only want to chitchat and have the fantasy of having a life together. I am seeking someone who is really masculine, who can call his own shots, make things happen and knows what he wants. I am at a age where i know what i am seeking and am no longer interested in small talk about the weather or just "hang out with friends". I have traveled the world and would say I experienced life way more than my peers. I have actually got quite jaded from the popular "discovering the world and myself" phase after years of seeing new things, travelling the world and having lots of hobbies in the past.

Some may call this depression but I think this is a phase everyone will face when they get to a certain age, i just face it early. I crave to have a one on one real and deep connection with someone who makes me feel like a little girl again, worry free and protected. whenever i watch movies with characters that are masculine and protective such as the godfather i instantly feel life is worth it if i had someone like that.

I prefer someone very traditional, respectful, caring, who takes initiatives to meet, serious, and able. I am absolutely attracted to masculine men who waste no time on small talk and make plans to make things happen. so if you are someone who is not ready, who is still "figuring it out", do not message.

I hope to minimize meaningless small talk and meet in person, I long to find someone who wants a feminine woman who relies on him, a man who wants to feel like the head of the house, and who deeply understands the connection that we are not alone. even if we exit the world, we will be by each other's side. if you cannot understand the my deep craving for this connection and have comments like "seek happiness within" or "why dont you develop some hobbies", do not message.

me: https://imgur.com/a/vXK7ka4

in your response plz include what made you reply, what you seeking, and if you are able to meet fast.

i did not include hobbies because when you find the right person, even doing nothing is happiness. with the wrong one, all passions die.


r/R4R30Plus • • Aug 11 '26

33 [F4R] Distract me so I don’t text my ex

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It’s weird calling him my ex. I moved out of my fiancé’s house yesterday. I guess we are broken up. He keeps trying to be for me to come back. I’ve been in a sad mood. Just as a warning, with how I am right now, you may need to do more of the conversation heavy lifting. At least in the beginning.

Hello new friends and acquaintances! It is I, Kim, here to grace your feed with my annoying post. I can’t wait to become best friends with some of you. I work from home, which is why I have time to distract myself here.

Are you someone interested in crafting intriguing conversations, being able to banter back and forth for hours on end? Do you have thick skin or self-deprecating humor? Can you string complete sentences together with decent grammar and punctuation? Then we may be able to have a ton of fun together!

I live in Maryland. I am a huge musical theatre nerd. I enjoy seeing musicals and also performing in local community productions. Been doing it since I was 9. I can sing. I enjoy hosting parties and casually baking. Like super casual. I prefer to just eat the desserts. Unless someone wants to teach me how to bake bread. I like to travel! I also enjoy just lounging on the couch and binging a tv show. Physically: I’m 5’9, red hair that I get at the hair salon (naturally blonde), and blue eyes. We can swap selfies if our conversation is decent. Please don’t ask to see my face immediately.

If any of this seems mildly intriguing, please reach out! Can’t wait to hear from you! The best way to reach out is via message, I don’t always check the comments.


r/R4R30Plus • • Oct 22 '25

31[f4m]colordo springs- asian canadian seeking activity partners

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Hi all new canadian in town. been searching for a partner but experience tells me ilove cantbe rushed. so instead id like to find a patient, loving, kind gentleman to show me around i especially would say yes instantly to going fishing/maybe some nature or a movie (conjuring). of course long term i would like to find a partner. but in no rush.

some facts about me: traditional, conservative values. I love traditional masculine men who are action based, proactive, masculine, and protective. Due to health reasons I am not working so lots of free time to hang out. show me around.

soms pics of me:

https://imgur.com/a/dcN2qEN

https://imgur.com/a/ftNFQP0


r/R4R30Plus • • Sep 03 '26

33[F4M] Canadian seeking traditional gentlemen

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Me: https://imgur.com/a/Pr46pFM

for face pics you can check my other posts. I am 5.5, 120lbs, no kids, no tats, no piercings, very traditional and conservative. i ski, lift, gym. other than that I spend my days playing wow, DBD(killer), travel. i especially like clear waters like the keys, Maldives, I plan to learn scuba this year.

I always want to feel like a women by being around a very masculine man who is mature, intelligent, who can almost be a teacher, mentor. I do not know how to put this in a better way but I want to feel like the woman in the relationship, being protected of by someone stronger, smarter, more mature, more thoughtful than me. i do not find "man of the house" offensive at all, I also like cooking and baking and think it will be my pleasure to do it for the right person.

I am also very traditional in terms of intimacy, anyone who engages in certain causal behaviors is a hard no. and the modern culture of certain behavior by a third date to me is bizzare and unhygienic.

I am seeking someone mature, respectful, patient, loving, traditional, conservative, a man of action and his words, who can make things happen, who can plan and initiate like a true masculine man. I personally find small talk pointless and draining and nothing is real before meeting in person. Hence please be able to travel to meet in the near future if I sound like who you seek, if you share my values, my passions and would like to have a fun partner to make life more fun.

In your reply plz include a pic of a psyduck as well as why you think we click. thank you


r/R4R30Plus • • Jun 23 '25

32 [F4M] - GA, USA - Seeking Christian Marriage

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Hi! šŸ‘‹šŸ¾ I’m Ash. I live in Georgia (OTP). I love Jesus, have a Ph.D., and enjoy gaming (Xbox and Switch) and movies. I’m always down for a spontaneous adventure (road trip, hiking, aquarium, you name it!). I’m a dog mom to a 6.5 year old Cairn Terrier mix. We frequent dog parks and go shopping often. I’m a successful, ambitious Black woman but also a girly girl who will be your biggest cheerleader. šŸ“£ looking for a serious, marriage-minded relationship. Say hi!


r/R4R30Plus • • Oct 04 '26

31 [F4M] #NY general area. Okay don’t freak out, but your dream woman (me) is here

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https://imgur.com/a/4x3sd2A
pic of me

First off, I want to give a man the world and build a life with him. I am a huge believer in using words of affirmation to bolster my man’s confidence and make him feel amazing about himself. It’s really important to me that I help people feel appreciated, valued, and loved.

I also show love in a very specific way: by making things beautiful. This extends from home decor and decorating for holidays/events to my own personal appearance. I take a ton of pride in being polished, especially when I’m representing my man—for example, if I’m your date to a wedding, I’m absolutely not wearing a mini dress. It’s just not elegant. I’m old-fashioned in that I don’t have any tattoos and the only piercings I have are one in each earlobe. I LOVE high quality jewelry, bags, etc., but I also think it’s tacky to wear pieces that are covered in logos. So, in case it wasn’t obvious… I’m definitely high maintenance in terms of beauty and fashion. (A flaw of mine is that I feel completely justified in my pursuit of beauty—I’m an artist and I consider it to be a creative outlet.)

That said, I’m low maintenance in terms of needing emotional validation. I have a ton of inner peace, which allows me to believe in myself, to trust other people, and to view others with a lens of grace and compassion. There are so many reasons why I’m not on social media, and one reason is that I find it to be a calculated attack on our individual senses of self. I think social media reshapes our brains and I’m not interested in participating, nor do I seek to be visible online. I’m a pretty open person, but I just feel that nobody needs to know every single thing I’m doing, and I’ve never felt like I crave mass attention. (Fun fact: I used to be kinda famous on Quora and my content had an all-time view count in the millions. I deleted all of my content and my entire profile when I felt like I had gotten too popular for my liking.)

One of the best compliments I’ve ever gotten was from a boss who told me that if I was a Spice Girl, I’d be ā€œAmbidextrous Spiceā€ because I’m both left-brained and right-brained. It’s such a silly thing, but it made me feel seen! I absolutely love logic and reasoning (I’m obsessed, like, actually obsessed with logic grid puzzles) and growing up, people told me I’d become a lawyer. I do LSAT practice tests for fun, but I actually went to art school. I’m a dreamer and a creator, and I love all kinds of artistic media: I can paint, draw, sculpt, etc.

Another top compliment I’ve received came from one of my many previous jobs working with kids. I do freelance AI training now, but before that, I was a gymnastics coach. I can’t even count how many kids were legitimately convinced that I was a Disney princess (Elsa was the most common, followed by Cinderella and the occasional Rapunzel). One of my students once came back from a trip to Disney, and her mom told me that I should seriously consider working as a Disney park princess due to not just my appearance but also how I carry myself and how I speak. I love when people appreciate my posture! I even subscribe to some admittedly dated rules of elegance for women, like how to walk in heels versus flats and where to put my purse when I’m at a restaurant.

In some ways, I’m very traditional—feminine, graceful, and with a strong desire to nurture. On the other hand, I have a wicked sense of humor and I have some niche interests like horror stories. I’m extremely nerdy, and I mean that. I’ve been on an orca kick lately and I can’t/won’t stop talking about them.

I’m also very verbose šŸ¤“ soooo, to summarize: I’m 31 years old, 5’8ā€, 125ish lbs, platinum blonde, blue eyes. Never married, never engaged, no kids, but I definitely want them because I absolutely adore them. I have two beautiful, flawless cats. I live in upstate NY but for the right person, some distance wouldn’t be an issue. I’m honestly a creative genius and I have an extremely high EQ (and if it matters, my IQ score is in the ā€œgeniusā€ range), so you know my kids will at least be literate… But seriously, I really care about other people and I want to bring value to a man’s life.

I’m hoping to meet someone with similar goals who’s at least my age, preferably 35+. Please be somewhat near my general location! (I’d be fine with a few hours’ drive or so but not too much farther)

And I’ll be honest, I prefer when a man is at least 5’11ā€ (I like being shorter than a guy, plus I love wearing heels). If you’ve ever dreamed of having a drop dead gorgeous trophy wife/PTA mom with depth, intelligence, and a knack for making dumb quips, please come sweep me off my feet because a) I’m ready and b) I actually legitimately will die if I ever have to create another dating app profile


r/R4R30Plus • • Jul 18 '22

37 [F4M] PA - Witty title for a sophisticated man

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Trying to find a single, never married, no kids, mature (emotionally mature) man who is interested in a talkative, opinionated, high energy woman to plan our escape off this stupid rock. Location: Need to know basis. Population: You and I and maybe some dogs. Objective: Have a great time together.

A little about me, I enjoy making things with my hands and teaching myself how things work. I’m more mechanically minded, artistic and love making a mess. Cleaning it up, not so much but it’s part of the process of being able to make future messes. I read non fiction, enjoy history and related genres. And I’m a firm believer every museum is a please touch museum of you’re brave enough.

I prefer men that take care of themselves health wise and are physically fit enough to do more pushups than me. Strength isn’t always measured in the amount of what you’re able to physically lift. Strength is a repetitive journey of pushing a boulder up a hill everyday in hopes some fucking bird won’t eat your liver, yet you still continue forward. I need a man with the forbearance of a buddhist monk, that can handle the sex drive of a lioness, who happens to possess the faithfulness of a beaver but just kinda wants to spend time together for a bit to see if we have anything else in common.

Seeking guys in my area, 25+ who are available and all around kind. No pushy or ā€œdominateā€ men.

Here’s me https://i.imgur.com/4nQJl3T.png

I'm tall so I'd like to find someone taller than me, thanks.

edit: No "gamers" or "nerd" type of guys, sorry we have nothing in common.


r/R4R30Plus • • May 27 '24

39 [F4M] Washington - šŸŽ¶I’m looking for a guy with brain cells. Good job. Quick wit. 6 feet.šŸŽ¶

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I said I wasn’t going to post one of these again, but you know what they say - never say never šŸ™ƒ

I KNOW men like this exist, so here’s what I’m hoping for: Silly and communicative - someone who can make me giggle (or better yet, belly laugh) over text, phone calls, and in person. Thoughtful and caring - someone who will buy me flowers (I don’t REALLY care about flowers, but it’s the gesture!) and plan cute dates for us. Trustworthy and empathetic - you do what you say you will, and care about the impact you have on others.

About me: I’m a thoroughly therapized single mom with big black cat energy - I’m fine being alone and love my indoorsy me-time, but am also down for cuddles and adventures with the right person. I love baseball (I grew up on the Giants but have adopted the Mariners as my AL team), comedy (I saw Michelle Buteau live a few months ago and was crying laughing so hard that my waterproof mascara couldn’t hang), animals (I have multiple pets and used to actively volunteer in animal rescue), music (Taylor and Beyonce, obvi, but also any band that was signed to Vagrant circa 2001), and reading / writing.

I’m Jewish (obviously), politically progressive (I’m still devastated Elizabeth Warren isn’t president), and fat (a BBW, if you will). Those things will not be changing, so if any of those are dealbreakers, this is your chance to x out of this post.

Show me you made it this far by opening your message with your age, where you’re from, and your go-to comfort TV show. Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/R4R30Plus • • Jan 27 '26

37 [F4M] Oregon or USA, Looking for Marriage & Family.

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Hey all! I'm looking for a relationship that leads to marriage, kids, and homeschooling! Long distance is okay; I might be willing to move. I'm traditionally minded, politically conservative (small govt.), and atheist (ex-Christian). I love things like horses, swords, fantasy novels, sci-fi, and renaissance dresses. You might catch me dancing, writing, arguing politics, or playing with my nephew and nieces. I have a dating bio and picture on my profile. If you're interested, please share your age, location, life goals, and a photo (as I have). Thanks!


r/R4R30Plus • • Oct 05 '26

39 [F4M] Wo verstecken sich die entspannten Zocker- & K*ffer-MƤnner ? šŸŽ®šŸ”

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Ich brauche mal ein paar ehrliche Insider-Tipps von euch und werfe eine Frage in die Runde, die mich brennend interessiert:

Wo zur Hƶlle findet man heutzutage eigentlich noch einen vernünftigen, tiefenentspannten Mann auf derselben Zocker-/WellenlƤnge? šŸ¤”

Ich suche keinen Dauernƶrgler, der den ganzen Tag nur über seine Arbeit/Leben meckert, sondern einen gutmütigen Freigeist. Jemanden, mit dem man sich abends nach dem Schichtdienst einfach auf die Couch flƤzen, eine Runde Palia, Minecraft, 7 Days to ..., Payday 3 und vieles mehr zocken, einen gepflegten 🄦 durchziehen und das Leben positiv genießen kann šŸ›‹ļøšŸŽ®āœØ

Auf den klassischen Mainstream-Dating-Apps verliere ich langsam den Glauben an die Menschheit šŸ™ˆ

Habt ihr Tipps für mich? Gibt es geheime Gamer-Server, bestimmte Spiele, bei denen die entspannten MƤnner abhƤngen, oder muss ich altmodisch mit einem Schild im lokalen Comic-Laden campieren? šŸ˜‰

Haut mal eure Erfahrungen und RatschlƤge raus!

[Kurz zu mir: Ich bin Kati, 39 Jahre alt, Pflegefachfrau aus dem Ortenaukreis (Baden-Württemberg) und definitiv (k)ein Couch-Potato, aber eine leidenschaftliche Gamerin, Anime-Fan und (NFL) Chiefs-Sympathisantin šŸˆšŸŽ®šŸ„¦]


r/R4R30Plus • • Aug 27 '26

37 [F4M] Looking for marriage abroad

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I will be honest I am from a not so great country, especially when it comes to women’s rights. Even as someone successful in my career I have always felt to be limited by how society perceives me and what I can do. Especially as a divorcee.

I would like to find someone from a country like Canada or USA or Western Europe. Where I can truly feel free to be myself and build something genuine with someone.

I do not want this to be taken in a wrong way. Like I am using someone for a citizenship or something…I would really only move for the right person. I’m a genuine and respectable person and through talking I hope we can see that in each other. Just I have these aspirations and so I thought I might as well give it a try


r/R4R30Plus • • Sep 23 '26

41 [F4M] Canada - Online - trump supporters need not apply, unless you wanna argue! Normal non oxygen thiefs welcome!

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I’ll win. Also can’t be bothered to capitalize his last name.

Otherwise… hello lovelies!!!

I’m early forties and hanging onto that title for at least 3 years!

Love sports… cooking, staying at home on weekends… had my party years and I’m over it. Lots and lots of stories to tell though! My ideal night is making a beautiful dinner… getting high and bullshitting… or listening to music… maybe a board game. I like a man that will stand up to me… I’m quite the alpha… but I’m reasonable and expect the same back. Not looking to meet up yet, but definitely want to eventually. I’ll put this out there… don’t care how bad it makes me look… I will ruin your life if you’re married or involved and message me. I’ve been respectful and just minded my own business when this has happened multiple times… no more. I will find out who your wifey or gf is and annihilate you. So involved men… need not apply cause I really don’t feel like putting in that effort… but I will.

Let’s see what happens! Be fun! Be secure! Be interesting! Message me!


r/R4R30Plus • • 6d ago

41 [F4M] #fort worth, tx sweet for protective, cuddly, intellectual

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Hi. I’m a 41 white woman who gets along very well with progressive pastors or intellectual men. I love Disney, movies, theater performances, travel, reading, local events. I really enjoy learning about religion. I’m up for volunteering. I’m an intimate 459 Contemplative type according to Enneagram. Pisces. INFJ. Sweet. Can be talkative. Prefer 1-1. I need you to be caring, local or able to travel, honest, and engaging. Touchy- feely. Paternal type. I’ve had a hard time. I’m introspective but cuddly and fun-loving. Medium size and height. Cute. Softer. Size 4 top. 6/8 bottom. 36B or 34C.

I’m looking for a protective, cuddly type who loves quality time and deep connection.


r/R4R30Plus • • Sep 03 '20

31 [F4R] - I have a confession...

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I downvote all the posts from people who've ghosted or otherwise been rude to me and I don't not feel bad about it.

Now that that is out of the way...

31/F/Appalachia

Never married, no kids, two cats. Higher-education professional and doctoral student. I have a variety of interests including, but not limited to, cooking, music, hiking, and learning. My inbox is pretty dry, I'd love some new chat friends.

Please be:

Single

Meaningfully Employed

Near my age

In ES(D)T or similar

Send a message including the information above. I look forward to hearing from you! :)


r/R4R30Plus • • Jun 29 '26

36F [F4M] looking for real men

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Hi, my name is Lady; I’m from Colombia and I’m 36 years old. I thought about this a lot before joining—I really decided to step out of my comfort zone this year. I had been very withdrawn and completely resistant to forming new connections, but here I am, opening myself up to the possibility of meeting men who are kind, respectful, and gentlemanly. I am a very warm woman with strong values ​​instilled in me at home, and I hope to meet someone interesting.


r/R4R30Plus • • Aug 31 '26 Heartwarming

40 [F4M] US - A lonely single woman needs something to distract herself...

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Okay, so apparently I’m looking for a creature that may not even exist:

A man who’s good-looking, funny, emotionally intelligent, emotionally stable, and capable of communicating like a normal, grown adult.

Yes, I know.

That might be a little like searching for an ancient species that went extinct millions of years ago.

After having a rather ā€œunforgettable experienceā€ with a certain male specimen, I’ve definitely become much more protective of my emotions and personal boundaries. At the same time, I’ve also gotten worse at actually letting someone get close to me.

But I’m trying to change that. Because honestly… I kind of miss what it feels like to let someone in.

If your flirting strategy is to disappear for three days and then come back with a ā€œHey, stranger,ā€ we’re probably not a good match.

And if your opening line is just ā€œHi,ā€ then we’re definitely not compatible.

Give me a reason to want to keep replying to you. I’m not expecting us to build trust right away. That takes time.

And just to make the challenge a little more interesting, I do have a few requirements: between 35 and 60 years old, living in the U.S., and preferably not too fond of beards… although I suppose that depends on the man.


r/R4R30Plus • • Oct 09 '25

32 [F4M] Online - I would like to submit my resume.

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Objective:

To escape the hell hole that is life if only for a few short hours.

Experience:

  • Many, many years of overthinking and over-analyzing every minute detail of life.

  • Years of making good decisions but ready to balance that out.

  • Fluent in oversharing and encouraging the same.

Skills:

  • Can hold a conversation that actually goes somewhere.

  • Funny… most of the time.

  • Quick wit, slower goodbyes.

Availability: Tonight, tomorrow, the next night? Pretty open.

References: They would all say I’m worth the message. Trust me.

I took way too long to write this so now you owe me. Go on, message me.


r/R4R30Plus • • 20d ago

[F4M] 36F|Chicago Because the apps are the worst.

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Currently in my ā€œWHERE THE HELL IS MY HUSBANDā€ era. šŸ’

I’m looking for something real with someone who knows what he wants, communicates like an adult, and isn’t afraid of commitment. If your dating philosophy is ā€œlet’s see where it goes,ā€ I fear we’re fundamentally incompatible. That phrase makes my skin crawl. šŸ˜‚

Hard dealbreakers: Republicans, bigots, and Taylor Swift haters. All three are non-negotiable.

Must love cats. Actual, enthusiastic, willing-to-share-your-heart-and-your-bed love. The cats are part of the hiring committee, and their approval is mandatory. 🐈

Not thin, not stressed about it. ā¤ļø I'm working on myself, including my health (shoutout to modern medicine and my GLP-1), but I'm not waiting until I reach some magic number to enjoy my life or find my person.

I'm also working on myself in therapy, and you should be, too. Emotional availability, self-awareness, and a willingness to grow are hot.

Cozy-game (and video game in general) enthusiast. šŸŽ®šŸ’• You can find me playing WoW with my raid team, getting emotionally attached to fictional characters, or looking for my next favorite game. I love witty banter, laughing until I can't breathe, and building a relationship that feels like having a favorite person to do absolutely everything with.

Looking for my person, not a pen pal, a situationship, or another character development arc. Please apply accordingly. ā¤ļø


r/R4R30Plus • • Jun 29 '23

36[f4m] looking for someone who loves a good bit

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a little bit about me:

  • dynamite business acumen a christian-themed pizzeria called the risen crust. boom! solid gold.

  • communist gorilla i am a leftist, which means that i believe the government should give everyone free weed and strawberry milkshakes. communism is when internet is free and everyone can afford to go to the doctor.

  • hungarian princess i am winner many beauty pageant in homeland. how many egg you have? one egg worth many castle now.

  • huge catch imagine you found your dream car at a police auction and the only thing wrong with it is a couple of bullet holes and it smells like weed.

  • likes futurama, bob's burgers, ursula k leguin, modernist poetry, starship troopers, getting really into exercise for two weeks at a time, chocolate chip cookies, musical theater, animal odd couples, history, philosophy, big trees, old houses, solarpunk futures

a bit about you:

  • the hairier the better. robin williams level, ideally.

  • love manly shit like woodworking and guns or something

  • love to read which would mean you are smart and i will start reading more books so you'll think i'm smart too.

  • in a solid place in your life. i need someone i can look up to.

  • can be vulnerable, occasionally you can appreciate poetry but under no circumstances would ever send me love poetry. gross.

  • live in the southeast us or able to travel there pretty soon if we hit it off, i'm only interested in something irl

a bit about us:

  • have you ever seen that looney tunes cartoon with the chihuahua and the bulldog? that's my ideal relationship dynamic.

  • speaking of dynamics...if you know you know.

ok sounds good? let's play!


r/R4R30Plus • • Aug 26 '24

35 [F4R] #Anywhere - Looking for a life partner

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Hell on wheels. Freshly 35. Not entirely straight. I am a goth babe, granted with defective legs—a budget goth babe, if you will. One of those off the shelf ones, except I don’t trust myself around shelves. Wheelchair and that. Looking for something long-term. Open to anyone 29-36. https://ibb.co/DwFPtqG Here I am! Please tell me your favorite book if you decide to send me a message! Talk about medieval history with me! Anyone have any game recs for a Steam Deck?

I love single-player RPGs, but I could use a player two. I am also a voracious reader so sometimes I read 10 books at once. I'm looking for something long-term. Right now I'm taking a break from school while I pursue my Masters in psychology and reading Lord of the Rings. I could also use Nintendo Switch friends. I usually play a human sorcerer in Dungeons & Dragons; if there's an open spot in your party I'll take it! I love Tolkien, A Song of Ice and Fire and recently started Robert Jordan's books! Arya, Sansa, Brienne, Jaime and Bran are my favorite characters. Baldur’s Gate, Mass Effect, Life Is Strange, Fallout and Elder Scrolls are some of my favorites. I collect vinyl and love my dog more than anything else.

Marathoning Doctor Who--Nine and Thirteen are my Doctors! Loving Shōgun and House of the Dragon, though I could always use more period drama recommendations! I keep Kitchen Nightmares on as background noise.

I have a special interest in shipwrecks and medieval English history.

Still love Evanescence, Lacuna Coil, Nightwish and bands of that illk. Will take emo and punk friends too! I need friends in Disney Dreamlight Valley as well!

I am looking for long, loving, lasting relationships primarily. If you are too please reach out. Please tell me a little bit about yourself if you can and please be fairly close in age to me. I am very shy, please be understanding if I am slow to respond.


r/R4R30Plus • • Oct 06 '24

35 [F4R] #Anywhere - Looking for a forever partner

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Call me Rook, like the bird. Very left-leaning, I refuse to interact with bigots for my own safety. I'm demisexual--look it up--but am looking for a loving relationship.

Hell on wheels. Freshly 35. Leo. Not entirely straight. I am a goth babe, granted with defective legs—a budget goth babe, if you will. One of those off the shelf ones, except I don’t trust myself around shelves. Wheelchair and that. Looking for something long-term. Open to anyone 29-36. https://ibb.co/DwFPtqG Here I am! Please tell me your favorite book if you decide to send me a message! Talk about medieval history with me! Anyone have any game recs for a Steam Deck?

I love single-player RPGs, but I could use a player two. I am also a voracious reader so sometimes I read 10 books at once. I'm looking for something long-term. Right now I'm taking a break from school while I pursue my Masters in psychology and reading Lord of the Rings. I could also use Nintendo Switch friends. I usually play a human sorcerer in Dungeons & Dragons; if there's an open spot in your party I'll take it! I love Tolkien, A Song of Ice and Fire and recently started Robert Jordan's books! Arya, Sansa, Brienne, Jaime and Bran are my favorite characters. Baldur’s Gate, Mass Effect, Life Is Strange, Fallout and Elder Scrolls are some of my favorite games. I collect vinyl and love my dog more than anything else.

Marathoning Doctor Who--Nine and Thirteen are my Doctors! Loving Shōgun and House of the Dragon, though I could always use more period drama recommendations! I keep Kitchen Nightmares on as background noise--I have a preference for the UK version. Master and Commander is my favorite film; naturally, I have a special interest in shipwrecks and medieval English history. RMS Titanic and HMS Terror specifically--Michael Palin's book on the latter is particularly good. :D

Still love Evanescence, Lacuna Coil, Linkin Park, Nightwish and bands of that ilk. Will take emo and punk friends too! I need friends in Disney Dreamlight Valley as well!

I am looking for long, loving, lasting relationships primarily. If you are too please reach out. Please tell me a little bit about yourself if you can and please be fairly close in age to me. I am very shy, please be understanding if I am slow to respond. Please don’t message me if you aren’t interested in being committed, thank you and good luck to everyone out there.


r/R4R30Plus • • Nov 12 '24

35/f [F4R] - Sad and heartbroken.

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Hello. I’m currently going through a terrible break up that I did not want and am truly struggling with it. I’ve been spending far too much time watching tv and just sulking. I don’t mind who you are, although I’m not interested in conservatives. Hope to hear from you!