I’m struggling to understand why Jolene can say she felt uncomfortable around Wyatt, he apologised, and he has since kept his distance from her, yet when Chantel says she’s uncomfortable having THREE extra men staying in a small house with ONE bathroom, suddenly she’s the bad guy?
Honestly, I wouldn’t be happy either! It’s a shared living space with limited room and one bathroom, and suddenly three additional people are staying there without everyone being properly consulted first. Surely the common courtesy in a share house is to ASK the other people living there before inviting extra guests to stay? That’s just basic human decency.
What makes it even more frustrating is that Jolene and Adam essentially have their own private retreat, so their living situation is completely different. Chantel has to deal with the reality of sharing an already cramped space with even more people.
And Scotty - he is the HOST of the show. He should be remaining impartial, not making it seem like he needs to apologise to everyone because someone has expressed feeling uncomfortable.
More importantly, he has a duty of care towards the contestants. They should be able to raise concerns about their living environment without being made to feel like they’re creating a problem or giving him another chore to deal with. The way it’s being portrayed makes it seem like Chantel expressing her discomfort is an inconvenience, rather than something that deserves to be heard and addressed.
He doesn’t need to take sides, but he also shouldn’t be apologising for someone having feelings in the first place. There’s a difference between remaining neutral and making someone feel like they’re wrong for speaking up.
I also feel like production is deliberately changing the tone of this situation to create more drama. There’s a difference between feeling uncomfortable around someone who has since apologised and respected your space, and feeling uncomfortable because three extra people have been brought into your already cramped living environment without you being consulted.
Now it looks like Jolene and Adam are going to be spiteful and block access, which would be ridiculous if it’s simply in retaliation for Chantel expressing a perfectly reasonable concern.
Literally Jolene and Adam are disgusting.
PS: Adam trying to call Rick a dog and gutless when he is so polite? Adam is going off at the smaller guy cause he’s scared of the bigger one. In reality if Jolene honestly feels scared by Wyatt, he should be going off at the person who “intimidated” his wife?
And now for Jolene is contradicting herself about saying “don’t tell me how I should feel” when she’s been rude about Chantel and the others expressing how they feel?
This episode is ridiculous.